Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments

Have you ever felt like you're losing your little one as they grow into a teen? Imagine the mix of pride and heartbreak as your child starts to pull away, seeking independence while you long for those cozy, close moments. How do we navigate this bittersweet transition?Today, I explore the emotional rollercoaster of transitioning from parenting young children to guiding adolescents. It's a journey filled with unexpected challenges and poignant moments of letting go. As our children grow and seek more independence, we often feel a deep sense of loss, coupled with the fear of not being needed anymore. But this phase, while challenging, is also a crucial period of growth for both parents and children.I’ll share with you my own struggles and realizations during my daughter Esme's transition into adolescence. From feeling like the center of her world to navigating the painful moments of rejection and the need for autonomy, I want you to understand how important it is to reframe these experiences. By leaning into connection, understanding our children's need for independence, and finding new ways to bond, we can maintain a strong, supportive relationship.In This EpisodeThe emotional impact of children growing upCoping with feelings of lossUnderstanding your child's need for autonomyNavigating the push-pull dynamics of adolescenceBalancing safety and independenceMaintaining connection through the teenage years🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:YouTube: @peaceandparentinglaInstagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Are you struggling with sibling rivalry or managing multiple kids' needs? Imagine a morning when you’re pulled in every direction, resolving online meeting issues for one child while another is desperate for your attention. How do you manage these conflicting demands without losing your cool or compromising the peace in your home? Today I’m joined by Stephanie, a dedicated stay-at-home mom from Virginia. With four children aged between 6 and 14, Stephanie faces the daily challenges of balancing her kids' needs while maintaining boundaries with empathy. Through our discussion, we uncover some practical solutions for managing sibling rivalry and ensuring each child feels connected and valued.In This EpisodeTackling sibling rivalry with neutralityThe power of empathy in conflict resolutionImportance of daily special time with each childStrategies for handling simultaneous demandsReducing the need for punishments and bribes🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:YouTube: @peaceandparentinglaInstagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Ever wondered if punishing your child for bad behavior might actually be counterproductive? Picture this: your child hits their sibling. Instead of a timeout, what if you offered a hug and some empathy? How might that change the dynamic?I want to challenge some deeply rooted beliefs in traditional parenting that may benefit from a new perspective, such as the notion that punishment is essential for teaching right from wrong. I believe our children naturally desire to do well and that their behaviors often indicate a need for connection rather than defiance. By understanding the underlying needs that drive your child’s actions, you can foster a stronger bond and guide them with empathy and respect.In This EpisodeChallenging the necessity of punishmentUnderstanding behaviors as cries for connectionRecognizing the inherent goodness in childrenResponding to misbehavior with empathyThe impact of traditional wisdom on parentingEmpowering parents to connect with their kids🔗 Join my Connected Parent Mastermind, designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration.🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:YouTube: @peaceandparentinglaInstagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Are you unknowingly falling into controlling patterns with your kids? Can relinquishing bedtime control to your kids transform your evenings and lead to a more harmonious family life? Today, we explore the delicate balance between control and connection in parenting.I am joined by Carolyn, a mother of three adorable girls, as we explore her journey of shedding control and embracing relational parenting. I dig deep into Carolyn's realization of mirroring her father's authoritarian style and discuss how to pivot towards more empathy-driven interactions.We discuss Carolyn's specific struggles with sibling rivalry, and I offer practical advice on handling these using natural consequences instead of punitive measures. I hope our conversation provides you with valuable insights and tools to reconsider your approach to parenting. Whether you're dealing with sibling rivalry, bedtime routines, or simply want to improve your family dynamics, this episode has something for you.In This EpisodeExploring control and its impact on relationshipsFostering cooperation naturally, not forcefullyAllowing children bedtime autonomyAddressing sibling rivalry with empathyImplementing special time for connectionEncouraging choices in kids' daily activities🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:YouTube: @peaceandparentinglaInstagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Are you dreading the summer chaos with kids at home all day? Imagine a summer where connection replaces stress and laughter fills your home. How can you create magical moments without the pressure of extravagant plans?Today, I want to offer some help to parents struggling with their kids at home during the summer. I want to help you make it enjoyable for both you and your kids. Summers can be challenging with the lack of routine and constant presence of children, but it’s also a perfect opportunity to lean into connections. In this episode, I'll share some practical tips and gentle reminders to help you stay calm and connected during the summer months.In This EpisodeHow to lean into connection to ease summer stressDaily special time with each childEmbracing boredom and its benefitsSibling special time to strengthen bondsEasy and fun activities at home🔗 Join my Connected Parent Mastermind, designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration.🔗 Join our Weekly Action Call to get more peace in your home this summer🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:YouTube: @peaceandparentinglaInstagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Have you ever restricted your kids' screen time because they talked back? Or perhaps taken away their favorite toy after they fought with their sibling? Today, I am speaking with Noelle, a stay-at-home mom of two young daughters. She has been facing challenges with her 2-year-old's refusal to follow her three-strikes policy.We delve into the common struggles of many parents: the feeling that their child isn't listening. Noelle shares situations where her daughter resists instructions, leading to tantrums and meltdowns. I provide Noelle with some practical advice on how she can transform her daughter's defiance into cooperation.In This EpisodeConnection over punishments and rewardsCooperation and setting boundaries with empathyDealing with toddler tantrums positivelyShifting mindset and expectations for parenting success🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Ever felt like your child's whining is driving you up the wall? What if there’s a way to turn this frustrating behavior into a moment of connection and understanding?Today, I want to help you with a common parenting challenge… whining. It can feel like nails on a chalkboard, but what if we reframed it as a cry for help rather than an annoyance? In this episode, I share my personal experiences and strategies to help you transform your response to whining from correction to connection. Understanding the root causes and responding empathetically can foster a closer bond with our kids and reduce those dreaded whiny moments. Let's explore how to shift our mindset and approach to create a more peaceful and connected parenting experience.In This EpisodeUnderstanding WhiningEmpathy Over ExplanationHolding Firm LimitsPublic TantrumsBuilding Daily Connection🔗 Join my Connected Parent Mastermind designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration.🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Are you finding it difficult to stay calm in tense situations? Just picture navigating through parenthood without using punishments or rewards, focusing solely on establishing a strong connection. I'm Michelle Kenney, and today, I'm excited to be joined by the insightful and authentic Destini Ann, who is a certified parenting coach, author, and TEDx Speaker.Destini and I explore the importance and challenges of self-regulation. We discuss how this approach may not yield immediate results and address misconceptions about natural versus logical consequences. We also highlight the significance of proactive parenting. Destini's insights emphasize that the aim is to build an authentic, collaborative relationship with our children rather than striving for perfection. Additionally, we’ll also leave you with some practical strategies for incorporating connective parenting into your busy lives, empowering you to make a positive change.In This EpisodeSelf-regulation challenges in parentingDifference between natural and logical consequencesImpact of proactive parentingOvercoming the myth of the perfect parentIntegrating connection into busy schedulesLong-term benefits of connective parenting🔗 Follow Destini Ann on Instagram: @destini.ann🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Have you ever felt like the parenting advice you get (from me and any other parenting experts) doesn’t fit your family? Imagine a world where parenting tips are tailored just for you and your child. How can we bridge the gap between general advice and our unique parenting challenges?In today’s episode, we tackle the giant world of parenting advice. We'll discuss what strategies work, what doesn't, and why. I'll provide insights on how to take general parenting frameworks and tailor them to suit your unique family dynamics. We'll explore why certain methods may require adjustments and how understanding your child’s temperament can make a significant difference. Whether you’re dealing with a defiant teenager or a toddler who uses a pacifier, remember that, above all, it’s about prioritizing connection over correction; every family is unique.In This EpisodeUnderstanding general parenting adviceAdapting tips to fit your childBuilding a strong parent-child relationshipHandling parenting challenges with empathyEmbracing imperfection in parenting🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Have you ever felt at your wit's end, not wanting to spend another minute in the presence of your kids? Today, I have a heartwarming conversation with Rachel, a mother who once felt overwhelmed and disconnected from her two young daughters. Rachel bravely shares her initial struggles with her eldest child, who exhibited extreme emotions and behaviors that left Rachel feeling helpless and frustrated. Rachel’s journey of growth and understanding demonstrates that with the right tools and support, every parent can move from mere survival to thriving with their children.In This EpisodeRachel's initial challenges with emotional shut-downValidating your children’s feelings over dismissing themThe impact of parenting support on family lifeThe softer, more connected child after changeHow the sibling relationship transformed with a new approachChallenges and successes in ongoing cooperative parenting🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Have you ever wondered why your child may tell lies even when they know they will likely get caught? Just imagine a world where lying isn't seen as a child's desperate escape from trouble but as a way to seek deeper understanding. Let's take some time to explore how we can turn those little lies into opportunities for building strong connections. Today, I want to share with you the emotional and psychological reasons that lead children to bend the truth and emphasize the importance of understanding and empathy. It's important to remember that behind every lie is a child seeking connection and acceptance.In This EpisodeWhy do kids lie to avoid troubleThe impact of disappointment and shameDifferentiating between harmless and harmful liesStrategies to reduce lying without punishmentsEncouraging honesty through curiosity and empathy🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

How did abandoning punishments and consequences transform a father-daughter relationship on the brink? Today, I sit down with Erik, a single father who experienced a profound change in his relationship with his daughter. Erik shares how he moved from seeing her behavior as manipulative to understanding it as a cry for help. His journey started during a crisis when his daughter was battling significant anxiety, stress, depression, and self-harm. Traditional methods of rules and consequences weren’t working, so Erik took a leap of faith with a radical, connective approach that changed everything.In This EpisodeShifting from rules to empathyRecognizing cries for help in behaviorBuilding trust and deepening connectionThe transformative power of words of affirmationThe importance of self-reflection in parenting🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

What happens when natural consequences fail to teach your child a lesson? Today, I tackle challenging situations where natural consequences simply don’t apply. I’ll help you navigate these tricky scenarios with empathy and creativity, offering alternative approaches that still foster growth and learning in your children. Understanding the underlying emotions and motivations behind your child's actions is as important as finding constructive ways to address them without relying on punishments.In This EpisodeWhen natural consequences don’t fit the situationUnderstanding your child’s underlying motivationsAlternative strategies to natural consequencesMaintaining connection without relying on punishmentPractical examples of empathetic parentingBuilding resilience and understanding in your child🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

What happens when parenting dynamics take a sudden turn? Can connection truly transform challenging behaviors? Today, I sit with Taryn, one of our inspiring Peace and Parenting coaches, to recount her journey from traditional parenting to embracing connective parenting. After facing unexpected challenges with her second child, Taryn discovered the transformative power of hand-in-hand parenting. Her story beautifully illustrates how deeper connection and empathy not only reshape parent-child relationships but also rejuvenate the entire family dynamic.Taryn shares the complexities she faced when her seemingly 'easy-going' firstborn started showing regressive behaviors and aggression towards her younger sibling. Her light bulb moment led her to embrace new parenting tools, which turned around her family's struggles and cultivated deep bonds. From enduring sibling rivalry to teenagers who feel completely safe in their authentic selves, Taryn's story encapsulates the highs and lows of parental connection.In This EpisodeNavigating challenges with a second childRecognizing and fixing disconnection in parentingTransforming through connective parenting toolsBalancing sibling rivalry with empathy and playSustaining parenting connection through different stages🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

What hidden stories from your past are impacting your parenting today? What if the secret to better parenting lies within us? Today, I explore the profound idea of self-regulation and the underlying narratives that influence how we engage with our children.I open up about a personal session I had recently with a client who is grappling with the complexities of raising a child with ADHD and ODD. Throughout this experience, we uncover how past grievances and unresolved pain can subtly hinder our parenting endeavors. Join me as we explore practical approaches to clearing these mental and emotional obstacles and find empowerment to evolve into a more attentive, compassionate, and connected parent.In this EpisodeUncovering hidden stories affecting parenting behaviorsThe importance of self-regulation in parentingThe impact of unresolved emotions on parent-child connectionStrategies for recognizing and addressing resentmentsPractical tools for clearing mental blockages🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

What if open communication and respect could revolutionize your relationship with your teenager? Today, we're thrilled to bring you a captivating conversation with the one and only Billy Vsco. Billy, who found his way into the world of parenting through his viral TikTok videos and football coaching, has garnered a substantial following. He's now a guiding light for parents, advocating for stronger relationships and better communication with their children.In this episode, we discuss essential topics like maintaining a strong parent-child relationship even beyond the age of 18, the importance of apologizing and taking responsibility, and the transformative power of open communication and respect. Billy shares insights from his journey, the challenges, and the joys of parenting.In this EpisodeThe impact of apologizing to our childrenTransitioning from a teen to an adult audienceThe role of empathy in parenting multiple childrenChallenges of dealing with criticism in parenting🔗 Check out Billy on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@billyvsco🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Ever wonder if letting your kids fail could actually be the best thing for them? Today, we're diving into the counterintuitive but transformative idea that failure is not only okay but necessary. Join me as I explore why allowing our children to stumble, make mistakes, and experience the natural consequences of their actions in a safe and supportive environment is a cornerstone of connected parenting.I’ll share practical ways to shift from overprotective habits to fostering independence and learn how to hold space for your children's emotions without rushing in to fix everything. This episode is a must-listen for parents ready to embrace a new approach that empowers their kids to grow into capable, confident individuals.In this EpisodeWhy letting children fail helps them growCreating a safe space for failureHow to avoid overprotection and emotional shieldingEmbracing failure for deeper learningUnderstanding failures in interpersonal relationshipsThe balance between intervention and natural consequences🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Why is understanding a child’s developmental stage crucial for effective parenting? Today, I am thrilled to welcome Dr. Joel Warsh, an integrative pediatrician passionate about children's health and well-being. Dr. Warsh shares his frustration with children's over-medication and his journey towards integrative medicine, blending the best of Western and alternative practices. We delve into his new book, "Parenting at Your Child’s Pace," which focuses on de-stressing parents and promoting health from the earliest stages of childhood.Together, we’ll explore the societal pressures to create 'superhuman' children and the resulting parental stress. Dr. Warsh emphasizes the importance of balance, connection, and trusting our instincts as parents. He shares insights on managing common parenting worries, from growth charts to developmental milestones, reminding us that each child is unique and that most concerns are normal.In this EpisodeAn integrative pediatrician's approach to balanced parentingStress and its impact on parentingThe importance of developmental milestone understandingNavigating societal pressures on perfect parentingBalancing discipline: boundaries vs. permissivenessRethinking medication as a last resort🔗 Follow Dr. Joel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjoelgator/🔗 Get his book Parenting at Your Child's Pace: https://parentingatyourchildspace.com/🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Is compliance really the goal in parenting neurodivergent kids? Have you ever wondered if there's a better way to connect with your neurodivergent child beyond the conventional methods of rewards and punishments? Today, I reflect on the profound impact of connection in parenting, especially for children with ADHD, autism, and other neurodivergent conditions.Many believe these kids need strict compliance through rewards and punishments due to their executive functioning challenges. But I challenge that notion. What if the secret to truly supporting our children lies in the strength of our connection with them? I've worked with wonderful families with neurodivergent kids, and I believe that traditional methods might not be the best approach and that connection can foster genuine growth and understanding.In this EpisodeConnection over compliance for neurodivergent kidsTraditional methods vs. connection-based parentingThe challenges with rewards and punishment systemsSuccess stories of connection-focused parenting🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today I sit down with Shelly Robinson, the inspiring founder of Raising Yourself. Shelly shares her transformative experience with reparenting herself and offers powerful insights into inner child work, conscious parenting, and breaking the cycle of punitive approaches.We delve into the concept of “mom rage” and explore the underlying fears and insecurities that often ignite our outbursts. Shelly’s candid storytelling, including a poignant moment with her young son, will strike a chord with many parents who grapple with similar challenges. This episode isn't just about enhancing your child’s behavior, but also about our own healing and creating a nurturing environment where both parent and child can flourish.In this EpisodeThe importance of connection over punishmentUsing play as a parenting toolAddressing “mom rage” with empathy and understandingHow to handle parental dysregulation effectivelyHow to collaborate with children to solve conflictsSelf-compassion in overcoming parenting challenges🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy