In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Yvonne shares her story of dating a jealous & controlling abuser. Yvonne thought she met the man of her dreams. He was charming, chivalrous, and a former firefighter. He made Yvonne feel safe. However, lurking below 'Dr. Jekyl's' persona, was the 'Mr. Hyde' waiting to appear. Once Yvonne was trauma-bonded to her ex, the roller coaster of abuse began, and it became challenging for her to leave for good.
It's a story of jealousy, self worth, manipulation, double standards, bread crumbing, triangulation, trauma bonds, physical abuse, suicidal ideation, sexual assault, financial abuse, animal abuse, moving goal posts, being good enough, addiction, triangulation, gaslighting, infidelity, lies, isolation, rage, Jekyl & Hyde, victim playing, blame shifting, circular conversations, control, accusations, belittling, kernels of truth, feeling rushed, hoovering, and intermittent reinforcement.
*** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse, suicidal ideation, sexual assault, financial abuse, and animal abuse. ***
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I want to share that playing tetris immediately after a traumatic event like courage experienced actually helps your brain recover from the shock and it's suppose to be easier to handle. something about the simple focus giving your brain something to calm down- there's a study of it somewhere. I try to tell everyone incase it helps someone🖤
alpha is outdated. Ceasar milan is an abuser. I'm glad she was a leader, not alpha.
I relate to this 100% it's so much better now that he's gone
the sound quality is horrible on the guests mike -- imo,, This chic won't accept her own role.. her description of Mom vs Dad shows her denial of her own role & reactions..
that happens when your in bad relationships my kids father where we lived I cringe when I drive through that town and it a nice town but I hate it now
you do realize narcissists is a personality disorder that a 4000 dollor camp isn't going t ok help. not it can help toxic people but not true narcissists. that was kinda odd to hear. plus they dont think anything thing is wrong with them. but thanks for the work you do with the podcast it's really important to hear survivors stories
I do wish we'd broken up after 20 mins. 🏆 #liveandlearn
This is a very interesting episode.
This lady begins telling us that she grew up in a very loving home. That they were "good parents". Then proceeds to describe two dysfunctional adults who offloaded their emotional trauma on their daughter and always expected her to be the best at what she did. 🤔 That's not being a good nor loving parent.
The lady telling this story sounds like a narcissist herself. The way she describes herself. How it's the world against her. I don't doubt that this Janice woman was a piece of work, but I have serious doubts about "Meredith" too.
So I’ve never listened to a podcast before, just listened to Billy Jean on here and OMG. It’s nice to know others have experienced exactly the same. I’m only a month into healing, but if you ever need someone to interview, I’m here. Looking forward to listening to these stories.
Love these Podcasts Soooooo much. Thank You Chad.
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I'm sad this is the first episode I've listened to of yours. This poor girl was so difficult to listen to. Hoping your other episodes are better. Eeek
What an Amazing with a capital A Lady! Wow Louise, am taking my hat off to you! Respect!!!
your story is mt life to a T right know but my narcissist wont leave I need him gone but he wont go away. I need help I am at rock bottom