It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain
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Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise.
On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.
Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!
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To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.
Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!
A Sony Music Entertainment production.
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
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Lala steps into her pink confession booth and gets into all your deepest, darkest secrets. Weeing in the bath, having sex where your mum can hear and waiting for a break up so you can have sex with your ex - are they a sinner or a saint? Plus is there dodgy behaviour going on in your love life? Lala calls out your relationship red flags.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question or get something off your chest get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Lala gets into your latest sex and relationship dilemmas. This week she is applauding one mums approach to not having all the answers when it comes to the sex education with her kid. She gives advice on a s**tty marriage where it might just be time to pull the plug and identifies with a woman who feels objectified over her tattoos. Do you ever feel like that yourself? Join in on the conversation over on instagram @lalalaletmeexplain.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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For your hot topic this Monday Lala talks to Ashley and Lauren from the Nip, Tuck, Not Giving A... podcast. Both girls are from the cosmetic world having been former patient coordinators and both have had multiple procedures themselves. They discuss what and who we are having cosmetic surgery for. The judgement that surrounds beauty procedures as a whole and the best way to approach surgery if you are thinking of having it yourself.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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It's Friday and Lala is here with your regrets, admissions and confessions like regretting motherhood, going down on your best friends sister and w**king on work time. Plus is it a red flag if siblings are slapping each others asses?? Lala needs your help with this one!
Fess up to Father Lala for your sins @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Lala gives her advice on your latest questions, from a therapist mansplaining a reason for cheating (red flag anyone?) to oniony odours and *TRIGGER WARNING* what to do if you think you might have been date raped?
If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
If you are a victim of rape you can find help at rapecrisis.org.uk and thesurvivorstrust.org and for men survivorsuk.org
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As a previous sexual health educator for the NHS, Lala knows her chlamydia from her crabs. And we should all be paying attention because we're all at risk, even people in relationships. Plus in her online poll she found that 75% of you have had unprotected sex to please someone else, but the unprotected sex is never worth the stress...
If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Lala's cofession booth is open, from feeling like being a step mum sucks to sexting your boss, you've been coming forward with all of your admissions. Plus 'my boyfriend gave me a gift that was owned by his ex girlfriend' is it a red flag?? And, do your weekend right with your Friday night reminder.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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In this week's agony aunt episode Lala advises on trauma and an emtionally unintelligent partner, the intrusion of being asked how many sexual partners you've been with. And large hips... could that prevent you from being able to do certain sex positions?! Tune in on Friday for more high jinx and shenanigans.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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2WARNING: This episode contains distressing content and imagary relating to the sexual abuse of children.
If you've watched 'Quiet On The Set' the documentary about the abuse suffered by children on Nickelodeon productions, I'm sure you'll be feeling sickened, outraged and appalled at what went on. But it's not just in Hollywood productions that this kind of abuse is occuring. Lala invites on an anonymous guest who decades after his sexual abuse found the strength to speak up. Lala speaks about what grooming looks like, what signs parents can look out for as possible indications their child is being abused and asks that if anyone thinks they might have been victim of the same abuse as her guest, to please come forward.
If you think you may have been or know of a victim of this abuse get in touch with @asklalaletmeexplain or @whitehotpanic on Instagram
If you have been a victim of child abuse you can find help here help@NSPCC.org.uk
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More of you have been stepping into Father Lala's confession box and owning up to all your sordid secrets. From sneaky shaves to p**sy wine... it's always a relief when you fess up. Plus not contributing to the bills, the silent treatment for declining sex , is it a red flag? And head into your weekend right with Lala's Friday night reminder.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Lala addresses your latest dating and relationship questions. From the curse of the lingering ex to the lingering suspision that you're being cheated on, relationships can be incredibly trying and complicated but working on yourself is always rewarding.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Sending nudes. It's not as straightforward as it sounds. Just don't send them right? But it's more complicated than that for alot of us. They can appeal to a side that can make you feel good sure but what dangers are you exposing yourself to when you send them? And what about receiving unsolicited d**k pics? There's almost always a darker side when it comes to nudes...
If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Judge Lala is back to comment on your confessions. Will you be forgiven or not? We are talking revenge sex. Lala also navigates your red flags and gives a very important Friday night Reminder.
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How do I differentiate between love bombing or someone just being really into me? When should I cut off a friendship with a married man? Is it too much to want the person I'm dating to stay the night after we've slept with each other?
Lala navigates through each of these questions in this weeks agony aunt episode and discusses the pros and cons and what you should be looking out for!
If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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In this week's Special Agony Aunt episode Lala tackles your questions. Ever found an item of clothing bad for feminism? Are you getting the ICK for no reason? Are you struggling with your sex drive? You can join the conversation on Lala’s Instagram account @lalaletmeexplain
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Lala is bidding farewell to Icks on a Friday and delving into your confessions! Prepare to be absolved of your sins...or not.
Plus, Lala dives into your burning red flag questions and shares her signature Friday night reminder.
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Join Lala in this week's Agony Aunt episode as she addresses your pressing questions. From navigating the complexities of domestic abuse to exploring the nuances of consent, Lala delves into important topics with knowledge and insight giving valuable advice and support. You can join the conversation on Lala’s Instagram account @lalaletmeexplain
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In 2015, two children accused parents and teachers of running a baby-eating satanic cult in a Hampstead school. Conspiracy theorists around the world were gripped as four mothers fought for justice.
Lala discusses cases that she has worked across in previous years and guides us through satanic cults, conspiracy theories and stalking.
Credit: Channel 4.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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You lot get Icky with a childish sense of humour, rapping WhatsApp messages and referring to certain anatomical parts as The Stump! Lala tries to get her head around red flags that have been flying high in your lives which are a rollercoaster of laughs, revelations, and cringey!
If you'd like to be involved and ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Lala tackles your burning questions in this week's Agony Aunt episode. Do you feel embarrassed by your high sex drive? Does your partner show signs of postpartum depression? Ever been totally thrown by men who hold misogynist and just plain idiotic views? Lala shares her insights on people who support Andrew Tate.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram.
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