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ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Author: Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

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Is your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!

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Learn about making couple friendships together—why couples do or don’t and the impact it can have on your marriage. | "Friends are people who know you really well and like you anyway." —Greg Tamblyn Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 001: 60 Days of Sex Bo's Cafe: A Novel The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Weekend Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about what happens when menopause meets marriage because it impact both the wife going through it and the marriage too. | "A problem shared is a problem halved but as with so many problems affecting women: periods, menopause, postpartum depression, we often feel embarrassed as if we’re moaning or just plain wrong to air them." —Konnie Huq Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Menopause Shouldn't Suck Group Coaching Program The BOLD Wives Club Uberlube 790: The Greatest Threat to our Marriage is Apathy The Vagina Bible The Penis Book Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about what can happen when the statement, “I’m only having sex because you want it” has on your marriage. | "A sense of duty is useful in work but offensive is personal relations. People wish to be liked not endured with patient resignation." —Bertrand Russell Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Virtual Seminar BOLD Wives Club Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about our decision to move, our cross country moving adventure, and the crazy things that happened along the way. | "Moving to a new place is not just about changing your address, it’s about starting a new chapter in your life." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Here’s How Often Americans Move Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about how choosing to explore sexual intimacy as a couple, impacts both of you as well as your relationship dynamic. | “We live in a wonderful world that is full of beauty, charm and adventure. There is no end to the adventures that we can have if only we seek them with our eyes wide open.” —Jawaharlal Nehru Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 413: Like A Broken Record Position Post Magazine 001: 60 Days of Sex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about what you need to be aware of as you keep your 6 Pillars of Intimacy® strong while moving across town or across the country. | "Dare to be brave. Move out of your old house and leave everything behind to start anew. You’ll be surprised at the great things that life will have in store for you." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Virtual Seminar Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about what it means when you choose to love your spouse through the many different stages and seasons of marriage. | "Choose to love each other, even in the moments when you struggle to like each other. Love is a commitment not a feeling." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Weekend BOLD Wives Club Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about what it means when your spouse says touch me in a particular way that strengthens the physical intimacy in your marriage. | "Nothing is as healing as the human touch." —Bobby Fischer Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today. Links from today’s episode: The Often-Overlooked Importance of Physical Intimacy Evree Intimate Massage Cream Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Let's look at where your marriage is six months into the year and what the rest of your year will look like. | "Checking in on someone shows that you care, especially when they haven’t asked for it." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Monthly Planner BOLD Wives Club The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Weekend Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
813: SEEN AND HEARD

813: SEEN AND HEARD

2024-06-2526:06

Learn about what makes you feel seen and heard while communicating with your spouse and why this is important to your marriage. | "Making someone feel seen, heard and understood is the greatest way to love them." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: Conflict Resolution The Secret to Breaking the Conflict Cycle in Your Marriage He Zigs, She Zags: Get Your Communication on the Same Path Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
812: OUR FIRST KISS

812: OUR FIRST KISS

2024-06-1827:12

Learn about our first kiss–the memories, the stories and what reflecting on your first kiss can do for the two of you. | "The thought of our first kiss always makes me smile." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips Are Telling Us Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about what the two of you can do to to have some dessert before dinner when it comes to your sexual intimacy. | "Absolutely eat dessert first. The thing that you want to do the most, do that first." —Joss Whedon Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Our Vacation Planner The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Weekend Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn how getting on the same financial page with your spouse can be a valuable gift to both of you and your family. | "Money problems destroy marriages. Get on the same page with your spouse and work together toward a common goal." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars at Sea Marriage Getaway The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Conflict Resolution: The Secret to Breaking the Conflict Cycle in Your Marriage BOLD Wives Club Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
809: RESPONSIVE DESIRE

809: RESPONSIVE DESIRE

2024-05-2833:27

Learn about responsive desire, sexual interactions that happen after external environmental cues, and how the two of you can navigate this. | "Everyone’s sexual desire is responsive and context dependent. It just feels more spontaneous for some and more responsive for others, because even though we’re all made of the same parts, the different organizations of those parts result in different experiences." —Emily Nagoski Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Come As You Are 687: Low Desire High Desire Tug of War Intimacy Lifestyle Planner Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about what can happen when medication side effects are hurting the connection and closeness between you and your spouse. | "Whether you take them every day, every month or a few times a year, your doctor needs to know every one of the medications you are taking." —Jupiter Concierge Family Practice Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The Trust Factor: How To Rebuild Trust In Your Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
807: INVESTING IN US

807: INVESTING IN US

2024-05-1427:57

Learn about what the two of you can do to strengthen your marriage when you are investing in yourselves and your marriage. | "Personal development is a major time saver. The better you become the less time it takes for you to achieve your goals." —Brian Tracy Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Upcoming ONE Extraordinary Marriage Events Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn what you can do when your spouse suggests an activity and you think to yourself, “I don’t know if I want to do that.” | "Feeling unsure and lost is a part of your path. Don’t avoid it. See what those feelings are showing you and use it." —Louis CK Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 15 Unique Date Ideas for Married Couples Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn how you can make your own rules and strengthen your sexual intimacy when it comes to scheduling sex. | "It’s your game, make up your own rules." —Barbara Corcoran Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Ultimate Guide to the 30 Day Sex Challenge Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Emotional rejection causes the same pain receptors that recognize physical pain to fire. Learn about the impact this has on your marriage. | "Your brain treats rejection like physical pain." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 668: The Pain of Rejection 88 Great Conversation Starters Connect Like You Did When You First Met: 101 Proven Questions for Couples 790: The Greatest Threat to Our Marriage is Apathy Apply for Marriage Coaching Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
803: GETAWAY TOGETHER

803: GETAWAY TOGETHER

2024-04-1625:58

Learn about what happens when you getaway together and the impact it can have on you, your marriage and the community around you. | "Travel is an investment in your marriage." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars at Sea Marriage Getaway Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Mission Pest

Tony. Cut your wife some slack. She's got a lot on her plate.

Aug 3rd
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Shannon Swanson-Figgins

I just started listening to your podcast and its the opposite in our marriage...my husband is 11 years older than me. We've been married for 12 years and he rejects me all the time...we MIGHT have sex once a month. I know he loves me but I'm lonely.

Nov 11th
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Kittrell Saunders

How does it sound when you approach your partner to discuss the discrepancy of sexual desire? Are there discussion starters? What if you have already discussed it in healthy ways, but nothing has changed, and when it gets brought up again, it is met with anger and immediate rejection? What does the script look like for having a successful conversation about the growing resentment and deepening chasm?

Mar 18th
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Dan Davis

I prefer being bare, especially in hot humid summers. I feel cleaner and like feeling smoother. Once you get used to shaving it goes quickly in the shower.

Feb 13th
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Ginger Ellison

what if you weren't ever in love. I married my husband because he pressured me and I wasn't ready. I wasn't over my ex. we have no emotional connection or intimacy and have barely had any I our 3 year marriage.

Aug 15th
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Karen Janicki

Here is an issue that I have, I'm almost never in the mood in the morning ever. Honestly. I just woke up, I'm still tired, I have a million things on my mind and I have zero desire. My desire peaks in the evening. I did some research to try to understand this and from what I have read men's hormones peak in the morning while as women's peaks in the evening. I honestly and frustratingly feel like almost all these marriage podcasts ( every different one, not just yours) all try to simply tell women that we just need to get in the mood, put things aside, ignore our own desires and satisfy our husbands regardless of our desires or feelings. It sometimes feels like the prevailing attitude is that men need sex so you have to do it whenever he wants your feelings be darned. Don't get me wrong, I love sex and I love my husband. But women and men are different and it's already so difficult for a woman to become aroused, get excited and have an orgasm. It can be alot of work physically and menta

Aug 13th
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The Parenting Experience

my wife is a stonewaller. I am logical like you guys but stonewaller and only talks to tell once I'm fed up and start trashing my home. if I would ever try to hangy self she would provide the chair. I truly hate her now

Jul 3rd
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The Parenting Experience

she gives me the silent treatment when I Ask her why does t she kiss me or say I love you. it gets violent she yelled to try to get attention for people to call the cops . I'm gone 3 kids she's doesn't care to please me. I truly hate her now. I will never ever love her again. all because I asked for see she's a narcissist. Stonewall

Jul 3rd
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The Parenting Experience

I love you guys . I knew I wasn't crazy.

Jul 2nd
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WYNC

About 7 minutes into nothingness and then a barrage of ,"Duh". I can tell you are trying to convey your lifestyle but you cannot articulate. Then more of Duh with a large helping of product mentions. Your podcast is exactly what you said, and I quote, "There was nothing in it for me."

Jun 12th
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Joseph Stark

lk5

Jun 5th
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Rachael Burtnette

Ok

May 2nd
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Cheri Jones

What happens when your spouse doesn't want to see that they are doing something wrong to hear your side because their pain is more important?

Jan 21st
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