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Relationship Advice
Author: Hosted by: Chase Kosterlitz, Produced by: Sarah Kosterlitz
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I Do Podcast interviews today’s most successful and inspiring relationship experts, therapists and couples. Hosted by Chase Kosterlitz and produced by Sarah Kosterlitz, I Do Podcast is all about inspiring young couples to create a fulfilling and happy relationship. The weekly podcast will give you great advice to improve your relationship and fun ways to keep the spark alive. Each episode Chase interviews amazing relationship experts who share their knowledge on building successful and lasting love. The guests provide daily tips to improve your relationship, advice for young couples, amazing books and resources and much more.
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We all have been there with a romantic partner, family member or friend who always has something dramatic going on in their lives. Perhaps it may even be you who is addicted to drama. There are important patterns to recognize and correct if you or someone you know is addicted to drama. Don't let the drama of others, or within yourself, continue to decrease your happiness and well being. Listen to today's show for key tools and tips for dealing with drama in your life.
In this episode with Dr. Scott Lyons we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
What is drama, how to recognize it and the important differences between a drama reflex and a drama occurrence
How those who engage in drama are disconnected from themselves
How drama helps reinforce one's identity as a victim and how to break this pattern
Why some individuals create drama to feel alive and connected
How to relate with someone who is addicted to drama
Interrupting the drama pattern for a happier, healthier life
And much more!
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Life in India as a woman is much different than in the western world. Arranged marriages and a deeply patriarchal society are just two of the pressures that can make life difficult for an Indian woman. Add a toxic, abusive arranged marriage with kids involved to these cultural pressures and one could feel quite hopeless. This is exactly what Kanchan Moudgil had to go through and was able to come out the other side happy, healthy and with a positive outlook on life. Listen to today's show to hear Kanchan's inspirational story along with specific, actionable advice for what to do if you're in a toxic or abusive relationship.
In this episode with Kanchan Moudgil we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
What it's like to grow up in India with arranged marriages and a strong patriarchal hierarchy
How to get out of a victim mentality
How those who are in toxic relationships can justify an abusive situation and how to change the narrative
Visualization as a tool to help exit a toxic relationship
Developing the strength to leave an unhealthy relationship
And much more!
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Relationships take work, especially when you have kids, work and life to balance! Venice and Vernon have a unique perspective to share as they are both professional therapists and parents with a passion for keeping their marriage strong while helping others in their relationships as well. Listen to today's show for their personal story and amazing, actionable tips to help you navigate your relationship better.
In this episode with Vernon and Venice Moore we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
How to balance a busy schedule with kids and your relationship
Actionable tips to help prioritize your relationship when you're busy
Balancing work life and your relationship
Creating healthy boundaries in your relationship
How to think about your identity as a partner, parent and individual
And much more!
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This week, we're sharing an episode of the Love Letters podcast. Love Letters tells stories about romance, marriage, partnership, sex, loss, and the human heart. Served with a side of advice. On the new season, host Meredith Goldstein explores all the ways money plays into love, dating, and relationships. Like: What happens when two partners come from different wealth backgrounds? What if someone is harboring secret debt? Who should pay for drinks on a first date? How do couples decide whose “turn” it is to pursue a career dream? Find out on the new season of Love Letters. Listen on [Apple | Spotify].
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We can often be our own worst enemies as we move through life and relationships. Negative thoughts may dominate our thinking and create narratives that don't serve us. Listen to today's show to learn how to limit the false stories we tell ourselves and connect with your authentic self.
In this episode with Dr. Carolyn Kurle we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Understanding the dynamic between your logical brain and your intuition
How societal conditioning influences the decisions we make
How to tap into your intuition and use it effectively
Recognizing unproductive patterns of thinking and changing the narrative
Changing negative beliefs such as unworthiness, inadequacy and more
How to learning from your mistakes and thrive during your life's journey
And much more!
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Paired is a fun app that brings you closer to your partner. Connect with your partner every day using Paired. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/IDO
Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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Understanding our sexuality, and our partner's, may feel like a confusing and daunting task. Our sexuality is often influenced by cultural programming, issues of shame and any number of other factors. Listen to today's show to better understand your sexuality, what you desire and the tools to communicate these things with your partner.
In this episode with Dr. Alexandra Katehakis we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
What to do if you're confused about what turns you on
Deconstructing the messages you may have around sexuality
Tools to work through shame around sexuality
What do do if you feel insecure about your partner's sexual history
How to communicate with your partner about sexuality
Play as an important component of your sexuality
And much more!
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The wounds from our childhood and past relationships can affect us in the present day in big and small ways. Understanding your attachment style and how to repair your attachment wounds is a huge part of being able to relate better with those in your life. Listen to today's show for key insights and actionable tools to repair your attachment wounds and love better.
In this episode with Adam Lane Smith we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Understanding the insecure attachment patterns that we can create in relationships and how to heal them
Specific tools for individuals with anxious and secure attachment styles to heal
Learning to create boundaries and keep boundaries for healthier relationships
How to communicate with your partner if you are feeling insecure
How to relate better if you or your partner is anxiously or avoidantly attached
And much more!
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If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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Many of us may picture our career, athletic or weight loss goals in our minds' eyes and imagine what it may be like to achieve them. However, we may not be so inclined to do this kind of work when it comes to love and relationships. Listen to today's show to learn how functional imagery training can help you in all areas of your life, including your relationships.
In this episode with Joanna Grover we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Understand how imagery shapes our behavior
Getting clear on who you are and who you want to be to help achieve your goals
Using mental cues to interrupt negative thought patterns
The importance of living a live in alignment with your core values
How to visualize the changes you want to make in your life so you're up to 5x more likely to actually make those changes
How to tap into your body's wisdom to help make better decisions
And much more!
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If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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Denial is a condition all of us may find ourselves in at some point. Whether it's denial about a failing relationship, that our partner can change a bad habit or a job that's not right for us. There are a vast number of ways that denial can show up in our lives. Listen to today's show to learn how to recognize that you're in denial and the tools to work through it and develop the courage to change.
In this episode with Dr. Jane Greer we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
How denial can show up in your relationships
Recognizing if you're in a relationship that is going nowhere
Understanding how wishing and hoping is not serving you
Using the process of emotional math to understand what you might be in denial about and how to work through it
The importance of working toward acceptance in your relationship
When you or someone you love is in denial about a toxic relationship
And much more!
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If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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We all want to feel understood and loved by our partners. However, poor communication can leave us or our partner feeling misunderstood and lonely in our relationship. Listen to today's episode for practical tips to improve your communication for better understanding and more love!
In this episode with Madhur-Nain Webster we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
The number one communication issue and how to fix it
What to do when you don't feel seen by your partner
The antidote to defensiveness in your relationship
Why we fall in love with our unfinished pain from childhood
How to make up after conflict in your relationship
And much more!
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If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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Most of us may not be getting the rest we need to live our lives to the fullest and keep our relationships healthy. Sleep is not necessarily the first thing someone will think about when wanting to improve their relationship. However, if you're not getting proper sleep, it will be difficult to work on other aspects of your life and your relationship. Listen to today's show to learn more about simple tools you can use to improve your sleep quality and improve your relationship.
In this episode with Terry Cralle we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Creating a bedtime routine to improve your sleep
The surprising negative effects of poor sleep quality
Why it's ok to go to bed mad at your partner
Why the best way to say, " I love you", is to get better sleep
What to do if you and your partner have different sleeping preferences
And much more!
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Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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Our lives are filled with big decisions and we don't always give them the proper care and process they require. Whether or not we should move in with someone, get married or buy a house are decisions most of us will face at one point or another. Listen to today's show to learn an amazing process to make better decisions about the big things in life.
In this episode with Myra Strober we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Learn a step-by-step process to making more thoughtful decisions
Confronting decisions when your head and your heart are in conflict
How to avoid making mistakes during the biggest decisions of your life
Anticipating the consequences of your decisions and how that can inform your actions
Understanding how our desires can negatively influence our decisions
How fear factors into our decision making process
And much more!
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Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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There is a lot of stigma and cultural norms that we don't really question around divorce. What if it didn't have to be nasty and terrible when you break up or divorce your partner? Unfortunately, relationships and marriages do end, and we're not always great at navigating these circumstances with kindness and grace. Listen to today's show for some amazing tools and insights for creating a divorce or breakup that you can be proud of.
In this episode with Dr. Suzanne Vickberg we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
How to get over the myth that your ex is the enemy and why antagonism won't serve you
Navigating a divorce with kids and considering the option that you could still live with your ex!
How to decide with your partner how to create a healthy divorce
What to do when one partner does not want to end the marriage
The huge benefits of creating a healthy divorce
Navigating feelings around your ex dating again
And much more!
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If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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Do you identify as a highly sensitive person? Perhaps your partner does? All of us have different levels of sensitivity that we have to deal with when navigating relationships and life. Listen to today's show to better understand your sensitivities or your partner's in order to live a happier and healthier life.
In this episode with Andre Sólo we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Defining sensitivity and the sensitivity scale
How to navigate high sensitivity, and knowing the strengths and weaknesses of highly sensitive individuals
How to navigate conflict for highly sensitive individuals
Embracing your sensitivity
Who highly sensitive people should be in relationships with
How we view sensitivity in individuals
And much more!
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Dipsea is an audio app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions that are designed to turn you on and help you get in touch with yourself. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IDO.
Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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Dating can feel challenging, tiring and even hopeless. However, it's important to know that you're not alone and that it doesn't have to be so hard. Listen to today's show to learn how to navigate dating, keep your heart open and find peace with yourself.
In this episode with Christiana Cioffi, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
How to navigate the challenges of dating as you age
Learning to become happy with yourself in order to find happiness when dating
How to approach sexuality after not dating for a while
How to live a healthier life as a single person
Becoming comfortable with who you are
How to deal with feelings that you may not 'have it' anymore
And much more!
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Füm helps you shake bad habits. Head to TryFum.com and use code IDO to save 10% off when you get the Journey pack today. The Journey pack comes with three unique flavors and the new Version 2 Füm to help kick start your positive habits.
Paired is a fun app that brings you closer to your partner. Connect with your partner every day using Paired. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/IDO
Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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Breaking up is almost never easy and the emotional toll after the breakup can be quite exhausting. Listen to today's episode for amazing tools to help you navigate through a breakup and get over your ex.
In this episode with Dr. Cortney Warren, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Tips for cutting contact with your ex
The importance of retelling your break up story and how to do it
What to do if you're struggling to move on
Unpacking the myth that time will heal your wounds
What to do if you're struggling with obsessive thinking about your ex and the former relationship
Dating after a breakup
And much more!
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Pretty Litter was invented to give cat owners peace of mind knowing that they can keep daily tabs on their cat's health. Plus, it's hassle-free and odorless! Go to PrettyLitter.com/IDO to save 20% on your first order.
Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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This conversation is a comprehensive look at three very important elements of a healthy relationship. We haven't talked much about commitment on this show and the first half of the conversation is dedicated to this critical topic. Listen to today's show for some amazing, actionable advice to start applying to your relationship today!
In this episode with Matthew Hoffman, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Different kinds of commitment and how to show more commitment in your relationship
Fears around commitment and how to talk about them with your partner
The key ways to show appreciation and gratitude in your relationship
How to communicate with intentionality
Important questions to ask your partner that will help you connect with them
Understanding what is underlying conflict in your relationship
The importance of fighting fair and creating understanding during conflict
And much more!
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Like A Kitten curates adult subscription boxes created to inspire and influence female sexual wellness. Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you go to LikeAKitten.com/ido OR enter code IDO at checkout.
Füm helps you shake bad habits. Head to TryFum.com and use code IDO to save 10% off when you get the Journey pack today. The Journey pack comes with three unique flavors and the new Version 2 Füm to help kick start your positive habits.
Apostrophe offers personalized, clinically proven treatment plans crafted by a board-certified dermatologist. Get prescription-strength skincare for acne, rosacea and more without ever leaving home. Get your first visit for only $5 by visiting apostrophe.com/ido when you use our code IDO.
Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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No one wants to feel like the best sex they've ever had with their partner is behind them. However, many people will feel like the sex they had early in their relationship was way better than it is down the road. Listen to today's show to learn why that doesn't have to be the case and the tools and practices to create the best sex of your relationship right now!
In this episode with Eleni Economides, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Why the best sex of our relationship is often at the beginning and how to switch that pattern
The importance of looking at ourselves first to start addressing the problem
Why we stop trying to seduce our partner as the relationship goes on and how this affects our sex lives
Deconstructing the myth that “if I have to try to have better sex, then something is not right”
The importance of taking the first step to start improving your relationship and how to get over that fear
And much more!
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Cozy Earth offers luxury bedding and loungewear known for its incredible softness and temperature regulation. Cozy Earth is providing an exclusive offer for our listeners: 35% off site wide when you use the code “IDOPODCAST”.
Like A Kitten curates adult subscription boxes created to inspire and influence female sexual wellness. Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you go to LikeAKitten.com/ido OR enter code IDO at checkout.
BetterHelp is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/IDO.
Foria is an innovative health and sexual wellness company that designs all-natural sexual intimacy products for women, people with vulvas, and the people who love them. Get 20% off your first order by visiting foriawellness.com/ido.
Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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Giving and receiving constructive feedback can be a tricky area to navigate in all of our relationships, especially romantic relationships. Understanding the tools to best give and receive feedback will help you live a happier and healthier life. Listen to today's show to learn more about constructive feedback and start applying these tools today!
In this episode with Dr. Wyatt Fisher, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Understanding when and how to give constructive feedback
Tools to give constructive feedback
Specific exercises to implement in your relationship to create space for feedback
How to navigate unsolicited advice in your relationship
What to do if you're a problem solver and feel like you want to give unsolicited advice
The importance of creating safety in your relationship and how to do it
And much more!
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Cozy Earth offers luxury bedding and loungewear known for its incredible softness and temperature regulation. Cozy Earth is providing an exclusive offer for our listeners: 35% off site wide when you use the code “IDOPODCAST”.
Like A Kitten curates adult subscription boxes created to inspire and influence female sexual wellness. Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you go to LikeAKitten.com/ido OR enter code IDO at checkout.
Paired is a fun app that brings you closer to your partner. Connect with your partner every day using Paired. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/IDO
Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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There is a lot to unpack when it comes to understanding our personal relationship to sexuality and bringing that into our relationships. Understanding all of the things that influence how we think about sex can help us improve our sex lives and move through our relationships more positively. Listen to today's show to learn what makes good sex, what sex is worth having and what makes it better.
In this episode with Catherine Roach, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
What makes good sex?
Physical and emotional vulnerability around sex
Understanding how the cultural scripts around sexuality may be influencing you
Unpacking the shame you may have around sexuality and how to do it
How to talk to your kids about sex to set them up for a healthy relationship with their sexuality
Sex positivity and why that doesn't always mean more sex
And much more!
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Cozy Earth offers luxury bedding and loungewear known for its incredible softness and temperature regulation. Cozy Earth is providing an exclusive offer for our listeners: 35% off site wide when you use the code “IDOPODCAST”.
Dipsea is an audio app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions that are designed to turn you on and help you get in touch with yourself. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IDO.
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A good discussion, but very annoying the quality of the lady on the phone is soo bad.
no solution basically. so answer is become incel / black pill? noiice...LOL
Really needed to hear this. It's a tuff thing to realize, but it's important to love yourself first before anything! Please let me know if you have any other tips for self love!
your podcast is amazing
Loved the episode!
wow Jeanne is really good with her advice..im connecting with her compassion n being top of relationship despite partner not putting in effort..they will eventually show up if they see how committed you are...( if partner is sane) im hungry for more of Jeanne
warm n authentic i found damonna..value adder.
Too many commercials !!
Too many commercials !!
Too many commercials !!
hi
this podcast has potential. the limits they have set really take away from the depth of the content. saying " each of those topics we skimmed over could have their own podcast" in multiple different episodes. you guys have more you can share. but I am getting the feeling that finances are an issue with why things are limited or withheld?
this is so true
really glad i found this!! thank you, #hopefullyicamrebuildhistrust
Hello I am trying to play this episode but its saying the file is broken
I had that every time I want to talk about something that concerns me and us , I get called out at crazy, retarded that really breaks me and I have told that, and standing my ground is giving me the silent treat since yesterday
this was extremely helpful...I'm having this problem in my relationship and its pushed me and my at the time girlfriend apart. I'm definitely down for trying this and seeing what results I can get. thanks for such a great episode
I just wanted to elaborate on the core beliefs part of the podcast, now this is a little difficult to explain because me and my boyfriend have been together for a year, and already we are both 100% sure we are going to get married, and this is not because of the lovey dovey stage. We (from the beginning) have gotten along so well, so much that we never fight. (and I don't mean it like "we rarely fight") we've talked alot about having a family but in the beginning I was 100% against it, but I found that growing with my loved one has got me changing my mind. I am honestly deathly afraid of pain, and knowing about how painful giving birth is really scared me off from it, even as a kid , when some would dream of having a family, I wanted to steer far away from that. anyway, my point is that being in a beautiful and secure relationship has changed my way of thinking. It's incredible how the right person being in your life can effect you.
Hi! Does anyone know the name of the opening song? thank you!
I can't believe this episode states porn use is "ok" and "normal" and that it can even positively impact a relationship. Are you serious?! Do some research on the harmful effects of porn. Porn also fuels the demand for sex trafficking! People should feel VERY ashamed if they are watching this garbage. It's NOT an "anti-masturbation" issue!! Porn is also incredibly fake. It puts these false ideas about sex into people heads (especially young people). It's not real! Talk openly to your SO about your fantasies, what you like/don't like and have fun WITH your partner. Leave the garbage out of it. Wow...you lost a listener because of this episode. I'm disappointed 🙁