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LOVE, SEX, MARRIAGE and everything in between! That's what Khadeen and Devale Ellis spent 5 years discussing on their Webby Award winning podcast Dead Ass. Now that they've talked it out, disagreed, and come to many understandings, it's time for something new. Ellis Ever After, formerly Dead Ass, is what's next. From ironing out the newlywed blues, to being seasoned spouses who know each other inside and out. Each week, the Ellises discuss what they know now about love, sex, marriage, parenting, money, and much much more. And they've invited their team, Tribble, Josh and Matt to add their two cents. 

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Navigating Burnout

Navigating Burnout

2025-05-1401:21:03

What do you do when you're tired, worn out, at your max? Do you keep pushing through the stress? Do you take a break to recharge? Or do you even notice when you're on the verge of burnout? In this episode, The Ellises and the gang talk about burnout. How it feels to be tired and ambitious. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Legacy Beyond Wealth

Legacy Beyond Wealth

2025-05-0701:25:02

We always talk about legacy and what we want to leave behind in. But beyond generational wealth, what does legacy really mean? In this episde, the Ellises talk about what wisdom they hope to impart on their four boys, and the crew joins in on the conversation. #DeadAss.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Letting Go

Letting Go

2025-04-3001:05:04

The old saying goes, you cannot receive with a closed fist. And when we hold onto the people, habits, and feelings that are no longer serving us, we miss out on the blessings that are meant for us. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale chat with the crew about being on their Queen Elsa ish...letting go. #DeadAssSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friendship After 40

Friendship After 40

2025-04-2301:29:43

As we get older and our lives change, so do our relationships and the requirements we have for them. In this episode, the Ellises chat with the crew about what friendship looks like for them at their big big ages. #DeadAssSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
New Season For A Reason

New Season For A Reason

2025-04-1601:37:12

We're baaaaaaacckkkk! And things are a little different. A new name, a new look, and a few new voices. But it's always and forever #DeadAss! In this episode, Khadeen, Devale and the crew talk about the changes ahead for the podcast, and what they're looking forward to in this new season.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The podcast formerly known as Dead Ass with Khadeen and Devale Ellis is now Ellis Ever After. The same great conversations with more knowledge, more opinions and more voices. Listen to full episodes of Ellis Ever After starting April 16th. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Listener Letters

Listener Letters

2024-12-1801:26:12

It's that time again! The Ellises get all up in your business and put their two cents in. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
No Drama For Christmas

No Drama For Christmas

2024-12-1101:15:541

The Holiday season is here! That means spending time with family you haven't seen all year. In this episode, The Ellises talk grace and understanding when it comes to making amends before the family functions. Do we understand the intent behind the actions that cause rifts in the family unit? And are we communicating the impact that it had on our relationships? Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nail Polish or Nah?

Nail Polish or Nah?

2024-12-0401:12:04

Styles change for every generation. The things certain styles used to mean to our generation, don't carry the same weight to our kids' generation. In this episode, Khadeen & Devale express how they address their fears when it comes to their kids' changing styles, while still trying to understand their perspective on trends, personal style and expression. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The dream of a lifetime for a woman in entertainment is to be the host of her own TV show. In this episode of A Day With Kay, Khadeen speaks with a woman who has made that dream, and many more come true. Khadeen talks with Sherri Shepherd about her journey to the top and what matters the most to her along the way. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Fight Night

Fight Night

2024-11-2001:14:56

There's a day that every boy Dad anticipates. The day that his son tries to knuck 'cause he is buck! In this episode, the Ellises discuss when that fateful day came for Devale and their oldest son. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Power of Conceding

The Power of Conceding

2024-11-1301:19:361

When you've been in a relationship for a long time, you learn that every argument just isn't worth having. In this episode, The Ellises talk about how admitting when you are wrong, can be the best way to get along. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Get Your Freak On

Get Your Freak On

2024-11-0601:04:422

The secret to having a great marriage is keeping the spark alive. That means date nights, acts of service and having sex like two strangers who just met at a bar. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss how they keep their relationship hot, steamy and interesting with casual sex. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Set your alarms, because Christmas is coming! And your new favorite Christmas movie, Meet Me Next Christmas is coming to Netflix on November 6th. Kalen Allen co-stars in the film alongisde Devale, and in this episode, the Ellises talk to him about how knowing exactly who he is has helped him reach the stars. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Keeping Up With The Kids

Keeping Up With The Kids

2024-10-2301:07:521

We might feel young, but when it comes to the fashion, technology, lingo and trends that our kids are hip to, we are completely out of the loop. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk about how they are trying to keep up with what their kids know, so that they can be better parents. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The first time sexologist and author Shan Boodram was on the show, she played the role of referee in a heated conversation about sex between this Ellises. 5 years, another child, and a vasectomy later, the conversation is a lot different. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
As the oldest sister and the mother of four boys, Khadeen knows the value of having a bond with your siblings. Whether it's getting through the awkward parts of life with the help of a big sister, or banding together to get your parents to do what you want them to, the power that siblings have when they are close is unmatched. In this episode of Dead Ass Presents A Day With Kay, Khadeen talks to Etienne and Ivy Coco Maurice about how their bond and the love they have for each other helps them show up for our community in a big way. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
After a long day of work, errands, and an attempt at self-care, the question every mom hates to hear - what's for dinner? In this episode of Dead Ass Presents A Day with Kay, Khadeen talks to food blogger, tv host and chef, Alex Hill, about how her love for creating fun, flavorful dishes, keeps her motivated to enthusiastically answer that question every single day. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
While a lot of people think that men can't be faithful, we found four faithful Black men saying it doesn't serve them not to be. In this episode, Devale talks with the hosts of the Nice & Neat Podcast, Duke Inehacho, Omar Bolden and Jalon Webster, about why they chose monogamy. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
After struggling with symptoms from PCOS, Candice Bolden took charge of her fate and changed her life. Now, just months after having her first baby, her struggles are totally different! #DeadAssSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Shameka Daniels

Great episode for a number of reasons! I love y’all!

Nov 14th
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tinsae negusu

you are inspirational and love you guys , Dead ass!

May 14th
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Theresa Kingsberry

You should of had mimi and pops on this episode

Mar 2nd
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Marquandra Parker

Much needed

Apr 28th
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Nakita Moore

Lock And Key analogy is spot on.

Feb 9th
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Nakita Moore

Love This Podcast.

Feb 8th
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joan wanjiku

i loove y'all (from kenya)

Oct 15th
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Candance Kenyatta

After listening to this episode I knew Kadeen is a fellow Sagittarius.

May 21st
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Sydneyyy 💕

"I dont want you to need me I just want you to want me" A WOOORD

Apr 20th
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Jess

this was a FANTASTIC episode, I loved hearing the Black male perspective on this subject and would love to hear similar episodes to this in the future! 👍

Apr 8th
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Somori Tiwalola

Hiii what do you guys think about having a three some? or should I say have you guys considered having a threesome? I adore your relationship and may the LORD keep you guys and your family 🙏❤️ j love your podcast #DEADASS

Mar 23rd
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LaToya Johnson

Omg I am so glad y'all are back!! I missed y'all soon much!!!

Mar 4th
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Lisheita Robinson

Amazing episode!!!!!

Feb 19th
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Candance Kenyatta

love yall!!!! listening to you two, and watching your videos give me life and hope❤ Wishing you both much success!!!! #mywillandjada

Jan 21st
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Randy Williams

I'm mad I'm so late on this podcast! I went back to the beginning and listening to EVERYTHING!!! Yall are great! Thank you! 🙏🏾🇯🇲

Jan 7th
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Angela Guinyard

This is so for me.

Dec 7th
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Tavia Wilkinson

Forreal stop saying woman cuz it's mad hard to get my man to get in the mood.

Nov 16th
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Damorn Kenya

I liike,glad I discovered yall

Nov 11th
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Damorn Kenya

I liiiike

Nov 11th
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Rachel Anderson

khadeen is not allowed to say "due diligence" anymore 😆 its every episode

Oct 23rd
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