Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

Let’s talk about… the internet turning on MJ Gray, a Wizard Liz plot twist, and how my car accident turned into the most LA interaction ever.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let's talk about... the Alex-on-Alix drama continues. We’ve got Alix Earle responding, Alex Cooper backtracking and deleting her TikTok, and Brianna Chickenfry entering the chat. From mean girl claims to fans switching up to Matt Kaplan almost dated who???Yeah… you’re gonna want to sit down for this. Take a second... take it in.....Catch part 1 here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/daddy-issues-with-violet-benson/id1459685850?i=1000761252936See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You are not too much. You are not hard to love. You are not asking for too much.This episode is for the girls who are done chasing, done overthinking, and done ending up with the same man in a different body. Violet gets into feminine energy, what it actually means, why so many women slip into their masculine energy without even realizing it, and how that starts showing up in dating. She talks self-worth, standards, intuition, softness, confidence, and knowing when to walk away. If you’re ready to stop forcing what is not flowing and start moving like the prize, this one is for you.Get more content on: • @violetbenson on Instagram • @daddyissues_ on Instagram • YouTubeThanks to our sponsors:Nutrafol: Receive $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit Nutrafol.com and enter promo code DADDYISSUES.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let's talk about... Alex Cooper and Alix Earle drama and why we are team Alix based on receipts. Let's also talk about Coachella how much it's changed over the years. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Read it and weep, besties, because Patti is not here to sugarcoat a single thing. Stop wasting your time on a boy who only wants you around to boost his ego, fill his schedule, and keep you on standby while he figures himself out. Boys will breadcrumb you, mind game you, and keep you confused. Men make it clear. And we are done accepting less.Today, Patti Stanger returns to the show to talk about how to stop being a placeholder, raise your standards, and actually recognize the difference between a man and a boy. Patti and Violet get into why women give too much too soon, how bad relationship patterns start in childhood, why men know much earlier than they admit, and how to tell when you’re being strung along. They also break down love bombing, gaslighting, red flags, ultimatums, dating with self-respect, and why waiting around is the fastest way to waste your own life.If you’ve ever questioned someone’s intentions, stayed too long, or confused chemistry with commitment, this one is your wake-up call.What to Listen For:07:40 Why do we pick who we pick? 09:20 If you give a man too much of anything 13:43 Dating a boy versus a man 17:53 You want to know what their intentions are 22:37 If you allow yourself to be used 25:25 Is giving an ultimatum a good idea? 29:00 You get the ring when you have self respect 32:08 Why do we give our hearts too quickly? 35:59 Be realistic with your standards 43:06 Love bombers are mostly narcissists 47:48. Red flags vs green flags 52:19 The effects bad relationships have on kids 57:03 How do you handle the highs and lows? 59:30 Why are you wasting time? 01:07 Being able to do other things 01:08 Do I have to calm down my intensity to not scare off men? 01:11:30 What’s the best advice you’ve received?Connect with Patti on:InstagramTwitterBooksMillionaire's ClubMatchmaker FragranceGet more content on:@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let’s talk about… the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done for a man. I'll start!And why doing something nice for someone who didn’t ask for it, never ends the way you want.(dropping this today since I've decided moving forward these episodes will drop on Tuesday's and not on Saturday's)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you ever let one reckless thought turn into a full night of regret?Violet kicks off a new Series of Unfortunate Events with two unbelievably embarrassing stories involving a one-night stand, a love confession to a best friend gone wrong, and the kind of confidence that only shows up right before everything goes to hell. You know those nights that should’ve ended one decision earlier? Yeah. It’s that. Because once a line gets crossed, there’s no cute way to walk it back.Get more content on: • @violetbenson on Instagram • @daddyissues_ on Instagram • YouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let’s talk about… the secret lives of Mormon wives, Summer House scandal Amanda and Cierra, and me shamelessly campaigning to get on Traitors.Let's also talk about... how I stepped out for one night and found myself in a buffet of hot men, from not feeling chosen to choosing myself again, running into an LA yearner, hiring a matchmaker… and why I’m officially BACK in my dating era.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

They say you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife, but we’d like to think otherwise.At some point in our life, whether we are at the height of our career or living our best single lives, we all want to find that one person we can spend the rest of our life with, right? That one true love we all grew up hoping to find one day. I mean, at the very least, who doesn’t want to be with the best partner and have the best s*x at the drop of a dime?Besties, today we are joined by Hannah Berner! Hannah is the host of two extremely successful podcasts Giggly Squad and Berner Phone, a standup comedian, reality TV star, and now here with us on Almost Adulting! Today Violet and Hannah waste no time getting into things beginning with Violet calling out Hannah for not inviting her to her wedding! Hannah then goes into detail about her transition from hoe life to wife life, what it’s like dating (then marrying) an older guy, falling in love with someone you least expect to fall in love with, and why you should look for a partner that takes ugly photos of you. The two superstars also talk about the harsh realities of their professions and why checking in with yourself mentally is SO important. This episode is jam packed with hilarious stories and advice so sit back and listen up!Thanks to our sponsors:Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit Nutrafol.com and enter promo code ADULTING.Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at SHOPIFY.COM/adultingWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction00:01:13 The first time I saw you…00:02:44 Oh, cults?00:04:41 Let’s talk about weddings00:08:46 Would you date an older guy?00:13:16 What people don’t know about me…00:17:50 When people hurt other people00:20:54 What’s your definition of happiness?00:26:23 When you open up and stop pretending to be someone else00:28:00 Loving someone you didn’t imagine ending up with00:33:45 Going to the extremes, being emotionally unavailable00:37:11 What is the purpose when you post on social media?00:41:35 What about love that scared you the most?00:45:33 How does it feel to have a life partner?00:50:42 This is how the chase starts00:52:16 Compatibility in marriage00:55:29 Being loved even at your lowest00:56:12 One person can’t be your everything01:05:11 Has your definition of love changed over the years?01:08:30 What I like about his d*ck…Connect with Hannah on:TikTokTwitterInstagramWebsiteGiggle Squad PodcastBerner PhoneGet more content on:@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let’s talk about… starting a skincare line with an organic…um….secret ingredient and whether texting your ex Happy Birthday is a good idea! I’m thinking…. no? But too bad because I already did it!! Oh wellllllllSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let's talk about... the bachelorette men. That's it... just for 7 minutes. ok bye. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WHY DO MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!?! Whether beginning, middle, or end, it seems to always happen at some point. That is why Violetta did all the research written by men, re-read "Why Men Don't Love Women Like You" and "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" so you don't have to, TO GIVE YOU THE ANSWER YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR.Today, Violetta is set on discussing the psychology behind a man's mind, the three steps to deal with the situation when a man pulls away, and how dating can be beautiful and perfect but it’s all rainbows and butterflies. It often comes with some form of conflict. What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:03 When a man pulls away, it feels like a bad romcom03:33 Reason 1: When they feel overwhelmed or uncertain about their feelings04:23 Reason 2: Some men need space06:03 Reason 3: They are unsure of the relationship06:39 Reason 4: The woman is more invested in the relationship07:35 Step #1: Do not go Britney Spears on him11:46 Step #2: Do not chase him12:57 Men and women do things differently13:34 Imagine that your partner is like a stretched rubberband16:38 Punishing a man when he pulls away is not the right approach21:16 Step #3: Focus on yourself32:20 Dating works but it always comes with some form of conflictGet more content on:@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let's talk about... men with money kink/fetish + how I made $500. Watching TV > doing meth. IG couples are FAKE. When your man is only faithful bc no one else wanted him lol. The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives + what I learned. Taylor Frankie Paul. How pregnant women are the closest thing to a god. And whatever else I yapped about.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let's talk about... bleeding haemorrhoids. Devil o'clock. Anger issues. How having a friend full of rage will bring you peace. The older your parents get the more they'll like you. Lana del ray. SLOMW Mikayla and her weasel husband. and Taylor Frankie Paul + DV + The Bachelorette.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Is your attachment style running the relationship?This week on Daddy Issues, Violet sits down with relationship expert Thais Gibson to break down why you chase, why he pulls away, and how subconscious wiring shapes the way you date.Thais Gibson is a best-selling author, counselor, and founder of the Personal Development School, known for her work on attachment styles and subconscious relationship patterns.They discuss the four attachment styles, the anxious-avoidant cycle, emotional triggers, and how childhood conditioning shapes the way you give and receive love.If the same dating patterns keep repeating in your life, this episode helps you understand why and how to start changing them.Connect with Thais Gibson: university.personaldevelopmentschool.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let's talk about.... that time I tased myself. That time I stabbed myself. How people pay to run marathons. My tiny feet. My crooked leg. Not surviving the zombie apocalypse. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Daddy Issues starts now.This week, Violet Benson officially launches her podcast under the name that built her brand. After 12 years of building the Daddy Issues community, Violet shares the moment that pushed her to reclaim the name, protect what she created, and step fully back into the identity that started it all.Then Violet delivers a Russian big sister pep talk. She breaks down why so many women give girlfriend energy to men who can’t even text back, how “potential” keeps you stuck in the wrong relationships, and why confusion in dating usually means one thing: he’s not choosing you.She talks confidence, boundaries, self-worth, and the mindset shift that stops you from auditioning for men who were never going to pick you in the first place.If you’ve been romanticizing someone who gives you nothing, this episode is your reminder.You are the prize.TIMESTAMPS:00:13 - Welcome to Daddy Issues: Violet announces the new podcast name00:30 - Why Violet is reclaiming the Daddy Issues brand02:38 - The moment that forced Violet to protect her brand27:41 - The real episode begins: If he's confusing you, he's not choosing you. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You’re not crazy. You’re anxious.This week on Almost Adulting, Violet sits down with Mel Robbins to unpack high-functioning anxiety in love — why women attach fast, date potential, ignore red flags, and stay in relationships where they can’t ask for what they need. Mel breaks down the 5 Second Rule, how to stop spiraling, time blindness, and the worst thing you can do when anxiety hits.They talk separation anxiety, loving someone who’s wrong for you, being right vs. being connected, and the obvious signs he just doesn’t like you.If you’re successful but secretly overthinking everything in dating — this one will hit.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

After a month-and-a-half break and a big network move, your Russian big sister Violet Benson is back – and she’s starting 2026 the only way she knows how: with tough love.Violet breaks down the four shifts that changed her life – and can change yours too.• setting real boundaries (and holding the door open when someone wants to leave) • radical self-awareness (aka stop lying to yourself) • knowing exactly who you are • and changing your perspective so you stop feeling like the victim in your own storyShe then breaks down why we romanticize the wrong people, the truth about “twin flames,” how you’ve been quietly self-sabotaging your love life, forgiving without apologies, and learning that sometimes the love story you’re chasing isn’t about another person – it’s about yourself.Today is the day you take your power back and start gaining confidence again after losing yourself in love. This episode is your reset.Don’t forget to leave a 5-star review when you’re done listening.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you’ve ever wondered why you settle, sabotage, or shut down.. this episode tells you the truth.Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta is joined by Jay Shetty - New York Times best-selling author, host of On Purpose, former monk, and one of the most influential voices in self-improvement, emotional healing, and modern spirituality.In this powerful conversation, Jay and Violetta dive into:the limits we place on ourselves (and each other)fear as an unformed boundarywhy timelines sabotage our growththe real meaning of love (beyond romance)how to build connection through vulnerabilityand how to rewrite the beliefs holding you backIf you’re craving clarity, emotional growth, deeper love, or a fresh start, this is an episode worth revisiting. Some conversations deserve a second life. and don't forget to leave me a 5 star review on the apple podcast app when you're done listening!!!! WHAT TO LISTEN FOR:• 00:00 Intro• 02:15 The journey that took 10 years• 05:08 Deadlines vs. destiny• 06:13 Worst advice Jay ever received• 07:52 “We project our limits onto other people.”• 10:46 The three cancers of the mind• 12:45 How to change your feelings• 16:23 Best advice Jay ever received• 21:36 Why beginners should move fast• 28:19 The two lies we tell ourselves• 33:35 What unforgiveness does to you• 36:13 Different forms of love• 38:46 Is unconditional love real?• 41:26 Loving as a skill• 46:16 Fear as an unformed boundary• 50:05 The power of being alone• 53:08 Win or lose together• 58:52 What it really takes to make love work• 01:03:41 The 8 Rules of Love• 01:06:19 The myth of perfection• 01:08:35 Connect with the people who want youAND THAT IS ALL FOR 2025!!! WE WILL BE BACK IN 2026!! <3Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues Connect with Jay on:https://jayshetty.me/https://twitter.com/jayshettyhttps://www.instagram.com/jayshetty/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbV60AGIHKz2xIGvbk0LLvghttps://twitter.com/jayshetty https://www.tiktok.com/@jayshetty Think Like A Monk8 Rules of LoveSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.