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Author: Lyss Boss

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You’ve made it to Date Yourself Instead, a podcast intended to inspire you to become the best version of yourself. In 2021, social media personality Lyss started a self-love series on TikTok which amassed over 100+ million views on her videos and counting. In this podcast, she gets candid about her relationship experiences, and touches on other topics including business, beauty, wellness, and so much more. Welcome to the #dateyourselfinstead movement. Episodes every Monday.
96 Episodes
I'M BACK IN NYC! IT'S A SELF LOVE SUMMER. In this episode, I cover a variety of questions around dating and relationships. Most of the questions are focused around self-love and learning how to protect your peace and energy while navigating the dating world. As always, if you loved this episode, rate on Apple and Spotify and send me a message @lyss. JOIN MY MASTERCLASS DARE TO DETACH DOORS OPEN JUNE 5TH!
In this episode - I cover a WILD Bali dating story time that ultimately made me realize how much healing I have left to do and how I need to take this trip as a true opportunity to focus on myself! I also talk about all the steps I take to help my manifestations come to fruition, and I explain why manifesting your dream life is never too late. Keep in mind l'm 31 years old and I feel like my life is just beginning! So no matter what age you're at - you are capable of creating your dream reality through the power of your mind. JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS Doors open IN JUNE, be sure to sign up for the waitlist to reserve your spot in the class for SUMMER.
Hello from Bali! In this episode, I cover why trusting your intuition and trust in your higher self is always the best way to go when exploring a relationship that keeps you feeling stuck. I also dive into this concept of what true love really means to me and why excepting someone for who they are is the definition of love to me. I also explore the concept of freedom and how freedom ties into true, authentic love. I love you, as always, if you feel called to send me a message on Instagram @lyss @dateyourselfinstead, I'm always here. x JOIN MY MASTERCLASS DARE TO DETACH Use code "selflove" for a discount, I'd love to have you. We have an amazing community focused on self love, empowerment and detaching from toxic relationships.
The only episode on detachment you'll ever need to understand HOW and what it really means to let go. In this episode I dive into this concept of truly detaching from any situation in order to heal and evolve into your higher self. JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS USE CODE "MANIFEST" FOR A SPECIAL DISCOUNT. If you enjoyed this episode, dm me on instagram @dateyourselfinstead or @lyss.
JOIN MY MASTERCLASS DARE TO DETACH DOORS OPEN MAY 1, 2024. TAP HERE TO JOIN. The Dare to Detach masterclass is all about letting go of the outcome, detaching, and stepping into this version of you that you KNOW you're supposed to be. It's time to manifest anything you want as well as let go of the bullshit in your life holding you back. Let's do this. You can use code "manifest" for 20% off the course.
If you are in a situation right now where you feel like someone is acting distant, avoidant, or they are breaking up with you...or have broken up with you...this episode is for you. <3 Ready to uplevel, detach and change your entire life? If you're ready to fully let go and step into your power and reclaim your life, my masterclass is meant for you. It's designed to rewire your mind in just 4 DAYS. See all of the testimonials at the link below. DOORS OPEN MAY 1, 2024. JOIN MY MASTERCLASS DARE TO DETACH
This episode discusses how to the process of your life and how to tap in to your higher self so you can live to your fullest potential. In this episode, I also dive into several story times about my past relationships and the lessons I learned over the recent solar eclipse. It's time to step into your power and really acknowledge that in her voice that's calling you to do more and TRUST in your future. JOIN MY MASTERCLASS DARE TO DETACH Doors open in May. You can sign up for the waitlist if the doors are currently closed for the masterclass.
We're back again!!! Me and my beautiful Aussie friend and host of the top podcast Psychology of your 20's, Jemma Sbeg, are back with another episode conquering the topic of being alone. We discuss how to get over the fears associated with being single, being on your own, and dealing with the anxiety around "not having the one" just yet. JEMMA'S SOCIALS: Her podcast - Psychology of your 20's Her instagram: @jemmasbeg @thatpsychologypodcast JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS DOORS OPEN APRIL 19TH, 2024. USE CODE SELFLOVE FOR A DISCOUNT - exclusive for the podcast listeners. My instagram: @lyss @dateyourselfinstead
The only episode you'll need to reclaim your power and feel confident, lovable and worthy. Join the Dare to Detach Masterclass - spots are limited USE CODE SELFLOVE FOR A DISCOUNT
I'm so excited to introduce you to my BFF and spiritual EFT coach, Haley Hoffman Smith. In this episode, we cover one of the most important questions - How do I stop getting attracted to the wrong people? Attracitng the wrong people can be a COMMON pattern, and something that happens over and over again - to the point where you start questioning if it's your own doing. Haley dives into the power of our subconscious mind and how healing our subconscious can actually help us heal these toxic patterns. Haley's social links: Instagram & Tiktok and her podcast: Big Conversations Want to detach and let go of what's no longer serving you? JOIN DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS Remember you can always use code SELFLOVE for $20 off. Doors open again March 19th, 2024.
Situationships are the HARDEST to get over, from my perspective. Why? Because you're left feeling like you've had no proper closure, you couldn't live out the potential you've built in your mind about the relationship, and it can feel like the "what if" lingers over your head for a long period of time. In this episode, I cover how to properly move on from a situationship, why you deserve the absolute most out of life and your relationships, and how to find the person of your dreams. You don't need to settle any more. If you've loved this episode, feel free to always message me on instagram @dateyourselfinstead. JOIN THE MASTERCLASS DARE TO DETACH - DOORS OPEN MARCH 19TH USE CODE "FULLMOON" FOR A DISCOUNT DURING THIS FULL MOON APPROACHING, THE PERFECT TIME TO LET GO, CLEANSE AND RENEW. Remember, doors open March 19th, 2024. Spots are limited.
You shouldn't have to threaten someone in order to stay with you. You shouldn't have to lower your values or your boundaries to stay inside of a relationship. You shouldn't have to compromise your own needs or give up parts of who you are for someone else. In this episode, I dive into ways to let go of toxic relationship cycles, how to set healthy boundaries, and how to truly move on and be your best self. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to rate it on Spotify and Apple. JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS HERE Use code SELFLOVE for a discount at checkout. Spots are limited.
When you're truly insanely confident in the person that you're becoming and what you're working towards -- there is no competition. The only competition is you versus your future self. Let's talk about it. If you loved this episode, always feel free to message me on instagram @dateyourselfinstead. JOIN THE MASTERCLASS DARE TO DETACH Use code "selflove" for $20 off the masterclass.
A highly requested topic about how I got physically sick from being in a toxic relationship, and how I was able to heal my body naturally after suffering from PCOS for years and having irregular periods, mood swings, weight gain, and more. For years, I didn't feel good in my body, and I knew I needed to make significant changes. DISCLAIMER: I am not a doctor and I am not here to provide concrete medical evidence, I am here to simply tell my story and share it with you.
Have you ever lashed out at someone and later regretted how you responded to a situation? Have you ever overreacted in your relationships and later realized things weren't nearly as bad as they seemed? To be honest, sometimes in the past I have tended to go off the rails in situations and later didn't really like how I acted. This episode is all about steps to make those changes to MASTER your emotions in the moment so you can remain grounded and in your power. That way, you can approach situations and conflicts from a place of calm, and make better decisions for your future. 8:00 - Being non-reactive and how to master your emotions. - JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS - use code 'SELFLOVE' for $20 off the course. IF you’ve been holding onto someone who you know isn’t good for you, if you feel stuck in your life and can’t seem to figure out your “why”, if you feel held back by ANYONE or anything and you want to skyrocket forward into the new year, THIS course is it. This is the game changer and I am so insanely excited for you to join us!!! WHAT DO YOU GET?  4 days of videos instructed by me •detailed workshops on the power of letting go •the exact meditations I used to get over my breakup quickly  •an exclusive private group chat 💬 with all of our members  •unlimited access to classes (once you have it, it’s yours forever) •instant access via email - Follow me on instagram @lyss and the podcast account @dateyourselfinstead and send me a message if you enjoyed this episode! :) I love you x
Moving into the new year, I've decided that I have new boundaries and standards when it comes to dating, so here's a full episode about it. As always, send me a DM on instagram @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead if you enjoyed this episode. ARE YOU READY TO DETACH?  The Dare to Detach masterclass is officially OPEN with limited spots available this time around. If you’ve been holding onto someone who you know isn’t good for you, if you feel stuck in your life and can’t seem to figure out your “why”, if you feel held back by ANYONE or anything and you want to skyrocket forward into the new year, THIS course is it. This is the game changer and I am so insanely excited for you to join us!!! WHAT DO YOU GET?  4 days of videos instructed by me detailed workshops on the power of letting go the exact meditations I used to get over my breakup quickly  an exclusive private group chat 💬 with all of our members  unlimited access to classes (once you have it, it’s yours forever) instant access via email DOWNLOAD THE MASTERCLASS HERE Also, be sure to download my free worksheet, meditation and vision board workshop for the new year.
Having a healthy mindset is the key to ultimate success. There's been many times in my life where I've gone through periods of time where my mindset was not in a healthy place. In this episode, I discuss 10 big ways I've changed my entire mindset for the better and had major breakthroughs when it came to my mental health. If you loved this episode as always, send me a DM @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead. JOIN THE MASTERCLASS DARE TO DETACH Use code "selflove for $20 off the course.
A different type of podcast - vlog style. If you have Spotify, you can watch the video on the app, or watch the video on YouTube here. GET READY WITH ME FOR A FIRST DATE in London, one of my favorite cities in the world. This past December I decided to take a solo trip back to the UK to celebrate the holidays, have some good comfort food, and experience what it's like to use dating apps for the first time in A WHILE. In this particular situation, I ended up connecting with a guy on instagram, and then there was a major plot twist...enjoy! If you enjoyed this episode, feel free to DM me as always on instagram @lyss and @dateyourselfinstead. JOIN MY MASTERCLASS DARE TO DETACH Use code SELFLOVE for $20 off, exclusively for the podcast listeners :)
Fall in love with YOURSELF and your own life in 2024. Let me ask you a serious question. Would you want to date yourself? Would you want to get to know YOU? In today's episode, I cover the ways you can learn to love yourself deeply and like never before into the new year. I hope you enjoy! As always, feel free to message me on instagram @lyss and @dateyourselfinstead if you're loving the podcast. JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS DOORS OPEN AGAIN SOON. If the doors are not open, be sure to join the waitlist so you can snag a spot next time it's available!
Do you fantasize a lot about the potential of a person? Then this episode is for you. If you continue to try to change or mold someone into something that they're not, you're simply wasting your time and energy. Just listen! :) JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS And remember to download my free higher self meditation and free worksheet! xx
Comments (21)

Daniel Clark

I have a better solution. Surrender your lives to Jesus Christ and he will change your lives. You will love what he loves and hate what he hates. All of these self love approaches will seem silly. Love Jesus first and he will provide the answers.

Apr 22nd

so so

i had a 6 month long distance relationship. 2 different countries. he said let's meet each other in between, which is turkey, but i wasn't in a good situation to travel there & asked him to come to my country. to make the story short, he refused & I was thinking if he wanted, he would travel. but at the same time, he can say the same shit about me. if I wanted, i would do it, but no one paid attention that I wanted but couldn't...

Mar 18th

Farid Tahmasebi

poor guy! its's obvious you have problems with your hormones. sdon't put it on the guys you meet.

Mar 7th

ankita ashok

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Jan 11th

Adriana Hutton

Same. last 2 relationships, I had to navigate, pay for shit, and come up with activities to do. exhausting!!

Oct 2nd

so so

can u pls talk about long-distance relationships? i trusted him but one day, I woke up & and I saw he blocked me no other way to get in touch & just ask why?

Sep 24th

Aakash Amanat

I couldn't agree more with the title of this thread, "Date Yourself Instead." It's something I've personally embraced over the past year, and it has made such a positive impact on my life. For the longest time, I was constantly seeking validation and happiness from external sources, whether it was through dating, friendships, or material possessions. I thought that being in a relationship would complete me, and I'd finally be truly happy. However, I couldn't have been more wrong.

Sep 21st

Bekah Bailey

Yo this episode is so powerful. I really relate to the way she describes childhood environmental factors impacting my self talk. Your message is so true and I really appreciate you sharing.

Sep 20th

Adriana Hutton

OMG yes! come to beautiful Lake Tahoe!!!

Sep 18th

so so

as eng is my froigen language, it's hard for me to find appropriate & amusing podcasts but the way u speak makes me understand everything It's not that easy, not that hard besides learning relationship tips tnx♡

Sep 15th

Adriana Hutton

love your podcast, you have such a beautiful heart! you are helping me through a relationship that isn't right for me and teaching me to love myself. At 48, I've spent most of my life putting others 1st. So, loving and taking care of me is like an epiphany. Suggestion for pod cast topic: how do you deliver the break-up, If you are the bearer of bad news, what words do you say to respectfully break up, trying not to cause pain. When is the right time, right environment? Do you state your reasons, or just say it isn't working out and spare the sermon? Thank you!!!

Sep 1st

Adriana Hutton

I am a new listener, and I love, LOVE your podcast. I'm wayyyy🤣🫣older than you, and you are teaching me so much about being with the guy that is right for you. you are literally guiding me in making decisions that are best for me, so thank you! I wanted to comment on the story you told about when you were 15 and employed at the ice cream shop. Regardless as to if your mom is conforontational or not, she's your mama!🥰 and would have probably had that reaction if she weren't confrontational. She would have done that regardless bc you are her baby, her heart & soul. I am super chill and hate confrontation. But if someone treats my daughter (even with her being 21) horrible or is bullying my kid or is in the wrong, it's razor blades and lemon juice for that person🤣 I don't know what kind of crazy emotion that takes over when you're a parent, but you just see red. my boy is 25 and in the military. I'd stand in front of a train for him. when you have kids, I predict you will do the same fo

Aug 17th

Aakash Amanat

The title "Date Yourself Instead" instantly caught my attention, and I couldn't resist clicking into this discussion. The concept of self-dating is something that has grown in popularity, and I find it absolutely fascinating. In a world that often emphasizes romantic relationships, taking the time to focus on self-care and self-love is crucial. Self-dating, as I understand it, involves treating yourself with the same kindness, attention, and consideration that you would offer to a partner. It's about nurturing your own well-being and creating meaningful experiences for yourself.

Aug 17th

Andras Toth

I really liked this episode. Started from the beginning I want to listen all of them. Glad to found You ♥️

Aug 2nd

Gri M

I feel like that my whole life

Jan 20th

Syeda Ali

girl ur smart thanks for sharing, too many people both men and women need this advice to not measure their value based on the treatment of a narcissistic partner

Jan 9th

jihad diouchi

Favorite podcast sofaar

Nov 18th


Thank you so much for this useful episode❤️

Nov 16th
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jihad diouchi

Best podcast in the moment

Nov 14th


unknown error , so I could not listen to it.

Oct 21st
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