Adulting with Autism

Exhausted from ND grind overload? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April explores mindful energy for neurodivergent burnout with Chris Vasiliadis, former systems engineer/instructional designer/Director of Performance Improvement turned burnout buster/health coach (18 years). MS diagnosis (2006) sparked his shift to energizing routines—Qigong/MBSR/3R rescue—focusing on sustainable thriving without chronic exhaustion, aligning actions/values for whole-hearted well-being. Key insights: MS journey: Year of "lab rat" tests (gluten sensitivity/naps), conscious energy management (Qigong for meridians). Mindful energy: Purposeful present attention without judgment (grounding/foot sensations, white space on calendar). Routines for dysfunction/overwhelm: Pause/reground (breathe/stretch/outdoor panoramic views), 16-90 min breaks (not rewards—necessities). Aligning actions/values: Self-compassion over perfectionism (grace for pace, delegate/delay to-dos). Book "Ignition": Self-coach burnout-proof (energy list/3R: remove/reduce/respond drains; bake energizers first). Unpredictable life: Expect chaos (reground: "What's next wise choice?"), community for support (no stagnation—daily joy notes). Thriving normal: Sane pace (role models of measured living), human beings not doings (buffers/transitions). For autistic/ADHD young adults in executive dysfunction/isolation, Chris's systems/patterns: "Honor humanness—small steps sustain." Free resources at prioritywellness.com. Subscribe for ND wellness hacks! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. LinkedIn: Chris Vasiliadis. Linktree: (socials/shop/Podbean). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at https://adulting-with-autism-shop.fourthwall.com—energize your vibe fierce! #MindfulEnergyND #BurnoutPreventionAutism #SustainableWellnessADHD #IgnitionBookRoutines #ExecutiveDysfunctionEnergy #MSHealthCoachingNeurodivergent #AdultingWithAutism #PodMatch #Podcasts #AuDHD #Autism #ADHD #BTSNeurodivergent #MentalHealth #BTSArmy #OT #OTTips   Episode: Mindful Energy for ND Burnout with Chris Vasiliadis [00:00] Intro: ND Grind Exhaustion Trap [00:30] Chris's Journey: Engineering to MS-Inspired Health Coaching [02:00] Honoring Needs: Naps/Qigong/Gluten-Free Post-Diagnosis [05:00] Mindful Energy: Purposeful Attention (Grounding/White Space) [08:00] Routines for Overwhelm: Pauses/Breaks (Panoramic Views/Stretch) [11:00] Aligning Actions/Values: Compassion Over Perfectionism [14:00] "Ignition" Book: Self-Coach (Energy List/3R Rescue) [17:00] Unpredictable Life: Expect Chaos, Reground Wise Choices [20:00] Thriving Normal: Sane Pace, Human Beings Not Doings [23:00] Outro: Takeaways & CTAs Resources: Priority Wellness: prioritywellness.com (coaching/book "Ignition") LinkedIn: Chris Vasiliadis Book: "Ignition: Burnout-Proof Living" (Amazon) Linktree:  (socials/shop/Podbean) Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND energy tips! Share your 3R win in comments. #NDBurnoutBuster #AutismMindfulRoutines #ADHDWellnessHacks #SustainableEnergyNeurodivergent

Barriers in education/work got you down as an ND young adult? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April chats accessible design for neurodivergent with Rebecca Prejean, CEO/Founder of E.B. Graphics and Consulting—creating inclusive multimedia (videos/graphics/animations/e-learnings/VR/AR) via UDL/WCAG for corporations/higher ed/nonprofits. As mom to a son with severe hydrocephalus/autism (defied "won't walk/talk" prognosis), Rebecca fights perceptions, boosting revenue/productivity/engagement through accessible experiences for ADHD/autism/dyslexia/special needs. Key insights: Business start: Freelance post-layoff (no degree needed—hard work/upskilling/AI for ideas), networking muscle (volunteer to paid). Skills honing: Try all (Google/Udemy/creators), open to tech (AI ideation, not replacement); workshops/monthly for sharpness. Imposter/authentic: Fight through (clients want you, not mask); cancel mismatches—resilience from discomfort (homeless/abuse led to success). No shortcuts: 10x harder than 9-5; embrace failure/discomfort for longevity (most podcasts/creators fail—work ethic wins). Content creation: Custom/retrofit (color changes/screen readers/focus order); companion guides/animations for cognitive ease. Higher ed changes: Perception shift (not "defiant"—need clear instructions/accommodations); meet where they are. Advice: Freelance side-hustle first; upskill relentlessly (e.g., UCLA extensions); authentic self attracts right clients. For autistic/ADHD young adults eyeing creative/business paths, Rebecca's story: "Work hard, be open—no paper needed." Launching "The Quirk Factory" podcast next week—follow on LinkedIn/email. Subscribe for ND career hacks! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. E.B. Graphics: ebgraphicsandconsulting.com. Linktree: (socials/shop/Podbean). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at https://adulting-with-autism-shop.fourthwall.com—design your path fierce! #AccessibleDesignND #UDLNeurodivergent #InclusiveELearningAutism #BusinessAutisticYoungAdults #MultimediaADHD #ImposterSyndromeContent #AdultingWithAutism #SpecialNeedsEducation #PodMatch #Podcasts #BTSNeurodivergent #AuDHD #Autism #ADHD #BTSArmy #MentalHealth #OT #OTTips   Episode: Accessible Design for ND with Rebecca Prejean [00:00] Intro: Barriers in ND Education/Work [00:30] Rebecca's Story: Son's Autism to E.B. Graphics Founder [02:00] Business Journey: Freelance/Layoff to Corporate/Higher Ed Consulting [05:00] Skills Honing: No Degree Needed—Upskilling/AI/Networking Muscle [08:00] Imposter/Authentic Self: Fight Through, Cancel Mismatches [11:00] No Shortcuts: Hard Work/Discomfort for Resilience (Failure Lessons) [14:00] Content Creation: Custom Multimedia (Animations/VR, Screen Readers) [17:00] Higher Ed Changes: Perception Shift (Clear Instructions/Accommodations) [20:00] Advice: Side-Hustle Freelance, Be Open/Relentless [23:00] Outro: Takeaways & CTAs Resources: E.B. Graphics & Consulting: ebgraphicsandconsulting.com (services/portfolio) LinkedIn: Rebecca Prejean Podcast: "The Quirk Factory" (launching soon—Spotify/Apple) Linktree: (socials/shop/Podbean) Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND career tips! Share your upskill win in comments. #NDAccessibleDesign #AutismMultimedia #ADHDBusinessHacks #UDLSpecialNeeds

Facing life-altering trauma like injury/disability? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April explores resilience without romanticism with Joshua Dvorkin, Registered Psychotherapist/Reclamation Coach and Headway Mental Health founder. After a 2004 epileptic seizure/spinal cord injury (paralyzed chest-down, ventilator-bound with 20% survival odds), Joshua defied prognosis—off ventilator in 10 days, independent in 6 months, earning 3 degrees (Master's Psychology)—now guiding ND folks (autism/ADHD) through chronic illness/disability/transitions/LGBTQ2S+ support via radical compassion/authentic empowerment/narrative sovereignty. Key insights: Injury rebirth: Mind strength/10-day recovery; present gratitude crushes fear (beyond "stay positive"). Radical acceptance: Embrace reality, small steps close gaps (dream big, actionable traits). Narrative sovereignty: Own your story—beliefs shape reality (no pathologizing, validate strengths). Manifesting concrete: Steps over woo (research/skills import, affirmations/repetition for beliefs). Grief/pressure: Feel ungrateful/angry/anxious—use fear for freedom; peer support/community for purpose. Tools: 7-day negative thinking DM (Instagram @headway.mental.health), 7-column thought record (reframe emotions/evidence). Support mistakes: Pathologize/judge; instead, normalize/validate (safe spaces, no rushing). Society changes: Inclusive mental health first (non-judgmental, community over segregation). For autistic/ADHD adults in grief/isolation, Joshua's lived expertise flips "impossible" to purposeful—free 45-page stress workbook at headwaymentalhealth.com. Book 20-min consult: (437) 523-8933/joshua@headwaymentalhealth.com. Subscribe for ND resilience tips! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Linktree: (socials/shop/Podbean). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at https://adulting-with-autism-shop.fourthwall.com—reclaim your gear fierce! #ResilienceWithoutRomanticism #ReclamationCoachingND #TraumaRecoveryAutism #NarrativeSovereigntyADHD #RadicalCompassionDisability #MentalHealthSpinalInjury #AdultingWithAutism #GriefProcessingNeurodivergent #PodMatch #Podcasts #BTSNeurodivergent #Neurodiversity #MentalHealth #Autism #AuDHD #ADHD #OTTips #OT #BTSArmy   Episode: Resilience Without Romanticism with Joshua Dvorkin [00:00] Intro: Life-Altering Trauma & ND Rebirth [00:30] Joshua's Story: Seizure Injury to Independent Thriving [02:00] Resilience Without Romanticism: Messy Acceptance (Feel Fear, Crush It) [05:00] Radical Acceptance/Transformation: Small Steps, Dream Big [08:00] Narrative Sovereignty: Own Beliefs (No Pathologizing, Validate Strengths) [11:00] Manifesting Concrete: Steps/Skills Import (Affirmations/Repetition) [14:00] Grief Processing: Present Gratitude, Peer Support/Community [17:00] Tools: 7-Day Negative Thinking (DM Instagram), 7-Column Thought Record [20:00] Support Mistakes: Judgment/Rushing; Instead Normalize/Validate [23:00] Society Shifts: Inclusive Mental Health, Community Over Segregation [26:00] Outro: Takeaways & CTAs Resources: Headway Mental Health: headwaymentalhealth.com (psychotherapy/coaching—20-min consult, free 45-page stress workbook) Contact: (437) 523-8933 | joshua@headwaymentalhealth.com Instagram: @headway.mental.health Linktree: (socials/shop/Podbean) Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND resilience! Share your narrative shift in comments. #NDTraumaRecovery #AutismResilience #ADHDNarrativeSovereignty #SpinalInjuryMentalHealth

Overwhelmed by sensory chaos in your ND home? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April chats slow style home for neurodivergent folks with Zandra Zuraw, interior design coach/author/podcaster helping create meaningful, sustainable spaces without breaking the bank or planet. With 30+ years (Master's in cultural anthropology/public policy), mental health battles, and as parent to a child with special needs, Zandra rebranded "Style Matters" to "Slow Style Home" (2023 book/podcast)—a framework for DIY design focusing on personal meaning over trends. Key insights: Dorm/ND tips: Sensory priority (quiet routines, minimal clutter, comfortable seating/blankets/soft lights)—conversations with roommates for shared space. Clutter management: Game it up (one corner at a time, "what do you love?" questions), limit to passions (display 5 items, store rest). Partner compromise: Curiosity over criticism ("why love it?"), common ground (e.g., shared art/rugs), no negatives—slow evolution. Colors/walls: Test samples (light-dependent), avoid all-white (harsh); start with inspiration (wardrobe favorites, not trends). Priorities: Big investments first (couch/mattress for well-being), then rugs/art (tone-setters, thrifted/sustainable). Slow pace: One room/corner at a time, no shopping first—build from passions (vision boards as decor). For autistic/ADHD young adults/parents, Zandra's framework fights overwhelm: "Take time to save up for what matters." Free podcast episodes at slowstylehome.com. Subscribe for ND home hacks! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Book on Amazon/Barnes & Noble; podcast anywhere. Linktree: adultingwithautism.linktr.ee (socials/shop/Podbean). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at adultingwithautism.shop—style your space fierce! #SlowStyleHomeND #SensoryFriendlyDecor #ClutterHacksAutism #SustainableHomeADHD #DIYNeurodivergent #PeacefulSpacesSpecialNeeds #AdultingWithAutism #AuDHD #Autism #ADHD #PodMatch #Podcasts #MentalHealth #BTSArmy #BTSNeurodivergent #Neurodiversity #OT #OTTips   Episode: Slow Style Home for ND with Zandra Zuraw [00:00] Intro: Sensory Overwhelm in ND Homes [00:30] Zandra's Story: 30+ Years to Slow Style Framework [02:00] Dorm ND Tips: Sensory Focus (Quiet/Minimal Clutter) [05:00] Clutter Hacks: Game It (One Corner, "Love It?" Questions) [08:00] Partner Compromise: Curiosity Over Criticism (Shared Rugs/Art) [11:00] Colors/Walls: Test Samples (Light-Dependent, Avoid All-White) [14:00] Priorities: Big Pieces First (Couch/Mattress), Then Rugs/Art [17:00] Slow Pace: One Room/Corner, Inspiration from Passions (Vision Boards) [20:00] Outro: Takeaways & CTAs Resources: Slow Style Home: slowstylehome.com (book/podcast/framework) Book: "Slow Style Home" (Amazon/Barnes & Noble) Podcast: Spotify/Apple (episodes on DIY/sustainability) Linktree(socials/shop/Podbean) Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND home tips! Share your clutter hack in comments. #NDHomeDesign #AutismSensoryDecor #ADHDClutterTips #SlowStyleSpecialNeeds

Chasing external success but hitting ND burnout walls? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April explores personal mastery for neurodivergent high achievers with Jerry Henderson, creator of The Personal Mastery Framework™, author/speaker/coach/Personal Mastery Podcast host. Trained at Harvard in human behavior/neuroanatomy/resilience/habits (MBA Global Business, Master's Psychology in progress), Jerry helps trauma survivors (like his own childhood/burnout/imposter journey) blend IFS/NLP/positive psych for emotional resilience, limiting belief rewiring, and whole life success—beyond grind to clarity/peace. Key insights: Mindset pillar: Reframe fixed to growth (stress mindset, CBT for shame-driven achieving). NLP for beliefs: Anchor positive states, disrupt emotional loops (e.g., "happy button" for anxiety/perfectionism). Whole life vs. high performance: Holistic (relationships/sleep/nervous system) for thriving, not survival. Trauma-informed: IFS parts work (protectors/exiles), curiosity over judgment for resilience (ACEs impact). Habit formation: Start small/stack (atomic habits), align with self-worth to avoid sabotage. Clarity/peace: Intrinsic motivation, self-acceptance—external wins without void-filling. Authentic connection: Vulnerability in safe relationships (one fully disclosing starts it). Burnout fix: Honest self-reflection, ask help; job hopping ignores root causes (toxic patterns follow). For autistic/ADHD high performers in imposter/shame cycles, Jerry's framework (post-$1B philanthropy) sustains growth. Free call/resource at jerryhenderson.org. Subscribe for ND personal mastery tips! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Instagram: @jerryahenderson. Linktree (Podbean/shop/socials). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at adultingwithautism.shop—master your gear! #PersonalMasteryND #HighAchieverBurnout #TraumaHealingAutism #LimitingBeliefsADHD #EmotionalResilienceNeurodivergent #HabitFormationImposter #AdultingWithAutism #SustainableSuccessND #PodMatch #AuDHD #Autism #ADHD #Podcasts #BTSARMY #BTS Neurodivergent #MentalHealth #OT #OTTips   Episode: Personal Mastery for ND High Achievers with Jerry Henderson [00:00] Intro: ND Burnout in the Achievement Chase [00:30] Jerry's Story: Trauma to Personal Mastery Framework™ [02:00] Pillar 1: Mindset Reframing (Growth vs. Fixed, Stress Views) [05:00] NLP for Limiting Beliefs: Anchoring & Emotional Loops [08:00] Whole Life Success vs. High Performance Grind [11:00] Trauma-Informed: IFS for Anxiety/Perfectionism (Parts Work) [14:00] Emotional Mastery/Resilience: ACEs, Thriving vs. Survival [17:00] Habit Formation: Small Stacks, Self-Worth Alignment [20:00] Clarity/Peace: Intrinsic Motivation, Self-Acceptance [23:00] Core Beliefs: Symptoms to Roots, New Experiences [26:00] Authentic Connection: Vulnerability in Safe Relationships [29:00] Burnout Step: Honest Reflection, Ask Help (Job Hopping Trap) [32:00] Outro: Resources & CTAs Resources: Personal Mastery Framework™: jerryhenderson.org (coaching/podcast/book on self-love) Instagram: @jerryahenderson Linktree(Podbean/shop/socials) Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND mastery! Share your limiting belief win in comments. #NDHighAchievers #AutismPersonalMastery #ADHDRelilience #TraumaCoachingND #ImposterSyndromeHabits

Exhausted from late diagnosed autism masking as an adult? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April chats with Wendela Whitcomb Marsh (Dr. Wendy), award-winning author, TEDx speaker, and US Autism Association board member, on neurodivergent self-acceptance, workplace accommodations, and advocacy for high-masking autistic adults—especially women/girls/trans/ND folks. After 40 years in special ed/psychology, Dr. Wendy founded (and sold) Adult Autism Assessment & Services, drawing from her autistic family (late husband + 2/3 adult kids). Her Adulting While Autistic series (Independent Living, Dating, Relating, Parenting, Working While Autistic) and SWAN Church (Scripture & Worship for All Neurotypes) empower underserved voices. Key insights: Adult vs. child autism: Masking hides symptoms (e.g., routines for eye contact/socializing); exhaustion from "faking normal." Late-dx challenges: Women/trans/non-binary often missed (3-6x overlap with autism); bullying/shame leads to self-doubt. Workplace/family support: Frame needs as productivity wins (e.g., noise-canceling headphones/WFH); believe autistic voices—no "faking." Clinician tips: Read autistic authors, seek ND-affirming pros; self-ID valid if no paper needed (for disability/accommodations). Advocacy ahead: Boa constrictor squeeze (hard times)—stay safe, speak out; churches need inclusivity (SWAN as model). For autistic young adults unmasking or parents advocating, Dr. Wendy's optimism shines: "Nothing wrong with you—world's not built for you." Free library access to her books; inquire for Book Club readings. Subscribe for ND adulting advocacy! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Books at Amazon/Barnes & Noble/Powell's/indies; SWAN Church: swanchurch.org. Linktree: adultingwithautism.linktr.ee (Podbean/shop/socials). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at adultingwithautism.shop—fierce ND gear! #LateDiagnosedAutism #AutismMaskingAdults #NeurodivergentWorkplace #AutismWomenTrans #AdultingWhileAutistic #SWANChurchND #AutismSelfAcceptance #AuDHD #OT #MentalHealth #BTS #BTSNeurodivergent #Neurodiversity #ADHD #PodMatch #Podcasts   Episode: Late Diagnosed Autism in Adults with Wendela Whitcomb Marsh [00:00] Intro: Masking Exhaustion in Late-Dx ND Adults [00:30] Dr. Wendy's Story: 40-Year Career to Adult Autism Advocacy [02:00] Missed Symptoms: Adult vs. Child Autism (Masking Routines/Sensory) [05:00] Late-Dx Challenges: Women/Trans/Non-Binary Overlap (3-6x Higher) [08:00] Masking Effects: "Faking Normal" & Unmasking Safety [11:00] Family Support: Listen/Believe—Accommodations for All [14:00] Workplace Wins: Frame Needs as Productivity (Headphones/WFH) [17:00] Clinician Tips: ND-Affirming Pros, Read Autistic Authors [20:00] Lived Experience: Autistic Family Shapes Her Books/Advocacy [23:00] Church Inclusivity: SWAN Church Model for ND/LGBTQIA+ [26:00] Future Advocacy: Boa Constrictor Squeeze—Stay Safe/Speak Out [29:00] Testing Advice: Self-ID Valid; Sliding Scales for Assessments [32:00] Outro: Books/Resources & CTAs Resources: Books: Adulting While Autistic series/Recognizing Autism in Women and Girls (Amazon/Barnes & Noble/Powell's/indies/libraries) SWAN Church: swanchurch.org (online ND-affirming worship) Contact: info@WendelaWhitcombMarsh.com (Book Clubs/speaking) Linktree(Podbean/shop/socials) Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND advocacy! Share your masking story in comments. #AutismAdults #LateDxMasking #NDWorkplace #AutismWomen #SWANChurch

Feeling isolated as a neurodivergent man? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April talks modern masculinity for ND men with Josh Fineman, founder of Mensch—a North London community helping guys unplug from pressure and reconnect via men's circles, nature challenges, and 1:1 coaching. For autistic/ADHD young fathers (35-40s sweet spot), Josh addresses loneliness, purpose voids, and disconnection from self—blending ancient wisdom/modern tools for emotional courage and growth. Key insights: Core pressures: Ticking boxes (career/family) while losing self—loneliness from no village support. Men's circles magic: Safety (confidentiality/no fixing) + challenge (calling forward) for shared growth. Nature therapy anxiety: Grounding (feet on grass/breath), tree "waving" for ND calm. Unlocking purpose: Non-linear—trust instincts, small steps (follow curiosity, no one-fix pressure). Vulnerability wins: Brotherhood normalizes it; emerge via community, not solo. If you're an ND man battling isolation, burnout, or "proving" yourself (like Josh's zigzags to mentorship), this ep inspires action. Free call at bemoremensch.com—build your tribe! Subscribe for ND adulting/men's health tips! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Follow Josh: bemoremensch.com | LinkedIn Joshua Fineman. #ModernMasculinityND #MensCirclesNeurodivergent #ADHDIsolationMen #PurposeYoungFathers #VulnerabilityAutismMen #AdultingWithAutism #NatureTherapyAnxiety   Episode: Modern Masculinity for ND Men with Josh Fineman [00:00] Intro: ND Men's Isolation & Mensch Mission [00:30] Josh's Story: Career Zigzags to Men's Circles Founder [02:00] Pressures: Loneliness, Purpose Void, Self-Disconnection in 35-40s Fathers [05:00] Men's Circles: Safety + Challenge for Growth (No Fixing/Confidentiality) [08:00] Nature Rituals: Grounding Anxiety (Grass Feet/Tree Waving/Breath) [11:00] Unlocking Purpose: Non-Linear Instincts, Small Steps, Curiosity [14:00] Vulnerability Brotherhood: Normalize It Via Community (No Solo) [17:00] Outro: Takeaways & Call to Action Resources: Mensch: bemoremensch.com (circles/retreats/coaching—free 30-min call) LinkedIn: Joshua Fineman Contact: Via site form Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND men's health! Share your isolation win in comments. #NDMensGroups #AutismMasculinity #ADHDVulnerability #MensPurpose #PodMatch #Podcasts #BTS #BTSNeurodivergent #Autism #AuDHD #OT #MentalHealth

Searching for Sufism for neurodivergent healing, spiritual growth autism ADHD, or inner peace ND adults? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April explores Sufi principles with Salima Adelstein, Co-President/Academic Dean at University of Sufism, Sufi Mystic/Master Healer, and founder of Farm of Peace retreat center. With 25+ years guiding students, Salima shares her journey from meditation to Sufism's heart-centered path—shattering barriers like shame, ego voices, and negative external whispers for authentic self-acceptance. Discover: Sufi "treasure hunt" for ND strengths: Embracing uniqueness as divine gifts (mirror exercise: "When God created me, He created beauty"). Discernment: Tuning into inner guidance (divine/ego/negative voices) vs. modern psychology/physical health noise. Overcoming shame/trauma: Heart barriers dissolve for joy, compassion, and purpose—integrating Sufi remembrance with daily calm. Spiritual journey start: Community/teachers essential; no solo climbs—find your GPS for healthier lives (e.g., food sensitivities, toxic people fade). Her book: A Drop in the Ocean of Love—core message: Embody your essence, overflow love to transform the world. Ideal for autistic/ADHD young adults feeling "different" or stuck—Salima's tools nurture resilience, wisdom, and belonging. Free gift: "Five C's of Inner Truth" at sufiuniversity.org. Subscribe to Adulting with Autism for ND spiritual hacks! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Connect: sufiuniversity.org | 800-238-3060 | Book on Amazon. #SufismNeurodivergent #SpiritualGrowthAutism #ADHDInnerPeace #SufiHealingShame #SelfAcceptanceND #AdultingWithAutism #OvercomingTraumaSufism   Episode: Sufism for Neurodivergent Healing with Salima Adelstein [00:00] Intro: ND Spiritual Quest & Sufism's Heart Path [00:30] Salima's Journey: From Meditation to Sufi Aha Hug [03:00] Sufism for Self-Acceptance: Overcoming Shame/Barriers in ND Brains [06:00] ND Strengths: Treasure Hunt for Unique Divine Gifts [09:00] Integrating Sufi Teachings: Ancient Wisdom + Modern Psychology/Health [12:00] Discernment: Inner Guidance vs. Ego/Negative Voices (Mirror Exercise) [15:00] Daily Practices: Remembrance for Calm Amid Chaos [18:00] Starting Your Journey: Community/Teachers, Not Solo [21:00] Book Insight: A Drop in the Ocean of Love—Embody Essence, Overflow Love [24:00] Outro: Free "Five C's" Gift & Takeaways Resources: University of Sufism: sufiuniversity.org (programs/free teachings) Book: A Drop in the Ocean of Love on Amazon Contact: 800-238-3060 | admissions@sufiuniversity.org Free Gift: "Five C's of Inner Truth" video/workbook at sufiuniversity.org Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND spirituality! Share your "aha" in comments. #SufiND #AutismSpiritualGrowth #ADHDHealing #InnerGuidanceSufism #BTS #BTS Neurodivergent #PodMatch #Podcasts #OT #MentalHealth #AuDHD

Autistic remote work struggles? Steven Puri (20+ years leading teams at DreamWorks/20th Century Fox, 3x tech CEO, The Sukha founder w/ 34K community) shares Hollywood/tech secrets: Flow states (Csikszentmihalyi-inspired: Lose time, high-quality work, feel energized), music (60-90 BPM non-vocals for entry), distraction blocks (phone/sites as dopamine traps), boundaries (set upfront to avoid burnout), and failure as growth (learn from flops, not dwell). For ND young adults grinding focus/anxiety, parents/OTs fostering habits, or allies building hybrid teams, this ramble's your toolkit—ADHD inattentive insights, Pomodoro tweaks, no fluorescent drudgery. From engineer roots (IBM parents) to Sukha app (free week trial at thesukha.co), it's healthy high-performance without the grind. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro: Steven's Hollywood-to-Tech Journey 1:04 - From Film Exec to Productivity Expert 3:26 - Flow States: What They Feel Like 5:59 - Music & Distraction Hacks (60-90 BPM) 9:19 - Boundaries for Work-Life Balance 11:25 - Failure as Teaching Moments 14:02 - Remote vs. Office: Fear & Mission 16:38 - Hiring ND Talent: Skills + Vibe 18:47 - App Trial & Community (The Sukha) 20:35 - Why Now: Post-COVID Productivity 22:12 - Outro: Do Great Things Sub on Acast (rate/review to grow the squad!), share w/ a remote warrior—tag 'em! Holiday squad alert: 30% off pod merch w/ code BLACK25 at Linktree in notes—'Dynamite' tees for flow bosses. Try The Sukha free week at thesukha.co. Keep fierce, keep focused, keep adulting with autism! #AutisticRemoteWork #NeurodivergentFlow #AdultingWithAutism #KeepFierce #NDProductivity #BTSARMY #AcastPodcasts #PodMatch ND remote work fog? Steven Puri unpacks 20+ years leading teams (DreamWorks EVP, Fox VP, 3x CEO): Flow states (Csikszentmihalyi: Lose time, undistracted, meaningful output, energized end), music entry (60-90 BPM non-vocals/rainscapes for ADHD inattentive), distraction war (phone/sites as Zuckerberg's "life-steal"—block for deep work), boundaries upfront (e.g., childcare schedule to avoid tripwires), failure learning (notes to self post-flop: "Listen more"), remote fears (mission/values align teams, not micromanagement), hiring ND (skills vet + hike vibe-check, low-stakes trials). From IBM engineer roots to The Sukha (34K community/app for focus: Free week at thesukha.co). For late-dx adults battling anxiety/burnout, parents/OTs for habits, or leaders for hybrid ROI, Steven's "elicit greatness" flips grind to glow—no shallow tasks, just capable flow. Links: Full Episode: Acast (sub now!) The Sukha: thesukha.co (free trial) Steven: www.thesukha.co/media.Steven Puri Merch: Linktree in notes (BLACK25 for 30% off holiday!) Your subs/ratings/shares amplify the squad—tag a flow-seeker! #AutisticFocus #NeurodivergentBoundaries #RemoteWorkND #PodcastProductivity #MentalHealthFlow #UnmaskedHighPerformance #ADHDDeepWork #TheSukha #ResilienceRemote #EmpathySquad Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

ND social isolation? Synchrony co-founders Jamie Pastrano (mom/CSW), Brittany Moser (M.A. autism specialist), and Rebecca Matchett (COO/entrepreneur) spill on their Jan 2026 launch: First AI-supported app for neurodivergent adults 18+—interest-matching, safety (ID/reference verification), and 'Jesse' AI coach for chats/boundaries (express feelings, decode flirty/friendly, protect comfort). From Jamie's son Jesse inspiring the vision to global goals (US-based, accommodations for nonverbal/spectrum), it's independence + community—no more cliffs, just synced belonging. For autistic/ADHD/AuDHD young adults grinding friendships/romance, parents supporting without overstepping, or OTs fostering skills, this ramble's your toolkit—AI as confidence builder, not replacement. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro: Synchrony Founders & ND Social Gaps 1:07 - Origin: Jamie's Son Jesse & Adulting Void 3:26 - App Features: Interest-Matching & Safety 5:59 - Jesse AI: Express/Understand/Protect Buttons 9:19 - Profile Building: Bio Gen & Independence 11:25 - Global Vision & Accommodations (Non-Verbal) 14:02 - Parent Role: Plant Seeds, Not Control 16:38 - Launch Jan 2026: Waitlist & Events 18:47 - Future: Offline Events/Employment Ties 20:35 - Why Now: Filling the 18+ Gap 22:12 - Where to Join: Socials/Waitlist 24:48 - Outro: Sync Up & Squad Perks Sub on Acast for Season 3 Jan drops (rate/review to grow the squad!), share w/ a connection-seeker—tag 'em! Holiday squad alert: 30% off pod merch w/ code BLACK25 at Linktree in notes—'Dynamite' tees for boundary bosses. Full promo for Synchrony (join waitlist at joinsynchrony.com). Keep fierce, keep focused, keep adulting with autism! #NeurodivergentSocialApp #AutisticFriendship #SynchronyApp #AdultingWithAutism #KeepFierce #NDAI #AutisticDating #NDCommunity #BTSARMY #AcastPodcasts Stuck in ND isolation? Synchrony co-founders Jamie Pastrano, Brittany Moser, and Rebecca Matchett unpack their Jan 2026 app for neurodivergent adults 18+: AI 'Jesse' coach for social support (expressive language, convo decoding, boundary-setting), interest-based matching (top 10 hobbies first, % common shown), safety (ID/selfie + reference vouch from trusted like mom/therapist), and profile ease (AI bio gen from questions). Origin: Jamie's 21-year-old autistic son Jesse's adult social gaps (no mom/teacher forever)—global vision (US launch, accommodations for nonverbal/spectrum, voice-to-text). For late-dx young adults practicing independence, parents encouraging (plant seeds, not sign up), or OTs for skill-building (in-app chats transfer to real life), Synchrony's 'syncmates' flips loneliness to belonging—no mainstream app fails, just ND-tailored human connection. Links: Full Episode: Acast (sub now!) Synchrony Waitlist: joinsynchrony.com Socials: @synchronyapp (IG/FB/TikTok—follow for launch) Merch: Linktree in notes (BLACK25 for 30% off holiday!) Your subs/ratings/shares amplify the squad—tag a sync-seeker! #AutisticSocialSkills #NeurodivergentAI #SynchronyLaunch #PodcastND #MentalHealthApp #UnmaskedConnections #ADHDIndependence #AutismAdulting #ResilienceApp #EmpathySquad Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Autistic pattern loops trapping you? Dr. Tony Iezzi (35+ years clinical psychologist, Reenactments co-author) shares: From Vietnam vets to ND challenges, his therapy framework—awareness (spot themes like rejection/abandonment), regulate physiology (walks/music to calm revved systems), and interrupt habits (new actions over rage/stewing)—breaks unconscious reenactments from childhood chaos. For autistic/ADHD young adults reacting to environments, parents modeling reflection, or allies fostering tools, this convo's your toolkit—journaling for insight, themes over events ("Treat sensitivities, not specifics"). Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro: Tony's Trauma/Chronic Pain Expertise 0:11 - Patterns in Everyday Life & ND 1:11 - Awareness: Spot Unconscious Habits 2:55 - Childhood Roots & Physiology Revving 5:20 - Interrupting Loops: First Steps 8:00 - Themes (Abandonment/Rejection/Bullying) 11:19 - Reenactment Therapy for Sensitivities 14:23 - Parents Changing First to Help Kids 17:26 - Vietnam Vets: Pre-Existing Mess 20:53 - Society's Harshness on Differences 23:36 - Signs of Breaking Reenactments 26:19 - Journaling: Reflect to Refine 29:55 - Tailor to Physiology (Autism/ADD) 32:40 - Power Dynamic in Parenting 35:49 - Risks & Young Adult Transitions 38:58 - Mutual Respect: Consultant, Not Authority 42:14 - Village Support & Falling/Failing 45:38 - Where to Find Tony (Site/Book) Subscribe on Apple/Spotify for weekly neurodivergent adulting tools—rate/review if patterns clicked! Resources/book in notes. Squad, share w/ a loop-breaker (tag 'em below—let's rewire!). Merch: 'Dynamite' tees for habit days (Linktree in notes). #AutisticTraumaPatterns #NeurodivergentReenactments #AdultingWithAutism #BTSNeurodivergent #PodMatch Stuck in autistic trauma reenactments? Dr. Tony Iezzi unpacks 35+ years treating pain/trauma: Reenactments framework—awareness (unconscious habits from childhood), physiology regulation (walks/music for revved ND systems), theme targeting (abandonment/rejection/bullying over events)—breaks loops for better quality of life. ND applications: Physiology caps (autism/ADD at 100% = no problem-solving), environments amplify sensitivities (dysregulated homes = harder coping). For late-dx young adults reacting automatically, parents interrupting cycles (change adult first), or OTs modeling reflection/journaling, Tony's "themes repeat across situations—target them" flips reactivity to strategy. From Adulting with Autism podcast: OT-aligned for executive/sensory patterns, parenting power shifts, habit-building. Links: Full Episode: Buzzsprout/Apple/Spotify (subscribe!) Tony's Site: tonyiezzi.com (book ordering/socials) Book: Reenactments (Amazon) Merch: Linktree in notes ('Dynamite' tees for pattern resets) Your reviews/shares amplify the squad—tag a rewire! #AutisticBehaviorLoops #NeurodivergentPhysiology #TraumaThemesAutism #PodcastHabits #MentalHealthAwareness #UnmaskedReenactments #ADHDRegulation #ReenactmentTherapy #ResiliencePatterns #EmpathySquad Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a text Autistic trauma unmasking? Dr. Kirsten Viola Harrison (Soul Wise Solutions founder, I, Sean/a co-author) shares: Befriending homeless intersex woman Sean/a (schizophrenia/street survival to empowerment), she explores DID (trauma splitting for protection—body/soul survival), somatic healing ("body keeps the score"), energy vibes (protect via boundaries/allies), and surviving vs. thriving (claim genius pockets, no shame in masking). For autistic/ND folks processing bullying/loss, allies fostering empathy, or anyone tuning into quantum energy/gratitude resets, this convo's your toolkit—small steps build authentic light. Timestamps:  0:00 - Intro: Kirsten's Trauma Journey & Sean/a Meeting  1:46 - Befriending Sean/a: From Streets to Support  4:50 - Complex DID: Trauma Splitting Explained  7:32 - ND Trauma: Masking & Somatic Memory  10:21 - Survival Mechanisms in Autism/Intersex  12:45 - Surviving vs. Thriving: Personal Bubbles  14:39 - Energy Management: Silence/Headphones/Decompression  18:19 - Building New Identity Post-Masking  20:15 - Honoring Meltdowns: Triggers & Self-Forgiveness  22:38 - Starting Personal Journey: Small Steps/Ally Support  24:56 - Authenticity: Claim Your Space Amid Changes  30:39 - Spiritual Energy: Protect Vibes/Quantum Influence  34:21 - Helpers Everywhere: Mr. Rogers Wisdom  37:43 - Gratitude: Daily Reset for All  41:52 - Where to Find Kirsten (Site/Book/Socials) Subscribe on Apple/Spotify for weekly neurodivergent adulting tools—rate/review if insights sparked your unmasking! Resources/book in notes. Squad, share w/ a trauma-navigator (tag 'em below—let's heal together!). Merch: 'Dynamite' tees for energy days (Linktree in notes). #AutisticTraumaHealing #NeurodivergentDID #AdultingWithAutism #BTSNeurodivergent #PodMatch Unmasking autistic trauma? Dr. Kirsten Viola Harrison unpacks soul integration: 35+ years in psychology, supporting stepdaughter w/ Smith-Magenis syndrome sparked ND focus; befriending unhoused intersex Sean/a (schizophrenia, 8 years on cardboard—now empowered via GoFundMe/advocacy) inspired I, Sean/a: The Story of a Homeless Intersex Woman Who Inspired a Community. DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder): Childhood trauma splits (behaviors/sensations/emotions/knowledge) for survival—somatic tools (body holds score), spiritual protection (near-death-like out-of-body). Energy for ND: Tune vibes (headphones/silence for decompression, power walks for release), protect via boundaries/allies (quantum non-local influence). Surviving vs. thriving: Claim 'genius pockets' (e.g., Disney for processing), gratitude resets (thank breath/pillows—builds from small wins). For late-dx adults forgiving meltdowns/triggers, parents fostering safety, or allies ending stigma (intersex rights, no non-consensual surgery), Kirsten's 'we all mask—find your light' flips shame to authenticity. From Adulting with Autism podcast: OT-aligned for sensory/energetic regulation, resilience stories, spiritual empathy. Links: Full Episode: Buzzsprout/Apple/Spotify (subscribe!) mfish: Organize. Simplify. Win Eco-friendly, high-quality tech tool to simplify school, work and life Find Your Fierce This Fall: Empowerment Shop now to support the show and join the Alliance—find your new favorite at the link in show notes. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show @adulting_autism adultingwithautism.podcast@outlook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a text Autistic money struggles? Estelle Gibson (CPA, TED Speaker w/ 2.3M views, Poor by Choice? author) shares: Post-divorce rebuild, her holistic coaching customizes spending plans (not restrictive budgets) for neurodivergent journeys—uncover environments shaping beliefs (society/family/programming), flip permissive thoughts ("I'll do it tomorrow" to action), and manifestation formula (words → thoughts → beliefs → actions → experience). For autistic young adults starting bills-free, parents teaching necessities/wants, or anyone ditching 'I'm bad with math' myths, this convo's your toolkit—awareness first (track inflows/outflows, subscriptions), then choice (needs vs. wants for dreams like retirement). Timestamps:  0:00 - Intro: Estelle's Financial Power Journey  0:47 - Why Money Affects Everything (Relationships/Health)  2:37 - Custom Plans: No One-Size Budgets  5:38 - Environments Building Beliefs (Society/Family)  8:27 - Rewrite Your Money Story Journal 11:12 - Limiting Lies: 'Too Stupid/Not Enough' 13:55 - First Steps: Track Bills/Subscriptions 16:29 - Holistic: Body/Mind/Spirit Approach 19:07 - Mindset Shifts: Positive Words Manifest 21:52 - Overwhelm: Roadblocks as Setups 24:37 - Similarities: Fear in Rich/Poor Alike 27:29 - Fruition: Consistent Action Despite Setbacks 30:39 - Next: Books for Young Adults/Children 33:38 - Where to Find Estelle (Site/Books) Subscribe on Apple/Spotify for weekly neurodivergent adulting tools—rate/review if mindset flipped your flow! Resources/books in notes. Squad, share w/ a money-worrier (tag 'em below—let's align!). Merch: 'Dynamite' tees for abundance days (Linktree in notes). #AutisticMoneyMindset #NeurodivergentFinance #AdultingWithAutism #BTSNeurodivergent #PodMatch Stuck in autistic money scarcity? Estelle Gibson unpacks holistic financial coaching: 40+ years CPA/TED Speaker (Financial Dependency, 2.3M views), post-marriage rebuild inspired Poor by Choice? (overcome lies for new truth) & Rewrite Your Money Story Guided Journal. Custom spending plans (choice over restriction: Needs/wants for dreams like retirement) vs. budgets (diets fail ND brains). Uncover beliefs from environments (society taboos, family fights, community 'keeping up'), permissive thoughts (avoidance like "tomorrow"), and manifestation (positive words create actions/experience). For late-dx young adults (track inflows/outflows, subscriptions first), parents teaching basics (necessities: Food/shelter/transport), or OTs fostering independence, Estelle's 'setbacks as setups' flips overwhelm to alignment—no math phobia, just personalized freedom. From Adulting with Autism podcast: OT-aligned for executive/sensory money barriers, generational myths, abundance mindset. Links: Full Episode: Buzzsprout/Apple/Spotify (subscribe!) Estelle's Site: estellegibson.com (books, free resources, coaching) Books: Poor by Choice? & Rewrite Your Money Story  mfish: Organize. Simplify. Win Eco-friendly, high-quality tech tool to simplify school, work and life Find Your Fierce This Fall: Empowerment Shop now to support the show and join the Alliance—find your new favorite at the link in show notes. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show @adulting_autism adultingwithautism.podcast@outlook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a text Autistic post-school employment gaps? Ben Schatzel (Stannum Core Solutions founder, human behaviorist/autism advocate) shares: From therapy roots to tackling the 'service cliff' (2020 workforce pivot), his Spectrum Certified process (universal design visuals, Autism 101 training, skill-matched onboarding) boosts inclusion—phasing subminimum wage (Illinois Dignity in Pay Act) for competitive pay/independence. For autistic young adults listing strengths/weaknesses (score w/ trusted folks for dream roles), parents prepping transitions, or allies reforming labor, this convo's your toolkit—routine resets, trust networks, and 'no man left behind' mindset for ROI (lower turnover/productivity gains). Timestamps:  0:00 - Intro: Ben's Journey to Neurodiverse Hiring  0:59 - Person-Centered Transitions in Employment  2:48 - Communication Feedback Loops for ND  5:30 - Prepare Jobs/Staff for Inclusion  8:35 - Dream Big: Strengths/Weaknesses Audit  11:25 - Policy Disconnects: Subminimum Wage Reform  14:38 - Dignity in Pay Act & Systemic Barriers  17:56 - Autism Unemployment: 10x Higher Reality  20:23 - Healthcare/Independence Challenges  22:17 - Skills for Long-Term Success (Routine/Ask Help)  25:14 - Resources: Voc Rehab/County Boards  28:37 - Where to Find Ben (Site/LinkedIn) Subscribe on Apple/Spotify for weekly neurodivergent adulting tools—rate/review if strategies mapped your path! Resources/agency in notes. Squad, share w/ a job-seeker (tag 'em below—let's include!). Merch: 'Dynamite' tees for transition days (Linktree in notes). #AutisticEmployment #NeurodivergentInclusion #AdultingWithAutism #BTSNeurodivergent #PodMatch Navigating autistic employment post-school? Ben Schatzel unpacks inclusion: Decade in therapy/job development led to Stannum Core (Chicago-based, tackling 'service cliff' via Spectrum Certified: Job prep visuals, staff Autism 101, onboarding for manufacturing/tech). From 2020 non-profit pivot to Illinois Dignity in Pay Act (phasing 14c subminimum wage—10x ND unemployment vs. NT), Ben advocates competitive integrated roles (ROI: Retention/productivity up, turnover down). Strategies: Strengths/weaknesses lists (score w/ family/friends for skill-matched jobs—e.g., organization for various industries), routine for independence (ask help networks), social inference training (clear comms vs. ambiguity). For late-dx young adults eyeing careers, parents bridging gaps, or allies pushing reform (healthcare tied to jobs, scams awareness), Ben's 'united victory' mindset flips barriers to belonging. From Adulting with Autism podcast: OT-aligned for executive/sensory differences, transition audits, policy wins. Links: Full Episode: Buzzsprout/Apple/Spotify (subscribe!) Ben's Site: stannumcore.com (Spectrum Certified, free consults) LinkedIn: @benschatzel (connect for tips) Instagram: @stannumcore (follow updates) Resources: State Voc Rehab (Google "[state] vocational rehabilitation"); County Workforce Boards Merch: Linktree in notes ('Dynamite' tees for job grind reminders) mfish: Organize. Simplify. Win Eco-friendly, high-quality tech tool to simplify school, work and life Find Your Fierce This Fall: Empowerment Shop now to support the show and join the Alliance—find your new favorite at the link in show notes. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show @adulting_autism adultingwithautism.podcast@outlook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a text Autistic couples arguing? Raffi Bilek (marriage coach, The Couples Communication Handbook author) shares game-changers: Talk/listen turns (no simultaneous fights), reflect back to track feelings, I-statements for impact (not blame—"I feel hurt when..."), and split convos (explore problem first, solve later)—to avoid fight-or-flight spirals. For autistic/ND partners decoding body language/flat affect, allies learning patience, or anyone building bonds without insults, this convo's your toolkit—repair over perfection ("Relationships thrive on repair, not zero conflict"). Timestamps:  0:00 - Intro: Raffi's Mission for Awesome Marriages  0:15 - Why Communication Matters in Disagreements  1:32 - Game-Changer: Talk/Listen & Reflect  2:50 - Listening Without Planning Rebuttal  4:09 - Humor/Laughter in Arguments (or Not?)  5:36 - Schedule Pauses to Avoid Escalation  7:02 - Right vs. Wrong Ways to Argue  8:27 - Active Listening: Chunk & Reflect  9:57 - Unresolved Issues Keep Coming Up  11:19 - Body Language Challenges for Autistics  12:10 - Insults: Speak About Yourself, Not Them  13:25 - When to Seek Counseling (Before Big Problems)  14:48 - Book Couples Communication Handbook 16:39 - Individual Therapy Alongside Couples Work 18:15 - Dating: Disclose Autism Early 19:44 - Argument Styles & Basics to Fix 21:26 - Self-Soothing Before Heated Moments 23:21 - Walking Away: Break vs. Brush-Off 24:48 - Teach Kids to Argue? (Interpersonal Ed) 27:17 - Book Details & Bigger Audience Reach 28:37 - Red Flags: When Counseling Won't Fix 30:23 - Where to Find Raffi (Site/Book/Coaching) Subscribe on Apple/Spotify for weekly neurodivergent adulting tools—rate/review if tips bridged a gap! Resources/book in notes. Squad, share w/ a communicator (tag 'em below—let's connect!). Merch: 'Dynamite' tees for convo days (Linktree in notes). #AutisticCouplesCommunication #NeurodivergentRepair #AdultingWithAutism #BTSNeurodivergent #PodMatch Struggling with autistic couples communication? Raffi Bilek unpacks frameworks: Over 10 years coaching, his Couples Communication Handbook teaches talk/listen turns (one speaks, other reflects—no overlap), I-statements ("I feel..." vs. accusations), and dual convos (understand problem before solving)—for ND mismatches like flat affect/body language gaps. Repair essentials: Pause for calm (schedule returns, no dish-throwing emergencies), self-soothe (breathing/exercise before fight-or-flight), and active listening (chunk/reflect to confirm understanding). For autistic young adults dating/decoding signals, partners practicing validation, or allies fostering bonds, Raffi's "defense isn't helpful—impact motivates change" flips blame to connection. Why counsel early? Cheaper than divorce; individual therapy for personal issues (e.g., trauma/OCD) alongside couples work. From Adulting with Autism podcast: OT-aligned for sensory/verbal styles, argument repair, healthy dating. Links: Full Episode: Buzzsprout/Apple/Spotify (subscribe!) Raffi's Site: thecommunicationbook.com (book, free chapters, coaching) Book: The Couples Communication Handbook (Amazon/audio) Socials: @raffibilek (IG/FB—DM consultations) Merch: Linktree in notes ('Dynamite' tees for relationship reminders) Your reviews/shares amplify the squad—tag a bridge-builder! #AutisticIStatements #NeurodivergentArgumentTips #CouplesRepairAutism #PodcastCommunication #MentalHealthValidation #UnmaskedBonds #ADHDListening #HandbookMarri Support the show @adulting_autism adultingwithautism.podcast@outlook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a text Autistic insomnia overload? Raj Khedun (Keep Fit Kingdom manager, 3:3 Insomnia Hack inventor) shares: From 3-year-old curiosity (dinosaur/planet books sparking life's big Qs) to 10-year monk mode (metaphysics/yoga/philosophy/martial arts, women's relationship coaching), his 3:3 method (3 breaths in/3 out w/ "zaha" vagus activation) calms ADHD chatter/anxiety in 30-90 sec—no meds, releases endorphins/dopamine/anandamide (bliss molecule). For autistic/ND adults battling sleep/rumination, parents seeking quick tools, or allies fostering calm, this live demo flips monkey mind to focus. Raj's mission: End 800M global insomnia epidemic w/ electromagnetism (life energy beyond oxygen). Timestamps:  0:00 - Intro: Raj's Curiosity Genesis  0:42 - School Boredom to Big Questions  4:09 - Monk Mode & Avatar Awakening  7:02 - 3:3 Demo: Nostril Check & Breathing  17:52 - Post-Demo: Heart Rate/Bliss Shift  20:43 - Science: Vagus/Theta Recoding  26:37 - Program for Lasting Habits  30:14 - Where to Find Raj (Site/Socials) Subscribe on Apple/Spotify for weekly neurodivergent adulting tools—rate/review if 3:3 sparked your calm! Resources/program in notes. Squad, share w/ a night-owl (tag 'em below—let's rest easy!). Merch: 'Dynamite' tees for focus nights (Linktree in notes). #AutisticInsomnia #33BreathingHack #NeurodivergentSleep #AdultingWithAutism #BTSNeurodivergent#PodMatch Struggling with autistic insomnia/mental chatter? Raj Khedun unpacks 3:3 Insomnia Hack: Childhood books (dinosaurs/planets) ignited quests (who are we? Why here? Post-death?), leading to India Avatar encounter at 18 (10-year monk mode: Metaphysics/yoga/philosophy/martial arts, relationship coaching for emotional/logical harmony). 3:3 (3 nasal inhales/3 mouth exhales w/ "zaha" throat sound) activates vagus/parasympathetic—live demo drops heart rate, quiets ADHD rumination, releases endorphins/dopamine/anandamide (Sanskrit bliss)—theta waves recode vrittis (past seeds) for sustainable calm. No box breathing boredom; rhythmical for neurodivergents. Mission: Solve 800M insomnia pandemic via Keep Fit Kingdom (1B to 100 happy years). For late-dx adults/parents/OTs tackling sleep/anxiety, Raj's electromagnetism (life energy) flips matrix distractions to purpose. From Adulting with Autism podcast: OT-aligned for ND focus, relationships, self-regulation. Links: Full Episode: Buzzsprout/Apple/Spotify (subscribe!) Raj's Site: keepfitkingdom.com (3:3 program, $97) 3:3 Page: 33insomniahack.com (testimonials/videos) Socials: @rajkhedun (IG/FB—DM coaching) Merch: Linktree in notes ('Dynamite' tees for calm reminders) Your reviews/shares amplify the squad—tag a chatter-battler! #AutisticADHDCalm #VagusNerveHack #NeurodivergentBliss #PodcastInsomnia #MentalHealthBreathing #UnmaskedFocus #ADHDMentalChatter #MonkModeWisdom #ResilienceSleep #EmpathySquad Support the show @adulting_autism adultingwithautism.podcast@outlook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a text Autistic recovery from trauma/loss? Andrew Drasen (A Vision of Hope trilogy author) shares his 90-day framework: From addiction/incarceration to purpose (journaling in jail dayroom, identity restoration, cognitive shifts, goal-action plans, legacy framing). Post-fiancée's suicide, he reframes setbacks as growth ("We go through what we're meant to become")—universal for stigma/burnout/reentry. For autistic young adults rebuilding identity, parents navigating obstacles, or allies fostering direction, this convo's your toolkit—no linear fixes, just momentum. Timestamps:  0:00 - Intro: Andrew's Jail-to-Journaling Pivot  0:58 - Writing as Processing Tool  3:43 - 90-Day Framework Steps (Identity to Legacy)  6:16 - Self-Talk & Stigma Reframe  8:51 - Setbacks as Universal Growth  11:09 - Community for Virtual Support  14:02 - Everyday Habits (Progress Logs)  16:38 - Writing Memoir Challenges  18:47 - Labels' Separating Power  20:35 - Growth Mindset Post-Incarceration  22:12 - True Recovery: Lifelong Process  23:53 - Where to Find Andrew (Books/Site) Subscribe on Apple/Spotify for weekly neurodivergent adulting tools—rate/review if framework sparked your step! Resources/trilogy in notes. Squad, share w/ a rebuilder (tag 'em below—let's grow together!). Merch: 'Dynamite' tees for purpose days (Linktree in notes). #AutisticRecovery #90DayFramework #NeurodivergentPurpose #AdultingWithAutism #BTSNeurodivergent #PodMatch Rebuilding after autistic trauma/stigma? Andrew Drasen unpacks 90-day framework from A Vision of Hope trilogy (memoir Reflections workbook): Jail-written (finished pre-release), post-addiction/incarceration/suicide loss—identity rediscovery (self-talk vs. societal labels), cognitive restructuring (examine thinking/proportions), goal-setting/action (dated plans boost success), legacy framing (impact/community). "Everyone has something to recover from" (addiction/grief/burnout)—habits like daily progress logs/journaling for momentum. Virtual Skool communities for aftercare/reentry (schools/justice/treatment pilots). For late-dx adults facing shame, parents addressing systemic gaps, or OTs guiding purpose, Andrew's "setbacks as setups" flips hope to belief. From Adulting with Autism podcast: Practical for ND transitions, reentry, self-discovery. Links: Full Episode: Buzzsprout/Apple/Spotify (subscribe!) Andrew's Site: avisionofhopebook.com (trilogy pre-order, virtual program) Socials: @andrewdrasen (IG/FB/LinkedIn—DM inquiries) Books: A Vision of Hope trilogy (Amazon/Barnes & Noble, Dec 2 release) Merch: Linktree in notes ('Dynamite' tees for growth reminders) Your reviews/shares amplify the squad—tag a purpose-seeker! #AutisticTraumaRecovery #NeurodivergentGrowth #90DayPurpose #PodcastReentry #MentalHealthIdentity #UnmaskedSetbacks #ADHDBurnout #VisionOfHope #ResilienceFramework #EmpathySquad mfish: Organize. Simplify. Win Eco-friendly, high-quality tech tool to simplify school, work and life Find Your Fierce This Fall: Empowerment Shop now to support the show and join the Alliance—find your new favorite at the link in show notes. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show @adulting_autism adultingwithautism.podcast@outlook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a text Autistic self-acceptance struggles? Martin Slyngstad (certified behavior specialist, Spire Autism founder, Chatterbox: My Life with Autism author) shares: Diagnosed at 5 amid bullying/misunderstandings, he channeled resilience into advocacy—training teachers/first responders (quiet rooms/stimming support after mistreatment news), global speaking (Dubai speech unlocked nonverbal kid's song), & Special Olympics/DJ passions. From writer's block to self-publishing (mother-son perspectives on transitions/hobbies), Martin's tips: Join ND Meetups for solo steps, use bullying as fuel, reach out over fighting back. For autistic young adults doubting voices, parents seeking supports, or allies building understanding, this convo's your toolkit—one voice creates change. Timestamps:  0:00 - Intro: Martin's Multi-Role Journey  1:45 - Autism Evolution: Kid Confusion to Adult Insight  3:26 - Bullying Resilience & Non-Fight Response  5:19 - Book Chatterbox: Mother-Son Raw Perspectives 8:22 - Spire Autism: Training from Personal Pain 13:15 - Solo Trips & ND Connections via Meetup 16:44 - Encouragement for Stuck/Undiagnosed 20:15 - Calming After Intense Trainings 22:42 - Business Expansion & Global Impact 27:56 - Poem "I Am": Warrior for Change 32:15 - Where to Find Martin (Socials/Site) Subscribe on Apple/Spotify for weekly neurodivergent adulting tools—rate/review if Martin's story sparked your step! Resources/book in notes. Squad, share w/ a doubter (tag 'em below—let's amplify voices!). Merch: 'Dynamite' tees for advocacy days (Linktree in notes). #AutisticSelfAcceptance #NeurodivergentAdvocacy #AdultingWithAutism #BTSNeurodivergent #PodMatch Feeling stuck in autistic self-doubt? Martin Slyngstad unpacks journey: Diagnosed at 5 w/ limited understanding, bullying/teachers' gaps fueled masking/resilience—now certified specialist/Spire Autism founder training educators/first responders (quiet rooms for overwhelm, stimming as focus, search water first for missing ND). Chatterbox: My Life with Autism (mother-son views on schooling/hobbies/writer's block to publishing) inspires post-18 navigation. Tips: Meetup apps for ND solo trips/connections, bullying as motivation (reach out, don't fight—avoids suspension), global impact (Dubai poem unlocked communication). For late-dx adults hiding authenticity, parents advocating transitions, or allies fostering acceptance, Martin's "I Am" warrior poem reminds: Small steps/one voice = bold change. From Adulting with Autism podcast: Practical OT-aligned for bullying recovery, self-advocacy, community building. Links: Full Episode: Buzzsprout/Apple/Spotify (subscribe!) Martin's Site: spireautism.com (trainings/blogs/book) Instagram: @martinsautismlife & @spireautism (DM tips) YouTube: @martinsautismjourney7397 (speeches/poems) Book: Chatterbox (Amazon) Merch: Linktree in notes ('Dynamite' tees for resilience reminders) Your reviews/shares amplify the squad—tag a voice-f mfish: Organize. Simplify. Win Eco-friendly, high-quality tech tool to simplify school, work and life Find Your Fierce This Fall: Empowerment Shop now to support the show and join the Alliance—find your new favorite at the link in show notes. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show @adulting_autism adultingwithautism.podcast@outlook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a text Autistic mobility challenges? Dan Metcalfe (Total Balance Company creator, 70K+ transformations) shares recovery hacks: From stage paralysis (Andrew Lloyd Webber show) & 2018 brain death to full healing, his 7 pillars (oxygen/breathing, hydration, sleep, nourish nutrition, fun exercise, believe mindset, big challenges) build brain-body neuroplasticity—safe play over gym fear for conditions like Parkinson's/stroke/TBI/MS. For autistic/ND adults wobbly in transitions, parents preventing falls (#1 senior killer), or OTs fostering independence, this convo's your toolkit—no limits, just pathways. Timestamps:  0:00 - Intro: Dan's Paralysis-to-Pathways Journey  1:57 - Balance from Brain, Not Just Body  5:59 - Total Balance System for Autism  9:19 - Pillar 1: Oxygen & Breathing Basics  11:27 - Pillar 2: Hydration's Brain Impact  14:14 - Pillar 3: Sleep for Recovery  16:58 - Pillar 4: Nourish Over Eat Mindset  19:33 - Pillar 5: Fun Exercise Neurochemicals  22:49 - Pillar 6: Believe Over Hope Action  25:54 - Pillar 7: Big Challenges for Growth  30:42 - Mom's 84-Year-Old Ballet Success  34:38 - Evidence-Based Balance Classes Subscribe on Apple/Spotify for weekly neurodivergent adulting tools—rate/review if pillars sparked your step! Resources/books in notes. Squad, share w/ a wobbler (tag 'em below—let's steady up!). Merch: 'Dynamite' tees for balance days (Linktree in notes). #AutisticBalance #NeurodivergentMobility #7PillarsHealth #AdultingWithAutism #BTSNeurodivergent #PodMatch Struggling with autistic balance/mobility? Dan Metcalfe unpacks neuroplasticity for recovery: Paralyzed on stage (spine fracture), brain death crash—he rebuilt via brain-body focus (not muscles alone). 7 pillars: 1. Oxygen (deep breaths vs. shallow stress); 2. Hydration (75% dehydrated adults—brain uses 25% water/O2); 3. Sleep (detox/inflammation fight); 4. Nutrition ("nourish" mindset flips cravings); 5. Exercise (fun/dance releases serotonin/BDNF > gym); 6. Mindset ("believe" = action, hope = wait); 7. Challenges (Derby dreams inspire steps—MLK: Measure in trials). Total Balance System (rocking board/300 exercises) for safe play—Orange Grove autism success. From Adulting with Autism podcast: OT-aligned for ND transitions, falls prevention, independence. Tools for young adults/parents/OTs. Links: Full Episode: Buzzsprout/Apple/Spotify (subscribe!) Dan's Site: totalbalancecompany.com (free YouTube/classes/books) Instagram: @danmetcalfeofficial (DM for tips) Books: Get Your Balance Back & Born SuperHuman (Amazon) Merch: Linktree in notes ('Dynamite' tees for mobility motivation) Substack: N/A (focus on IG/FB for shares) Your reviews/shares amplify the squad—tag a balance-builder! #AutisticNeuroplasticity #BalanceTrainingAutism #Neurodivergent7Pillars #PodcastMobility #MentalHealthRecovery #UnmaskedBalance #ADHFallsPrevention #TraumaHealingAutism #ResilienceTools #EmpathySquad mfish: Organize. Simplify. Win Eco-friendly, high-quality tech tool to simplify school, work and life Find Your Fierce This Fall: Empowerment Shop now to support the show and join the Alliance—find your new favorite at the link in show notes. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show @adulting_autism adultingwithautism.podcast@outlook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a text Autistic self-love struggles? Jackie Elliott (certified life/relationship/spiritual coach, author A Silent Bully: A Journey From Abusive Brain Chatter to Self-Love) shares her pivot from overworked single mom & binge eating to thriving entrepreneur. From "abusive brain chatter" (shame spirals from trauma/core beliefs) to ABC tools (aware, believe, challenge), raw insights on boundaries (bowling-lane metaphor: Stay in your lane!), intuition vs. anxiety (body dialogues, dear God journaling), & compassionate communication (donut method: Appreciate + need + ask). For autistic/ADHD adults masking or people-pleasing, parents guiding, or OTs fostering resilience, this convo's your toolkit—no perfection, just gentle shifts to authentic fulfillment. Timestamps:  0:00 - Intro: Jackie's Journey from Trauma to Transformation  2:48 - Abusive Brain Chatter & Food Addiction Roots  8:05 - Boundaries in Relationships (Lane Metaphor)  13:19 - Communication Blocks & Compassionate Tools  18:09 - Toxic Dynamics: Journaling for Clarity  25:47 - Intuition Trust: Body Dialogues & Spiritual Coaching  32:51 - Book A Silent Bully & Empowerment Retreats 38:03 - Where to Find Jackie (HealingABC.com) Smash subscribe on Apple/Spotify for weekly neurodivergent adulting hacks—rate/review if it sparked your self-love shift! Full resources/book pre-order in show notes. Squad, share w/ a friend battling inner critics (tag 'em below—let's uplift!). Check merch: 'Dynamite' tees for those boundary-setting days (Linktree in notes). #AutisticSelfLove #AbusiveBrainChatter #NeurodivergentBoundaries #AdultingWithAutism #BTSNeurodivergent #PodMatch Stuck in autistic self-doubt? Jackie Elliott unpacks "abusive brain chatter" (trauma-fueled inner critic leading to addictions like binge eating)—her 31-year journey from emotional abuse/shame to self-love via ABC method (aware of chatter, believe kinder truths, challenge core beliefs). Highlights: People-pleasing pitfalls (acceptance as friendship key), toxic relationships (journal signs to escape gaslighting/isolation), intuition building (quiet tornado head w/ present-moment clicks, body feels for anxiety vs. gut), compassionate comms (donut: Appreciate + need + ask for buy-in). As life/relationship/spiritual coach, Jackie's retreats (meditation/dance/cacao) & book A Silent Bully (memoir/workbook) empower neurodivergents (autism/ADHD overlaps) to silence bullies, set lanes (boundaries), & trust inner wisdom. From Adulting with Autism podcast: Practical OT-aligned tools for adult transitions, masking recovery, & fulfillment. Links: Full Episode: Buzzsprout/Apple/Spotify (subscribe!) Jackie's Site: healingabc.com (book pre-order, meditations, coaching) Instagram: @jackieelliottclc (tips/videos) Merch: Linktree in notes ('Dynamite' tees for self-love reminders) Substack: jackieelliottclc mfish: Organize. Simplify. Win Eco-friendly, high-quality tech tool to simplify school, work and life Find Your Fierce This Fall: Empowerment Shop now to support the show and join the Alliance—find your new favorite at the link in show notes. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show @adulting_autism adultingwithautism.podcast@outlook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.