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What exactly is Dirty Talk? What are the benefits using it to spice up sex? What are some tips for folks who want to up their dirty talk game, and how can people who are desiring to engage in more Dirty Talk talk ask for this from their partner? Sexpert Lola Kat teaches all of this, and even shares a reading in her sensual voice. About our guest: Lola Kat Yonder is a Sex Positive - Body Positivity Advocate & Sensual Storyteller: She remarks she grew up in the adult industry, 13+ years & counting: including 8 years as a sensual product consultant & small biz marketing director, commercial hostess, & content creator for luxury adult retail; along with 5+ years of experience in sensual voice performance. Colleagues have dubbed her the Wordsmith & the Vanna White of Vibrators.   In the past, Lola performed 16 years as a classically-trained Church vocalist, as well as contributed 6+ years in senior healthcare. She has evolved from her conservative roots by embracing sexual openness emphasizing intimate education. She has also competed to model for the Next Face of Torrid 2015, and walked the runway at multiple Body Positivity Empowerment events in Baltimore & NYC; & maintained an active presence on the adult conference circuit, attending events such as Exxxotica & AVN. Lola’s passions include music, fashion, voiceover, queer positivity, sex toy exploration and empowerment. Her mantra is Style, Makeup, & Masturbation in the Pursuit of Self Love, Intimate Connections, and Positive Mental Health. You can find her commercial work with keywords 'Spice2nite Show' on YouTube, and modeling/ body positivity on @thecoybox on IG A lifelong learner, she is currently interested in living powerfully as an accomplished woman with adult-ADHD, for which she has started a consultant page ADHDsensual.com. Also learn more about her work at lolakatyonder.com Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come meet and play with us on October 2nd, 2022 at this fun local event in Santa Cruz. Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
What is the definition of a Cougar? Why do people have such a hard time with female led age gap relationships, when male led age gaps are seen as no big deal? What is so appealing about older women to younger men, how can older women stop second-guessing their desirability, and what are some tips and tricks to help fuel women’s sexual response at any age? Repeat guest Dr. Sarah Hill answers all this and so much more. About our guest: Dr. Sarah Hill is an award-winning research psychologist and professor with expertise in women, health, and sexual psychology. Her work has been written about in outlets like the New York Times, the Economist, and The Guardian, and you can see her featured in the Netflix documentary, The Principles of Pleasure. Most recently, Dr. Hill has been using her expertise as a consultant with Cougar Life, a dating website for those seeking female-led age gap relationships. To learn more go to sarahehill.com Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come meet and play with us on October 2nd, 2022 at this fun local event in Santa Cruz. One of our fav Pleasure Podcasts, Good Moms, Bad Choices, is going on tour! Snag a ticket to one of their live shows at www.goodmomsbadchoices.com Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Get your ultimate sex kit with everything you need at unwrap-pleasureshop.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
What is a fetish, and how can people work with their fetishes in a safe, pleasurable way? What does it mean to be “master fetish trainers”? And how can we approach porn, sex toys, and our consumption of the erotic industry with more awareness, sex-positivity and inclusivity? Master Fetish Trainers Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire share this and so much more. About our guests: Jet Setting Jasmine is a licensed clinical Psychotherapist with a strong emphasis on Intimacy Post Injury and Intimacy Post Illness. She is the owner and lead therapist of full-service therapy practice, Blue Pearl Therapy. Jasmine is an international sex educator and Master Fetish Trainer. King Noire is an accomplished writer, artist, MC and global activist using the proceeds of his album ‘Music Is My Weapon’ to build a school, fresh water well and medical clinic in Guinea Bissau, West Africa. He has used his position as an adult performer and Master Fetish Trainer to develop an ethically sound molded toy in partnership with Lust Art; raise consciousness around Kink safety for people of color; and offering sex education to audiences ranging from college students to medical providers. Jasmine and King are the co-owners of three-time award winning Royal Fetish Films and together have over 20 years of experience as adult entertainers, directors and producers. The duo’s love of the arts, film and sex education are combined to produce erotica that stimulates and engages the audience to explore their sexual boundaries. Their work on the Decolonization of Sex & Porn and Politics has been featured in Huffington Post, Rolling Stones, Paper Magazine, VICE, Playboy, Forbes, Business Insider, Cosmopolitan, BBC, Psychology Today and more. To learn more visit Royalfetishxxx.com and Jetsettingjasmine.com Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get 20% off your first order of some of our favorite arousal oils by visiting foriawellness.com/SHAMELESS OR use code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
Sex and relationship experts Alicia and Erwan Davon join us once again to talk about sex positions and the art of orgasmic, pleasurable penetration. Learn why it's helpful allow the vulva owner (or any receiving orifice for that matter) to move towards the giver to build up desire. Also why there's a time and place for “pushing it real good" (shout out to Salt 'n' Pepper), top tips for mind-blowing penetrative sex, how to continue play without a hard cock, and so much more. About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based The Davon Method. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy. Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world.  To work with the Davon's text 415 308 9580 or click this link Use CODE100 for $100 off their upcoming Pleasure Course September 24-25th 2022 by clicking here To learn more about their work visit davonmethod.com Follow their socials on IG & TikTok handle @davonmethod Come join Shameless Sex's FREE Discord community here: discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg Join us in Santa Cruz in getting your booty's kicked at Carina Reid's Ignite Change event on September 18th by signing up here Other links: Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
The title tells it all, but this episode is all about our current top sex toy recommendations when it comes to anything anal including pegging products, plugs, beads, anal pleasure and safety, and positions. Happy Anal August and on to Shameless Sextember! Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Athletic Greens at athleticgreens.com/SHAMELESSSEX Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
What is the pelvic floor about and how is it related to sexual pleasure (and orgasms!)? Why is the idea of having a tighter pussy generally BS? How can people heal or improve their pelvic floors? And what's the truth about "popping cherries" (AKA first time penetration)? About our guest: Jenny Putt is a pelvic floor physical therapist and sex educator among many other letters that go after her name. She believes talking about sex, poop, pee and genitals shouldn’t be deemed awkward or inappropriate and that the world would be a better place if people were more connected to their pelvic floor and had access to more pleasure.  She specializes in the pelvic floor health of perinatal individuals with in-person and virtual services across the continuum of preconception through pregnancy, delivery and postpartum recovery. To learn more visit www.jennyputtpt.com or checkout her IG at @jennyputtpt Upcoming events: Join us in Santa Cruz in getting your booty's kicked at Carina Reid's Ignite Change event on September 18th by signing up here Enhance your intimacy with your partner at a 2-day retreat in Malibu September 24th-25th. Learn more here Other links: Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Athletic Greens at athleticgreens.com/SHAMELESSSEX Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless. Also learn about their recent study an anal pleasure here Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
In this fun in-person interview we chat with Alexis Lauren Ware all about becoming WET - not necessarily the way Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion describe it, but more so about how we can (re)connect with our genitals, “reclaim” our wetness and turn-on, and live a life of feeling WET both in and out of the bedroom. I mean, who doesn't want that? We cure to check out Alexis' live online 6-week group course (guess what it's called...WET!) as it's limited to only 20 people at sovereign-university.com/wet About our guest: Alexis Ware, L.Ac., founder of Sovereign University, is an energy expert and life strategist who specializes in restructuring subconscious belief systems to amplify power in service to love, connection, creative expression and deeper enjoyment of life, sex and relationships. Alexis is a licensed acupuncturist, Kundalini Yoga teacher, Human Design enthusiast, ThetaHealing® expert/instructor of 12+ years and a sex, desire & intimacy coach. Alexis Ware, L.Ac., founder of Sovereign University, is an energy expert and life strategist who specializes in restructuring subconscious belief systems to amplify love, connection, creative expression and deeper enjoyment of life, sex and relationships. Alexis is a licensed acupuncturist, ThetaHealing® expert & instructor of 12+ years and a sex, desire & intimacy coach. Alexis Ware is an energy expert and life strategist who specializes in restructuring subconscious belief systems to amplify love, connection, creative expression and deeper enjoyment of life, sex and relationships. Alexis is a licensed acupuncturist, ThetaHealing® expert & instructor of 12+ years and a sex, desire & intimacy coach. sovereign-university.com Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 20% off your first order of some of our favorite arousal oils by visiting foriawellness.com/SHAMELESS OR use code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
We've all heard about the power of transcendent and cervical orgasms (AKA the A-Spot), but how are they obtained? What do they feel like, why are they life-changing, and what are the tips and tricks for having more powerful, transcendent internal orgasms? About our guests: Dr. Willow Brown & Leah Piper bring a wealth of wisdom through their combined 40 years of expertise in human sexuality, health, and spiritual growth. Leah is a Tantric Sex Master Coach and Positive Psychology Facilitator while Dr. Willow is a Chinese & Functional Medicine Doctor, and Taoist Sexology Teacher. When these two devotees of love come together they blend and weave the ancient teachings of Tao and Tantra for the modern lover with humor, insight and wisdom. To learn more visit sexreimagined.com. Also visit: Drwillowbrown.com moreloveworks.com Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Athletic Greens at athleticgreens.com/SHAMELESSSEX Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
In this playful episode we interview Psychotherapist Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT all about flirting, in-person and online dating, relationships and casual sex. Whether you are single, non-monogamous, or want to learn how to navigate the dating field, this episode has plenty of gems to offer you. About our guest: Psychotherapist Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT (she/her) is recognized as one of the freshest voices on modern relationships, mental health, and sex. She is an experienced speaker, group facilitator, educator, therapist, coach, and on-camera mental health and relationship expert. With a Master’s Degree in clinical psychology, Rachel Wright has worked with thousands of humans worldwide, helping them scream less and screw more. She has brought her message to stages across the globe, was SHAPE Magazine’s Sex + Relationships Coach, and created the virtual workshop series What You Wish You Learned in School: Sex Ed and is currently one of mindbodygreen’s article review experts. She also recently did a show at Green Room 42 in NYC called “One Night Stand: A Night for Sexier & Healthier Broadway.” (Check out the review in BroadwayWorld here.) Rachel has been featured widely in the media, including on Cheddar TV, as a regular contributor to SHAPE, INSIDER, mbg, InStyle, The Dipp, Well & Good — plus Cosmopolitan Magazine, PIX 11 (NYC), Women’s Health, NBC News Radio, Huffington Post, CTV (Canada), and hundreds of other outlets.  Rachel lives in New York and loves live theatre so much. You can probably find her in PJs eating gluten-free food with one of her partners if she’s not working! Learn more at www.rachelwrightnyc.com or connect in her cozy corner of Instagram, @thewright_rachel Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
It's almost one of our favorite months - Anal August! And to celebrate we are interviewing repeat guest and sex expert Kenneth Play all about anal sex. Kenneth shares his top tips and "hacks" for making anal sex more fun, relaxing, pleasurable, and even orgasmic. You don't want to miss this one. And be sure to check out our YouTube Channel to get a visual of some of the techniques he shares, as well as our Instagram for short clips from this episode. About our guest: Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men’s Health. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. Kenneth is also the author of one of our favorite books, “Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence”. To learn more visit kennethplay.com  Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 20% off your first order of some of our favorite arousal oils by visiting foriawellness.com/SHAMELESS OR use code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
While we love Masturbation May, April decided it's time to start celebrating Jerk-Off July. In this episode we discuss why it's good for you, our own experiences with masturbation, and tips and tool to up your self-pleasure game. Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Athletic Greens at athleticgreens.com/SHAMELESSSEX Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
How does sexual confidence for penis owners show up in sex and enhance the way they tend to their lovers, specifically ones with pussies? Why do so many men feel like they need to push their sexuality down in order to be a “safe person”? How can they find their sexual power in a safe way? What can they do to uncover parts of their sexuality they’ve been burying and how can they integrate them? And how can penis owner’s learn how to have more full-bodied orgasms? About our guest: Fabienne is a California based Sex and Intimacy Coach who specializes in helping men and other penis-owners develop sexual mastery, offering them the perspective and insight of a well-studied woman with a pussy. She guides people to use their sexual energy with integrity and intention to get more in touch and in love with their authentic selves and sexual expression. Fabienne loves to create, explore, and play with the form she has arrived in. Her mission is to be a loving witness to each person's strange, creative, beautiful selves, and to support others and herself to continue to heal in order to step into a freer form of self-expression and celebration of life. Find out more about Fabienne’s work at fabienneannick.com or on Instagram @fabienneannick Use code "shameless" for $300 off her upcoming course in September 2022 For Melissa Hite's online Summer Self-Care course all about perfecting the art of boundaries, click here and use code SHAMELESS to get $100 off if you sign up by the end of July, 2022. Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get 20% off of Manscaped's re-launched Ultra Smooth Package (+ free shipping!) with the code SHAMELESS at manscaped.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
What are the attachment styles and how do they impact relationships in general, especially non-monogamy? How do people know if they are non-monogamous? What’s the difference between fantasy and innate needs or desires? How do people’s unresolved attachment injuries get triggered within non-monogamy and how can they work with this once it’s triggered? What are some tools, and do they also apply to monogamous relationships? Lastly, what are some top tips for navigating both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships? About our guest: Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities and the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships. In addition to her master’s in marriage and family therapy, she also has an MBA and is a registered art therapist (ATR). She is an EDSE certified sex educator and an EMDR certified therapist with additional training in the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma. She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003. She co-hosts her own sex-positive podcast, Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron, has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, and has been a guest on Playboy Radio and many podcasts, including American Sex, Sluts and Scholars, and Sex Out Loud. She has written for Good Vibrations and Hollywood Magazine and is a frequent public speaker. Her private practice resides in Encino, CA. For more information, please visit her on the web at KateLoree.com. Attention vulva-owners (in the tri-state area who have never had an orgasm and are interested in contributing to research (and maybe getting a little help along the away! Email the beloved nan@askdoctornan.com to learn more. Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
In this episode we talk all about masturbation AKA 'batin, why it's beneficial to have a masturbation practice and how to develop one, and ways your solo-sex can also lead to more pleasurable and connected sex with partners. About our guest: As a sex and relationship facilitator, Mike creates transformational group experiences to support people in their journey of sex, intimacy, and relationship. Mike is kinky, queer, and poly, and they live in an intentional community in Seattle called Confluence that serves as a practice ground for personal and relational growth. Mike loves offering free insights about sexuality, connection, and personal growth on their website mikemantell.com Other links: Get affordable online therapy now from the privacy of your own home + 10% off your first month when you go to betterhelp.com/shamelesssex Get $10 off your order of $50 or more on our favorite mouth-gasmic treats at milkbarstore.com/Shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
In this playful episode we talk all about what most doctors call erectile or sexual dysfunction (ED), but we prefer the term erectile control issues, and you will learn all about why we reframe it this way in this episode. Dr. Dubin also explains the statistics on erectile issues, his research with porn performers and the correlation between porn and erectile control, tips for working around this, as well as whether or not blue balls are a real thing. About our guest: Dr. Justin Dubin grew up in Wayne NJ and attended Johns Hopkins University for undergraduate school. He completed medical school at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson and his urology residency training at the University of Miami. Currently, Dr. Dubin is completing his fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at Northwestern University and will be starting up as the Director of Men’s Health at Memorial Health Systems in Hollywood Florida. Dr. Dubin is passionate about men’s health and education with the goal of improving both the lives of men and their partners. He has published multiple papers on both male infertility and sexual health, has been quoted in the NY Times, Insider, and Men’s Health and is the current co-host of the men’s health podcast Man Up: A Doctor’s Guide to Men’s Health. LINKS: https://www.themanuppod.com/ https://www.instagram.com/justindubinmd/ https://twitter.com/justindubinmd https://linktr.ee/JustinDubinMD Want to join our free online Shameless Sex community on Discord (and maybe even connect with Amy and April on there from time to time? Go here: https://discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg Other links: Get affordable online therapy now from the privacy of your own home + 10% off your first month when you go to betterhelp.com/shamelesssex Avoid the takeout temptation with ease (and yummy food that is good for you) + $40 your first shipment when you go to dailyharvest.com/shamelesssex Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
Layla Martin joins us once again to take back the word slut and own it as an empowering tool for becoming the ultimate sexy badass that is uniquely you in the bedroom. Whether you want to learn to worship a slut or goddess, or you want to dive deeper into that powerful part of you, Layla has plenty of juicy tips and tricks you won't want to miss. About our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 18+ years along with her sexuality studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology. Her programs have taught over 12,500 women, men, and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation, and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness. She is a thought leader who combines mystical practices with the most up-to-date scientific approaches to transformation to enable radical liberation, rapid change, and outrageous pleasure. Her highly effective programs, tools, and practices empower you to experience exquisite sex, shameless self-love, and incredible depths of intimacy. She’s the founder of the Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach (VITA™) and the creator of the VITA™️ Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching Certification, the VITA™ Sacred Sexuality Initiation, and other programs. She’s shared her work with over 135 million people through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. If you want to experience epic sex, legendary love, and your most magnificent self, visit Layla’s website and follow her on Facebook and Instagram. Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 20% off of Manscaped's re-launched Ultra Smooth Package (+ free shipping!) with the code SHAMELESS at manscaped.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
In this episode we interview award-winning adult model, performer, sex educator and disability advocate GoAskAlex all about her experience in the adult film/porn industry. Alex got her start in 2014, and then a few years into her career she had a life-changing surgery resulting in a permanent disability. Alex shares her journey towards self-love and acceptance, as what it's like as she continues to work in adult film. More about our guest: GoAskAlex is an adult model, onscreen performer and sex educator with the distinction of being the industry’s first-ever ostomate since receiving a life-changing surgery in 2019: “my small intestine was diverted out through my abdomen, and I now wear a permanent medical device.” The auburn-haired British Columbia, Canada native - who launched her adult career in 2014 as a webcam model and online companion - has since taken the opportunity to use her high-profile platform to advocate for disabled and underrepresented bodies in adult media. GoAskAlex currently sits atop the 1% of content creators on OnlyFans, is a top attraction over at SuicideGirls.com and sells her original video clips on top sites such as ManyVids. iWantClips and Clips4sale. She has since been featured in XBIZ Magazine, posing for the cover as the trade publication’s first-ever model with an ostomy, as well as Hustler E-Magazine to promote her inspiring Disabled Sex Workers Calendar. She also won 2020’s XBIZ Cam Award for Best Inked Model and 2021’s XBIZ Best Cam Model. To learn more visit goaskalex.com Other links: Get 15% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy Spring Box at likeakitten.com/shameless  Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
Ava Rose is a 32 year old musician, research analyst, media expert, activist, trauma survivor, and former retail manager who is just starting to work as a gender/sexuality/relationships coach in Northern California. Creatively, she describes herself as a ‘former suburban feral child’ who escaped an abused upbringing, coming out with ‘titanium bootstraps’ and a rebellious passion for finding balance & beauty in the personal investments and media entertainment we sometimes overlook or receive passively. Three decades of toxic instability in her home life culminated in a total disconnect from most of her family & friends during the height of the pandemic. Ava has spent the last two years recovering on the sidelines, transitioning (with minimal access to local care/support), writing new music, building up her self-owed business with ever- expanding professional qualifications, and learning to absolutely embrace the person that—for so long—she hadn’t been allowed to fully explore. With a genuine appreciation for the ‘cultural melting pot,’ a loud passion for progress, a humble spirit, and a bit of a sharp wit, Ava aims to live the best life she can as an ‘out’ transgender, pansexual artist/consultant/comforting shoulder, and to support the communities she most identifies with. Although she’s much happier, healthier, safer, and more complete in herself, today, Ava looks to an even brighter future in bridging her great passions—Music, Advocacy, Humanism, Catharsis, and a bit of Sarcasm—helping to break the echo chambers we often perpetuate in our own thinking, decluttering our contemporary lives, raising the bar in our entertainment, and getting back to the political business of ‘pursuing happiness’ for each, every, and all persons. To learn more visit silagency.com
What does being a sub mean, and how does this show up in sex? What if someone who identifies as a sub and wants their partner to be more dominant in the bedroom, how can they approach this? How can submissive folks stay in their identity or role while still initiating sex with their partners? Master teacher and return guest Orpheus Black addresses all this and so much more. Be sure to checkout Orpheus's upcoming 3 day workshop extravaganza on June 25, July 2, July 9. It is a hybrid class to be held in LA and streamed on Zoom. Plus you get 20% off with code Shameless1. Sign up here or visit his website at orpheusblack.com Also, if you want to join our free online Shameless Sex Discord community, sign up here: discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg About our guest: Orpheus aims to propel the intellectual and sensual evolution of masculinity both by challenging men to reconnect with its roots and by inviting them to embrace manhood in its fullness, the way strong modern men wish it to be. In this role, he shares insights, offers tools, and speaks against societal norms of shame and repression. He does it all with the earnestness of a therapist, the knowledge of a guru, and the charisma of a stage performer.  With a helpful practice steeped in spirituality and intimacy, Orpheus is a living bridge between healthy sex and enlightenment. Through a balanced integration of Afro-Buddhism, psycho-sensuality, and Taoist teachings popularized by the martial arts, his light-hearted lessons have become sought after internationally, even as counsel to the experts in his field. As a result, many today look to him as the “coach’s coach”. For groups, couples and individuals looking for a deeper exploration of self, shadow, kink, dominance and submission Orpheus Black regularly provides guided lessons at world famous staples in the S&M community and offers private coaching sessions. Other links: Get $10 off your order of $50 or more on our favorite mouth-gasmic treats at milkbarstore.com/Shameless Get 20% off of Manscaped's re-launched Ultra Smooth Package (+ free shipping!) with the code SHAMELESS at manscaped.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
This episode is all about how to add more hotness and newness into your relationship. From exploring non-monogamy to kink to role-play, or just adding a little spice to your monogamous lover-ship, Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey has something to teach you. About our guest: Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey is a clinical psychologist, sex/intimacy coach, author, speaker and podcast host based in London. With more than 30 years helping people create and sustain meaningful and exciting relationships, Dr. Bisbey specializes in GSRD (gender, sexuality, relationship diversity), is consensual non-monogamy and kink BDSM knowledgeable and helps traumatized people to move from victim to survivor and back into life. On a mission to create an open dialogue about sex, relationships, and self-expression, Dr Lori Beth is the specialist relationship therapist guiding couples on Open House: The Great Sex Experiment (Firecracker Films, Channel 4) and the host of the popular podcast The A To Z Of Sex®.She’s also a passionate speaker, dynamic workshop/retreat facilitator, and sought after expert in the media on the topics of sex, relationship style, intimacy, and trauma. Dr. Bisbey is the author of Chopping Wood, Shaping Metal & Other Erotic Stories, Dancing the Edge to Reclaiming Your Reality: Essential Life Skills for Gaslighting (and Trauma) Survivors and Dancing the Edge to Surrender: An Erotic Memoir of Trauma and Survival, and identifies as a queer consensually non-monogamous leather woman, and is in a full-time authority transfer-based relationship with her husband. To learn more, visit DrLoriBethBisbey.com. Twitter.com/drbisbey Instagram.com/drbisbey Facebook.com/drloribethbisbey TikTok.com/@loribethuk https://the-a-to-z-of-sex.captivate.fm For links to some of our favorite sponsors, click here Other links: Get 15% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy Spring Box at likeakitten.com/shameless  Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
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