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Hot Marriage. Cool Parents.
Author: Jamie Otis and Doug Hehner
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Are you looking for someone to share their deepest, darkest secrets on keeping their marriage spicy? Are you like, “puhhlease DISH on how to be a cool parent .. because, yeah ... I dunno!” Well Jamie Otis and Doug Hehner have got all you hubbies and wifeys - and mommies and daddies - covered, because each week they find a guest who will SPILL all their dirty secrets! Because we all wanna keep our marriages hot and our parenting cool!
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Doug and Jamie (Mostly Jamie ) are now 27 Weeks Pregnant!! They have some exciting updates on their nursery renovation, and next steps needed before bringing their twins into the world. Later in the episode, Doug interviews Brandon and Whitney Cawood; parents turned documentary filmmakers, to talk about their documentary coming out, “To Dye For.” They discuss their years long journey after finding out the shocking effect that Synthetic Dyes has on their son, and their extensive research with experts, government officials, and some incredibly important resources for parents that may be experiencing behavioral issues with their children. This is one of the most eye opening episodes of HMCP! Below are some resources and links to find out more information on Whitney and Brandon Cawood, their website, a teaser for their upcoming documentary “To Dye For,” and more information on identifying food and products containing synthetic dyes:
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For the first time on Hot Marriage Cool Parents Doug has both his sister Lyndsay and brother Matt. The 3 of them give you a glimpse of what a Hehner family dinner is like. Later in the episode, Doug brings up his addiction and impact it had on his family. His brother Matt shares the feelings he’s been holding onto for the longest time. This was a much needed conversation to help heal and move forward!
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Some exciting updates regarding the nursery renovation for their twins, and the anticipation for their arrival around October. Hear all about whether the nursery will be done in time, and what other renovation plans they have up their sleeves. Plus, a very special guest joins the podcast this week….Doug’s sister Lyndsay. Hear all about her initial thoughts when Doug told her he was marrying a stranger, the family reaction, and what it was like watching the ceremony take place. Lyndsay shares a never before told story about her interaction with Jamie in the bathroom that day, and what her first impressions were getting to know Jamie while filming Married at First Sight.
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Jamie and Doug discuss the fallout from setting personal boundaries around the ones you love. Hear why Jamie chose to share her very vulnerable moment, and how she found her calling of service for others and to God. They discuss how some of the most hurtful moments in your life can help shine a light on where your energy is best placed, and how easy it is to get caught up in negativity. Jamie provides some inspiring clarity on how to move forward!
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Jamie and Doug go over their Mother's Day celebration, and how special it was to be with each other. The following day was their son Hendrix’s 4th bday, which sparked some discussion about family and boundaries. A very real and vulnerable discussion came up, on how much it hurts when people you love don’t show up, or remember your kids birthday. They reflect on their move to Florida, and what Jamie has learned by setting up personal boundaries. She gives some very raw and real advice for anyone in that same position!
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Jamie and Doug discuss the big news from the last 2 weeks, which is finding out that the twins are IDENTICAL boys!! They share their feelings about hearing that news, and how faith put them in the position they are in now. Jamie recounts her childhood relationship with the church, and how her faith has changed her life and circumstance. This ias an inspirational story you do not want to mis!! Later in the episode, Jamie and Doug answer the most common questions asked by their Frans; everything from baby names, to nursery themes, to the type of mascara Jamie uses!
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Jamie and Doug recap the events of their first gender reveal, which came back as a boy. Twin no.2 was still unknown, since the early gender test can only pick up male or female, not both. Here all about the intimate party they had, the reaction from the kids, and the exciting news of finding out whether they are identical or fraternal. Later in the episode, Jamie dives deep into her past, and talks about the struggle of a toxic home environment, and what helped her mentally move on from constant chaos, to finding a better, safer, and more peaceful mindset. Doug also shares a memory from their first couple weeks together, when he noticed a shift in Jamie’s thinking. The end of the episode covers a recap of the entire season 17 Married at First Sight. The couple does not hold back with their thoughts on the finale, cast, season, and experts. They also share how hopeful they are for more love to be found on the show!
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Twins Update....Jamie had her blood tested at the OBGYN, and got a full update on the twins health. They also have in their possession an envelope containing the gender of both babies, and whether they are fraternal or identical. So far they confirmed that 1 is a boy, based on their early detection test from SneekPeek, which was also confirmed by their OBGYN at the 12 week appointment. Hear all about what is next for baby 2 reveal, how the kids reacted to the first gender reveal, and when the 2nd gender will be announced. Later in the episode, Doug gives his raw and honest reaction to the current MAFS cast, and the season ending drama. Is it time for a change in the MAFS process? Would it be better for the couples to not get together during the season?
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Jamie and Doug discuss their surprising Gender Reveal party and results. Hear all about the party, what it meant to have some amazing friends celebrate with them, and the surprising twist that will most certainly lead to another gender reveal surprise. Later in the episode Doug has a heart to heart chat with their former assistant/honorary family member Diana’s husband Seth. Seth and Doug discuss his life going through Bible School, his 7 years working in group homes as a “mom & dad” throughout South Carolina and Georgia, and how he has so much faith in people. Seth is now a youth pastor at a local church in GA, and Doug is nearly brought to tears after hearing about his service to the community and to youths.
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Jamie is back for this exciting episode, discussing the past 11 weeks of pregnancy with twins. Jamie and Doug share their Gender Reveal Party plans, and what it’s like not having family around to be there. Later in the episode, Jamie and Doug break down the Decision Day for Married at First Sight, and what they feel is missing from these past few seasons. Hear their honest and raw feelings towards the cast and what the experts and producers may want to watch out for to help in future seasons.
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A very special guest joins HMCP LIVE! Doug’s mom Bonnie co hosts this episode and reveals some very interesting thoughts on Doug as a kid, what it was like finding out that Jamie and Doug were pregnant, and her reaction when she found out it is TWINS! Doug and his mom go through everything from bed wetting, her thoughts on Married at First Sight, her feelings when she found out Doug was going on a show, and so much more. Doug also uses this time to get deep with his mom, and apologize for the hurt he caused as he battled opioid addiction. Hear her reaction and response!
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Doug and Jamie bring you into the ultrasound room that revealed they are having twins. Here about what their initial reactions were, and how they feel about the idea of having 4 kids. Doug and Jamie discuss what they learned about how twins are made, what happens in the womb, and the difference between fraternal and identical. Later in the episode, they recap the latest episodes of Married at First Sight and give updated predictions on who stays married and who gets a divorce. There is less than a week before decision day, Doug has a bold prediction about the outcome!
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Jamie and Doug celebrate their recent pregnancy announcement, and share how moved they are with the responses that continue to pour in. They bring you behind the scenes from the moment Jamie found out the test said pregnant, to the excitement in announcing it to the world. After more than 30,000 replies and messages, Jamie answers the most common questions that came in, and even hints at another BIG reveal. Later in the episode, Doug and Jamie give their take on Married At First Sight S17, and share their predictions about which couples they think stay together, or are doomed for divorce. With less than 2 weeks until decision day, they question whether any of the couples decide to stay together.
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Doug and Jamie finally share the news they have been waiting for….they are expecting! Hear all about the journey, the support they had throughout the years, and their thoughts on what the future holds. Jamie also reveals how a neighbor came over with a message that she needed to tell the both of them. Hear all about the spiritual message, which the neighbor described as God speaking to her. The events that followed will give you goosebumps. Plus, Doug initiates the recap of the latest Married at First Sight episode, and why he takes issue with the “Couples Retreat!”
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Doug was faced with a man having a heart attack for the 2nd time a few days ago. Hear him retell the entire story, how he used a defibrillator to bring the man back to life, and the touching message the gentleman and his wife sent through email. Doug can’t help but think there is a higher power at play, and how his life has changed since inviting church and prayer into his life (thanks to his wife Jamie). Earlier in the episode Doug explains the surprise he has in store for Valentine's Day, and hints at a MAJOR ANNOUNCEMENT coming in the next week….
Doug finishes off with his recap of Married At First Sight Ep 16!
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Doug and Jamie discuss their 10 year anniversary plans, and some ideas that came up. They talk about the possibility of having the 10 Year Vow Renewal open to fans that may want to come celebrate, or possibly doing a live stream. This is a very big deal for those that have followed Jamie and Doug’s journey from Day 1. Doug reflects on the fact that fans of the show have been able to watch them get married, fall in love and say I love you to each other for the first time, witnessed both kids being born….So it seems fitting to have a celebration that also includes the Frans that have been with them all these years. Later in the episode, they talk about the current state of Married At First Sight, and recap the season so far through Ep 15. Doug proposes an interesting idea to help with the success of more couples staying married at the end of the show. Could it help if the show style was brought back to its roots? Less couples interacting and more focus on individual marriages?
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Jamie revisits her Bachelor days, and answers fans questions about what the “Behind the Scenes” was like. Plus she chats with a surprise guest Courtney Robertson, who was the winner of that same season. Hear some never before shared details about what Bachelor life was like when the cameras were off, who they were friends with, and some shocking new details about conversations with their seasons Bachelor Ben Flajnik. Later in the episode, Jamie talks about getting through post-partum struggles and anxiety, and the remedies that have helped her through some very dark times!
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Jamie has some exciting news to share about what she’s been up to so far this year. Jamie and Doug discuss their fertility journey thus far, and Jamie discusses her goals for the new year. Later in the episode, Doug and Jamie break down the current Married At First Sight couples, who they believe has a chance, and how these past few seasons compare to their Season (S1) nearly 10 years ago!
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Jamie and Doug have been married for nearly 10 years, and this was the first holiday and New Years not being around family. Doug shares what it was like not having to go anywhere, how they prepared their kids with the fact that they will not be with their grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins during Xmas, as well as their new favorite way to ring in the New Year as a family. After reading a 5 Star review, Doug tells an emotional moment that occurred with his daughter Henley, and the impact that had on him. Later in the episode, there was no holding back on the Married At First Season 17 Recap. Hear all about the frustrations and issues Doug has on the latest seasons of MAFS compared to how it was during Season 1. He also gives some honest feedback on the couples through the most recent episode (ep11), and whether there is any hope for the couples moving past their 1 Month Anniversary. Hot Marriage Cool Parents also welcomes first time guest Dr Blaine Leeds, a practicing general dentist of 28 years, and expert on sleep health. With the issues that Doug has going to sleep & his fear of Dentists, as well as their struggles sleep training their son, this is an eye opening conversation. If you or your kids have dental and/or sleep issues, there are a lot of amazing takeaways from Dr Leeds!
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The first podcast of 2024 starts with Doug having a conversation with a very special guest! This little guest gives her expert feedback on Christmas this past year, and what her 2024 goals are. Later in the episode we hear from Joey Odom, who is on a mission to help families become more intentional, present, and not miss out on priceless family moments. Technology is here to stay, and smartphones have become a new addiction. If you have ever wondered what too much screen time does to a family, a relationship, or even your world around you….Or if you want to be more present in life, build deeper connections, and build a stronger family, this episode is for you!
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Wooow Jamie, you are doing amazing! motherhood, Podcasts, Instagram! You need to give yourself a break! I really feel for you and I identify with a lot of the worries you have, I'm learning so much from you for when I get pregnant with how to manage emotions and fears. I love that Doug is so soo encouraging and supportive and that's his role you don't have to feel bad for him he is there rooting for you 👍🏾stay strong and ride the wave, you got this! 👏🏾X
Wow! I learned a lot about both of you this episode.
Did Douglas say vape??? Instead of smoking in the show he vapes now????
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ I had to leave 10 stars, I've been following Doug and Jamie since episode 1, season 1 of MAFS, I was rooting for you so hard, Jamie crying over being paired with Doug and Doug fell in love at first sight with Jamie. The moment Jamie fell in love with Doug caught on camera made me cry, I watched it over and over because I could feel it. I have followed every step,from the beginning, to sweet Johnathan, from one miscarriage to the next, to little miss Henley Grace, to the baby BOY, (My prediction) coming in may, I've cried, laughed and prayed for you. I absolutely adore you 3 and the love you have for each other, Jamie's raw emotion that you don't even try to hide is so inspiring. I follow you on every platform, and listen to your podcasts and watch your YouTube videos and I am so excited today is the day to find out the gender of your sweet baby!! I have to stay online all day so I know when you post it! you guys are so amazing, God bless you guys and keep doing what you do
enjoy listen to your podcast. always very interesting
I'm at work listening to your podcast via headphones, and the moonwalk backwards comment had me giggling to myself. love listening to you two.
Jamie, you did so good here and totally relate with you...I feel I am very socially awkward and don't always know how to keep a conversation going.
I've never crapped on the bathroom floor but I have crapped myself numerous times since having gastric sleeve and experiencing dumping syndrome. I've cleaned myself in public bathrooms and thrown out my underwear there numerous times. I started carrying wet wipes and a spare pair of underwear in my purse, lol.
Doug and Jamie are so real, hilarious and down to earth. I have been following them since MAFS. I love how they compliment each others stregnths and weaknesses (not that you are weak but if one is weak in one area the other is strong). I love how Castbox has their episodes a day before they come out to everyone else. It definetely makes my Thursdays better and more enjoyable. I also love listening to them and following their lives. It makes me think that if I lived close to Jamie we would be Best Frieamily!!! @hotmarriagecoolparents @jamieotis
Hi Doug and Jamie! I love love love you both and have been following you both since MAFS. Your podcast is one of the few that I consistently listen to. I appreciate how open and honest you both are and how engaged you are with your frans. Love you both and keeping my fingers crossed for another baby Hehner. @jamieotis @DougHehner #rainbowbaby
AJ hates not being in control of the situation! And he knew that they were all going to be there that's what the dinner was all about. He really needs to control his outbursts or its gonna drive Stephanie away.
Best thing my sister in law told me is that a parent never forgets any children they've had and it's okay to celebrate their motherhood and fatherhood on mother's or Father's day by recognizing those children they have and have lost. It won't "remind" them of anything they don't already know and think about.
just had my 2nd pregnancy and 1st ectopic pregnancy where I lost my baby and left fallopian tube
I ❤ y'alls honesty, very down to earth. #momlife #wehaveallbeenthere #poopstation
CONGRATS to our growing FRANILY! So excited for y'all! ❤
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