Selective Ignorance with Mandii B

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and the crew joined by special guests Passport Cutty (The M In Man Is For Money), Mouse Jones (Dead Ass Comedy Show, Trap Karoke) and Ish (That Ish, The Joe Budden Podcast) tackle the idea of defining patriarchy and its impact (00:00), exploring how it shapes gender roles, relationships, and societal norms. We dive into the emotional and financial dynamics in relationships (03:01), discussing how power, expectations, and personal responsibility play a role. From there, we examine gender roles and expectations (05:54), questioning traditional ideals and whether they still hold value today. The discussion heats up with the debate on dismantling patriarchy (08:58), weighing arguments for and against keeping this system in place. We then explore the role of women in upholding patriarchy (11:46), looking at how societal conditioning influences participation in these structures. The conversation shifts to the intersection of money and relationships (15:06), highlighting financial dynamics and their effect on power balances. As we move forward, we unpack cultural shifts and relationship dynamics (17:53), considering how evolving values impact dating and long-term commitments. We also address the physical component of protection (21:09), questioning traditional expectations of men as protectors. Then, we take a deep dive into navigating modern dating and expectations (23:54), exploring how shifting gender roles influence today’s dating scene. Next, we analyze the influence of societal norms on relationships (27:00), exposing the pressures that shape romantic partnerships. We then take a step back to examine the historical context of marriage and relationships (30:01), understanding how past traditions still affect modern unions. Looking ahead, we question the future of gender roles and relationships (33:13), imagining where we might be headed. The conversation takes a serious turn as we discuss the impact of welfare on family dynamics (41:12), exploring how social programs have shaped family structures. We also call out hypocrisy in gender expectations (44:23), addressing the double standards in societal roles. Money remains a key topic as we break down navigating financial dynamics in relationships (51:23), discussing fairness and accountability. Finally, we confront the reality of marriage and relationship expectations (01:00:51), going beyond romanticized ideals to talk about the real challenges couples face. This leads into a personal reflection on dismantling patriarchy (01:09:01), exploring what it means to break free from traditional structures. The conversation closes with concluding thoughts on fairness and relationships (01:18:42), emphasizing the importance of balance, equity, and mutual understanding in partnerships. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Follow the Guests: IG: @passportcuttyIG: @mouse_jonesIG: @thatsthatishWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and co. welcome special guests Mero (7PM In Brooklyn with Carmelo Anthony, Victory Light Podcast), Lizbell Ortiz, and Rainey Ovalle (Victory Light Podcast) for an open, honest, and thoughtful conversation about body image, fat shaming, and the pressures of society’s expectations around weight. The discussion kicks off with an exploration of fat shaming and body image (02:49), followed by a debate on whether there’s ever a “right” to fat shame (06:02). The guests break down celebrity weight loss and public perception (09:03), touching on Lizzo’s influence in the body positivity movement (12:01) and how society shapes body image standards (14:53). The conversation takes a deeper dive into the differences in weight and acceptance between men and women (18:08), as well as personal stories of weight loss journeys (20:58). They also address the hypocrisy in body image discussions (23:53) and how individuals navigate body image in the public eye (30:55). Shifting gears, they discuss fashion’s relationship with body types and self-expression (34:52) and the role of comedy in body shaming (39:05), questioning where the line is between humor and harm. The conversation continues with a discussion on accountability in comedy and offense (46:04) and the contradictions found in personal preferences and attraction (50:17). Closing out, they underscore the power of self-love and body acceptance (56:05) while acknowledging the challenges of staying true to oneself amid societal pressures. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Follow the Guests: IG: @thekidmeroIG: @lizbellortizIG: @raineyorvalleWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B takes a deep dive into accountability and justice within the Black community and the criminal justice system. Joined by special guests Selena Hill (Black Enterprise) and criminal defense attorney Kenneth J. Montgomery, the conversation unpacks sentencing disparities, performative activism, and the role of education and community in addressing crime.The discussion begins with (00:00) a call for accountability in the Black community before examining (02:45) disparities in the justice system. Selena and KJM explore (06:08) crime and punishment, questioning fairness and consequences, and discuss the balance between community responsibility and individual accountability (09:03). They also examine (11:54) the role of Black Lives Matter, (14:49) how sensational cases shape public perception, and the impact of white-collar crimes (18:03). As the conversation continues, they address (20:57) whether justice is truly fair, (23:51) the tension between empathy and accountability, and (27:13) the bigger picture of crime’s effect on the community. The episode also highlights (32:46) economic struggles and cooperative economics, (34:34) flaws in the criminal justice system, and (37:16) how redemption plays into accountability. Closing out, the guests discuss (41:42) how celebrity culture influences violence, (50:41) the challenges of defending the innocent in a flawed system, and (54:49) the importance of community education and accountability. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Follow the Guests: IG: @msselenahillIG: @kjmpllcWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B with special guest and fellow podcaster Rory Farrell dive into the ongoing debate of separating art from the artist (00:00), tackling the hypocrisy in music and how controversial figures are celebrated (02:50). Mandii B and Rory Farrell break down the influence of social media on artist perception (09:01), the power of redemption (11:52), and the double-edged sword of fame (18:03). They explore cancel culture and the nuances of accountability (20:59), the responsibility of platforms (35:29), and the evolving standards in hip-hop (50:12). From the legacy of R. Kelly (42:33) to the blurred lines between art and reality (01:02:21), this conversation unpacks the cultural shifts shaping the music industry today. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share.Follow the Guest: IG @ThisIsRory Watch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

Society is brimming with hypocrisy, indignation and opinions—the Selective Ignorance Podcast will dare to challenge the complexities behind internet reaction and the public’s beliefs by unpacking trending topics with educational comedy and quick wit hot takes. Each week, Mandii B engages guests from the worlds of media, comedy and entertainment, as well as cultural and topical experts, to tackle everything from current events to the latest scandals in order to confront biases, embrace the uncomfortable and embark on a journey that shakes the status quo.

Mandi B, joined by special guest Antoinette from the Around The Way Curls podcast, take a deep dive into capitalism, corporate culture, and the challenges of conscious consumerism. They kick things off by examining the tug-of-war between personal values and consumer choices (2:54) before breaking down the real impact of boycotts and collective action (6:13). The conversation explores the tension between individual responsibility and community welfare (9:02), the influence of wealth and power in shaping society (11:50), and the challenges of aligning personal values with everyday spending habits (15:08).They also share personal experiences navigating consumerism (20:47), discuss the importance of community support (23:56), and reflect on class dynamics and service (26:59). The episode dives into workplace inequities (34:22), how capitalism intersects with identity (35:21), and the harsh realities of “survival of the fittest” in a system built on profit (36:48). As the conversation deepens, they explore the burden of caring—balancing personal responsibility with collective change (39:08), the nuance of organizing and activism (46:22), and the resilience of communities in the face of economic exploitation (52:29). They close with a vision for freedom rooted in community (57:09) and a reflection on class struggles and the need for empathy (1:02:34). Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Follow the Guests: IG @antoinettewashere | @aroundthewaycurlsListen to Around the Way Curls Podcast wherever you listen to podcastsWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

On this debut episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandi B reflects on her recent move to Atlanta, the end of a partnership in podcasting and her new solo venture, 'Selective Ignorance’ (1:00). Mandii discusses the importance of success, freedom, and the power of discourse (4:24), while also addressing criticism and the realities of the podcasting industry (6:19). The episode highlights the significance of community support, particularly for black businesses. Mandi also shares a wild and funny story about her transition from New York City to Atlanta (33:37), the challenges faced during the furniture delivery process, the cultural dynamics at play with the moving company (40:43) and the expectations of service within the black community (54:49). The discussion evolves into a broader critique of black businesses and the need for accountability and more. Tune in and comment in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Watch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

Society is brimming with hypocrisy, indignation and opinions—the Selective Ignorance podcast will dare to challenge the complexities behind internet reaction and the public’s beliefs by unpacking trending topics with comedic education and outlandish hot takes.Each week, Mandii B engages guests from the worlds of media, comedy and entertainment, as well as cultural and topical experts, to tackle everything from current events to the latest scandals in order to confront biases, embrace the uncomfortable and embark on a journey that shakes the status quo.Watch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

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Hey Nieces and Nephews, This Friday your favorite aunties play a game and resurface some moments from the podcast. At the end, there are kind messages from Patrons who we are grateful for and love very much!

Hey Nieces & Nephews!Today is officially our final episode together. We've always planned on recording an in-person finale episode for you all after the announcement so we can close out the season.Closing out the season for STTI looks like: 2/27- New in-person episode release3/1- Pre-recorded Game episode3/4 - 3/15- 4 Guest episodes ( Guest 3/4 will be 21 savages manager Meezy, and additional quality/entertaining guests)Thank you to everyone who is supporting the growth of diverging career paths and honoring a legacy created by two amazing women who've cultivated a phenomenal team and community!------------Check out Good Moms Bad Choices Live Show: https://goodmomsbadchoices.com/tour

Happy Friday nieces and nephews! Since Beyonce dropped here two country songs “Texas Hold Em’” and “16 Carriages” the internet has been resurfacing the true origins of country music! This week your favorite auntie Bridget Kelly is joined on the couch with one of your favorite friends with Benefits Blue Telusma for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations about Black people and Country Music. The two talk about SOUL of America being in the South and the often misrepresentation of it’s contribution to culture,(16:00), famous cowboys (20:00), the true impact of the song “Fast Car” by Tracy Chapman on the Black (29:00), cowboy fashion (40:00), the fear of saying “he’s Black”  (59:00) Woke is the new “N” word (1:17:00) , willfully ignorant (1:21:00), Freshly Squeezed (1:30:00)---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors: Curology: For a limited time you can get your first Curology skincare box for just $5–when you go to https://www.Curology.com/stti  NYX Cosmetics Concealer: Just twist it up, pop it on, blend with a brush or finger and then it’s done! It’s like waving a magic wand and having your skin perfected. Get your NYX Cosmetics Pro Fix Stick Concealers at your favorite makeup retailer and at https://nyxcosmetics.com Etsy: A gifting moment is always around the corner. But whether it’s a birthday, an anniversary, a holiday, or even just a day to say “thank you”—Gift Mode on Etsy has you covered! Try Gift Mode on Https://www. Etsy.com  now!Care/of: Taking your vitamins and being proactive about your health just got WAY easier, and packaged emore intentionally/sustainably with Care/Of!  For 50% off your first month's subscription with Care/of, go to https://TakeCareOf.com and use code stti50!

Happy Tuesday nieces and nephews! This week your favorite auntie Mandii B joined by ½ of the Around The Way Curls Podcast and 1/3 or the Can’t Afford Therapy Podcast Antoinette and Host of Why Are You Single and Comedian/entrepreneur Reeezy for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations.The three talk about:Their Valentine’s Day and a proper Netflix and Chill movie/show selection (18:00) Antoinette getting an award at work and the duality of gratitude and yearning for something different (25:00) Chris Brown being “uninvited” to the NBA All-Star games and his public call out of Ruffles (37:00)Why Kelly Rowland’s reaction about the Today show was EXTREMELY APPROPRIATE and the media’s reaction to it (52:00)Fanni Willis didn’t do anything “illegal” however, attorneys for numerous defendants have sought to disqualify Willis and the Fulton DA’s office in part because of her romantic relationship with special prosecutor Nathan Wade(1:00:00)(1:13:00) Freshly Squeezed: New Music---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors: Curology: For a limited time you can get your first Curology skincare box for just $5–when you go to https://www.Curology.com/stti  NYX Cosmetics Concealer: Just twist it up, pop it on, blend with a brush or finger and then it’s done! It’s like waving a magic wand and having your skin perfected. Get your NYX Cosmetics Pro Fix Stick Concealers at your favorite makeup retailer and at https://nyxcosmetics.com Etsy: A gifting moment is always around the corner. But whether it’s a birthday, an anniversary, a holiday, or even just a day to say “thank you”—Gift Mode on Etsy has you covered! Try Gift Mode on Https://www. Etsy.com now!Care/of: Taking your vitamins and being proactive about your health just got WAY easier, and packaged more intentionally/sustainably with Care/Of! For 50% off your first month's subscription with Care/of, go to https://TakeCareOf.com and use code stti50!

Happy Friday nieces and nephews! Your favorite auntie Bridget Kelly is joined for a special episode centered around love & marriage with hosts of For Better or Best Podcast, Charles & Shireen. ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors: Naked Wines: Head to NakedWines.com/STTI , click ‘Enter Voucher’ in the top right corner and enter STTI for both the code AND password to get 6 bottles of wine for JUST $39.99 with shipping included - that’s $100 off and less than $7 per bottle! Prose: Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 50% off your first subscription order today PLUS 15% off and free shipping every subscription order after that! Go to https://prose.com/STTI! Curology: For a limited time you can get your first Curology skincare box for just $5–when you go to https://www.Curology.com/stti

Happy Friday nieces and nephews! Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are joined by author of “A Walk Into The Dark & Cold” Tu’shouney for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. The three cover topics like, the limitations of love language theory and the importance of factoring in trauma, the 5 types of relationships within a marriage, learning how to allow space while still being present, Being intentionally patient, and the importance of asking/answering the hard questions while dating AKA Dating Backwards!. Timestamps:(5:00) Learning how to compromise within a relationship: 1 partner wanting to celebrate a holiday that the other does not believe in {20:00) The misuse/overuse of the love language theory:Does not consider/factor in experiences with trauma Can be weaponized as a tallying metricWhole love vs. Love vs. attachments(30:00) Being HEALED isn’t REAL, you’re simply aware. Healing is an ongoing journey.(38:00) Theory: MOST Men don’t like women and women don’t like men(40:00) Why do men repel from “wholeness” (50:00) Being Honest about Dishonesty doesn’t make betrayal okay: KEVIN GATES CLIP (1:00:00) 5 types of relationships within a marriage for the full relationship to thrive: The one with yourselfFriendship with each otherRomantic relationship with each otherSexual relationships with each otherMartial relationship  (1:10:00) Dating backwards: within 1 conversation you can learn what it usually take 6 months to learn:List a few things you know that you need to work on List a few things that people have told you you need to work on (1:15:00) Anything that separates you from love, is self harm: extreme detachment, isolation, etc. (1:16:00) Freshly Squeezed:Same Mistake- Destin Conrad Ft. Alex Isley Easy- SamohtNo Evil - SiR ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors of the show: Naked Wines: Head to NakedWines.com/STTI , click ‘Enter Voucher’ in the top right corner and enter STTI for both the code AND password to get 6 bottles of wine for JUST $39.99 with shipping included - that’s $100 off and less than $7 per bottle! Prose: Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 50% off your first subscription order today PLUS 15% off and free shipping every subscription order after that! Go to https://prose.com/STTI! Curology: For a limited time you can get your first Curology skincare box for just $5–when you go to https://www.Curology.com/stti

Happy Friday Nieces & Nephews!Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are back for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. The three talk about, (30:00) KeKe Palmer X Bobbi Keke Althoff interview and the difference between appreciation and appropriation, (38:00) Kanye’s inability to book arenas and the true meaning of “cancelation”, (44:00) Master P and Snoop Dogg Sue Walmart for hindering sales of their cereal, and so much more. Enjoy your Superbowl weekend and make sure to drive safely. Please don’t drink and drive!!  ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors of the show: SMALLS: Give your cat food the quality food they deserve! For 50% off your first order, head to https://www.smalls.com/stti  and use code STTI NYX Cosmetics Concealer: Just twist it up, pop it on, blend with a brush or finger and then it’s done! It’s like waving a magic wand and having your skin perfected. Get your NYX Cosmetics Pro Fix Stick Concealers at your favorite makeup retailer and at https://nyxcosmetics.com

Happy Tuesday nieces and nephews! Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are back for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations.The three talk about: (3:00) Involuntary secondhand smoke (7:00) Finalizing wedding plans (10:00) Ginger ale is now said to make illness worse // NY POST Vicks to “break a fever” Hot Toddy to cure coldsOnion/garlic in the sock(15:00) Post yourself at 21 years old trend & reflections about your 21 year old self (20:00) The Grammys: Snubs, finally, and what’s next ?(50:00) Universal Music Group removes their label artists’ songs from TikTok  (57:00) Tyrese wishes he was Latino (1:05:00) Shaq says a man should never open himself up to a woman(1:20:00) Things We Don’t Care About: Tattooing your partner’s name on your body. Despite what Rick Ross & Drake told ya’ll, it doesn't make it real!  (1:25:00) Freshly Squeezed:Ruin-  Usher, PheelzJT- Sideways---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors of the show: SMALLS: Give your cat food the quality food they deserve! For 50% off your first order, head to https://www.smalls.com/stti  and use code STTI NYX Cosmetics Concealer: Just twist it up, pop it on, blend with a brush or finger and then it’s done! It’s like waving a magic wand and having your skin perfected. Get your NYX Cosmetics Pro Fix Stick Concealers at your favorite makeup retailer and at https://nyxcosmetics.com