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Join Kail Lowry and Becky Hayter as these two rekindle their friendship and navigate the highs, lows, and hilarious in-betweens of life in their 30s. They’ll dive into the joys and challenges of raising families, staying true to friendships, and keeping up with pop culture - all while embracing the unpredictable mix of karma and chaos that life throws at them. With Kail’s unfiltered outlook and Becky’s infectious humor, Karma & Chaos is a refreshing, real, and relatable take on modern adulthood. New episodes every Tuesday!
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Seasons of Friendships

Seasons of Friendships

2024-12-0901:18:46

Becky and Kail are joined by Alessandra to talk about the importance of friendships throughout the years and how they have changed. Becky explains the complexities of her male friendships, Alessandra shares how she worked through political differences with a friend, and Kail feels like she's only now learning things she should have learned in her 20s.  Check out Becky on IG @hayter25 and her blog on beckyhayter.com.As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter! Thank you for supporting our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KARMA Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/KARMA Hiya: Go to Hiyahealth.com/KARMA to get 50% off your first order OPositive: Head to OPositiv.com/KARMA or enter KARMA at checkout for 25% off your first purchase Qualia: Go to Qualialife.com/KARMA for up to 50% off and use code KARMA at checkout for an additional 15% off
My Favorite Era of Life is..

My Favorite Era of Life is..

2024-12-0201:00:052

Becky expresses her excitement for this new journey with Kail and the podcast, while Kail tries to not fall into old bad habits. Becky was asked what her favorite era of her life was and it starts the conversation around why our 30s end up being better than our 20s. Both listener stories revolve around grief and losing someone and makes Kail cry again. Check out Becky on IG @hayter25 and her blog on beckyhayter.com.As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter! Thank you for supporting our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KARMAHappy Mammoth: Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com using code KARMA at checkoutNaked Wines: To get 6 bottles of wine for $39.99, head to NakedWines.com/KARMA and use code KARMA for both the code AND PASSWORD.Skims: Shop SKIMS Holiday Shop at SKIMS.com. Available in styles for women, men, kids and even pets!Uncommon Goods: To get 15% off your next gift, go to UncommonGoods.com/karma
Lindsie joins the show and Becky gets to ask her all the juicy questions about her life. Kail clears up a situation with Becky from five years ago. Lindsie explains why she has yet to unpack some of her past trauma and why she's always felt like the outsider in her own family. Check out Becky on IG @hayter25 and her blog on beckyhayter.com.As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter! Thank you for supporting our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA OPositive: Head to OPositiv.com/KARMA or enter KARMA at checkout for 25% off your first purchase Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/bmnd Uncommon Goods: To get 15% off your next gift, go to UncommonGoods.com/karma 
Mixed Emotions

Mixed Emotions

2024-11-1801:12:241

[TW: THIS EPISODE CONTAINS MENTIONS OF MISCARRIAGES, LOSS, AND SUICIDE] Becky shares some good news regarding wife Leah and their IVF journey, but also talks about the mixed emotions that has come with it. A listener writes in about losing both her estranged biological father and amazing stepdad in a short amount of time and how she's had to nagivate her grief. Kail doubles down on not wanting her kids to take care of her in old age. Check out Becky on IG @hayter25 and her blog on beckyhayter.com.As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter! Thank you for supporting our sponsors! Good American: For $50 OFF your first pair use code KARMA at GoodAmerican.com Happy Mammoth: Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com using code BABYMAMA at checkout SKIMS: Shop SKIMS Holiday Shop at SKIMS.com. Available in styles for women, men, kids and even pets! Qualia: Go to Qualialife.com/BABY for up to 50% off and use code BABY at checkout for an additional 15% off Uncommon Goods: To get 15% off your next gift, go to UncommonGoods.com/karma 
Love & Marriage & IVF

Love & Marriage & IVF

2024-11-1154:441

Becky Hayter & wife Leah Paige are trying to expand their family! Becky shares their simultaneous IVF journeys, their unique donor situation, and answers ALL of Kail's questions about the process right down to the egg count and viability. Thank you for supporting our sponsors! Qualia: Go to https://Qualialife.com/BABY for up to 50% off and use code BABY at checkout for an additional 15% off. Hiya: Go to https://hiyahealth.com/BABYMAMA to get 50% off your first order Branch Basics: Get 15% off Branch Basics with the code BMND at https://branchbasics.com/BMND #branchbasicspod BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA OPositive: Take proactive care of your vaginal health and head to https://OPositiv.com/BABY or enter BABY at checkout for 25% off your first purchase. To learn more about Becky follow her on IG @hayter25 and check out her blog on beckyhayter.com As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter!
The DDC (Dead Dads Club)

The DDC (Dead Dads Club)

2024-11-0401:01:242

In the premiere episode of Karma & Chaos, Kail and Becky dive into the ups and downs of their long-time friendship and discuss what they learned after years apart. Reflecting on the past five years, they address rumors (are they in love with each other?), clarify the original timing for their podcast’s launch, and share a heartfelt message about their vision for the show.  Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Uncommon Goods: To get 15% off your next gift, go to UNCOMMONGOODS.com/BABYMAMA  BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA  Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/BABYMAMA  Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the co de BABYMAMA at checkout. SKIMS: Shop SKIMS Bras at SKIMS.com. Now available in 62 sizes (30A - 46H). After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. We hope you loved this first episode, to learn more about Becky follow her on IG @hayter25 and check out her blog on beckyhayter.com As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter!
Karma & Chaos Trailer

Karma & Chaos Trailer

2024-10-3000:291

Welcome to Karma & Chaos! Where we will be diving into life in our 30’s, friendships, raising families and so much more! See you every Tuesday!
The End of an Era

The End of an Era

2024-10-2938:531

In this emotional final episode of BMND, Kail and Vee share their decision to close this chapter, offering listeners an inside look at the journey leading to this moment. They discuss how long they’ve grappled with this choice, sharing the challenges, memorable moments, and the incredible connection they’ve built with the Baby Mamas community. Though Baby Mamas No Drama is coming to an end, Kail and Vee hint at exciting new projects and adventures just around the corner. Tune in for an emotional goodbye and a glimpse at what’s next. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Uncommon Goods: To get 15% off your next gift, go to UNCOMMONGOODS.com/BABYMAMA  BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA 
Kail and Vee discuss the "three loves theory" and if it fits their experience. Vee finds a toxic facebook group of people trash talking their step kids. Kail reads a story of a controlling husband and explains why women deserve more than they're getting. In Down in the Dm's, a Valentine's Day surprise takes an unexpected turn and a hookup story involving a popular R&B singer. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Good American: http://www.goodamerican.com/bmnd  Qualia: Go to Qualialife.com/BABY for up to 50% off and use code BABY at checkout for an additional 15% off. For your convenience Qualia Senolytic is also available at select GNC locations near you. Hiya: Receive 50% off your first order. To claim this deal you must go to hiyahealth.com/BABYMAMA  Happy Mammoth: You can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout Naked Wines: Head to NakedWines.com/BABYMAMAS and put in my code BABYMAMAS for both the code AND password for 6 bottles of wine for JUST $39.99 with shipping included Skims: Shop SKIMS Bras at SKIMS.com. Now available in 62 sizes (30A - 46H). After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. As always check out our website http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme
This week on BMND, Vee shares highlights from her recent trip to New York City, where she and her family saw Wicked on Broadway, navigating the chaos of Times Square. She reflects on the importance of decompressing after busy trips and opens up about how having her sister nearby has provided much-needed support. Vee discusses her struggles with control, how therapy has helped her cope with trauma responses, and why letting go has been a key part of her personal growth, all while getting excited for Halloween and spooky season. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/BABYMAMA  BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA  As always check out our website  http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme
You Can't Uneat a Cat

You Can't Uneat a Cat

2024-10-0801:20:191

This week on BMND, Kail is joined by her friend Toni, who gives an update on everything that’s happened since their last episode together. Toni shares an update on her stepdaughter's involvement in a throuple, sparking a discussion about non-traditional relationships and the complexity of human impulses. Toni opens up about her nearly 20-year marriage, separation, and a brief journey into a same-sex relationship. They also explore the unorthodox dynamic of cohabitating with both her ex-husband and her current partner. Toni's Instagram: www.instagram.com/tonimarie724 Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Skims: Shop SKIMS Bras at SKIMS.com. Now available in 62 sizes (30A - 46H). After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout. BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA As always check out our website http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme
I Will Always Level Up

I Will Always Level Up

2024-10-0156:011

This week on BMND, Vee hosts solo and shares some exciting family news! She gives a behind-the-scenes look at the Ohio live show and explains why she was the only one who didn’t know about the surprise guest. Vee also answers listener questions, sharing thoughts on her new smile, revealing her dream job before podcasting, the most "Virgo" thing about her, and spilling the details on her go-to shopping spots. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout.  As always check out our website http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme
This week on BMND, Kail and Vee read a coparenTEA from a listener whose mom devised a bold plan to rescue her baby from an abusive ex. Kail discusses an article about Boy Meets World and the episode that left a lasting impact on Danielle Fishel. The hosts also explore how men often suffer in silence when it comes to weight issues and share the advice they give their children about body image. Meanwhile, Vee breaks down an article weighing the risks and rewards of giving kids cell phones at different developmental stages. In Down in the DM's, a listener reveals why she should have trusted her instincts when her boyfriend kept her from meeting his friends and family. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout.  Naked Wines: So join the Naked Wines community and head to NakedWines.com/babymamas for 6 bottles of wine for JUST $39.99 with shipping included. As always check out our website http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme
This week on BMND, Kail shares an update on a father’s ongoing custody battle after relocating to a different state. In CoparenTEA, a listener seeks advice on managing guardianship over her niece and wonders if she’s handling the situation the right way. Kail and Vee open up about their fears of addiction while discussing the latest Kanye West headlines. Vee also gives her take on the drama between Bre and Chelsea from Selling Sunset. And in Down in the DM's, a listener seeks help dealing with a man who’s driving a wedge between her aunt and the rest of the family. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/BABYMAMA  Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout.  As always check out our website  http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme
Leave Me Wanting More

Leave Me Wanting More

2024-09-1001:02:081

This week on BMND, Kail and Vee share their excitement and nerves leading up to their first live show. They dive into a listener write-in from a mental health counselor who offers valuable insights on therapy and navigating different life stages. Vee reads a co-parenTEA from a stepmom seeking advice on custody issues involving a child who lives in another state. Kail and Vee also break down a co-parenting post from The Shade Room, sharing how they managed Isaac’s birthdays during tough times. Plus, they tackle the spicy question: would they prefer bad sex or no sex at all? And in Down in the DMs, a teacher uncovers a secret between two students, while another listener makes a shocking discovery while cleaning a car for work. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout. BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA SKIMS: Shop the SKIMS Soft Lounge Collection at SKIMS.com. Now available in sizes XXS - 4X. After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select “Baby Mamas No Drama with Kail Lowry & Vee Rivera” in the dropdown menu that follows.
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cumming4u62

2024-09-0301:11:48

This week on BMND, Kail and Vee address the backlash from a recent viral post, diving into the criticisms and their responses. They also discuss Nick Cannon’s interview with Dr. Bryant, sparking a conversation about multiple partner fertility and some surprising statistics around it. In this week’s coparenTEA, there’s a follow-up from last week’s episode, along with a new dilemma from a listener seeking advice on step-siblings who don’t get along. Vee shares her thoughts after being triggered by a coparenTEA post that caught her attention. And in Down in the DMs, a shocking story unfolds as a woman discovers she’s being cheated on through a series of suspicious emails. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Pair Eyewear: Go to paireyewear.com and use code BABYMAMA for 15% off your first Pair BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at SHOPIFY.COM/bmnd Don’t forget to check your emails, if you nominated baby mamas for the people’s choice podcast awards you may be randomly selected to vote in the final rounds. Voting ends on September 6th. As always check out our website  http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme Get tickets to see us in Columbus  http://kaillowry.com with @vibinandkinda thrivin 
I Can't Even Figure Me Out

I Can't Even Figure Me Out

2024-08-2701:13:151

This week on BMND, Kail and Vee dive into a coparenTEA from a listener facing custody issues after a minor argument with their stepson. Vee shares a cautionary tale about the dangers of airing personal matters on social media. The duo also tackles bad advice surrounding anxiety and depression, explores the differences in how men and women experience hormonal cycles, and why they react differently to stress. Plus, Kail recounts her trip to Nobu and debates what popular trends might be overrated. And in Down in the DMs, a shocking story about a woman discovering her on-again, off-again partner has a secret child. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/BABYMAMA  Find the right home at Homes.com 
Don't Leak the Texts

Don't Leak the Texts

2024-08-2001:07:49

This week on BMND, Kail and Vee dive into a coparenTEA from a listener seeking advice on adopting a distant family member who tragically lost her parents. Kail shares her anxiety as Isaac prepares for his first day of high school, leading the hosts to reminisce about their own high school experiences. They revisit Kehlani's co-parenting drama amidst new accusations and leaked texts. They discuss Nick Cannon’s podcast, and Kail reflects on her and Nick's pattern of having children with different partners. In Down in the DMs, a daughter struggles with her parents’ volatile relationship. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Pair Eyewear: Go to paireyewear.com and use code BABYMAMA for 15% off your first Pair MixHers: Head to Mixhers.com/BABYMAMAS and use promo code BABYMAMAS at checkout for an additional 10% off your order! SKIMS: Shop the SKIMS Soft Lounge Collection at SKIMS.com. Now available in sizes XXS - 4X. After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select “Baby Mamas No Drama with Kail Lowry & Vee Rivera” in the dropdown menu that follows. Find the right home at Homes.com 
Am I the A*shole? Volume 2

Am I the A*shole? Volume 2

2024-08-1301:09:121

This week on BMND, Kail and Vee talk about some of their favorite products, give an update on a past Down in the DM, and dive into some wild "Am I the A*shole" stories. Topics include best friends getting pregnant at the same time, a wedding guest who outshines the bride, a husband with questionable feelings for his stepdaughter, and a new mom who goes topless at the family dinner table—plus much more! Make sure to check out our Instagram @babymamasnodramapodcast! And check out Kail and Vee for more! Email: info@babymamasnodramapodcast.com Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/BABYMAMA  BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA Find the right home at Homes.com
This week on BMND, Vee takes the reins as Kail is out, and she sits down with Jo to catch up on the latest happenings in their life. They share details about a recent date night, Isaac’s disappointing introduction to the entertainment industry, and the arrival of a new furry family member. Jo also dives into listener questions, addressing topics like why he’s rarely in Vee’s stories, common arguments they have, their thoughts on love languages, tips for keeping the spark alive in a relationship, and his favorite things about Vee. Make sure to check out our Instagram @babymamasnodramapodcast! And check out Kail and Vee for more! Email: info@babymamasnodramapodcast.com Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! AG1: Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase at drinkAG1.com/nodrama  BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA  Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/BABYMAMA  Pair: Go to paireyewear.com and use code BABYMAMA for 15% off your first Pair. And mention that Baby Mama No Drama sent you in your post-checkout survey to support us.
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Comments (74)

Laura Jean

Absolutely Love that Leah is expecting and Becky you are young and still have options! Love you both!!!

Nov 19th
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jack gray

It is like a fun and honest take on navigating adulthood! I’m all for a good mix of humor and real-life stories. Can’t wait to hear their take on everything from family chaos to pop culture https://tiroalpaloes.es/.

Nov 8th
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Lisa

I used to be one of Kail's biggest cheerleaders, now I am so disappointed in Kail Lowry and the quality of her brand as well as her lack of professionalism. Kail doesn't care who she steps on as she continues to try and keep herself in the limelight. It's gross that you pushed Vee out of the picture, it was her podcast too. Touting how authentic, open and honest you are is a complete lie. I can hardly wait for karma to catch up with you. And folks, hit reddit up and search Kail and Becky.

Nov 5th
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Rebecca Braid

just over here having a little cry.... 😭💔🥰

Oct 29th
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Laura Lisby

my hubs got 2 speeding tickets in 1 day, judge sentenced him to 5 days in jail. he did a friday, sat, sunday then got out and went back sat and sunday and got out midnite sunday nite for real!!!

Jan 23rd
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Jill Baird

You guy's make my day love laughing with ya all.. I also want to be cremated. as my husband don't... he had a job in his Older twins where he did trash outs on Repode houses A lot of them were places where homeless people would go. So they were pretty disgusting. A lot of times they would find urns full of Ashes, and they had no choice but to throw them in the dumpster which he felt shitty about!! So I definitely suggest. To spread your loved one's Ashes.... ❤️

Dec 8th
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Jill Baird

I have a very complicated story about in-laws that I would love to share but considering this podcast is a few week's old not sure if I'm still able to share. but would love some feed back not only what your opinions would be but if anyone else has been in my shoe's! this is the first pod cast I have ever commented on. I'm not sure how people reach out where you see it before it's to late?!

Dec 7th
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Laura Lisby

no bevause he wears a ring, they will say hes marroed to someone else will be the next issue

Oct 24th
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Kaylee Iverson

loooooooooveee

Aug 23rd
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Sarah McMahon

love them but holy ads this episode!

Jun 14th
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Rebecca Braid

trash mags were the 'hate follow' of the 90s/early 00s! there's were constantly building up celebs to tear them down!

Jun 6th
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Heather Timm

Loved the solo cast! You did great!

Feb 3rd
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Joshua Rangel

just gawd awful

Dec 19th
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Samantha Allen

you need to lay weed barrier underneath rock and mulch before you put it down and the weeds are much less of an issue ❤️

Oct 21st
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Krisandra Taylor Hendrix

Y'all need to watch Tell Me Lies on Hulu!! Lying, gaslighting, all the things. #FukBoi

Oct 20th
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Laura Jean

making kids share was always weird to me. we always had a communtiy toy box for when nieces and nephews came over, it was a lot more peaceful!!

Aug 13th
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Misty Blair

Can you add the link to vote?

Jul 6th
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Josie Casillas-Martinez

we having in and out in az

Jul 5th
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Yezenia Lopez

chulas!....V you are an incredible step mom. My sister just got a divorce and my biggest prayer is that if the Dad get a new girl she treats the boys with so much love like you do ! Step moms look up to you! do an episode on how your relationship with Kail got to such a special place! Ok. byyyyyeee chulitas

Jun 22nd
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Chelsea Thomas

been following y'all since 16 and pregnant and now I get these podcasts 🥳

Apr 22nd
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