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Author: Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

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Is your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!

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Learn about the impact that hot flashes, hormones and other menopause symptoms have on you, your spouse, and your marriage. | “My belief is that it’s a privilege to get older. Not everybody gets to get older.” —Cameron Diaz Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Menopause Shouldn't Suck Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
850: Sexual Arousal

850: Sexual Arousal

2025-03-1130:46

Learn about what the two of you can do to strengthen your sexual intimacy as you create sexual arousal in one another.| “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” —Johann Wolfgang von Goethe Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The Penis Book The Vagina Bible Überlube Evree Intimate Massage Cream Intimacy Mastery Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about how pornography systematically destroys the intimate connection between spouses, creating barriers to genuine sexual intimacy. | “Porn isn’t harmless. Research shows that watching porn leads to a decrease in marital satisfaction, emotional separation and can double the likelihood of divorce. No website, video or images are worth damaging your marriage.” —Matt & Heather Cook Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Apply for Marriage Coaching Porn Free Man Masterclass Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about how many little actions done consistently and over time can create big changes in your marriage. | “Great things are not done by impulse, but by a series of small things brought together. And great things are not accidental, but must certainly be willed.” —Vincent Van Gogh Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Intimacy Mastery Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Discover practical strategies to make time with your spouse as you deepen your connection even in the midst of life's busyness. | “There’s only one thing more precious than our time and that’s who we spend it on.” —Leo Christopher Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Intimacy Mastery 843: When Words Get In The Way Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about how the powerful connection between your emotional and sexual intimacy can transform your marriage. | “Life happens at intersections.” —Jack Dorsey Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Intimacy Mastery Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about where to get help for your marriage when you need to find trusted resources, professional support, and effective solutions. | “Courage isn’t just standing alone, it’s also reaching out when you need it.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 001: 60 Days of Sex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Discover the power of romancing the one you love to reignite passion, deepen connection, and strengthen your marriage. | “The word 'romance,' according to the dictionary, means excitement, adventure, and something extremely real. Romance should last a lifetime.” —Billy Graham Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: RSLOVE Sexy Women's Lingerie 7 Tips for Writing the Perfect Love Note to Your Spouse 28 Romantic Conversation Prompts to Deepen Your Connection Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about ways to break through communication barriers and deepen your connection when words get in the way. | “The power of a few well chosen words and a change in tone may completely transform a phrase.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 633: The Words You Speak Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about why one often overlooked aspect in marriage is the role of vocalization and sounds during intimate moments. | “Your voice is a unique instrument that has the power to touch hearts and move souls.” —Anonymous s it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 001: 60 Days of Sex When Harry Met Sally - I'll Have What She's Having 809: Responsive Desire Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about how address a situation that a lot of couples find themselves dealing with—living like roommates. | “If you are not connecting with your spouse on a daily basis, you are exchanging your soulmate for a roommate.” —Maggie Reyes Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 001: 60 Day Sex Challenge Man in the Mirror — Michael Jackson Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
840: NEW YEAR, NEW FOCUS

840: NEW YEAR, NEW FOCUS

2024-12-3129:441

Start the year with a new focus as you address those areas that you and your spouse can work on in the new year. | “We all get the same 365 days. The only difference is what we do with them.” —Hillary Depiano Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Monthly Planner Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today it's time to reflect on the year that has gone by—lessons learned, growth that happened, and moments to be proud of. | "The past is behind, learn from it. The future is ahead, prepare for it. The present is here, live it." —Thomas Monson Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 790: The Greatest Threat to Our Marriage is Apathy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn creative ways to build the romance and stay connected during the Christmas chaos. | “In the chaos of life, your love is my constant, grounding me and giving me strength to face anything.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 12 Days of Christmas Challenge to Strengthen Your Marriage 15 Ways to Romance Your Spouse Over the Next 30 Days Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about those awkward moments that many couples have faced when their kids have discovered sex toys that weren’t intended for their eyes. | “If you are feeling embarrassed now, just remember that it will become a funny story in the future.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Bedroom Adventure Bundle Dictionary Book Safe Überlube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about how to show your love through thoughtful gift giving that truly speak to your spouse’s heart this season. | “It’s not how much you give, it’s how much love you put into what you give.” —Mother Theresa Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 833: Avoiding The Holiday Financial Hangover No More Junk! Why Experiences Make the Best Holiday Gifts Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Take a moment to give thanks for the little things, a challenging season, or simply growing together, thankfulness strengthens connection. | “The more you practice the art of thankfulness, the more you have to be thankful for.” —Norman Vincent Peale Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 790: The Greatest Threat to Our Marriage Is Apathy Free Gratitude Planner Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about the impact that the holiday season can have on your marriage, especially when it comes to your physical intimacy. | “In the absence of touching and being touched, people of all ages can be sickened and grow touch starved.” —Dianne Ackerman Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Evree Intimate Massage Cream The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Quiz Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about budgeting for the holidays…so that you and your spouse don’t have the holiday financial hangover. | “Planning and saving for holidays like Thanksgiving and Christmas should happen months in advance. They are not a surprise.” —Dave Ramsey Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Gift List App Elfster Secret Santa App Free Holiday Spending Planner Free Online Budgeting Class Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about how to release the hurt, find peace, and move forward, even when apologies are absent and change seems distant. | “Forgiveness is not always easy. At times it feels more painful than the wound we suffered, to forgive the one that inflicted it. And yet, there is no peace without forgiveness.” —Marianne Williamson Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 820: I’m Only Having Sex Because You Want It The 6 Pillars at Sea Marriage Getaway Grace Forgives, by Pastor Joby Martin on The Church of Eleven12 Podcast Called to Love: Experiencing Your Best Marriage Through the Words of Jesus Gratitude Planner Free Marriage Guide Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Shaun Jennings

why is it taboo for a man to be the vulnerable one? would you be willing to touch on this topic again?

Oct 9th
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Mission Pest

Tony. Cut your wife some slack. She's got a lot on her plate.

Aug 3rd
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Shannon Swanson-Figgins

I just started listening to your podcast and its the opposite in our marriage...my husband is 11 years older than me. We've been married for 12 years and he rejects me all the time...we MIGHT have sex once a month. I know he loves me but I'm lonely.

Nov 11th
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Kittrell Saunders

How does it sound when you approach your partner to discuss the discrepancy of sexual desire? Are there discussion starters? What if you have already discussed it in healthy ways, but nothing has changed, and when it gets brought up again, it is met with anger and immediate rejection? What does the script look like for having a successful conversation about the growing resentment and deepening chasm?

Mar 18th
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Dan Davis

I prefer being bare, especially in hot humid summers. I feel cleaner and like feeling smoother. Once you get used to shaving it goes quickly in the shower.

Feb 13th
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Ginger Ellison

what if you weren't ever in love. I married my husband because he pressured me and I wasn't ready. I wasn't over my ex. we have no emotional connection or intimacy and have barely had any I our 3 year marriage.

Aug 15th
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Karen Janicki

Here is an issue that I have, I'm almost never in the mood in the morning ever. Honestly. I just woke up, I'm still tired, I have a million things on my mind and I have zero desire. My desire peaks in the evening. I did some research to try to understand this and from what I have read men's hormones peak in the morning while as women's peaks in the evening. I honestly and frustratingly feel like almost all these marriage podcasts ( every different one, not just yours) all try to simply tell women that we just need to get in the mood, put things aside, ignore our own desires and satisfy our husbands regardless of our desires or feelings. It sometimes feels like the prevailing attitude is that men need sex so you have to do it whenever he wants your feelings be darned. Don't get me wrong, I love sex and I love my husband. But women and men are different and it's already so difficult for a woman to become aroused, get excited and have an orgasm. It can be alot of work physically and menta

Aug 13th
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The Parenting Experience

my wife is a stonewaller. I am logical like you guys but stonewaller and only talks to tell once I'm fed up and start trashing my home. if I would ever try to hangy self she would provide the chair. I truly hate her now

Jul 3rd
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The Parenting Experience

she gives me the silent treatment when I Ask her why does t she kiss me or say I love you. it gets violent she yelled to try to get attention for people to call the cops . I'm gone 3 kids she's doesn't care to please me. I truly hate her now. I will never ever love her again. all because I asked for see she's a narcissist. Stonewall

Jul 3rd
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The Parenting Experience

I love you guys . I knew I wasn't crazy.

Jul 2nd
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WYNC

About 7 minutes into nothingness and then a barrage of ,"Duh". I can tell you are trying to convey your lifestyle but you cannot articulate. Then more of Duh with a large helping of product mentions. Your podcast is exactly what you said, and I quote, "There was nothing in it for me."

Jun 12th
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Joseph Stark

lk5

Jun 5th
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Rachael Burtnette

Ok

May 2nd
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Cheri Jones

What happens when your spouse doesn't want to see that they are doing something wrong to hear your side because their pain is more important?

Jan 21st
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