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You’ve found the Kingdom Sexuality podcast!
We are Alana, Kyle, and Tiera -- three friends who are taking Christian married couples on a journey of transforming your sex life. We tackle the questions the church forgot to answer - like:
• Why did no one prepare us for this part of marriage?
• How can we keep passion alive years later?
• What does God think about oral sex, orgasm, and that would kind of intimacy you both want?
With interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q+As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a thriving, fulfilling, and God-honoring sex life.
Because yes - Christians can talk about sex too.
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We’re busting some of the biggest myths around sex and intimacy in marriage- from “sex should be just like the movies” to “men always want it more” to “you’ll just automatically know what to do in bed.” We’ll unpack the lies, share some laughs, and point you back to the truth God designed for marriage!
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Links from today’s episode:
Higher Desire Wife episode
Lower Desire Husband episode
Christian Sex Therapy: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire
Christian Friendly Sex Positions sex position cards
Passionista book
Starting Life Together Bundle
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Is your phone stealing from your marriage? In this episode, we unpack how tech can quietly kill intimacy, connection, and trust - and share practical ways to set boundaries, guard your heart, and put your spouse before your screen.
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Dwell Audio Bible App: use our link for 25% off!
Episode 246: Is This Normal Part 1
Episode 247: Is This Normal Part 2
Beating 50 Percent: use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!
Mentionables: use code KINGDOM for 10% off!
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This episode is sponsored by the Dwell Audio Bible App! Go to dwellbible.com/kingdom to get it for 25% off. Join us and ‘press play’ on scripture!
Join Alana and Kyle as they sit down with author, lawyer, and speaker Justin Whitmel Earley to talk about why friendship is essential- not just for our faith, but for our marriages and sex lives too. If you’ve ever wondered why marriage alone can’t meet every relational need, or how to take the first step out of loneliness, this conversation is for you.
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Links from today’s episode:
The Body Teaches The Soul
Habits Of The Household
Intentional Fatherhood Podcast
Justinwhitmelearley.com
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Ever had that random moment where your spouse does something totally normal… and it suddenly makes you cringe? Welcome to “the ick.” The KS Team unpacks why it happens, how it can sneak into your sex life, and practical ways to move past it so you can rebuild connection, attraction, and intimacy.
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Links from today’s episode:
My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link!
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We’re back with Part 2 of your “Is this normal?” questions!! Diving into everything from awkward initiations and feeling overstimulated to newlywed fears, ADHD moments in bed, and tricky emotional dynamics. Plus, you'll get the final results of the 'pimple popping poll' at the end!
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Links from today’s episode:
Awaken Love Book
Episode 189: With Josh Spurlock
Episode 166: Initiating 101
Episode 184: Dispelling Wedding Night Fears
Christian Friendly Sex Positions Website
Episode 180: Pregnancy & Postpartum Q&A
Episode 120: Thoughts During Sex
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In this episode, we're tackling all your “Is this normal?” questions. From quick finishes and tingling after orgasm to clean-up quirks and unexpected turn-ons. It’s real talk, no shame, and lots of “oh wow, us too!” moments. (At least, some of us...) You’re not as weird as you think, we promise.
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Links from today’s episode:
Splash Blanket: code KINGDOM for 10% off!
Jess Seitz : Pain Free Intimacy (code KS5 to get 5% off!)
TempDrop: Use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off
Coconu lube: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off
Awaken Love
Better Sex Through Mindfulness
Higher Drive Wife episode 230
Lower Drive Husband episode 242
How To Make Sex A Priority episode 240
Intimacy When You Have Small Kids episode 133
Getting Out Of A Sex Slump episode 224
What’s Not Allowed In The Bedroom episode 236
She Comes First Book
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You sent the questions, and we’re going there- nothing is off the table in this spicy Q&A episode! We’re talking wedding night surprises, lingerie debates, feeling stuck in your sex life, taboo thoughts, Shibari (yup), and so much more. Let’s get into it!
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Links from today’s episode:
Episode 220: The Why Behind This
Evree - use the code KINGDOM for 10% off!
When She Is The One Addicted To Porn
My Counselor Online - You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link!
Free Spice It Up Guide
Free Yes No Maybe Guide
Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire: Episode 177
Prioritizing Sex Episode
The Marriage Gift Book
Dwell Bible App - use the link for 25% off
5 Day Couples Devotional
Masturbation Episode
Mentionables - code KINGDOM for 10% off
Level Up Your Sex Life episode 228
Talk Dirty To Me: Episode 141
Hanna Vaginismus: episode 187
Jess with Pain Free Intimacy- Use the code KS5 to get 5% off!
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What if the secret to a stronger marriage wasn’t another serious talk- but a round of mini golf or a spontaneous dance party in the kitchen? This episode dives into why having fun together might be the spark your marriage needs. From shared hobbies to laughter that leads to deeper intimacy- we're talking playful, powerful connection with a Kingdom twist.
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Is car sex off-limits for Christian couples? In this fun and practical episode, the KS team unpacks the legality, logistics, and creative possibilities of taking intimacy into the backseat. Whether you've got a sedan or a Sprinter van- we’ve got tips, laughs, and biblical encouragement to help you connect wherever the moment takes you.
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Links from today’s episode:
Mentionables (code KINGDOM for 10% off!)
Coconu Singles (code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off!)
His Pleasure Sex Challenge
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In this episode, the KS team is talking to the husbands who have a naturally lower sex drive, and reminding you that you’re not broken or less of a man. They unpack what healthy intimacy can look like when desire is different, and how to navigate it with confidence, communication, and grace. This one’s full of encouragement for both husbands and wives.
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Links from today’s episode:
The Higher Drive Wife
Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire
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We asked, you delivered! This Q&A episode is packed with your honest, hilarious, and heartfelt questions! From postpartum libido surprises and navigating temptation at work, to “Titty Pic Tuesday,” pool sex, and more, we’re diving into it all. Whether you're single, newly married, or deep in the thick of it, there's something in here for you.
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Links from today’s episode:
Prioritizing Intimacy Episode
Becoming Something Podcast
130: Our Heart of Dating episode
Heart of Dating Podcast
Newlywed Guide
Episode 189 with Josh Spurlock
Fierce Marriage: What If I'm No Longer Attracted To My Spouse?
Intentional Intimacy Without Intercourse Episode
Types of Sex episode
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Is intimacy falling to the bottom of your to-do list? In this episode, we’re diving into why connection in the bedroom actually matters- and how to make it happen (even when life is bonkers). From flirty fun to scheduling sex without the cringe, we’re sharing real talk, roadblock check-ins, and ideas to bring the spark back.
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Beating 50 Percent - code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!
MyCounselorOnline - You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
BetterHelp
PRIORITY20 gets you 20% your first month of U&I
Dwell App for 25% off
Awaken Love book
Shop the sex challenges here!
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Huge thank you to Dwell who sponsored today’s episode! To get the Dwell Bible App go to dwellbible.com/kingdom to get 25% off today!!
Can music really enhance your sex life? Do Christians listen to music while having sex?? Whether you're team silence, slow jams, or somewhere in between, this conversation will help you tune into deeper connection with your spouse!
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Links from today’s episode:
Worst Songs To Have Sex To- Spotify playlist
Dwell Bible App (use our link for 25% off!)
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Chocolate, oysters, and… cobra blood?! We’re diving into the weird, wild world of aphrodisiacs- what works, what’s myth, and what God actually designed to boost desire. Tune in for laughs, science, and some spicy truth!
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Is it okay to talk about your sex life with friends? In this episode, we explore when, why, and how to have honest, God-honoring conversations about intimacy- without crossing boundaries. Learn how vulnerability can bring freedom, connection, and growth in your marriage and friendships!!
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Are there things Christian couples shouldn’t do in the bedroom? In this episode, we unpack what Scripture says about sexual boundaries, explore tricky topics with grace, and offer guidance for keeping intimacy both passionate and God-honoring.
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Links from today’s episode:
My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
Oral Sex episodes
Episode 147: DOs & DON'Ts of Sex Toys
Episode 148: The INs & OUTs of Sex Toys
gotquestions.org (anal article)
Episode 141: Talk Dirty To Me
Makin’ Sex Tapes: Anatomy Of Us
Episode 197: Mutual Masturbation
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Getting rejected when it comes to sex is NOT fun. So how do we handle it well? How do those conversations happen? And how do you get out of the cycle of constantly rejecting your spouse? Tune in as the KS team answers those questions- and more!
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Links from today’s episode:
6 Pillars Of Intimacy
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What if your five senses were the secret to a deeper, more exciting sex life? In this episode, we’re sharing simple, creative ways to engage sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell to build connection, spark arousal, and savor intimacy the way God designed! Get ready for practical ideas you’ll actually want to try.
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Links from today’s episode:
Mentionables: code KINGDOM for 10% off
Anatomy Of Us- Makin’ Sex Tapes
Intimately Us App
Evree: use the code KINGDOM for 10% off
Passionista
#LubeLife
Married Dance: code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off
FREEBIE: spice it up guide
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Pornography isn’t just a “men’s issue”- and it’s time we talked about it. In this powerful episode, we sit down with a Crystal Renaud Day who shares her raw and redemptive story of overcoming porn addiction as a Christian woman. We’re diving into the stats, the shame, and the silent struggle so many women face- especially in the church.
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Links from today's episode:
SheRecovery website
She Recovery Instagram
90 Days to Wholeness
Unwanted by Jay Stringer
No Stones by Marnie C. Ferree
Shame In Your Marriage (episode 231)
My Counselor Online use the link for $25 off!
Better Help
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Special thanks to our lovely patron pals for coming up with all of the questions in this episode! Become a patron today and support the show!
This episode is packed with all the things our patrons have been dying to ask- intimacy routines, sex during pregnancy, navigating hormone changes, BJ awkwardness, and yes… even strawberries in the bedroom. The KS team answers the patrons' real questions with honesty, laughter, and biblical encouragement.
2:50 - Do you and your spouse have any go-to intimacy routines?
4:37 - Ever tried something like “Mouth on Monday” or “Sunday Funday” just to spice things up a bit?
5:32 - How do you balance fun, flirty spontaneity with actually making time for intimacy?
8:08 - What helped you get back on track when connection felt hard?
12:14 - Have you seen God use your struggles to actually bring you closer?
14:55 - Have you or your spouse ever struggled with anxiety? How do you support each other when one of you is feeling overwhelmed or low?
17:34 - Y’all’s opinion on adding food to sex such as strawberries, chocolate sauce or whip cream . Just adding things like that to your sex life
19:35 - Another question is sex during pregnancy my wife is currently 4 months pregnant and she has ups and down with sex drives but the further she is along the more difficult the sex what’s is somethings to try
24:18 - Here's another one. What is perimenopause and how does it affect sex drive?
29:45 - Can perimenopause affect your ability to orgasm?
32:15 - How do you not make bjs feel so awkward? It's it a confidence thing or do you just embrace the awkwardness and go for it?
34:24 - For Tiera: can you talk a little bit about the impact that hormones during pregnancy/breastfeeding have on libido?
37:30 - For Alana: how did you get into photography? What kind of photography do you do?
38:50 - For Kyle: what's some of your favorite TV shows and why?
41:50 - For all of you: I'd love to hear how you all met your spouses and the proposal stories 🥰
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Links from today’s episode:
DWELL Bible App: Use the link to get 25% off!
Spontaneous Sex vs Scheduled Sex episode (ep. 139)
Ah Yes! Lubricants: Use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off
BeLoved Fertility: Use discount code: KSFOLLOWER for $50 off any package
Passionista book
Figuring Out What I Like Guide
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Loved this episode! I love hearing from experts about what is healthy in sexuality. Thanks!