CockTales: Dirty Discussions

In this heartfelt and hilarious episode, Kiki and Medinah are back in their original studio space catching up on life—both the beautiful and the hard parts. Kiki opens up about the recent passing of her grandfather, sharing intimate, funny, and touching memories that remind us how fleeting life can be. Medinah reflects on her trip to Pittsburgh for Mother's Day and the emotional rollercoaster of spending time with her grandmother, who’s battling dementia. The duo also dives into a trending quote from Marlon Wayans about not marrying because of his mom—and unpack the emotional and generational dynamics around “emotional incest,” legacy, and mother-in-law drama. Plus, why some old-school family values still matter, why fried catfish can cure anything (sorta), and a very necessary PSA on checking in on our elders.🛒 Sponsors:Sign up for free and take your sales to the next level with 50% off a premium membership for sellers! Claim your discount now at pantydeal.com/cocktales📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandeanFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper2https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club: May Book of the Month "Colliding With Fate" by A.E. Valdez www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.comPurchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Main Theme: Love, Loss, Legacy & Emotional BoundariesTopics Covered:Returning to their OG studio and why the change of scenery mattersKiki opens up about her grandfather's death and grieving in real timeMedinah shares stories from her emotional Mother’s Day trip to PittsburghNavigating dementia, caretaking, and the humor and heartbreak of family agingMeals on Wheels and the importance of community-based support for seniorsReactions to Marlon Wayans’ post about not marrying to protect his mom’s feelingsDeep dive into emotional incest, in-law boundaries, and generational shifts in family dynamicsNaomi & Ruth as a model for in-law relationshipsLegacy as impact—not just having kidsA peek into Medinah’s “Silver Tooth Children” horror movie concept (yes, really)Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re breaking rules and wind 😅 Kiki and Medinah return to catch up on everything from bizarre fetishes to considering if they might be the toxic one in their love life. Tune in as they unpack Dutch ovens (the kinky kind), gym struggles, cravings, the “What Are We” pressure, and why intimacy without connection just isn’t hitting anymore.🛒 Sponsors: 💊 Try LifeRX for weight loss, hormones, energy and more — use code COCKTALES for $50 off your first month: Try LifeRX by clicking here and use code CocktalesTry Soaking Wet from VBHealth - Use our code for a special discount! www.soakingwet.com USE CODE COCKTALES If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALESand use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandeanFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper2https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club: May Book of the Month "Colliding With Fate" by A.E. Valdez www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.comPurchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!⏱️ Timestamps: 0:00 – Welcome Back + Trip Updates 4:00 – Weird Sex Segment: Dutch Oven Gone Wrong 10:30 – Cravings, Workouts & Wellness Woes 17:00 – Kiki’s LifeRX Journey Begins 23:00 – Are YOU the Problem in Your Dating Life? 44:00 – Changing Relationship Rules 55:00 – Sex, Confusion, and Sitting with Feelings 1:03:00 – Emotional Honesty & Hormone Drama 1:10:00 – When Friends Overstep 1:20:00 – Kindness, Boundaries, and Grown Woman ChoicesBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

(00:00:00) Intro Trailer (00:01:14) Turks & Coco Cocktail (00:03:08) Welcome Back (00:06:33) Worst Behavior Tour (00:07:15) Paradise + Vibe Trip (00:11:34) Weird Sex (00:17:03) Brooklyn Bedding Promo (00:22:40) Where Have We Been? (00:56:14) PantyDeal Promo (00:59:10) Girls Trip + Marriage Thoughts (01:08:19) Advice Segment (01:18:12) CockTales Segment Kiki and Medinah are back after a much-needed break and have a lot to catch up on—from barefoot birthday parties in Piedmont Park to wild moments in Curaçao, Chicago, and the club. Kiki shares updates on hosting a TV premiere, her sister’s wedding plans, and a scandalous Shannon Sharpe moment that made its way to “Weird Sex.” Plus, Medinah opens up about her baptism, and the ladies give advice on awkward mama moments and how to level up your Gawk Gawk game.🛏️ Brooklyn Bedding – Get 30% off sitewide with code COCKTALES at brooklynbedding.com💋 PantyDeal – Sign up for free and take your sales to the next level with 50% off a premium membership for sellers! Claim your discount now at pantydeal.com/cocktales.”For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads📲 Instagram: @cocktalespodcast | @kikisaidso | @coffeebeandeanDetailed Show NotesTopics Covered:Taking a much-needed break and grounding at Piedmont Park 🌱Travel recaps: Curaçao group trip, Chicago speaking engagement, and sister’s wedding prep in DallasHosting the Travel Queens TV premiere for BET HerMedinah’s baptism and emotional growthKiki on caregiving and advocating for Black men’s healthShannon Sharpe's scandal and a “Weird Sex” take on race play and discernment 🤨Listener advice: When your man tells your mama y’all exclusive (but forgot to tell you)A gym crush turns into a kinky 8AM hookup (Barbells & Bondage anyone?)Sponsors: Brooklyn Bedding 🛏️ + PantyDeal 💸Contact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Currently voting on May's BookTravel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

In this special episode, Kiki and Medinah sit down with AID Atlanta to talk all things HIV awareness, testing, and community care. From prevention to treatment to removing the stigma, this episode is packed with information every sexually active adult needs to hear. Follow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow AID Atlanta @aid_atlantaEpisode Subtitle:Real Talk on HIV, Sex, and Self-Advocacy with AID Atlanta Topics Covered:The difference between HIV and AIDSHow transmission actually happens (spoiler: it's not just through sex)The life-changing impact of PrEP and PEPWhat it means to be undetectable and why U=U mattersBreaking down stigma and misconceptions (especially in Black and brown communities)Resources available at AID Atlanta — from testing and mental health services to support groups and volunteer opportunitiesWhy getting tested regularly should be part of your self-care routineHow community, support, and education can empower people living with HIVA candid sponsor break on Pantydeal — a sex-positive, anonymous, and safe way to make money online while exploring kinksResources & Links:🌐 AID Atlanta Website: aidatlanta.org💬 Georgia HIV/STI Info Line: 1-800-551-2728 (anonymous)📍Free Testing Info: aidatlanta.org/testing📸 Follow AID Atlanta on IG: @aid_atlanta❤️ Support or Volunteer: aidatlanta.org/volunteerSign up for free and take your sales to the next level with 50% off a premium membership for sellers! Claim your discount now at pantydeal.com/cocktales💻 Pantydeal.com/cocktales🎁 Use code COCKTALES to get 50% off a premium membership✅ Keep 100% of your profit | Totally online | Anonymous-friendlyFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso In April we're reading "The Personal Librarian"Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week, we’re shaking things up with The Affair — the cocktail, not your situationship (but if the shoe fits…). We’re joined by the fabulous matchmaker and intimacy expert Tana C. Gilmore, and let’s just say: she’s spilling all the tea on sexless marriages, spicy matchmaking secrets, and why living in separate states from your husband might just save your marriage and your sanity. We’re talking grown folks business — from side-eyes over the group chat to couples who haven’t had sex in 12 years (girl, yes, 12!). Tune in for laughs, lessons, and a reminder to charge your vibrator AND your emotional batteries.Follow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow our guest @tanacgilmoreRight now, Galatea is offering our listeners an extra 25% off on top of analready-irresistibly-affordable subscription when you go to www.GALATEA.COM/COCKTALES.If you’re 21+, try VIIA during their annual SPRING 420 SALE for Black Friday-level savings up to 35% OFF site wide! Go to https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES!Check out ErikaLust.com and get 45% off your subscription with code COCKTALES45 www.erikalust.comFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso In April we're reading "The Personal Librarian"Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

In this hilarious and unfiltered episode, Kiki and Medinah sit down with comedian Tee Sanders for a juicy conversation full of laughs, confessions, and a few wild surprises. Tee opens up about her healing journey back to Chicago, her love life as a self-proclaimed "collector of wounds" Gemini, and what really goes down in lesbian dating scenes. From crazy ex stories to high standards for 90s-fine women, they cover it all—including the truth about fake straight girls, air mattress hookups, and the seductive power of R&B playlists. Plus, the ladies play their favorite game I'm Curious to Know, and Tee drops gems about embracing vulnerability and healing past traumas. Pour up a Peach Please and get ready for a good time!Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Follow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow our guest @teesanderscomedyFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week on CockTales it's just us! We're catching up on life!Try VIIA! https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES!Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepodControl Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepodJoin Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Follow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah welcome podcast queen Lex P from Pour Minds to sip the “Love Lexpie” and spill all the tea! From Lex P's new YouTube show to her love for entertainment news, the trio keeps it cute and candid. They dive into Love is Blind drama, Real Housewives mess, the power of platform-sharing, and laugh-out-loud confessions during “I’m Curious to Know.” This episode is a hilarious ride filled with gossip, game, and good vibes.Try Masterclass www.masterclass.com/cocktales for 15%offtry Galatea www.galatea.com/cocktalesControl Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepodJoin Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Follow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week, we get real about our 2025 glow-up plans — from fitness and fillers to spiritual sabbaticals and stepping back from dating. We talk walking pads, ClassPass adventures, and the fine art of subtle cosmetic upgrades. Plus, we read a wild cocktale submission featuring nipple clamps, butt plugs, and a short king with a long stroke. Tap in for the laughs, the real talk, and the cherry-flavored vibes.Try Masterclass www.masterclass.com/cocktales for 15%offControl Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepodJoin Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Follow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Remember that time when seasickness almost ruined a yacht trip, but you ended up laughing so hard that it became one of your favorite memories? That's how we kick off our latest adventure, as we navigate the vibrant chaos of planning a tropical getaway. We've got everything mapped out, from the bliss of homemade peach cocktails that taste like summer romance to the thrill of exploring new places on ATVs and e-scooters. And let's not forget those culinary experiences, where a Caribbean cooking class awaits, catering to all dietary preferences. Whether you're a thrill-seeker or a foodie, there's enough excitement and relaxation to keep everyone entertained.As the conversation unfolds, we switch gears to discuss the more intimate side of relationships. Inspired by nostalgic hits from Lisa Lisa and Cult Jam, we explore how confidence can transform your love life. We draw insights from Shan Boodram and even share quirky tips on using jewelry to amplify sensual moments. It's all about quality over quantity, and we touch on how different body types can experiment for ultimate satisfaction. This naturally leads to a chat about relationship dynamics, where we dissect the complexities of a 50-50 split and how it evolves as we mature. Whether you're curious about poly matchmaking or just how to balance time and energy in your relationship, there's something here for every listener.Finally, we dive into the whirlwind of upcoming adventures and personal journeys. From fitness challenges that have us reminiscing about youthful vigor to the liberating atmosphere of Hedonism Resort, it's a mix of inspiration and anticipation. Wedding planning woes make an appearance, too, as we tackle guest etiquette and cultural nuances with humor and sincerity. Whether it’s managing the chaos of a Nigerian American wedding or finding a trustworthy pet sitter, we share practical insights to help you navigate these life events with grace. Tune in and join us for a blend of laughter, advice, and heartfelt stories that promise to entertain and enlighten.Download Feeld on the App Store or Google PlayTry VIIA! https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES!Try Masterclass www.masterclass.com/cocktales for 15%offJoin Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Follow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week, we're joined by Relationship Coach Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson. Dr. Stacii opens up about her transition from actress to host of "Put a Ring on It," sharing fascinating anecdotes from her acting days, including roles in "A Thin Line Between Love and Hate" and "How to Be a Player." Get a front-row seat to her personal family stories, where she reveals how her mother's heartbreaking experiences with love shaped her dedication to helping others break free from destructive relationship cycles.In this episode, we tackle the challenging task of breaking generational love patterns and the importance of self-awareness. Through engaging discussions and humorous tales, we explore everything from the humorous pitfalls of dating dynamics to the complexities of gender roles and financial expectations. Whether it's navigating the minefields of gift-giving or setting boundaries in relationships, we offer insights and laughter that resonate with anyone who has ever loved or lost.Finally, we dive into topics often left unexplored, such as ethical considerations in adult content and the emotional rollercoaster of wedding planning. Dr. Stacii shares her thoughts on building trust and authenticity in modern relationships, emphasizing the power of self-reflection and personal growth. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation that promises to enlighten, entertain, and inspire anyone on their own journey of love and self-discovery.Download Feeld on the App Store or Google PlayVisit www.erikalust.com and use code COCKTALES45 for 45% offVisit www.galatea.com/cocktales and use code COCKTALES for 25% off Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google playFollow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow Our guest@justdategirlFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Can technology truly transform the way we navigate modern relationships? This week we're calling on the help of ChatGPT with some different dilemmas, have you tried this?Try Masterclass! Use our link for 15% off any annual membership.  www.masterclass.com/cocktalesDownload Feeld on the App Store or Google PlayJoin Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google playFollow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow Our guest@bossbarbie1https://www.sierraluchien.com/For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week we're joined by Sierra Luchien. She shares her transformative story and insights from her book, "Don't Judge a Book by Its Cover." We kick off with a Judge Judy cocktail and dive into judgmental attitudes in dating, setting the stage for a blend of nostalgia and revelation. Boss Barbie takes us on a journey through her childhood, the significance of her name, and the transitions from youthful aspirations to navigating the intricate dynamics of trust and change in adult relationships. Alongside her, Ciara's incredible path from foster care to becoming an advocate for foster children enriches our discussion about the strength and resilience found in life's challenges.Explore the emotional layers of love and partnership through stories of resilience, intimate connections, and the healing power of community. We touch on moments of personal growth and the hurdles of balancing individual healing within committed relationships. Anecdotes of support during challenging times, whether through emotional presence or navigating health crises, highlight the multifaceted nature of love. Discover how Boss Barbie and Ciara turn adversity into empowerment, with Ciara opening foster homes to create nurturing environments for children, inspired by her own journey of finding solace and love in unexpected places.The narrative continues as we discuss the rollercoaster of co-parenting, the emotional intricacies of past relationships, and the significance of trust in partnerships. Personal stories of persistence and self-discovery underscore the importance of finding one's path amidst life's chaos. From navigating complex family dynamics to seeking stability in uncertain times, our conversations emphasize the value of honest communication and fostering hope. Tune in for a heartfelt exploration of personal transformations, the power of shared stories, and the lasting impact of building supportive communities.Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google playFollow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow Our guest@bossbarbie1https://www.sierraluchien.com/For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

What if embracing your sexual desires could transform your life? Join us as we welcome Sir Leezus, a renowned kink expert with over 20 years of experience, who shares his journey of becoming a personal kink advisor, particularly for women seeking to rediscover their sensuality in their late 30s and 40s. Through enlightening anecdotes, Sir Leezus explains how normalizing conversations about kink can liberate individuals from the shackles of societal judgment and unsupportive relationships, encouraging them to explore their true sexual identities in a safe and validating space.Unravel the fascinating dynamics of lifestyle parties and alternative sexual expressions, as Sir Lisa's transports us to genderless gatherings where conventional norms are left at the door. With a candid look at personal preferences, from erotic content creation to BDSM, our discussion explores the art of shibari, the allure of extreme squirt porn, and the societal perceptions surrounding sex toys. Together, we highlight the beauty of communication and compatibility in intimate relationships, emphasizing the importance of meeting partners where they are, understanding boundaries, and celebrating the diversity of human sexual experiences with humor and openness.Finally, embrace the provocative world of foot worship, double penetration tips, and the art of erotic power exchange. Learn how confidence and energy can elevate sensual encounters, with Sir Lisa's providing insights on navigating kinks, setting boundaries, and maintaining professionalism in the sex industry. From the sensory delights of impact play to the nuances of BDSM, our conversation offers a bold exploration of intimacy, inviting listeners to challenge their preconceptions and explore new and adventurous expressions of desire.Lume DeodorantControl Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at Lumedeodorant.com ! #lumepod VIIATry VIIA! https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! Check Us OutJoin Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Ever wonder what it's like to veer from a strict diet and discover the crispy joy of bacon for the first time? Join us as we navigate the colorful world of Costa Rican culture and the unexpected delights it holds. Medinah Monroe returns from a transformative Costa Rican sabbatical, sharing her hot yoga retreat adventures with Paradise and Vibe amidst lush landscapes and vibrant wildlife. From savoring bacon to forming powerful connections, Medina's stories are filled with laughter and insight, highlighting the magic of personal growth when surrounded by nature's beauty.As the excitement of engagements and weddings fills the air, we revel in the humorous chaos of secret proposals and viral moments. Our conversations are peppered with stories of extravagant celebrations, like a legendary Galentine's Day party, where themed pajamas and a chef-prepared menu set the stage for unforgettable memories. Whether sharing a laugh over a walking pad mishap or spotting celebrities at the nail salon, the importance of staying connected and celebrating all forms of love remains a central theme.The episode also takes us on thrilling journeys of personal and professional growth. From reminiscing about Costa Rican surfing lessons to planning an upcoming retreat with surprise gifts, the anticipation is palpable as we embrace new adventures and connections. A venture into the world of celebrity interviews unveils the complexities of authenticity and content creation. Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.comFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Cravehttps://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- January's Book- The Arrangement https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.comWhat's Your Attachment Style Home? Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week Dr. Jameeka Banks captivates us with her incredible story of transformation from incarceration to becoming a beacon of hope and inspiration for many. Her journey reveals the profound impact of the law of attraction and self-care, all while maintaining a strong relationship with God. In our conversation, she emphasizes recognizing relationship red flags and challenges the notion of excusing poor character under the guise of grace.Together, we get into the joys of embracing personal growth, living life to the fullest, and the importance of self-awareness in breaking free from toxic patterns. Jameeka shares her career journey which has been fueled by her desire to break stereotypes and achieve her childhood dreams.As we toast to ambition and meaningful relationships, we highlight the power of connecting with other women and following one’s dreams despite societal constraints. Our discussion flows through intriguing explorations of relationships and gender roles, sprinkled with humor and candid insights into the irrationality of obsessive behaviors and unexpected places for expressing affection.We also discuss the vital role of self-reflection and setting boundaries in maintaining healthy relationships. Whether navigating the complexities of polyamorous relationships or reflecting on the impact of a challenging childhood, we emphasize the importance of effective communication, self-love, and forgiveness. Through laughter and heartfelt moments, and with a little cocktail, or a big one,  we invite listeners to recognize and heal toxic patterns, prioritize self-awareness, and ultimately transform adversity into positive change.Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.comThis week's cocktail recipe: The Working Woman Ingredients:Ice, cognac, lemon juice, simple syrup, bitters, sparkling wine, lemon peelInstructions:In a cocktail shaker add the ice, cognac, lemon juice, bitters & simple syrup. Secure the lid and shake vigorously until the outside of the shaker is frosty and cold. Strain the cocktail into a coupe glass and finish with the sparkling wine and lemon peel. Serve.For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Cravehttps://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- January's Book- The Arrangement https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Get ready for a cocktail of wit, wisdom, and whimsical fantasies as we welcome the insightful Ibbie, a seasoned dating coach and licensed therapist, who takes us from her bartending days to mastering the complexities of modern romance. Our episode kicks off with the "Situationship" cocktail, perfect for exploring the intricate dance of love languages and relationship choices. From the eternal question of choosing between wealth and availability to navigating hair styling dilemmas for an exciting Curacao trip, we promise a rollercoaster of engaging discussions and personal anecdotes.The fun doesn't stop there! You might find yourself laughing out loud as we uncover quirky sexual fantasies involving unlikely icons like Dr. Phil and Steve Harvey, alongside a nostalgic nod to the legendary talk shows of yesteryear. We also dive into the world of attachment styles, blending humor with heartfelt stories about the nuances of relationships. Whether it’s through the eyes of a ‘runaway bride’ or a discussion on childhood experiences shaping our adult connections, we offer both laughter and insight.As we wind down, we address the poignant challenges of grief in relationships, offering advice to listeners who might be supporting a partner through tough times. Through candid anecdotes, we highlight the importance of patience and understanding in these delicate moments. Our exploration of dating, self-awareness, and the balance of delusion will leave you pondering the intricacies of love and connection. With Ibi's expert insights and our relatable stories, this episode promises a tapestry of humor, heartfelt exploration, and plenty of food for thought.Interested in being a guest?  Please contact addie@cocktalespod.com and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links!Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.comFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Cravehttps://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- January's Book- The Arrangement https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES!Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at Lumepodcast.com/COCKTALES! #lumepodFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Cravehttps://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This episode isn't just about new year resolutions; it's about celebrating small victories and the courage to face life's unexpected challenges. We highlight how overcoming fear and embracing change can lead to profound personal growth. Weird sex heads to the VA with a scandalous tale from a VA facility, reminding us all to "SAY NO TO COWORKERS!" The teachings from the Women Evolve conference and insights from Abraham Hicks offer valuable perspectives on spiritual growth, relationships, and the power of self-awareness for Medinah.  For Kiki, looking forward to all the new opportunities that she can't wait to announce and her sex drive has finally come back.  Listen to the full episode to get an OG CockTale...it's been 84 years lol!We also tackle the emotional complexities of relationships, particularly understanding and appreciating men's emotional needs. Navigating the intricacies of dating someone with children, we emphasize the importance of setting boundaries and recognizing personal limits. With a blend of humor and authenticity, we share stories of personal misadventures, from high love gummies to unexpected romantic encounters. As we move forward into the new year, we encourage our listeners to embrace personal evolution with optimism and gratitude, always supporting loved ones through life's unpredictable moments.Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% offFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Cravehttps://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Koereylle from the "Girl Stop Playing" podcast stops by to share her inspiring journey from a workaholic mindset to one of personal growth and fulfillment. We dive into her transition from the "Confessions of a Workaholic" podcast and how her past venture, the Single Wives Club, led her to her husband and a happier marriage. Koereylle offers valuable insights into balancing career ambitions with personal goals, and we explore how meaningful conversations can be sparked using a fun game called "I'm Curious to Know."Get ready for some festive cheer as we whip up a Snow Globe Margarita that dazzles both in taste and presentation. Perfect for the holiday season, this cocktail combines white cranberry juice, lime juice, tequila, and a sprinkle of edible glitter, served whimsically in a clear, fillable ornament. For those who prefer a booze-free version, sparkling water does the trick. The addition of a rosemary sprig brings a festive nod to Christmas trees, ensuring your holiday gatherings are both merry and bright.We navigate a multitude of relationship dynamics, from traditional gender roles and the etiquette of texting exes during the holidays, to the art of regifting and the complexities of non-committed relationships. Listen in for lively discussions on everything from the ethics of re-gifting to the spicy tales of holiday party escapades. The episode wraps up with a heartwarming engagement story set against the early pandemic's backdrop, illustrating love's resilience and creativity. Whether you're here for the cocktails or the candid chats, there's something to engage everyone.Follow Us!@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow Our Guest@koereyelleJoin Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.comFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Cravehttps://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.