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'Tis the season to learn about what to do when your sexual intimacy pillar has cracks and you aren’t having sex. | "Whatever is not happening, make it happen." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 457: 12 Sexy Days of Christmas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn how to strengthen your emotional intimacy through the expression of thankfulness and gratitude throughout the year. | "Thankfulness is the quickest path to joy." —Jefferson Bethke Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Grab the FREE Gratitude Planner Monopoly Deal Card Game Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about what you can do to navigate the sexual tension when you thought you were going to have sex and ended up not. | "When things change, make sure those changes are a part of the plan. " —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Our Vacation Planner 422: What Is The Intimacy Lifestyle Emotion Wheel Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about the impact (good and bad) that dogs, cats, and other pets have on each of your 6 Pillars of Intimacy®. | "Dogs have a way of finding the people who need them and filling a void they didn’t know they had." —Thom Jones Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: ONE Family Private Facebook Group Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
727: LACK OF CONFIDENCE

727: LACK OF CONFIDENCE

2022-11-0127:381

Learn about how to strengthen your marriage when you are struggling with a lack of confidence or capability. | "Nothing holds you back more than your own insecurities." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The Power of Positive Thinking Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
726: DUTY SEX

726: DUTY SEX

2022-10-2528:531

Duty sex is an indicator that there are cracks in your pillars of intimacy. Learn about the challenges you face when sex becomes a duty. | "A sense of duty is useful in work but not in personal relations. People wish to be liked not endured with patient resignation." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 9 Ways to Stay Connected When You Are Long Distance 001: 60 Days of Sex The Trust Factor: How To Rebuild Trust In Your Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about the impact that those controlling behaviors are having on your marriage and your 6 Pillars of Intimacy. | "You cannot control other people. You can only control your reactions to them." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: ONE Family Private Facebook Group 334: The Emasculated Man 335: She's Not Your Mother Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
724: I WANNA QUIT

724: I WANNA QUIT

2022-10-1132:44

When helplessness and hopelessness collide it can lead to statements like I wanna quit. Learn what you can do to turn things around. | "Quitting because you don’t want to be uncomfortable will prevent you from growing." —Amy Morin Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Learn More About Marriage Coaching Bo's Cafe: A Novel Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about what happens to your emotional, physical and even sexual intimacies when you or your spouse is flirting with someone else. | "Flirting while married is highly disrespectful. While it may seem harmless it can be very hurtful to the person that loves you." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join the ONE Family Private Facebook Group The Trust Factor: How to Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage 719: Alcohol and Intimacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
722: EROGENOUS ZONES

722: EROGENOUS ZONES

2022-09-2727:09

Learn about erogenous zones those areas that product sexual excitement and their impact on your sexual intimacy. | "Too often we underestimate the power of touch. Especially when it comes to creating arousal." —Leo Buscaglia Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 235: Speak Up…Vocalize You Satisfaction  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about the impact that TOO much information and information overload can have on your pillars of intimacy. | "The result of information overload is usually distraction. It dilutes your focus and takes you off your game." —Zig Ziglar  Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode:  Do You Need Personal Help To Improve Your Marriage? Apply for Coaching Now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
720: DOUBLE STANDARDS

720: DOUBLE STANDARDS

2022-09-1331:101

Learn about the double standards in marriage and the impact that they can have on your marriage, specifically your pillars of intimacy. | "Don’t tell your spouse they can’t do something and then turn around and do it yourself. Double standards aren’t fair to anyone." —Emily Smith Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: ONE Family Private Facebook Group Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Problematic alcohol use does impact your pillars of intimacy. And if it’s not addressed it will lead to the destruction of a marriage. | "Alcohol is a perfect solvent. It destroys marriages, families and careers." —Anonymous  Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Alcohol Ruins Relationships and Marriages, Evan Brad Pitt's Alcohol, Tobacco, and Other Drugs Alcohol Consumption Held Steady as Pandemic Dragged On Substance and Mental Health Services Administration 800-662-4357 (HELP) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
In this episode we’re discussing the statements “I’m too busy” or “I’m too tired” and the impact that they have on your sexual intimacy. | "When someone tells you they are too busy…it’s not a reflection of their schedule. It’s a reflection of your spot on their schedule." —Steve Maraboli  Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Learn More About Marriage Coaching The Penis Book The Vagina Bible Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
In this special episode we invite you to dream about what your life would look like if you chose to change the future. | "Nothing we do can change the past but everything we do can change the future." —Ashleigh Brillant  Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The Power of Positive Thinking 662: Walk and Talk Intimacy Lifestyle Planner Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about expectations and their impact on The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® as unvoiced expectations continue to be a source of tension. | "People cannot live up to expectations they don’t know have been set for them." —Rory Vaden Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!  Links from today’s episode:  Emotion Wheel The Power of Positive Thinking ONE Family Private Facebook Group 511: Chore Wars Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn what can happen when you get focused on the pillar of intimacy that needs the most attention in your marriage. | "You don’t get results by focusing on the results. You get results by focusing on the actions that produce the results." —Mike Hawkins Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode:  The 6 Pillars in Paradise Marriage Getaway  Emotions Wheel 710: Summer Sex Challenge Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
714: TAKE ME ON A DATE

714: TAKE ME ON A DATE

2022-08-0227:19

Break out of those date routines when it comes to your recreational intimacy so you have a solution when your spouse says take me on a date. | "Dates got you to a place where you wanted to marry each other. If you want to stay married, keep dating your spouse." —Anonymous  Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode:  The 6 Pillars in Paradise Marriage Getaway This Is What Happens In Your Brain When You Try Something New Date Night Done Right 561: Dating Your Spouse: Part 4 — How To Date At Home 559: Dating Your Spouse: Part 3 — Low Cost Date Ideas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about the impact that solo masturbation can possibly have on your sexual, emotional and physical intimacies. | "What’s done in the dark will come to light." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman 508: Mutual Masturbation ONE Extraordinary Marriage Premium Subscriber Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
712: WHEN WORDS HURT

712: WHEN WORDS HURT

2022-07-1931:452

Learn about what happens to both you, your spouse, and your 6 Pillars of Intimacy® when spoken words hurt. | "We’ve all been hurt by words before so before you speak think about how your words might affect your spouse." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode:  169: Is This Abuse? Words Can Change Your Brain You Have 6,200 Thoughts a Day... Don't Make Yours Negative The Power of Positive Thinking Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Comments (20)

anne githinji

I recently found out that I am pregnant. My husband of 6 years had earlier mentioned that he did not want to have more kids (we have 2) . One child is from.a previous relationship which he had with another woman and the other child we had together. His reason for not wanting other kids is because of financial stability. I have assured him that we can work on it together but he refuses to listen . He has said he will not support me in any way. I wish for my marriage to work out and I also want to keep the child , but all this has taken a toll on me. Please help me.

Mar 30th
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Mission Pest

Tony. Cut your wife some slack. She's got a lot on her plate.

Aug 3rd
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Shannon Swanson-Figgins

I just started listening to your podcast and its the opposite in our marriage...my husband is 11 years older than me. We've been married for 12 years and he rejects me all the time...we MIGHT have sex once a month. I know he loves me but I'm lonely.

Nov 11th
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Kittrell Saunders

How does it sound when you approach your partner to discuss the discrepancy of sexual desire? Are there discussion starters? What if you have already discussed it in healthy ways, but nothing has changed, and when it gets brought up again, it is met with anger and immediate rejection? What does the script look like for having a successful conversation about the growing resentment and deepening chasm?

Mar 18th
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Dan Davis

I prefer being bare, especially in hot humid summers. I feel cleaner and like feeling smoother. Once you get used to shaving it goes quickly in the shower.

Feb 13th
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Ginger Ellison

what if you weren't ever in love. I married my husband because he pressured me and I wasn't ready. I wasn't over my ex. we have no emotional connection or intimacy and have barely had any I our 3 year marriage.

Aug 15th
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Karen Janicki

Here is an issue that I have, I'm almost never in the mood in the morning ever. Honestly. I just woke up, I'm still tired, I have a million things on my mind and I have zero desire. My desire peaks in the evening. I did some research to try to understand this and from what I have read men's hormones peak in the morning while as women's peaks in the evening. I honestly and frustratingly feel like almost all these marriage podcasts ( every different one, not just yours) all try to simply tell women that we just need to get in the mood, put things aside, ignore our own desires and satisfy our husbands regardless of our desires or feelings. It sometimes feels like the prevailing attitude is that men need sex so you have to do it whenever he wants your feelings be darned. Don't get me wrong, I love sex and I love my husband. But women and men are different and it's already so difficult for a woman to become aroused, get excited and have an orgasm. It can be alot of work physically and mentally and emotionally. How come that never seems to be addressed? The Bible commands husbands to share their bodies with their wives. We are supposed to enjoy sex. And despite what many think, we do. But it takes effort. I feel that there should be sacrifice on both husband and wife but instead over and over it just seems we are being told just do it no matter what, but make sure you like it because otherwise it doesn't count, don't fake an orgasm but if you don't have one it's ok. Why is it ok? I feel like Christian resources just ignore a woman's needs and demands we become more male in our sexuality. Sorry but I find that very, very frustrating.

Aug 13th
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The Parenting Experience

my wife is a stonewaller. I am logical like you guys but stonewaller and only talks to tell once I'm fed up and start trashing my home. if I would ever try to hangy self she would provide the chair. I truly hate her now

Jul 3rd
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The Parenting Experience

she gives me the silent treatment when I Ask her why does t she kiss me or say I love you. it gets violent she yelled to try to get attention for people to call the cops . I'm gone 3 kids she's doesn't care to please me. I truly hate her now. I will never ever love her again. all because I asked for see she's a narcissist. Stonewall

Jul 3rd
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The Parenting Experience

I love you guys . I knew I wasn't crazy.

Jul 2nd
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WYNC

About 7 minutes into nothingness and then a barrage of ,"Duh". I can tell you are trying to convey your lifestyle but you cannot articulate. Then more of Duh with a large helping of product mentions. Your podcast is exactly what you said, and I quote, "There was nothing in it for me."

Jun 12th
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Joseph Stark

lk5

Jun 5th
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Rachael Burtnette

Ok

May 2nd
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Cheri Jones

What happens when your spouse doesn't want to see that they are doing something wrong to hear your side because their pain is more important?

Jan 21st
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