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Gretchen Rubin is HAPPIER, and she wants you to be happier too. The #1 bestselling author of The Happiness Project and Better Than Before gets more personal than ever as she brings her practical, manageable advice about happiness and good habits to this lively, thought-provoking podcast. Gretchen’s cohost and guinea pig is her younger sister, Elizabeth Craft, a TV writer and producer living in Los Angeles, who (lovingly) refers to Gretchen as her happiness bully. Part of the Audacy Network.
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We talk to prize-winning author Elizabeth Strout about her acclaimed new novel, “Tell Me Everything.” In it, Lucy Barton, Olive Kitteridge, and other characters return in connected stories of murder, marriage, parents and children, and love. This novel is thought-provoking and compulsively readable.
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Tell Me Everything by Elizabeth Strout
Gift Giving Quiz: gretchenrubin.com/quiz
Little Happier episode
Elizabeth is reading: Swan Song by Elin Hilderbrand (Amazon, Bookshop)
Gretchen is reading: Martyr! by Kaveh Akbar (Amazon, Bookshop)
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We’re often told “Don’t put words in people’s mouths” or “Don’t tell other people what they feel,” but as these examples from “Game of Thrones” and “Terms of Endearment” illustrate, sometimes the tender thing to do is to say, “I know you love me.”
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Get Gretchen Rubin’s newest book Life in Five Senses to see how she discovered a surprising path to a life of more energy, creativity, luck, and love: by tuning in to the five senses. Now available - order here.
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We revisit a conversation with bestselling author Susan Cain, renowned author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking and Bittersweet: How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole. We also talk about why we should be the one to make the plan, and a listener suggests a hack for making it easier to use online recipes.
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The Quiet Life: A Journal by Susan Cain
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We explore ways to make each day of the week special by recognizing small pleasures. We discuss a practical hotel checkout tip to avoid forgetting items. Also, we examine the value of allowing yourself to go into “shock” when facing big assignments or feedback, and how this pause can lead to clearer thinking and better responses. Plus we ask, “What lesson have you learned the hard way?”
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Four Tendencies Personality Quiz: Are you an Upholder, Questioner, Obliger, or Rebel?
Happiness Hacks Card Deck
Elizabeth is reading: Swan Song by Elin Hilderbrand (Amazon, Bookshop)
Gretchen is reading: Martyr! by Kaveh Akbar (Amazon, Bookshop)
Get in touch: podcast@gretchenrubin.com
Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.
Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app.
To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy
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A passage from “A Wrinkle in Time,” a masterpiece of children’s literature, holds a subtle but important lesson about human nature and the transformative power of love.
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Get Gretchen Rubin’s newest book Life in Five Senses to see how she discovered a surprising path to a life of more energy, creativity, luck, and love: by tuning in to the five senses. Now available - order here.
Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.
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We discuss a useful lesson in communication drawn from “Real Housewives” drama. We also talk about why it’s such a relief to get up-to-date on photo albums, and we compare our views on the “Previously, on XYZ…” segments at the beginning of TV shows.
Resources and links related to this episode:
Gift Giving Quiz
What's Your Gift-Appreciation Profile
Quotation: George Orwell, “Charles Dickens"
Get in touch: podcast@gretchenrubin.com
Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.
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1We discuss a challenge to wear three items of clothing we are not currently using--and explore ways to overcome common obstacles. We also share creative happiness hacks for welcoming overnight guests, and examine how people who tend to be rigid can adjust their rules to reduce stress in changing circumstances.
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New products
Four Tendencies quiz
Elizabeth is reading: Swan Song by Elin Hilderbrand (Amazon, Bookshop)
Gretchen is reading: Super-Infinite: The Transformations of John Donne by Katherine Rundell (Amazon, Bookshop)
Get in touch: podcast@gretchenrubin.com
Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.
Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app.
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At Giverny, artist Claude Monet spent a lot of time, energy, and money to create the circumstances that he knew would feed his creativity. He made the pond and planted the water lilies that inspired some of his greatest masterpieces.
Get in touch: podcast@gretchenrubin.com
Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.
Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app.
To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy
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October 10th is World Mental Health Day, and to mark the event, Yale professor Dr Laurie Santos of the Happiness Lab podcast has assembled the “Titans of Happiness”: a crew of hosts and happiness experts from the top wellness podcasts. I was thrilled to join this panel with Dr. Joy Harden Bradford, a clinical psychologist and host of the podcast Therapy for Black Girls, Dan Harris, host and author of the 10% Happier podcast, and Laurie Santos--and all of us were a little starstruck by another extra special guest… ELMO! We talk hacks for building relationships with others, Elmo's viral moment, and self compassion. Here’s part 2.
Get in touch: podcast@gretchenrubin.com
Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.
Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app.
To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy
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We discuss a listener’s suggestion for scheduling a “sour hour” of complaints and grievances. We also share some useful information about how to relieve the pain of muscle knots, as well as some ideas for avoiding avoidance.
Resources and links related to this episode:
Muscle knots
Vote Forward
Happier app
Elizabeth is reading: The Thursday Murder Club by Richard Osman (Amazon, Bookshop)
Gretchen is reading: The Third Realm by Karl Ove Knausgaard (Amazon, Bookshop)
Get in touch: podcast@gretchenrubin.com
Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.
Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app.
To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy
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A brief discussion about this question posed to the AI assistant Claude—“What’s going on in your head?”—has haunted me ever since I first heard it.
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Get Gretchen Rubin’s newest book Life in Five Senses to see how she discovered a surprising path to a life of more energy, creativity, luck, and love: by tuning in to the five senses. Now available - order here.
Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.
To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy
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October 10th is World Mental Health Day, and to mark the event, Yale professor Dr Laurie Santos of the Happiness Lab podcast has assembled the “Titans of Happiness”: a crew of hosts and happiness experts from the top wellness podcasts. I was thrilled to join this panel with Dr. Joy Harden Bradford, a clinical psychologist and host of the podcast Therapy for Black Girls, Dan Harris, host and author of the 10% Happier podcast, and Laurie Santos--and all of us were a little starstruck by another extra special guest… ELMO! We talk hacks for building relationships with others, Elmo's viral moment, and self compassion. Here’s part 1.
Get in touch: podcast@gretchenrubin.com
Follow on social media:
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@GretchenRubin on TikTok
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@LizCraft on Instagram
@LizCraft on Threads
Get the podcast show notes by email every week: happiercast.com/shownotes
Get Gretchen Rubin’s newest New York Times bestselling book Life in Five Senses to see how she discovered a surprising path to a life of more energy, creativity, luck, and love: by tuning in to the five senses. Now available wherever books are sold.
Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.
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We discuss an unexpected way to boost creativity (both ideas and production) that has worked for both of us. We also share a listener’s suggestion about an easy way to gamify clutter-clearing (an approach that also reduces decision-fatigue), and we talk about why identifying our quirks can contribute to our happiness.
Get in touch: podcast@gretchenrubin.com
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@GretchenRubin on ThreadsGet the podcast show notes by email every week: happiercast.com/shownotes
Get the resources and all links related to this episode here: http://happiercast.com/503
Get Gretchen Rubin’s newest New York Times bestselling book Life in Five Senses to see how she discovered a surprising path to a life of more energy, creativity, luck, and love: by tuning in to the five senses. Now available wherever books are sold.
Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.
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A change in the standing operating procedure of the CIA demonstrates a basic truth about human nature.
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Get Gretchen Rubin’s newest book Life in Five Senses to see how she discovered a surprising path to a life of more energy, creativity, luck, and love: by tuning in to the five senses. Now available - order here.
Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.
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In honor of Get Organized Week, we’re sharing some of our favorite tips to clear clutter from our daily lives.
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Get Gretchen Rubin’s newest New York Times bestselling book Life in Five Senses to see how she discovered a surprising path to a life of more energy, creativity, luck, and love: by tuning in to the five senses. Now available wherever books are sold.
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We talk about why going to a reunion can give us such a big happiness boost. We also discuss research about the “dinner-party problem,” and what to do about it, and we explore a question about attitudes towards parenting.
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Get the resources and all links related to this episode here: http://happiercast.com/502
Get Gretchen Rubin’s newest New York Times bestselling book Life in Five Senses to see how she discovered a surprising path to a life of more energy, creativity, luck, and love: by tuning in to the five senses. Now available wherever books are sold.
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We often assume that someone is a certain “kind” of person instead of realizing how circumstances may be influencing their behavior—a mistake I made when judging the actions of stars Gilda Radner and Gene Wilder in a drugstore.
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Get Gretchen Rubin’s newest book Life in Five Senses to see how she discovered a surprising path to a life of more energy, creativity, luck, and love: by tuning in to the five senses. Now available - order here.
Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.
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We discuss a new mantra to reframe a all-too-common annoyance, and the value of a new parasocial friend. Also, we discuss Orange Theory and hiking in Fryman Canyon.
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Get the podcast show notes by email every week: happiercast.com/shownotes
Get Gretchen Rubin’s newest New York Times bestselling book Life in Five Senses to see how she discovered a surprising path to a life of more energy, creativity, luck, and love: by tuning in to the five senses. Now available wherever books are sold.
Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.
To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy
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We discuss why you might want to transform an acquaintance into a friend as well as specific ways to deepen that relationship. We also discuss an important happiness lesson modeled for us by our parents, and suggest a hack to make emails more efficient (and shorter).
Get in touch: podcast@gretchenrubin.com
Follow on social media:
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@LizCraft on Threads
@GretchenRubin on ThreadsGet the podcast show notes by email every week: happiercast.com/shownotes
Get the resources and all links related to this episode here: http://happiercast.com/501
Get Gretchen Rubin’s newest New York Times bestselling book Life in Five Senses to see how she discovered a surprising path to a life of more energy, creativity, luck, and love: by tuning in to the five senses. Now available wherever books are sold.
Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.
To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy
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A sweet story about a dog named Sparkle reveals many truths about the nature of love, sacrifice, independence, and marriage.
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Get the podcast show notes by email every week: happiercast.com/shownotes
Get Gretchen Rubin’s newest book Life in Five Senses to see how she discovered a surprising path to a life of more energy, creativity, luck, and love: by tuning in to the five senses. Now available - order here.
Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.
To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy
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Yep, sometimes you just need a sour hour to throw your pity party and then get back to business!
A good example of fundamental attribution error and a great reminder to give grace whenever you can. ✨
Making the most of the first 3 weeks seems like a riff on "the early bird gets the worm." I wonder if there's a way to soften boundaries when they've hardened to artificially recreate that first 3 weeks feeling?
Relistened today. Great idea!!
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I am A. Therapist and what we tell people is. I am a therapist but not your therapist. So if she is a veterinarian, then that is what she should tell people. I am a veterinarian, but not your veterinarian. Set boundaries and stick to them.
I'm writing 24 minutes in 2024 my Bible scriptures that I wish to memorize in calligraphy. I'm building muscle memory for scriptures and calligraphy.
hahaha the smell of skunks!!! this made me smile
Bad idea to mess with pharmaceuticals.
Unfortunately, dogs don't live multiple decades no matter what food they eat.
Dogs don't live multiple decades.
Cruel to catch and eat tunas and salmons! They have faces and mothers, and feel pain!
going to start implementing the 1 minute rule!!
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I find some of the advertising offensive.