Made It Out

This week's episode is special for many reasons - watch until the end for a big announcement! Janelle shares her personal journey battling cancer in her early 20s and how it impacted her life: from coming out to finding a greater purpose. Janelle discusses the stages of fighting for her life, occasionally letting in her "darkness", and how her wife's love helped her overcome the toughest battle. The second half of this episode focuses on LPAC and its purpose: getting queer women and non-binary folks elected into office. Janelle discusses how important it is to vote and take interest in politics, and how understanding issues that impact the LGBTQ community is crucial to voting wisely. Please follow our guest @janelleperezfl and follow LPAC @teamLPAC. Follow our podcast at @madeitoutpodcast and follow Mal @MalGlowenke. Please don't forget to rate, subscribe, review... and vote! Learn more, or make a donation to LPAC at: https://www.teamlpac.com/ For all other inquiries, please email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Comedian Gracin and Mal share their experiences with having an Anxious Attachment style: the roots, the tendencies, how it impacts their relationships, and their journey to healing! We also discuss important matters like Julia Fox's coming out, dream jobs at Macy's, and ugly criers.  Follow our guest @emgracedawg, follow the podcast at @madeitoutpodcast and follow mal @malglowenke Please don't forget to leave us a review on Apple, rate us on Spotify, and share with someone who has an avoidant attachment style! For all other inquiries please email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Have you always wanted to take a gender studies class but didn’t want to pay that pesky tuition? You’re in luck! This week, Professor Fightmaster is going to discuss the true meaning of masculinity and femininity, society’s construct of gender, the impact of the male gaze, toxic masculinity and gender fluidity. More importantly, this episode answers burning questions like how do we unlearn the norms that we’ve been taught, and where are the nuts? Get your notebooks out and ready!  Follow our guest @genderless_gap_ad, and listen to their podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/40oClcuRbHLQXds2zD3ee9?si=abf519a3ec4e446f Listen to FIGHTMASTER: https://open.spotify.com/artist/3ejIpQTvOb6XjUhX96RrMw?si=0lobO0qHT9aAV_pZeU6BbA Shop our FOR THE GIRLS merch: https://www.madeitoutpodcast.com/category/all-products If you’d be so kind please leave us a review on Apple, rate us on Spotify, and share this episode with someone named Steve! For all other inquiries, please email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

FULL EPISODE: Christina joins Mal this week to share her journey of coming out to her traditional Indian family and the journey that led her to her beautiful wedding in Italy. From experiencing homophobia while ring shopping, to proposing to her girlfriend on the cliffs of Santorini, this episode hits a lot of highs and lows! Christina discusses the cultural expectations she faced at home, her parents' supportive response to her coming out, and the process of planning her elopement. Follow our guest @cxwalia and follow her and her wife's TikTok account @christyxchristina Shop our FOR THE GIRLS merch: https://www.madeitoutpodcast.com/category/all-products Please don't forget to rate us on Spotify, write a review on Apple, and share this episode with your favorite camp counselor! For all other inquiries, please email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lauren Sanderson, iconic queer musician, shares her personal journey of understanding her avoidant attachment style, influenced by her upbringing with divorced parents. She discusses the challenges she faced, how it affected her romantic relationships, the anxious-avoidant trap, and her path to healing. Mal opens up about her anxious attachment style and how she has worked towards healing this as well. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-love, vulnerability, authenticity, and setting boundaries. Follow our guest @laurensanderson and check out her new song "Play A Part" on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/album/3msKu3UeQoQGu2jjvUaP0S?si=7ZO5N8d4SQKbk8h4P01aXg Find Lauren's tour dates at: https://www.laurensanderson.com/tour Please don't forget to leave us a review, rate us on Spotify, and share with someone who has an anxious attachment style! For all other inquiries please email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Grammy-nominated songwriter, singer and actor Taylor Parx shares her story of breaking off her engagement and experiencing heartbreak for the first time. That ish is not fun. She discusses the challenges faced during this time and gives expert break up advice - from none other than the woman who wrote "Thank U, Next". Follow our guest @taylaparx and check out her new album on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/album/6y9GtAWTtSJPGBsa9LDSa7?si=d8ZLDJS5RsKQ5jxBsFBG3g Shop our new "for the girls" merch: https://www.madeitoutpodcast.com/category/all-products Please don't forget to rate us on Spotify, write a review on Apple, and share this episode with someone who's broken hearted! For all other inquiries, please email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Comedian Robby Hoffman joins Mal on the couch this week to share her story of being outed at a conservative Jewish school. She explains some of the Jewish views on homosexuality, how she contemplated marrying a nice rich man instead of coming out, the aftermath of her first lesbian break up, and her journey to happiness with former Bachelorette Gabby Windey. Follow our guest @robbyhoffman and listen to her podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/0gPeSf2fpW4rPczuYUvljp?si=41c311fb98334061 Listen to Gabby Windey's podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7o8rObueggmcnpjOhAelZv?si=324cfe30038649df Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe to the podcast! For all other inquiries, please email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The talented Kathryn Gallagher joins Mal for a chat this week - in the woods of Connecticut! Kathryn and Mal discuss the pressures faced by young women who grow up in a world where winning the affection of men is the ultimate goal - and how that affected their ability to recognize their sexuality. The conversation dives into difficult topics such as overcoming sexual trauma and unwanted encounters with men, but emphasizes the importance of facing and healing from your past.  *Content Warning: This episode contains content that may be challenging to some listeners.* If you are a survivor of sexual assault, you can contact the RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673 to receive confidential support from a trained staff member at a local RAINN affiliate. Visit RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/resources On top of being an insanely talented musician and actor, Kathryn is also on the board of The Joyful Heart Foundation. The Joyful Heart Foundation is a non-profit organization founded by Mariska Hargitay to help survivors heal and reclaim joy in their lives.  Today, their mission is to transform society’s response to sexual assault, domestic violence, and child abuse, support survivors’ healing, and end this violence forever. Learn more, and donate here: https://www.joyfulheartfoundation.org Follow our guest @Kathryngallagher and don't forget to rate, review, subscribe and share this episode with someone from Connecticut! For all other inquiries, please email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Comedian Madi Hart walks us through growing up as the "rebellious queer kid" in a very religious and conservative family. She discusses the conflicts she faced, particularly around her queer identity, and the intersection of misogyny and homophobia that surrounded her. Madi's experiences highlight the complexity of maintaining relationships with differing views and the importance of empathy, understanding, and self-acceptance. But best of all - Madi shares the story of hilariously ending up on prime time Fox News and her plans to bring homosexuality to her family's shrine on Ronald Reagan. Follow our guest Madi at @madihart_soccer For all other inquiries, please email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com Shop Made It Out PRIDE merch: https://www.madeitoutpodcast.com/category/all-products Please don't forget to rate the show on Spotify, leave us an Apple Podcast review, and share this episode with someone who watches Fox News! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Alyson Stoner, Actor, Dancer, Podcast Host, and CEO of Movement Genius, delves into the significance of the mind-body connection, particularly in relation to the queer experience. They discuss the gap in mental health practices that overlook this connection and share their personal health journey. The conversation also addresses the challenges faced by faith communities in accepting queerness, emphasizing the importance of self-expression, and why ghosting someone who texts in ALL CAPS is basically self-care. SPECIAL FOR MADE IT OUT LISTENERS!! Get a year of Movement Genius for FREE! As well as access to the e-book discussed in the episode (Mind, Body, Pride) Use link and website below: https://www.movementgenius.com/offers/TjqzD5an?coupon_code=MADEITOUT Code: MADEITOUT Follow our guest at @alysonstoner and @movementgenius For all other inquiries, please email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com Shop Made It Out PRIDE merch: https://www.madeitoutpodcast.com/category/all-products Please don't forget to rate on Spotify, write a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this episode with someone who loves meditation! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Rebekah Peppler, renowned food writer and stylist, shares the story of her coming out after experiencing love at first sight in a Paris perfume shop, her quick but permanent move to France, and how it all led to her new cookbook 'Le Sud'. Rebekah explains the importance of interweaving queerness into her writing and art, and the inspiration behind the project. The episode also covers the challenges of separating self-worth from work, handling feedback, and a shares the easiest recipe from the book! Visit Rebekah's website: https://www.rebekahpeppler.com/ Follow Rebekah's stubstack: https://shortlisted.substack.com/ Order Le Sud on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Sud-Recipes-Stories-Provence-Alpes-C%C3%B4te-dAzur/dp/1797219537/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr= Order A Table: https://www.amazon.com/Table-Recipes-Cooking-Eating-French/dp/1797202235/ref=pd_bxgy_d_sccl_1/133-9883124-5193759?pd_rd_w=z8gYh&content-id=amzn1.sym.c51e3ad7-b551-4b1a-b43c-3cf69addb649&pf_rd_p=c51e3ad7-b551-4b1a-b43c-3cf69addb649&pf_rd_r=RT46YMN03ZG0Z9H15SM5&pd_rd_wg=hRS1F&pd_rd_r=17d6c557-fbbd-4115-81ba-ac6ecdeef2cf&pd_rd_i=1797202235&psc=1 Order Aperitif: https://www.amazon.com/Ap%C3%A9ritif-Cocktail-Hour-French-Way/dp/1524761753/ref=sr_1_3?crid=1CUBZF3S66S6G&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.wYICcxlAhGNc3K_5hojgWis-8f6ScJZ7vGnD1FNVKQWhzi-Y1zwd7LIuMUiLlsChVByqVZq6Td2x9VFCq4-9J8mgQi_65pJ2EvbX-tFV-vrUSVWngs_T3qk_EHkQXx_5OPPrhU_MHxzsbmMrG9oapSU3p2iH_cu6btC_jOSvO_U-PuJd1TEFRpkdIyCqYEi_.o9k340AuIvR8O0p4KlKh8gdRDK0Ovw71mxhfcUSFjDU&dib_tag=se&keywords=rebekah+peppler&qid=1718665789&s=books&sprefix=rebekah+peppler%2Cstripbooks%2C157&sr=1-3 Order the shirt Mal is wearing "Frocciagine" at: https://lazymadonna.myshopify.com/ Shop Made It Out PRIDE merch: https://www.madeitoutpodcast.com/category/all-products Please don't forget to rate on Spotify, review on Apple, and share this episode with your favorite French person! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lesbian TikTok Icon Soph Mosca joins Mal this week to discuss how social media intersected with her coming out journey, and the positive impact that Lesbian TikTok has had on Gen-Z. From the highs of being in a public relationship to the lows of a breakup played out in front of millions, Soph also shares valuable insight and advice on navigating personal struggles in the public eye. If you're ready for love, download Hinge today! https://hin.ge/MadeItOut [hin.ge] Shop our pride merch: https://www.madeitoutpodcast.com/category/all-products Follow our guest @sophmosca and don't forget to subscribe, rate on Spotify, review on Apple and share this episode with your cat! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Musician/Actor/Dancer Kat Cunning joins us this week for a candid and poetic conversation around gender, pronouns and dispelling the binary. Kat interweaves their journey from dance to music and acting, and how these artforms empowered their queerness. Kat emphasizes the importance of existing beyond binary constructs and setting boundaries around asking people to respect your pronouns. Follow our guest @katcunning and check out their music on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/0THdxk7bYWo6wciF1gInBK?si=Tm77tMWiSaCfIE-8X8gk6g Single? Looking for love? Maybe just friends? Download Hinge and show off your full self using the new LGBTQIA+ Prompts today! https://hin.ge/MadeItOut Please don’t forget to rate us on Spotify, write a review on Apple, and share this episode with your Postmates driver! For all other inquiries, email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lesbian celebrity hairstylist Rala joins Mal for a juicy episode!!!!!!! She shares the story of a toxic relationship with a USPS package thief... and a compulsive liar. The episode delves into the emotional turmoil experienced, the decision to leave, and the healing process. The discussion further explores the impact of betrayal on self-esteem, the journey of rebuilding self-esteem, and the lessons learned from past relationships. Follow our guest @hairbyrala and please don't forget to rate on Spotify, review on Apple, and share this episode with someone who just got engaged! For all other inquiries, please email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Comedian/Creator Rachel Samples is on the pod this week and WHAT A TREAT IT IS! Rachel shares the story of her first lesbian relationship with... wait for it... her former college roommate (and sorority president!) The two kept their relationship hidden for a year before finally coming out. Spoiler Alert: They eventually break up, but Rachel spits some hard facts on why the first WLW breakup is the hardest. This episode will lovingly remind you that we shouldn't use distractions and stay busy to avoid our feelings. So let's spend time alone! And take mushrooms! Ps. Get ready for a top tier U-Haul U-Ghost!!!!!!!!!!!!! Follow our guest @heyfreesamples and if you're in LA, check out her monthly comedy show (we'll be there June 5th... and every future show as well): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/backseat-drivers-a-stand-up-comedy-show-tickets-882023795917?utm_experiment=test_share_listing&aff=ebdsshios Don't forget to subscribe, rate on Spotify, review on Apple, and share this episode with Larry David! For all other inquiries, please email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

[Video available on Spotify and YouTube] Becca Tilley joins Mal this week to discuss her relationship with "Lesbian Jesus" Hayley Kiyoko - how it started, the conversations that led to keeping it private for years (but don't worry, Taylor Swift knew the whole time), and the challenges that came with being two public figures in a private relationship. Becca chronicles her journey from her southern, christian upbringing, going on The Bachelor (twice!) and finally falling in love for the first time... with a woman. If this episode inspired you to find a love like Becca and Hayley's, download Hinge and show off your full self using the new LGBTQIA+ Prompts today! https://hin.ge/MadeItOut Follow our guest @beccatilley and check out her podcast "Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad" https://open.spotify.com/show/60H5719gBtZCmZnlNVoc8w?si=a730a60907914b1c Don't forget to rate us on Spotify, leave a review on Apple, and share this episode with a magician! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, we bring you a conversation centered around queer mental health and borderline personality disorder, with Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, Jordan Werner. Jordan discusses the complexities of queer mental health and the patterns she sees in her LGBT-identifying clients: anxiety, shame, and identity issues. Jordan discusses the employment of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) in her practice: a modality developed for the treatment of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Jordan explains the symptoms of BPD, common traits to look out for, and the challenges of diagnosing personality disorders. The discussion also covers the intersectionality of mental health and marginalized communities, the perception of BPD as a patriarchal diagnosis, and the potential for recovery through therapy. Lastly, Jordan teaches us TIPP Skills for when we feel dysregulated and want to calm ourselves down. The resources mentioned in this episode are: "I Hate You, Don't Leave Me" by Jerold J. Kreisman, MD Open Path Collective: https://openpathcollective.org/ Follow our guest @instadub92 and check out her website (she's taking new clients!) at www.jordanwtherapy.com Don't forget to subscribe, rate on Spotify, write a review on Apple, and share this episode with your spouse! For all other inquiries, please email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Singer-Songwriter Zolita joins Mal this week for an honest conversation about food and disordered eating. Zolita opens up about her battle with anorexia throughout her young adulthood, the health implications it had, and how she finally overcame it. Mal shares details of her binge eating disorder, the yo-yo effects of extreme diets, and how she still struggles with finding balance today. This episode also explores a correlation between eating disorders and coming out, how being vegan is often used as a "crutch" during recovery, and how the girls both finally learned to love and appreciate their bodies through yoga. *Content Warning: This episode contains content that may be challenging to some listeners.* Follow our guest @zolita and watch her music video for "Small Town Scandal" that came out today! Buy tickets for her tour here: https://www.zolitamusic.com/ Don't forget to subscribe, rate on Spotify, review on Apple, and share this episode with your line dancing partner! For all other inquiries, please email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Get out your pen and paper - Professor Kej is here to whip your wardrobe into shape! This episode looks into how your style evolves and changes as you come out and become more in tune with your queerness. Kej shares her journey with clothes and how she struggled to express herself through outfits when she was unsure of who she was, and how realizing she was gay shaped her. This episode also answers questions such as: How do I build the perfect closet? How should I handle body insecurities? How do I know which style category is more "me"? I have so many clothes but nothing to wear, what can I do? How do I dress for a formal event if I don't enjoy wearing dresses? Note - this episode has a lot of fun visual elements, so we recommend you watch on Spotify or YouTube. Follow our guest for more styling tips @kejtheanimal and feel free to reach out for fashion advice! Don't forget to subscribe, rate on Spotify, review on Apple, and share this episode with your hot high school English teacher! For all other inquiries, please email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week, Mal and Cammie Scott talk mental health. Cammie opens up about her early struggles of being a very anxious child, dealing with PMDD as an adult, and facing a depressive episode during what should've been the easiest and healthiest time of her life. The two discuss facing sadness while in happy relationships, the pros and cons of psychiatric medicine, and the importance of finding the right therapist.  *Content Warning: This episode contains content that may be challenging to some listeners.* Follow our guest @cammiescott and check out her podcast "Staying Up with Cammie and Taryn" @stayinguppod or https://stayingup.lnk.to/listen Don’t forget to subscribe, rate on Spotify, review on Apple, and share this episode with your Amazon driver!  For all other inquiries, please email madeitout@mgmt-entertainment.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices