The Birth Lounge Podcast

Join HeHe in an enlightening conversation with Labor & Delivery nurse Jen Atkisson, known as the 'Pitocin Queen,' as they dive deep into the controversial use of Pitocin in labor and delivery. In this episode, they discuss when and why Pitocin might be used, how to use it responsibly, and the critical importance of evidence-based practices. Jen shares her insights on natural oxytocin versus synthetic Pitocin, the potential risks and benefits, and ways to avoid unnecessary interventions. This transparent and data-driven discussion aims to empower expectant parents and healthcare providers with the knowledge necessary for safer, more satisfying birth experiences.   Understanding Pitocin and Its Uses Oxytocin vs. Pitocin: Key Differences The Role of Oxytocin in Labor Pitocin Administration and Safety Nervous System and Labor Personal Experiences and Reflections Challenges in Healthcare and Pitocin Use Effective Pitocin Dosing Strategies Risks and Complications of Pitocin Unexpected Labor Story Signs of Labor and Cervical Exams Understanding Pitocin Usage Managing Pitocin Dosage Dealing with Excessive Contractions Pitocin Protocols and Guidelines Patient Advocacy and Pitocin Third Stage of Labor and Pitocin Alternatives to Pitocin   Guest Bio: With over 17 years of unique experiences in nursing and consulting, I've seen the same patient safety & legal themes come up over and over again. And they're not what you think they are! Because keeping our moms and babies safe is always our first priority, I needed to make this information available to all nurses!   SOCIAL MEDIA: Connect with HeHe on IG  Connect with Jen on IG  Connect with HeHe on YouTube.   BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!   Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!   LINKS MENTIONED: Connect with Jen here!

Today, HeHe is joined by fertility coach, Laura Watson, to explore the conversation of growing your family through donor eggs, how to navigate that decision making process and what that process looks like! Laura shares the various routes families can consider when trying to find a donor, how to discover agencies in your area and how to talk to your kids about being donor conceived. If you've been navigating this conversation in your own life and are feeling alone in the grief and big feelings that often accompany the decision to use donor eggs-- this is a must listen because Laura shares what that process was like for her. We will also dive into anonymous vs known donors, what to know about the legal contracts (your rights and your donor's rights) and the financial commitment involved!    Guest Bio: Laura Watson is a fertility coach and mom to two donor conceived children. Her personal journey included failed fertility treatments, several unsuccessful rounds of IVF, and three heartbreaking pregnancy losses before completing her family with donor egg IVF. She now supports women pursuing fertility treatments to build their families and helps them find control, confidence, and even joy in a complicated process. Laura founded her coaching services, Positive Fertility, in 2022. She is the author of the Positive Fertility Blog, was a featured author in the 2021 collaborative book, Infertility Success: Stories of Help and Hope for Your Journey. She lives in Boston, MA, USA with her husband and two children. INSTAGRAM: Connect with HeHe on IG  Connect with Laura Watson on IG  Connect with HeHe on YouTube   BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!   Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!   LINKS MENTIONED: Connect with Laura here: h

Join HeHe as she sits down with Dr. Kalea Wattles to uncover the overlooked connection between mitochondrial health and fertility. In this episode, Dr. Wattles explains the fundamental role of mitochondria in cellular energy production and how it impacts ovulation, egg quality, and overall reproductive health. She delves into the significance of mitochondrial support for both partners in enhancing fertility outcomes and offers actionable advice on lifestyle changes, supplements like CoQ10, and gentle detox practices. This enlightening discussion empowers listeners to prepare for family planning at a cellular level, whether they are actively trying to conceive or planning for the future.   Understanding Mitochondria Mitochondria's Role in Fertility Mitochondrial Dysfunction and Fertility Challenges The Love Story of Mitochondria and Granulosa Cells Mitochondria in Sperm Cells Emerging Mitochondrial Therapies Lifestyle Factors Affecting Mitochondrial Health Melatonin and Mitochondrial Health Toxin Exposure and Mitochondrial Health Favorite Clean Products for Mitochondrial Health Understanding Supplement Dosages and Side Effects Exploring the Benefits of Myo-Inositol and Turmeric Cautions Considerations for Hypothyroidism and Insulin Use Magnesium's Role in Mitochondrial Health Gentle Detox Strategies for Preconception The Importance of Regular Bowel Movements Discussing Mitochondrial Health with Your Doctor Identifying Mitochondrial Dysfunction Symptoms The Impact of Cortisol on Mitochondrial Health Proactive Fertility Planning in Your 20s The Role of Male Fertility in Conception   Guest Bio: Dr. Kalea Wattles is a naturopathic doctor, certified functional medicine practitioner, and founder of Functional Fertility. As an educator, podcaster, speaker, and clinician, Dr. Wattles combines cutting edge science with treasured traditional wisdom, applying a systems biology approach to discover the root cause of fertility struggles. With a deep commitment to advancing the field of functional medicine and improving patient outcomes, her patient-centered approach helps individuals cultivate abundant health for pregnancy and beyond. INSTAGRAM: Connect with HeHe on IG  Connect with Dr. Kalea Wattles on IG  Connect with HeHe on YouTube   BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!   Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!   LINKS MENTIONED: Dr. Wattles uses and recommends: https://primallypure.com/  Haircare Dr. Wattles uses and recommends: https://innersensebeauty.com/ Makeup Dr. Wattles uses and recommends: https://arazabeauty.com/ Clean skin care HeHe uses and loves: https://www.cocokind.com/  Dr. Wattles uses and recommends: https://www.avocadogreenmattress.com/ Find a functional Medicine provider near you: https://www.ifm.org/ Connect with Dr. Wattles here: https://drkaleawattles.com/

Join HeHe as she sits down with Dr. Jessica Ryniec from CCRM Fertility of Boston to delve into the crucial topic of sperm quality and male fertility. In this episode, they discuss what sperm quality means, how sperm analysis is conducted, and the impact of lifestyle, supplements, and medications on sperm health. Dr. Ryniec also provides insights into the factors affecting sperm morphology, the importance of a healthy lifestyle, and the potential effects of lifestyle choices like bicycling and using hot tubs. Learn about the role of antioxidants in sperm health, the importance of using fertility-friendly lubricants, and the process and benefits of freezing sperm for future fertility planning. Whether you're trying to conceive or just curious about reproductive health, this episode offers invaluable information and expert advice.   Understanding Sperm Quality Sperm Morphology and Variations Key Terms in Semen Analysis Who Should Get a Semen Analysis? Impact of Lifestyle on Sperm Quality Supplements and Medications for Sperm Quality Lubricants and Sperm Health Steps for Getting a Semen Analysis Freezing Sperm: When and Why     Guest Bio: Dr. Jessica Ryniec is double board certified in Obstetrics and Gynecology, as well as Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility. She joined CCRM Boston in 2020 after completing her fellowship at the University of Vermont Medical Center in Burlington, VT.   She received her undergraduate degree from Wake Forest University and her MD from Georgetown University School of Medicine in Washington, D.C. During her residency for obstetrics and gynecology at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson Medical School, Dr. Ryniec received the Excellence in Female Pelvic Medicine Award and recognition for Outstanding Accomplishment in Women’s Health.   In addition to presenting her research at prestigious medical conferences, such as the American Society for Reproductive Medicine and the Society for Reproductive Investigation Annual Meeting, Dr. Ryniec has authored several publications for notable peer-reviewed journals, including the American Journey of Obstetrics and Gynecology.   Dr. Ryniec practices medicine embracing the motto of Cura Personalis, or care of the entire person. She believes in education and in the value of shared decision making and patient empowerment, and spends time on social media educating, empowering, and supporting people while trying to conceive, going through fertility treatments or fertility preservation. She believes in family, and understands that family comes in many forms, and is committed to helping her patients achieve the family they desire. Social Media: Connect with HeHe on IG  Connect with Dr. Ryniec on IG  Connect with HeHe on YouTube   BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!   Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!

Join HeHe as she welcomes Ashe to the show to dive into the latest insights on fertility, specifically focusing on egg and follicle quality. They discuss the science behind egg development, the impact of lifestyle and diet on fertility, and the critical role of follicle health. Ashe also debunks common myths and emphasizes the importance of understanding the broader endocrine system, digestive health, and stress management for optimal fertility. Whether you're preparing for conception or just curious about reproductive health, this episode is packed with valuable information.   Expanding Topics: From Pregnancy to Fertility Understanding Egg Quality Defining Egg Quality The Science Behind Egg Development Follicle Development and Its Importance Impact of Lifestyle on Follicle Health The Role of Supplements and Probiotics Testing and Personalized Recommendations Exploring DUTCH and GI Map Tests Understanding the DUTCH Test Adrenal Health and Hormone Metabolism When to Consider the DUTCH Test Alternative Hormone Testing Methods Introduction to the GI Map The Importance of Individualized Functional Testing Cycle Day Three Blood Test Explained Recognizing Digestive Health Symptoms Improving Bowel Movements Stress and Egg Quality Toxic Load and Generational Fertility   Guest Bio: Ashe Milkovic is a Nutritional Therapy Practitioner and Functional Hormone Health Expert. As the founder and CEO of The International Association for Functional Hormone Health, Ashe strives to make advancements in women's health accessible by teaching tools and strategies to health professionals to expand their knowledge, skill sets, and practices in functional hormone health. Through her association, Ashe is on a mission to educate, collaborate, and create a thriving community of skilled practitioners that are passionate in helping to transform the lives of women all over the globe. INSTAGRAM: Connect with HeHe on IG  Connect with Ashe on IG    BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!   Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!   LINKS MENTIONED: https://iafhh.com/training - Free Training, Revolutionizing Hormones https://iafhh.com/practitioner-directory   Visual of follicle development discussed: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK278951/figure/morpho-physio-ovary_f_morpho-physio-ovary_figure1/#:~:text=It%20takes%20~290%20days%20for,)%20or%20gonadotropin%2Ddependent%20period.   Book mentioned: https://www.amazon.com/Deep-Nutrition-Your-Genes-Traditional/dp/1250113822   YOUTUBE LINKS: Connect with HeHe on YouTube.

Join HeHe as she delves into an important conversation with lawyer Hermine Hayes-Klein on the legal challenges and solutions surrounding informed consent and women's rights in childbirth. The episode discusses systemic flaws in the U.S. hospital system that often violate birthing individuals' rights and how these can be tackled. Hayes-Klein shares her personal experiences and strategies for understanding and asserting one’s rights, the pivotal role of the right healthcare provider, and the significance of doulas in protecting patient autonomy. Learn about practical advice, legal support, the impact of obstetric violence, and crucial conversations every doula must have to ensure a respectful and empowered birthing experience.   Understanding Informed Consent in Childbirth Global Perspectives on Maternal Health The Reality of Obstetric Practices The Law of Informed Consent Case Studies of Obstetric Violence The Role of Nurses in Informed Consent Challenges and Solutions in Maternal Care The Unique Evil of Female OBs Understanding Withdrawn Consent The Reality of Anesthesia Failures Navigating Consent Forms Doctors as Service Providers The Right to Refuse a C-Section The Rise of Unassisted Births The Role of Doulas in Childbirth Empowering Doulas to Advocate   Guest Bio: Hermine is an attorney specializing in human rights and pregnancy and childbirth. Her law practice focuses on defending midwives And advocating for access to midwifery, and holding obstetric providers, responsible for the violation of informed consent. Through the birthright law project, she offers document packages for Doula and for out of hospital, midwives, as well as assistance with birth plans and getting them respected. INSTAGRAM: Connect with HeHe on IG  Connect with HeHe on YouTube.   Connect with Hermine on IG    BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!   Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!   LINKS MENTIONED: Connect with Hermine:  Birthrightslawproject.com hayeskleinlaw.com   Nursing article: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1751485123001587?via%3Dihub Examples of articles referencing how informed consent improves outcomes: https://www.envisionhealth.com/news/2024/shared-decision-making-in-healthcare#:~:text=How%20do%20informed%20consent%20and,the%20overall%20cost%20of%20care. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9486853/  

Join HeHe and Dr. Nathan Riley as they delve into the complexities of Marginal Cord Insertion (MCI), Velamentous Cord Insertion (VCI), and Vasa Previa, rare conditions that affect the umbilical cord's attachment to the placenta. Dr. Riley explains these conditions in detail, discusses their implications for labor and delivery, and provides guidance on how to manage them. Learn about the risks, potential complications, and how to have informed discussions with healthcare providers. This episode is packed with valuable insights for expectant mothers and birth workers alike. You won't want to miss it!   Understanding VCI and MCI Diagnosing Cord Insertions Risk Factors and Associations Impact on Labor and Delivery Nutritional and Lifestyle Considerations Midwife vs. OBGYN: Understanding Different Approaches Diagnosing and Managing Marginal Cord Insertion Induction Decisions: Weighing the Options Natural Induction Methods: Gentle Approaches Understanding Vasa Previa: Risks and Realities Navigating Low Intervention Births with Diagnoses Community and Support: A New Consultation Model Upcoming Conference: Learning and Networking Opportunities Empowering Doulas: Knowledge and Advocacy   Guest Bio: Dr. Nathan Riley is a holistic obgyn providing patient-centered, freedom-focused practice helping women find their healing signal through the noise. He also helps women birth on their own terms.   INSTAGRAM: Connect with HeHe on IG  Connect with HeHe on YouTube   Connect with Nathan on IG    BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!   Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!   LINKS/resources MENTIONED: Connect with Dr. Nathan Riley here   Twin & Breech Conference

Join HeHe as she dives deep into the world of micro dosing psilocybin with expert Tiffany Hurd. In this episode, we explore the fundamentals of psilocybin, its history, and its modern-day use, particularly focusing on microdosing. Tiffany sheds light on the science behind psilocybin, its potential benefits for mental health, creativity, and emotional well-being, and addresses the legal landscape surrounding its use. We also discuss its application in motherhood and how to responsibly integrate it into one’s life. For anyone curious about alternative therapies or looking to deepen their understanding of psilocybin, this is the perfect place to start.   Understanding Psilocybin and Microdosing Historical Context and Modern Use The Science Behind Psilocybin Personal Stories and Experiences Microdosing in Motherhood Legality and Accessibility Legal Status and Accessibility of Psilocybin Future of Psilocybin: Medical and Therapeutic Models Different Experiences: Microdosing vs. Higher Doses Preparation and Integration in Psychedelic Therapy Ayahuasca vs. Psilocybin: A Comparative Discussion Safety Considerations and Contraindications Consumption Methods and Dosage     Guest Bio: Tiffany Hurd is a Microdosing and Plant Medicine Mentor, Speaker and Psychedelic Consultant based in San Diego who teaches the use of psychedelics within an intentional framework as a supportive and expansive offering for humanity’s healing, personal growth, and wellness. As a seasoned expert in her field, she educates on how to effectively and intentionally work with psychedelics to facilitate personal transformation, human optimization and enhanced wellness with a focus on the intersections of physical and mental health Having over fourteen years of experience working in high-level executive positions in Neurology and Neuroscience for Fortune 500 Companies, and over four years of experience consulting teams and coaching individual clients, Tiffany combines her business acumen and expertise to her clients. she teaches people how to effectively and intentionally optimize their psychedelic experiences through microdosing and integration guidance, somatic nervous system tools, wellness modalities and self ritual practices to help them achieve deep transformation. With her guidance, individuals can unlock new levels of personal growth and self-awareness, with an approach grounded in compassion, integrity, and respect for the transformative power of psychedelics. Tiffany’s services are suitable for anyone seeking support for physical or mental health challenges, personal growth, or spiritual development. Connect on Social Media: Connect with HeHe on Instagram  Connect with HeHe on YouTube   Connect with Tiffany on Instagram  BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!   Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone! LINKS MENTIONED: Connect with Tiffany on her website: https://tiffanyhurd.com 

Have you made a birth plan? Have you heard in the whispers of the internet that they are bad luck? Or that nurses won't respect them? Today HeHe is joined by Nurse Sydney to clear up the confusion around birth plans! Sydney is sharing how birth plans can benefit your care team, what you want to consider when making a birth plan and what goes through a nurse's head when they are handed a birth plan! The is a must-listen for anyone who is planning a hospital birth and wants to prioritize open communication with your medical team to achieve the best birth possible!    Connect with HeHe on IG  Connect with Nurse Sydney on IG    BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!   Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!  

HeHe is joined by Jen Darwin to talk about reimagining postpartum in the US! As a former Labor & Delivery RN and now a doula, Jen is no stranger to the disparities that happen in postpartum support for moms-- the lack of 'the village,' the single six-week check up and no paid maternity care. Overall, the United States spends the most money in the world on healthcare per person. However, in regard to maternal outcomes, we typically rank last when compared to other wealthy nations. Today, Jen shares about her postnatal retreat center nestled in San Francisco and provides full-service, round the clock postpartum care for new parents! The retreat center is a comfortable, relaxing place where you, your partner and baby can get the support you need to get off to a healthy start. Meals are prepared for you, dishes are done for you, staff makes your bed, and washing bottles and pumping parts! Their King Studio and King Suites are customized for postpartum recovery and come equipped with heated bidet toilets, rainfall shower heads, and comfortable King Size beds. Whether it’s your first child or your fifth, a “village” of support can offer the resources you need.   INSTAGRAM: Connect with HeHe on IG  Connect with The Village on IG    BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!   Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!   LINKS MENTIONED: The Village Retreat Center **Receive $200 Spa Credit and $100 off your total stay when you mention The Birth Lounge Podcast

Join HeHe and Tyler Bradshaw from Aqua Tots as they dive deep into the crucial topic of water safety for children. This episode covers alarming drowning statistics, the importance of swim lessons from as young as four months, and practical advice for preventing drowning incidents. Tyler shares expert insights on floatation devices, the role of water watchers, appropriate bath suit colors, and safe pool practices for homes and communities. This is an essential episode for all parents and caregivers to keep their kids safe around water in all settings year round.   The Importance of Water Safety Drowning Statistics and Prevention Understanding Different Types of Drowning The Role of Swim Lessons Common Places for Drowning Dry Drowning Explained The Dangers of Distractions Water Wings and Flotation Devices Tips for Parents with Multiple Children at the Pool Home Pool Safety Ensuring Pool Safety: Skimmer Baskets and Barriers Water Safety Analogies: Highway and Pool The Importance of Swim Lessons for Children Starting Swim Lessons Early: Building Muscle Memory Overcoming Fear of Water in Young Children Swim Lesson Levels: From Babies to Competent Swimmers Swim Lesson Curriculum: Skills and Progression Choosing the Right Swimwear for Safety   Guest Bio: Tyler, owner of Aqua-Tots Swim School Norwood is passionate about childhood water safety!  Aqua-Tots was founded in 1991 and headquartered in the Phoenix area, Aqua-Tots Swim Schools is making waves as the largest international provider of year-round, indoor swim instruction, community outreach and drowning prevention education. Its trusted program is dedicated to children of all abilities from four months to 12 years old and features a proven curriculum used to teach more than five million swim lessons each year. Aqua-Tots is recognized in Franchise Business Review’s Top 100 Franchises for Women in 2024, Entrepreneur's Top 15 Children’s Franchises of 2023, Entrepreneur’s Franchise 500®, Inc. Magazine's Top 5000 and Franchise Times’ Top 200. Aqua-Tots has more than 150 locations in 25 states across 14 countries and is rapidly expanding with 90 locations in development.   Social Media: Connect with HeHe on Instagram  Connect with Aqua-Tots on IG  Connect with HeHe on YouTube.   BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!   Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!   LINKS MENTIONED: Connect with Tyler at Norwood Aqua-Tots here!  Find an Aqua-Tots near you!    Key words: Water Safety, Drowning Prevention, Kids Swim Lessons, Swimming Tips for Parents, Water Safety Tips, Child Swim Lessons, Summer Safety Tips, Pool Safety Tips, Accident Prevention, Water Safety Month, Child Safety

Join HeHe in an inspiring conversation with Raquel as she shares her incredible journey from multiple cesarean sections to achieving a successful vaginal birth after three cesareans (VBA3C) in a home setting. Raquel discusses the importance of taking control of birth decisions, questioning standard practices, and finding the confidence to push back against a system that often prioritizes medical convenience over individual empowerment. Tune in for a deep dive into the challenges and triumphs of birthing with autonomy and the transformative power it holds for mothers. Don't miss this pivotal episode filled with personal stories, expert insights, and practical advice for expecting mothers and birth advocates.   Raquel's First Birth Experience Navigating VBAC Challenges Meeting Dr. Stuart Fishbein Preparing for the Fourth Birth Labor and Delivery at Home Unexpected Sensations and Initial Fears Support and Reassurance from the Doula Smooth Sailing and Birth Experience Challenges and Emotional Disconnect Reflecting on Birth Choices and Statistics Empowerment and Advocacy in Birth Advice for Expectant Mothers from Racquel   Guest Bio: Raquel is a mother of four, ages 2, 5, 18, and 20. Together with her husband, she raises her family in Southern California. Raquel has a regular 9-5, but her superhero self works doing her soul work into the night supporting Goddess Blyss and Dr. Stu with the Birthing Instincts Podcast. In 2021 Dr. Stu supported Raquel’s 4th pregnancy, a breech HBA3C. It was life changing and has been a dream come true to be able to work along side him and especially Goddess Blyss in birth work, and spreading awareness to birth choices and the beauty of birth. Raquel is now a birth doula and teaches birth education classes with her husband. Social Media: Connect with HeHe on Instagram Connect with Raquel on IG  Connect with HeHe on YouTube.   BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!   Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!

HeHe is joined with Kayleigh Summers, or The Birth Trauma Mama, to discuss a rare but serious pregnancy complication known as Amniotic Fluid Embolism. This episode dives into what causes AFE, the signs & symptoms plus what Kayleigh's healing process looked like after her experience. You will also hear questions and discussions to have with your provider if you have risk factors that increase your chances of experiencing AFE or if you're curious how your hospital would manage an event such as AFE in your birth. This episode mentions birth trauma, maternal death and fetal demise so please be kind with yourself and listen when you're in a safe space to consume this kind of content.    JOIN THE BIRTH LOUNGE   Guest Bio: Kayleigh Summers is an Amniotic Fluid Embolism survivor who shares her birth story as a way to be a space that women that safety learn about & heal from birth trauma. Some of you may follow her on social media where she is known as the birth trauma mama. Kayleigh is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and owns a private practice where she educates and supports those who have experienced perinatal trauma! She also has a podcast called the birth trauma mama podcast and she hosts small groups for people who are looking for birth trauma support!    CONNECT WITH KAYLEIGH Website IG Podcast   CONNECT WITH HEHE IG Work with HeHe   LINKS MENTIONED: https://afesupport.org/ https://www.uptodate.com/contents/amniotic-fluid-embolism https://obgconnect.com/library/2020/01/31/amniotic-fluid-embolism-afe/  

In this heartfelt episode, HeHe and Sarah Lingle discuss the sensitive topics of infertility, pregnancy loss, and the emotional and psychological impacts they have. The conversation covers statistics on infertility and miscarriage, personal experiences with loss, and the ways to support a friend who has experienced pregnancy loss. Sarah shares valuable insights on how to talk about loss, the importance of normalizing these discussions, and the resources available for those going through these difficult times. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to better understand and support friends, family, or clients dealing with pregnancy loss. Understanding Infertility and Loss Statistics Stigma and Sharing About Loss Emotional Responses to Loss Postpartum Care After Loss Support and Resources for Bereaved Parents TFMR Community and Support How to Support Friends Experiencing Loss A Friend's Support During Miscarriage Memorializing Lost Babies The Emotional Complexity of Pregnancy After Loss Navigating Triggers and Boundaries Connecting with Sarah and Final Thoughts Guest Bio: Sarah is the host of The PAL Doula Podcast, and owner of The Pregnancy After Loss Doula, both of which exist to give help and hope to moms navigating pregnancy after loss. She’s a mom to Peanut, who died before birth, and to J, her earthside rainbow baby. When she’s not talking about birth, you can usually find her hiking to a nearby waterfall with my family! Instagram: Connect with HeHe on IG Connect with Sarah on IG  BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience! Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!  LINKS MENTIONED: https://pregnancyafterlossdoula.com/ Use code Podcast10 to get listeners 10% off of any of Sarah’s offers https://anchor.fm/thepalpod https://littlesantidesigns.co.uk/ https://stillbirthday.com/ https://www.gatheringhope.net/timely-tender-tote-1 https://miscarriagehopedesk.org/ https://www.thecomfortcub.org/  

In this episode, we are joined by Dr. Heather Florescue to discuss the vital but often overlooked topic of stillbirth prevention. Dr. Florescue introduces the concept of placental health, the importance of measuring estimated placental volume, and the role this plays in ensuring healthy pregnancies. We dive deep into the current research, debunk myths, and highlight the significance of understanding risk factors and maternal instincts. Dr. Florescue also shares insights on protocols followed in the UK and Australia that could help reduce stillbirth rates. Tune in to learn why education and proactive healthcare can save lives.   Guest Bio: Dr. Florescue is an ob.gyn. in private practice at Women Gynecology and Childbirth Associates in Rochester, N.Y. She delivers babies at Highland Hospital in Rochester, NY.  She received her medical degree at the University of Rochester School of Medicine & Dentistry, completed her internship and residency in obstetrics & gynecology at the University of Rochester Medical Center.  She is certified by the American Congress of Obstetrics & Gynecology.  She and her husband are parents to a set of triplets.  Dr. Florescue is passionate about the prevention of pregnancy and infant loss and the care for families who suffer these terrible tragedies.    INSTAGRAM: Connect with HeHe on IG  Connect with Dr. Florescue on IG    BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience! Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!   LINKS MENTIONED: Star Legacy Foundation Count the Kicks PUSH Pregnancy Tommys.org Saving Babies Lives Care Bundles

In this episode, HeHe is joined by Caitlyn Schollmeier to discuss electronic fetal monitoring. They cover what electronic fetal monitoring is, why it is used, differences between continuous and intermittent monitoring, and various related topics. They also explore the implications of different monitoring choices on labor and delivery, including how interventions like Pitocin and epidurals require monitoring and tips for how different monitoring methods might affect movement and comfort during labor. In this episode, we’re diving into the following questions: When providers often use each type of monitoring and why they may use continuous monitoring more often.  How long are the breaks during intermittent monitoring? What types of monitoring are best for low risk labors versus more complicated pregnancies?  What helps when we start to see wonky fetal heartones?  So what are some scenarios where you would want electronic fetal monitoring? Guest Bio: Caitlyn Schollmeier is a former birth doula and labor & delivery nurse. She created Lila, a maternity brand that specializes in creating beautiful and comfortable labor clothing that provides privacy while still being accessible for routine medical care. Lila has 4 different styles of birth gown that all provide access for fetal heart monitoring, skin to skin, breastfeeding, massage, epidural placement and more. Social Media: Connect with HeHe on IG Connect with Caitlyn on Instagram Connect with Caitlyn on TikTok BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience! Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!  LINKS MENTIONED: Birth Gown (use code BIRTHLOUNGE15 to save 15% off): https://www.wearlila.com/    ACOG stance on EFM: https://www.acog.org/womens-health/faqs/fetal-heart-rate-monitoring-during-labor   https://www.acog.org/clinical/clinical-guidance/practice-bulletin/articles/2010/11/management-of-intrapartum-fetal-heart-rate-tracings   https://www.acog.org/clinical/clinical-guidance/practice-bulletin/articles/2021/06/antepartum-fetal-surveillance  

In this episode, HeHe welcomes Jami Reyes, owner of Hip Baby Gear, to discuss essential baby gear. They delve into topics like how to choose car seats and strollers, considerations for different lifestyles, safety tips, and practical advice for parents. Additionally, they cover the pros and cons of popular brands and offer insights into making informed decisions to meet individual needs. In this episode, we’re diving into the following questions: What should people be thinking about in terms of the weight and durability of strollers? What are we actually looking for in a car seat? What type of car seats are out there and who they might be best appropriate for from newborn all the way up to big kids in car seats?  What do we need to consider when it comes to thinking about the usage of our car seat and our stroller system and multiple cars?  What’s the installation process like for car seats?  I want to add a mirror and I want to have a camera and I want to have the window covers but are mirrors, cameras, toys, and window covers safe for Baby?  How to dress baby in car seats safely.  Take a listen to learn about…  Choosing the Right Stroller  Considering Your Terrain  The Weight and Durability of Strollers  Car Seat Safety and Installation  Types of Car Seats  The Importance of Proper Installation  Dealing with Accessories and Clothing  Most Frequently Asked Questions including is the Nuna and the Vista stroller systems really worth it and is the Doona safe?    Guest Bio: Jami Reyes is the owner of Hip Baby Gear, in the Marblehead Old Town District. Jami and her husband took over the store in 2016. They had been living in Marblehead for a few years and had their son and loved the idea of not only working locally but being a part of the community in a larger way. HBG has been such an integral partner to local families not only in education but as a way for families to connect. HBG provides an experience unlike any in the area. You can let the little ones play in the back while you grab a coffee or sometimes mimosa and chat! If you are expecting they help with registries, baby must-haves or even offer a little guidance or support.   Instagram: Connect with HeHe on IG Connect with Hip Baby Gear on IG BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience! Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!  LINKS MENTIONED: Hipbabygear.com https://www.luvbugcompany.com/collections/all-towels https://www.amazon.com/Luv-Bug-Company-Sunscreen-Towel/dp/B08XPVPSR2 Buckle me baby coats: https://www.bucklemecoats.com/

Heather is a professional architect, entrepreneur, and mother of two three and under. Her passion for sustainability and frustration with traditionally potty training her oldest led her to try Elimination Communication with her second baby. With her youngest using the potty at 5 weeks and able to take HERSELF by 12 months, Heather is now on a mission to show new and expecting parents everywhere what is possible and how they too can naturally potty train their babies from as early as birth.  As the host of the Ready From Birth Community, she brings together EC parents from all over the world so they can relax and enjoy the journey to early toilet independence without ever having to navigate the roadblocks alone. The Ready From Birth Course launched in May 2024, so new and expecting parents can get all the information they need to start EC and have their baby toilet independent as early as walking! Birth Education: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience! Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!  Instagram:  Connect with HeHe on IG    Connect with Heather on IG  Links: Heather’s Community: community.readyfrombirth.com  Heather’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@readyfrombirth The Huckleberry app is mentioned as a tool to track your baby’s elimination schedule

HeHe is joined by a Labor & Employment Lawyer and CEO of Centurion Trial Attorney to discuss maternity leave laws in the United States. Ryan shares what rights pregnant people have, when to share the big news with your boss & what's the minimum lawful amount of time off you're entitled to when you have a baby? We also cover what to do if you experience retaliation and how to protect your job while you are on maternity leave.    In this episode, we’re diving into the following questions: How am I supposed to leave work?  How early do I tell them?  When am I supposed to tell them?  What legal rights do I have?  What if they say I don't get paid?  How am I supposed to make this work financially?  What do I do about the insurance?   Take a listen to learn all about the Family Medical Leave Act ( FMLA ), what questions your employer can and can’t ask you, your rights in the workplace as a pregnant person, your rights in the workplace as a pumping mom, and more!  Guest Bio: Ryan is a former firefighter who spent four years battling California's wildfires.    Ryan is recognized as a leading voice in the field of Labor & Employment law. He has gained a massive following on TikTok as @AttorneyRyan aka "The Labor Lawyer." Through his videos, Ryan empowers employees and small businesses by educating them about the law and worker's rights.   Ryan is a recognized thought-leader in the field of criminal procedure and civil trial practice. He has authored multiple books on the subjects of law, civil trial procedure, and wealth-creating strategies. In his spare time, Ryan also writes crime fiction for adults and educational fiction for children. Ryan graduated Magna Cum Laude from California Western School of Law in San Diego, California.    Instagram: Connect with Ryan on IG Ryan's Website   Connect with HeHe on IG   BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!   Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!   LINKS MENTIONED: https://edd.ca.gov/paidfamilyleave https://www.eeoc.gov/ https://www.dol.gov/ https://www.dol.gov/general/topic/disability/jobaccommodations https://www.centuriontrialattorneys.com/lawyer-exposes-classic-hr-trap-that-destroys-harassment-cases https://www.centuriontrialattorneys.com/ryan-stygar-helps-pregnant-women-protect-themselves-from-discrimination   YOUTUBE LINKS: Connect with HeHe on YouTube

HeHe and Birth Injury Lawyer, Marlie, dive deep into how legality intersects with maternity care. Join this conversation to hear about your rights as a patient, what you can and can't say 'no' to in labor and what leaving 'AMA' really means! Marlie also breaks down what type of allegations are most commonly brought against OB's and how top down pressure from insurance companies and hospital systems impact patient care and outcomes! This is such an amazing episode!    Bio: Marlie H. Willer is an experienced trial lawyer that has dedicated her practice to 100% litigation. Marlie focuses her practice on medical malpractice, with a particular emphasis in obstetric negligence. She has successfully litigated hundreds of brachial plexus cases across the country.   Connect with Marlie on IG Connect with Marlie Here   Download Scripts for Advocacy!    Connect with HeHe on IG Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!   Download The Birth Lounge App in your App Store --for Android & Apple