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You’ve made it to Date Yourself Instead, a podcast intended to inspire you to become the best version of yourself. In 2021, social media personality Lyss started a self-love series on TikTok which amassed over 100+ million views on her videos and counting. In this podcast, she gets candid about her relationship experiences, and touches on other topics including business, beauty, wellness, and so much more. Welcome to the #dateyourselfinstead movement. Episodes every Monday.
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DETACHMENT SPEEDS UP MANIFESTATION. When you truly let go, miracles happen. I WANT YOU TO UPLEVEL. UPGRADE. DETACH. BE FREE. BE F*CKING HAPPY. Because...why not? If you need a little push or a sign from the universe, this episode is for YOU. Detach to attract. LINK TO THE DARE TO DETACH COURSE Download instantly and get started on creating your dream life. Also be sure to sign up for my free meditation and reframe worksheet. With all the love and gratitude, Lyss
Being alone during the holiday season or any celebration day in general can feel like sh*t, let's just be honest. HOWEVER, it can also be empowering and fun if you make it that way - which is why I created this episode. TIS THE SEASON to embrace yourself and love yourself even more. I love you lots. Here is the link to my masterclass, use code selflove for a discount. xx Lyss JOIN DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS Remember to use code "selflove" for $ off the course - exclusive for my podcast listeners. HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!!
Send them love. They need it the most. When someone hurts you, it can be easy to hate them - but what I've learned is that healing works from the inside out by becoming an energetic vessel of LOVE. JOIN DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS Doors open November 16th officially for all new members! We'd absolutely love to have you.
Why do we procrastinate?  I was the queen of procrastination and I would always assume things would just happen for me, but YOU NEED TO take action to get results and become your best self. Stop putting shit off! ;) I love you. Much love. Xoxo, Lyss. JOIN DARE TO DETACH - DOORS OPEN NOV 11TH Use code "selflove" for a discount when you join us. DOORS OPEN NOVEMBER 11TH FOR ALL NEW MEMBERS. You can also stay updated on instagram @daretodetach for all things about the course.
Do you know how special and important you are??? Do you know how much you bring to the table? NO ONE IS YOU and that is your superpower. In this episode, I discuss ways to level up, create boundaries, know your worth and much more. The Dare to Detach MASTERCLASS doors open November 16th, 2023 for new clients! Learn more HERE. Use code "selflove" for $20 off the course when you join us. I can't wait for you to level up even more and step into your power, let go of the toxic BS, and join our amazing private community group chat led by me and other members.
Rejection is redirection - everyone has dealt with rejection at a point. Sometimes the universe is here to just guide you into a much bigger and better situation that you could've even imagined for yourself. In this episode, I dive into a dating story time about a guy who got me hooked on him and then ghosted me - ultimately leaving me feeling rejected, hurt, and embarrassed. I also talk about how to know your value and how it was fairly easy for me to overcome this situation after time had passed. JOIN DARE TO DETACH⁠ Tap ⁠HERE⁠ to join our amazing community - DOORS OPEN AGAIN NOVEMBER 16, 2023 FOR NEW MEMBERS. Are you tired of constantly holding onto what isn't good for you? Are you feeling stuck and discouraged because you KNOW your higher self is calling for a massive upgrade?  It is TIME to uplevel into the most amazing version of you. This masterclass is designed to help you let go and set yourself free so you can UPGRADE YOUR LIFE baby. Let's do this. WHAT YOU'LL GET FROM THIS COURSE: 4 DAYS OF MATERIAL - WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE. Each day is designed to reprogram your mind, help you let go, detach, and free yourself from anything that is no longer serving your growth. A step by step guide on the art of detachment and learning how to love yourself in healthy, constructive ways Workshops including reprogramming your subconscious mind to level up and a shadow work integration to help your healing process A private and exclusive community group chat TOTAL VALUE: $1,199 YOURS FOR: $222 USE CODE "SELFLOVE" FOR $20 OFF THE COURSE ⁠I'M READY TO UPLEVEL
Dare to Detach

Dare to Detach

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JOIN DARE TO DETACH Tap HERE to join our amazing community! Are you tired of constantly holding onto what isn't good for you? Are you feeling stuck and discouraged because you KNOW your higher self is calling for a massive upgrade? It is TIME to uplevel into the most amazing version of you. This masterclass is designed to help you let go and set yourself free so you can UPGRADE YOUR LIFE baby. Let's do this. WHAT YOU'LL GET FROM THIS COURSE: 4 DAYS OF MATERIAL - WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE. Each day is designed to reprogram your mind, help you let go, detach, and free yourself from anything that is no longer serving your growth. A step by step guide on the art of detachment and learning how to love yourself in healthy, constructive ways Workshops including reprogramming your subconscious mind to level up and a shadow work integration to help your healing process A private and exclusive community group chat TOTAL VALUE: $1,199 YOURS FOR: $222 USE CODE "SELFLOVE" FOR $20 OFF THE COURSE I'M READY TO UPLEVEL
In this episode, I talk about the power of being direct, forward and just communicating versus running from your problems - especially when it comes to dating. Sometimes I've been anxious or afraid to speak my truth because of the fear of messing things up. But, as of recently, that changed. Here's everything I've learned about being honest and direct about my feelings. If you enjoyed this episode, always dm me @lyss and let me know your feedback. Love you xx.
Become a mastermind and manifest anything or anyone you want with just a simple mindset. Trust the process baby. You've got this. If you enjoyed this episode, dm me on instagram and check out the new masterclass, Dare to Detach, coming October 11th! My new masterclass coming out October 11th. instagram.com/daretodetach My personal ig: instagram.com/lyss
If I'm dating you, you better bring the same vibes and energy to the f*cking table. If you don't reply to me for days, it's not the vibe. If you could go 48 hours without a reply...it's a no. Here are some of my dealbreakers, my opinions on matching energy in dating, and alllll the coverage on masculine versus feminine energy. If you enjoyed this episode, dm me @lyss and feel free to share it - it helps the pod grow. I appreciate you xx
If you're in a sticky situation where you are attached to someone but you just can't seem to let them go, this episode covers the major warning signs and red flags that I personally feel could make or break a relationship. These are some of my dealbreakers that I find are helpful when deciding when to leave a relationship. In the second half of this episode, I talk about my views on sex and intimacy for the first time ever on the pod, and my perspective on casual hookups. If you enjoyed this episode, dm me @lyss! xx
Just listen. This is a goodie.
SURPRISE to the video episode :) It's the 1 year anniversary of DATE YOURSELF INSTEAD baby!!! Wow. I can't believe just one year ago I started the podcast and it became what it is today. In this episode, I discuss my mental health journey, as well as this idea of your THOUGHTS creating your reality. Thinking positively about your life and yourself, and your future...is SO essential in order to live the life of your dreams. I hope you love this episode, and let me know if you want more videos. Xoxo.
Self love leads to true love. There is some wholesome loving content on today's episode. This is your reminder that you deserve true, deep, unconditional love. You deserve peace and safety. You deserve to feel secure in a relationship. Xoxo, Lyss <3
It's easy to lose focus when you're so fixated on someone else. But baby, you have to remember that YOU ARE THE MAIN CHARACTER. When it comes to relationships, we often dilute our power and give our energy away instead of directing it towards OURSELVES. Agree or disagree?
Signs that he's just not that into you. He's being hot and cold. Flaky with plans. Distant. A bad texter. Says he doesn't know where he stands or what he wants. In this episode, I dish the hard truth and the signs of when someone is just not...that interested.
When someone pulls away, it can be difficult to navigate. Often times we feel like we did something wrong to mess the relationship up. It can cause a lot of anxiety if we're not sure where the other person stands or why they're distancing themselves...when everything seemed to be going well. In this episode, I talk about what to do when they pull away from you - and how to handle it like a pro. You'll feel better in no time baby.
Why my ex and I broke up - the full detailed story. I wasn't sure if I would ever speak on this relationship and the breakup that changed me forever. In this episode, I am finally sharing my experience and more details about the breakup that inspired the Date Yourself Instead podcast. If this resonated with you in any way, I would love to hear your story as well. Always feel free to dm me on instagram @lyss.
Cause you deserve the best :-) I love you.
Ahhhh. SOLO TRAVEL. One of the most highly requested topics I get asked to cover is my experience doing shit alone. And yeah, it can be intimidating, scary and crazy to go off on adventures completely solo. In this episode, I talk about a few experiences I've had solo traveling, the lessons I've learned, my honest thoughts on it, and a wild story time about my study abroad journey in Australia. I'll definitely be recording a part two. Xoxo.
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Adriana Hutton

Same. last 2 relationships, I had to navigate, pay for shit, and come up with activities to do. exhausting!!

Oct 2nd
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so so

can u pls talk about long-distance relationships? i trusted him but one day, I woke up & and I saw he blocked me no other way to get in touch & just ask why?

Sep 24th
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Aakash Amanat

I couldn't agree more with the title of this thread, "Date Yourself Instead." It's something I've personally embraced over the past year, and it has made such a positive impact on my life. https://find-open.com/brooklyn/cookie-packaging-pros-13912988 For the longest time, I was constantly seeking validation and happiness from external sources, whether it was through dating, friendships, or material possessions. I thought that being in a relationship would complete me, and I'd finally be truly happy. However, I couldn't have been more wrong. https://firmania.com/brooklyn/cookie-packaging-pros-14595891

Sep 21st
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Bekah Bailey

Yo this episode is so powerful. I really relate to the way she describes childhood environmental factors impacting my self talk. Your message is so true and I really appreciate you sharing.

Sep 20th
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Adriana Hutton

OMG yes! come to beautiful Lake Tahoe!!!

Sep 18th
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so so

as eng is my froigen language, it's hard for me to find appropriate & amusing podcasts but the way u speak makes me understand everything It's not that easy, not that hard besides learning relationship tips tnx♡

Sep 15th
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Adriana Hutton

love your podcast, you have such a beautiful heart! you are helping me through a relationship that isn't right for me and teaching me to love myself. At 48, I've spent most of my life putting others 1st. So, loving and taking care of me is like an epiphany. Suggestion for pod cast topic: how do you deliver the break-up, If you are the bearer of bad news, what words do you say to respectfully break up, trying not to cause pain. When is the right time, right environment? Do you state your reasons, or just say it isn't working out and spare the sermon? Thank you!!!

Sep 1st
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Adriana Hutton

I am a new listener, and I love, LOVE your podcast. I'm wayyyy🤣🫣older than you, and you are teaching me so much about being with the guy that is right for you. you are literally guiding me in making decisions that are best for me, so thank you! I wanted to comment on the story you told about when you were 15 and employed at the ice cream shop. Regardless as to if your mom is conforontational or not, she's your mama!🥰 and would have probably had that reaction if she weren't confrontational. She would have done that regardless bc you are her baby, her heart & soul. I am super chill and hate confrontation. But if someone treats my daughter (even with her being 21) horrible or is bullying my kid or is in the wrong, it's razor blades and lemon juice for that person🤣 I don't know what kind of crazy emotion that takes over when you're a parent, but you just see red. my boy is 25 and in the military. I'd stand in front of a train for him. when you have kids, I predict you will do the same fo

Aug 17th
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Aakash Amanat

The title "Date Yourself Instead" instantly caught my attention, and I couldn't resist clicking into this discussion. The concept of self-dating is something that has grown in popularity, and I find it absolutely fascinating. https://www.sitelike.org/similar/printingmart.co.uk/ In a world that often emphasizes romantic relationships, taking the time to focus on self-care and self-love is crucial. Self-dating, as I understand it, involves treating yourself with the same kindness, attention, and consideration that you would offer to a partner. It's about nurturing your own well-being and creating meaningful experiences for yourself. https://www.provenexpert.com/printing-mart/

Aug 17th
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Andras Toth

I really liked this episode. Started from the beginning I want to listen all of them. Glad to found You ♥️

Aug 2nd
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Gri M

I feel like that my whole life

Jan 20th
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Syeda Ali

girl ur smart thanks for sharing, too many people both men and women need this advice to not measure their value based on the treatment of a narcissistic partner

Jan 9th
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jihad diouchi

Favorite podcast sofaar

Nov 18th
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Elham

Thank you so much for this useful episode❤️

Nov 16th
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jihad diouchi

Best podcast in the moment

Nov 14th
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MāhBānoo

unknown error , so I could not listen to it.

Oct 21st
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