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For 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast.

Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday.

Unlock full access to New York Times podcasts and explore everything from politics to pop culture. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

Listen to this podcast in New York Times Audio, our new iOS app for news subscribers. Download now at nytimes.com/audioapp
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Townsend Davis had been married for more than a decade when his wife, Bridget, was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer’s disease. Their lives changed immediately. Townsend became Bridget’s caregiver, sorting her medication day after day, making their home accessible, and finding someone to look after her while he worked and raised their sons. He was committed to Bridget, and wanted to be there for her as her condition progressed.One day, not long after her diagnosis, Bridget told Townsend she wanted him eventually to find a new partner. But Townsend couldn’t imagine it. Searching for another love seemed too complicated, and he was focused on caring for Bridget and raising their family.Then, years later, Townsend met Deb.On this episode of Modern Love, Townsend explains what it was like to forge a new partnership as he remained married to Bridget, and what happened when he brought his wife and his girlfriend together for a Thanksgiving dinner.This episode is adapted from Townsend’s Modern Love essay from 2024, “A Family Dinner With My Wife and Girlfriend.”Modern Love is looking for your stories! We’re working on an episode about the dating memories you want to forget. We want to know: What was the worst date you went on this year? What happened? And what are you trying to do differently when it comes to love in the new year? Whether you’re singled or partnered, tell us about your bad dates. Send us your story by recording a voice memo and emailing it to modernlovepodcast@nytimes.com. Please include your name and where you’re based. You might hear your voice on a future episode of Modern Love.How to submit a Modern Love Essay to The New York TimesHow to submit a Tiny Love Story Unlock full access to New York Times podcasts and explore everything from politics to pop culture. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.
When Laura Cathcart Robbins checked into rehab for a severe Ambien addiction, all she could think about was getting out and going home to her two young sons. Laura was also in the middle of a divorce and facing a possible custody battle so she wasn’t looking to make her life more complicated. Laura tells the host Anna Martin about the unexpected bond she formed during the worst 30 days of her life and what happened when she came out the other side.This episode is adapted from Laura’s 2024 essay, “Marriage Made an Actor Out of Me.” Her memoir, “Stash: My Life in Hiding” is available now, and she hosts a podcast called “The Only One in the Room.”What were your worst dates of 2024? We’re working on an episode about the dating memories you want to forget. We want to know: What was the worst date you went on this year? What happened? And what do you want to do differently when it comes to love in the new year? You don’t have to be single to share your story. If you’re partnered and went on an awful date, we want to hear from you, too. Send us your story by recording a voice memo (just a few minutes long) and emailing it to modernlovepodcast@nytimes.com. Please include your name and where you’re from. You might hear your voice on a future episode of Modern Love.How to submit a Modern Love Essay to The New York TimesHow to submit a Tiny Love Story Unlock full access to New York Times podcasts and explore everything from politics to pop culture. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.
Explore the trials and tribulations of love in these deeply personal essays. A collaboration of The New York Times and WBUR in Boston, Modern Love: The Podcast features the popular New York Times column, with readings by notable personalities and updates from the essayists themselves. Join host Meghna Chakrabarti (WBUR) and Modern Love editor Daniel Jones (NYT) -- and fall in love at first listen. Unlock full access to New York Times podcasts and explore everything from politics to pop culture. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.
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Jejj

This was a fascinating listen- based on the title I was ready to be disgusted, but by the end I had a totally different set of emotions. Talk about trying to make lemonade out of lemons, and his outlook about it all is impressive, I don't think I'd be so magnanimous.

Nov 25th
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Pâmela Garcia

I was shocked by the story, before listening I was angry with him but during the episode I'm able to understand him. I don't completely agree but his attitude is acceptable. It's worth listening. Thanks for the opportunity to improve my English listening to real and interesting stories.

Nov 25th
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Jejj

This episode was heartfelt and heart wrenching; the title is definitely clickbait-y, but the interview is artfully conducted to tell the story well.

Nov 21st
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Hossein Hashemi

that's how you fight nihilism, well done.

Nov 20th
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Hossein Hashemi

So real and honest, it felt like deconstruction of a relationship in a post modern situation. very helpful. #love #Relationship

Nov 14th
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Nov 1st
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Yasamin

🥹😭❤️

Oct 26th
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Maria Belu

I wish there were more stories about late bloomers like this

Oct 10th
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Tracy Santimaw

So real, so touching., so relatable.

Oct 9th
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Sep 9th
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Mona Peterson

I absolutely adore the 'Modern Love' podcast! The stories are beautifully told, and each episode offers a unique and heartfelt perspective on love and human connection. The blend of real-life experiences with thoughtful narration makes each episode captivating and emotionally resonant. It's a wonderful reminder of the diverse ways people experience and express love. https://choosing-the-right.podigee.io/1-new-episode

Aug 3rd
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Vishaal Bhatnagar

Thanks for putting this together for your listeners. Sensitive and authentic portrayal of modern day relationships.

Jun 23rd
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Vishaal Bhatnagar

Great conversation. So much common among us humans, whichever ethnicity or race or country we come from.

Jun 18th
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so so

we'll be back this fall? what about the summer?

Jun 9th
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May 15th
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viiida

I just started this podcast a couple of days and listening from episode one. just wanted to say: Hi from Iran 😁👋🏻❤

Apr 13th
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Steve

Wow. This story defines love at its most expansive and generous.

Mar 31st
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ParisaB

I'm obsessed with her cooking book😍

Mar 30th
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Dorsa Asoudeh

so excited for the celebration that is going to last over this season!

Mar 2nd
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Kimia T

Such an unexpected ending 🫠❤️

Feb 16th
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