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Author: Shena Lashey

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Black Girls Heal helps women break out of cycles of unhealthy relationships with unavailable partners and feeling not enough by combining coaching, therapeutic support, and practical tools.

Every episode, we will talk about intimacy, attachment, healing unresolved trauma, and growing in our self worth.
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In this episode, Shena discussed emotional anchors and how to connect to your highest level version of yourself as an emotional resource.Work With UsThe Recovery School CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal TikTok: @blackgirlsheal Facebook: Black Girls Heal Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, Shena discusses what does it look like to withhold love as a punishment, the consequences of it, and encouragement to move towards love availability.Work With UsThe Recovery SchoolNo Contact & Detox Support KitCONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal TikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls Heal Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, Shena talks about the reality of situationships without commitment and the importance to be clear and honest with yourself about what you want.Work With UsThe Recovery SchoolNo Contact & Detox Support KitCONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal TikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls Heal Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, Shena answers two questions from listeners about coping with being ghosted and coparenting when in love with an ex partner.Work With UsThe Recovery SchoolNo Contact & Detox Support KitCONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal TikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls Heal Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode I open up about my journey living with a chronic illness and share encouragements in hope that it supports those with a similar experience MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODEClick here to enroll in The Recovery SchoolCONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.org Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Sometimes our friendships may be giving signs that we have outgrown them and they may be a bit toxic for us. In today's episode, we will review signs of an expired friendship that may need to be retired.Mentioned in this Episode: Healing Fear & Distrust WorkshopRelationship Goal Setting WorkshopThe Recovery SchoolCONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal TikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls Heal Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Todays episode is a re-share of an old episode. It is totally okay for you if the holidays are important for you in a relationship. You deserve to feel special.This episode is in support of women who may have felt overlooked and forgotten by partners on special holidays like Valentine's Day, Birthdays, Anniversaries, and others habitually.MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODEClick here to enroll in The Recovery SchoolCONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, we're going to look at the difference between Secure Love vs Love Bombing vs Caretaking in the 5 love languages.This topic is in promotion of our upcoming Healing Intensive Workshop on Saturday, February 18, 2023 from 10am to 1pm CST about "Healing Fear & Distrust towards Healthy Men"Click here to registerWORK WITH USThe Recovery SchoolNo Contact & Detox Support KitCONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal TikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls Heal Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, we follow up on our No Contact Process shared in Episode #160 to discuss the reasons why your no contact may not be working.Work With UsThe Recovery SchoolNo Contact & Detox Support KitCONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal TikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls Heal Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode we are talking about making the right decision for yourself even when it goes against your internal fears & what you have always done before and how to make that move towards yourself and what you actually want Join the Recovery School: TheRecoveryschool.comCONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Todays episode is part of a womb work and healing series starting with the topic of the pelvic floor with one of my favourite Pelvic Physical Therapist Dr. Alicia Jefferey. We are covering the misconceptions of is area of our health, how to start getting more connected with our bodies and where to find the right supportCONNECT WITH OUR GUESTInstagram - Alicia JeffreyCONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, Shena provides some aftercare support for Ep. 172 that talked about dealing with betrayal trauma for a partner who is struggling with Sex and Porn addiction.Shena talks about letting go of shame, moving towards self forgiveness, and loving yourself first.Join the Recovery School: TheRecoveryschool.comCONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Today's episode is about dealing with betrayal trauma when you're with a sex addicted partner. Also, how you can get the support as a sex addict and what healing can look like for both partiesLet's Work TogetherClick here to join The Recovery SchoolCONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this bonus episode, I talk about all the ways to work with me as your coach. I review both direct & indirect ways I offer support.Direct Support Options:The Recovery SchoolThe Heal(h)er MastermindPrivate CoachingIndirect Support OptionsSelf Paced CoursesMasterclass WorkshopsHealing Circle WorkbooksPending for 2023The Healed & Loved Woman RetreatAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
This in this episode I’m going to be talking about how to go from love Deprivation to Love Worthiness while I walk you through the stages that you can expect on this journeyLet's Work TogetherClick here to join The Recovery SchoolCONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, Michelle Goodloe joins us to talk about what is self love and how to drop the superwoman cape to feel our feelings.CONNECT WITH OUR GUESTPurchase "I Own My Magic"GMichelle.comFollow on InstagramCONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal TikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls Heal Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Sadness is hitting many super heavy this season. In this episode, I talk about some trends I've noticed with this season of sadness.Let's Work TogetherClick here to join The Recovery SchoolCONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal TikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls Heal Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
#168: Take Your Time

#168: Take Your Time

2022-12-2124:13

This week I am re-sharing one of our most loved episodes all about the importance of taking our time in our healing process.MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODEClick here to enroll in The Recovery SchoolCONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In your relationship, if a partner is humilating you, that is a red flag to pay attention to. Let's talk about what it looks like and why we may miss it in today's episode.MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODEClick here to enroll in The Recovery SchoolDISCOUNT CODE: BIRTHDAY (expires 12/16/22)CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, Shena talks about what it looks like when the person who's used to having all the answer falls short practices self acceptance and learns to live in her bliss.NEXT STEPS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODEHappy Birthday, Shena! Click here to celebrate Shena's Birthday!Click here to join the Heal(h)er Business MastermindClick here to join The Recovery SchoolDISCOUNT CODE: BIRTHDAYExpires on 12/16/22CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal TikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls Heal Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Torah S

So good, and applies to Father Wounds as well. Please do Father Wounds please lol

Jun 5th
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Torah S

Yes for this can we discuss healing Father wounds too...

Jun 5th
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Jessimmy K

Jan 8th
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Legacy Jones

omg I sooo needed to hear this session. today was my first time finding this podcast and I'm hooked already. my eyes welled up with water the whole time I was listening to you all because all that your speaking of is so me!!!! I can't wait to listen to more of your content...

Sep 7th
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Miss T

TY TY This was a very helpful to hear that it is easy to take on other people trauma and narratives. Toast:)....To Happy and Healthy Boundaries and Dating. Namaste 🐬 Peace 💃Shalom 🐒

Dec 18th
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Sherronda Davis

wow this was just for me in this moment. wish we could talk

Oct 4th
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Christina Pye

I just listened to this. and it's so funny that I had a situation happen recently, and then listening to this, brought everything into perspective. It was extremely helpful, and my truth.

Sep 30th
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Shon B

YAS!!!!!! This was so good!! Great info!!

Aug 5th
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Katherine Muraguri

Amazing podcast. Honest, compassionate, challenging and meets you right where you are.

Nov 4th
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Melanin Monroe

I am new to this podcast and I'm so grateful I found it! this podcast is amazing... so thoughtful.... so wonderful.... so insightful.... thank you for helping this Black Girl Heal ❤️

Jul 27th
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Moni B. Purple

The truth hurts, but it will help to grow, change and heal ourselves. Thanks for keeping it real.

Mar 26th
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