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Down The Well

Down The Well
Author: Elle Rowley
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Motherhood should be full of joy and meaning. But it often isn't. Why is that? On Down the Well, Elle Rowley, talks about how mothers can achieve that meaning and joy by going on their own hero's journey.
Unlike the traditional hero's journey, mothers have to descend into the depths of their own soul. No one comes out of motherhood the same, and with the right perspective and resources, we can make sure that transformation is for the better.
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Episode 11: In a world that feels increasingly fractured, overwhelmed, and chaotic—what if peace begins not with politicians, but with parents?
In this powerful episode, Elle explores how world peace starts at home. She draws a straight line between how we engage with our children and how we shape the future of our society. This is not about perfection—it’s about presence, intention, and radical gentleness.
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💬 Comment below: What does peace look like in your home?
Timestamps:
04:38 - 3 Keys to Peace at Home
04:45 - Teaching peace
09:45 - Safeguarding our homes
18:56 - Cultivating inner peace
24:29 - World Peace Begins at Home t-shirts
Show Links:
World Peace Begins At Home t-shirts
The Humble Village
Down The Well Links:
Check out Down The Well on YouTube
This episode on YouTube found here
Elle's Substack - https://substack.com/@ellerowley
Elle's Instagram - instagram.com/ellerowley
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About Down The Well:
Motherhood should be full of joy and meaning. But it often isn't. Why is that? On Down the Well, Elle Rowley, talks through the mother's hero's journey, and why it's different from the one you might have learned in school or books.
Unlike the traditional hero's journey, mothers have to descend into the depths of their own soul. No one comes out of motherhood the same, and with the right perspective and resources, we can make sure that transformation is for the better.
Episode 10: What happens when your body changes… and the world doesn’t talk about it? In this honest episode, Elle speaks with Chelsea Etheridge, founder of Not Young, a supplement company geared towards women in perimenopause.
Chelsea shares how navigating perimenopause became the unexpected spark for personal transformation and the creation of her platform, Not Young. She opens up about aging, identity, and why the “maiden-obsessed” culture is due for a rewrite. Take a listen...
Timestamps:
01:46 - Chelsea's story
09:05 - Story of Not Young
10:25 - Signs of perimenopause
16:16 - View on aging
19:03 - Plot twist!
20:18 - Husband's health
26:44 - Mothering today
35:20 - Future of Not Young
Show Links:
Not Young
Discount Code: SR69JVRINV
Not Young. Better. podcast
Not Young Instagram
Down The Well Links:
Check out Down The Well on YouTube
This episode on YouTube found here
Elle's Substack - https://substack.com/@ellerowley
Elle's Instagram - instagram.com/ellerowley
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About Down The Well:
Motherhood should be full of joy and meaning. But it often isn't. Why is that? On Down the Well, Elle Rowley, talks through the mother's hero's journey, and why it's different from the one you might have learned in school or books.
Unlike the traditional hero's journey, mothers have to descend into the depths of their own soul. No one comes out of motherhood the same, and with the right perspective and resources, we can make sure that transformation is for the better.
Episode 9: Motherhood can feel like a storm—loud, chaotic, and completely overwhelming. But what if the key to peace isn’t fixing the storm... but learning how to stand still within it?
In this episode of Down the Well, Elle dives into six timeless Stoic principles that can transform the way you approach parenting. These lessons offer clarity, peace, and strength for the mother. Take a listen...
Timestamps:
01:22 - What is Stoicism
01:59 - Principle #1
04:40 - Principle #2
05:32 - Principle #3
06:15 - Principle #4
07:54 - Mantras
08:30 - Principle #5
10:40 - Principle #6
Down The Well Links:
Check out Down The Well on YouTube
This episode on YouTube found here
Elle's Substack - https://substack.com/@ellerowley
Elle's Instagram - instagram.com/ellerowley
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About Down The Well:
Motherhood should be full of joy and meaning. But it often isn't. Why is that? On Down the Well, Elle Rowley, talks through the mother's hero's journey, and why it's different from the one you might have learned in school or books.
Unlike the traditional hero's journey, mothers have to descend into the depths of their own soul. No one comes out of motherhood the same, and with the right perspective and resources, we can make sure that transformation is for the better.
Episode 8: On the path of the mother's hero's journey, we are often confronted with challenges. As we strive to navigate these obstacles with open-heartedness, curiosity, and humility, sometimes we fall short and allow our emotions to take control. A certified life coach, Elle teaches proven and practical techniques for on-the-spot emotional regulation that will help any mom become the person she wants to be. Take a listen...
Timestamps:
00:21 - Understanding the Mother's Hero's Journey
01:26 - Challenges and Emotions in Motherhood
06:13 - Tools for Self-Coaching: The 1-2-3 Approach
16:02 - Thought Model - CTFAR
27:53 - Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Down The Well Links:
Episode 2 with Lisa Marchiano here & on YouTube
Check out Down The Well on YouTube
This episode on YouTube found here
Elle's Substack - https://substack.com/@ellerowley
Elle's Instagram - instagram.com/ellerowley
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About Down The Well:
Motherhood should be full of joy and meaning. But it often isn't. Why is that? On Down the Well, Elle Rowley, talks through the mother's hero's journey, and why it's different from the one you might have learned in school or books.
Unlike the traditional hero's journey, mothers have to descend into the depths of their own soul. No one comes out of motherhood the same, and with the right perspective and resources, we can make sure that transformation is for the better.
Episode 7: Education is an essential part of parenting. Yet, the decision of how to best educate your children when you're down the proverbial well may feel overwhelming from the number of options, the best fit for each child, or frustration with your current situation. Elle speaks with Liz Black, an education specialist and consultant, about the benefits of homebased schooling. Take a listen...
Timestamps:
03:15 - why homeschool is gaining popularity
09:40 - homeschool vs. homebased education
14:06 - what and how to teach
15:43 - will my child get into college with a homeschool education
16:55 - will my child fall behind
18:32 - phases of learning
24:12 - enough socialization
26:40 - extra curricular activities
28:15 - where to start homeschooling
28:58 - can I work and homeschool
30:31 - can families without financial resources homeschool
33:43 - what if I mess this homeschool thing up
39:29 - markers of success
47:17 - what if you're feeling homeschool is not hitting the mark
Down The Well Links:
Alcott Learning
Check out Down The Well on YouTube
This episode on YouTube found here
Elle's Substack - substack.com/@ellerowley
Elle's Instagram - instagram.com/ellerowley
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About Down The Well:
Motherhood should be full of joy and meaning. But it often isn't. Why is that? On Down the Well, Elle Rowley, talks through the mother's hero's journey, and why it's different from the one you might have learned in school or books.
Unlike the traditional hero's journey, mothers have to descend into the depths of their own soul. No one comes out of motherhood the same, and with the right perspective and resources, we can make sure that transformation is for the better.
Episode 6: In our pursuit of a meaningful life, perhaps the answers we seek are found in the past. In this episode of Down The Well, Elle talks about the 5 life-changing lessons from the well known American matriarch, Grandma Moses. Find out how this humble woman led a life of pure inspiration. Take a listen...
Timestamps:
08:42 - Lesson #1
15:57 - Lesson #2
22:46 - Lesson #3
29:29 - Lesson #4
34:05 - Lesson #5
Down The Well Links:
Check out Down The Well on YouTube
This episode on YouTube found here
Elle's Substack - substack.com/@ellerowley
Elle's Instagram - instagram.com/ellerowley
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About Down The Well:
Motherhood should be full of joy and meaning. But it often isn't. Why is that? On Down the Well, Elle Rowley, talks through the mother's hero's journey, and why it's different from the one you might have learned in school or books.
Unlike the traditional hero's journey, mothers have to descend into the depths of their own soul. No one comes out of motherhood the same, and with the right perspective and resources, we can make sure that transformation is for the better.
Episode 5: We are so afraid of aging - just think about all the anti-aging products, procedures, and plans. This cultural obsession with youthfulness is taking over the female journey of maiden to mother to matriarch. Elle discusses the importance of this journey and how each female archetype enlightens, inspires and helps us evolve as women. Take a listen...
Timestamps:
03:28 - The Maiden
06:58 - The Mother
16:33 - The Matriarch
Links:
Down The Well Links:
Check out Down The Well on YouTube
This episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/miYICSde6Q4
Elle's Substack - substack.com/@ellerowley
Elle's Instagram - instagram.com/ellerowley
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About Down The Well:
Motherhood should be full of joy and meaning. But it often isn't. Why is that? On Down the Well, Elle Rowley, talks through the mother's hero's journey, and why it's different from the one you might have learned in school or books.
Unlike the traditional hero's journey, mothers have to descend into the depths of their own soul. No one comes out of motherhood the same, and with the right perspective and resources, we can make sure that transformation is for the better.
Episode 4: The addiction to sugar is real. It affects how we think and feel. So, Elle and her family took on the challenge of one year without sugar. Listen to how they did it, the challenges, the benefits and more.
Links:
Down The Well Links:
Check out Down The Well on YouTube
This episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/miYICSde6Q4
Elle's Substack - substack.com/@ellerowley
Elle's Instagram - instagram.com/ellerowley
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About Down The Well:
Motherhood should be full of joy and meaning. But it often isn't. Why is that? On Down the Well, Elle Rowley, talks through the mother's hero's journey, and why it's different from the one you might have learned in school or books.
Unlike the traditional hero's journey, mothers have to descend into the depths of their own soul. No one comes out of motherhood the same, and with the right perspective and resources, we can make sure that transformation is for the better.
Episode 3: What is true self-care? What does it mean to a mother? On this episode of Down The Well, Elle explores the meaning of true self-care and not simply the distractions or indulgences that the world offers. Take a listen to the suggestions she gives mothers to help them live their best life.
Links:
Yoga Nidra Videos
The Fourth Trimester: A Postpartum Guide to Healing Your Body, Balancing Your Emotions, and Restoring Your Vitality
Down The Well Links:
Check out Down The Well on YouTube
This episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/miYICSde6Q4
Elle's Substack - substack.com/@ellerowley
Elle's Instagram - instagram.com/ellerowley
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About Down The Well:
Motherhood should be full of joy and meaning. But it often isn't. Why is that? On Down the Well, Elle Rowley, talks through the mother's hero's journey, and why it's different from the one you might have learned in school or books.
Unlike the traditional hero's journey, mothers have to descend into the depths of their own soul. No one comes out of motherhood the same, and with the right perspective and resources, we can make sure that transformation is for the better.
Episode 2: Our first guest on Down The Well is Lisa Marchiano, a psychotherapist, Jungian analyst, and author. Lisa's work is the inspiration for this podcast as she discusses the mother's hero's journey, how it is connected to falling down a well and becoming a new person. Take a listen to this inspiring interview.
Timestamps:
01:17 - Lisa's background
03:03 - Falling down the well
08:15 - What is the hero's journey for a mother
14:40 - Difference between sacrifice and martyrdom
19:44 - The idea of the eternal girl
27:27 - Navigating old wounds with our children
45:54 - Understanding rage
Notes:
Lisa Marchiano
Motherhood: Facing and Finding Yourself
This Jungian Life podcast
YouTube: @Down-The-Well
https://substack.com/@ellerowley
https://www.instagram.com/ellerowley/
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Motherhood should be full of joy and meaning. But it often isn't. Why is that? On Down the Well, Elle Rowley, talks through the mother's hero's journey, and why it's different from the one you might have learned in school or books.
Unlike the traditional hero's journey, mothers have to descend into the depths of their own soul. No one comes out of motherhood the same, and with the right perspective and resources, we can make sure that transformation is for the better.
Motherhood should be full of joy and meaning. But it often isn't. Why is that? On Down the Well, Elle Rowley, talks through the mother's hero's journey, and why it's different from the one you might have learned in school or books.
Unlike the traditional hero's journey, mothers have to descend into the depths of their own soul. No one comes out of motherhood the same, and with the right perspective and resources, we can make sure that transformation is for the better.
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