UnDeletable Dad

In this empowering and insightful episode of the Undeletable Dad Podcast, Tracy sits down with the renowned relationship and business expert, Dr. Gilda Carle. Famously known as the "Love Doctor" from her MTV days, Dr. Gilda brings decades of experience and wisdom into an often-overlooked topic—men’s mental health.Drawing from her newest, thought-provoking book, "Real Men Don't Go Woke," Dr. Gilda sheds light on the hidden crisis of men's emotional well-being, revealing alarming statistics around depression, loneliness, and suicide rates among men, particularly those facing challenges like parental alienation, divorce, and isolation.Episode Highlights:Men’s Silent CrisisWhy men often suffer in silence and the alarming statistic that suicide is the leading cause of death for men under 50.Insightful discussion about celebrities like Howie Mandel, Pete Davidson, Simon Cowell, and Will Smith, highlighting that even seemingly successful men struggle deeply behind the scenes.The Book Behind the ConversationDr. Gilda reveals why major publishers rejected her book due to its provocative title and how she bravely took the publishing journey into her own hands.How this book, described as "a love story for men," has resonated globally, reaching readers who felt isolated and alone in their experiences.Understanding the Woke NarrativeA deep dive into why "woke" culture poses unique challenges to men's self-esteem and emotional health.Discussion on why society quickly labels men as "toxic," pushing some toward self-denial and despair.Strategies for Emotional MasteryDr. Gilda introduces her powerful three-step approach:"Frame it, Claim it, Tame it" to manage anger and emotional overwhelm.Practical examples and communication strategies to foster better understanding in personal and professional relationships.Taking Personal ResponsibilityWhy taking responsibility for your emotional state and life circumstances is foundational to healing and personal growth.Real-life anecdotes from Dr. Gilda’s extensive coaching experience, including the critical need to recognize and address one's own role in personal struggles.Empowering Women to Support MenHow women can create emotionally safe environments for the men in their lives to openly express vulnerability without shame.The importance of genuine listening and compassionate communication, breaking down misconceptions around male vulnerability.Transformative Insights for RelationshipsDr. Gilda’s direct, no-nonsense advice about avoiding the pitfalls of victimhood, codependency, and "people-pleasing."How authentic self-expression and vulnerability become the foundation for lasting and fulfilling relationships.About Dr. Gilda Carle:Dr. Gilda Carle is a celebrated relationship expert, author of 19 books, and former MTV personality known as the “Love Doctor.” She expertly combines relationship and business strategies, helping individuals and corporations communicate effectively, build resilience, and cultivate genuine connections.Connect with Dr. Gilda:Website: drgilda.comLinkedIn, Instagram, TikTok: @DrGildaHost Information:Reach out to Tracy at UndeletableDad.com for support, resources, or coaching on navigating fatherhood, parental alienation, and men’s mental health.Listen in, share with friends, and join the vital conversation about breaking the silence around men's mental health. It’s time to heal.2/2

Tammy Cohen, brand messaging consultant and founder of the Women Beyond the Table Business Network is the author of Text Messages To My Kids, a book brimming with inspiration for how you (or your partner) can begin, renew or truly uplevel your connection with kids - especially those who don't live with you or who are in a phase of life where they don't seem open to hearing from you. By going where they are - ie., on their phones - you can meet them in familiar territory and get their attention in a new way. In our conversation, I highlight 10 different strategies Tammy used that any dad (or stepmom) can copy or adapt to suit their own family situation and fill a communication gap with love, attention, security and trust. Text Messages To My Sons: Connecting Deeply In A World of Devices is a BookFest award winner and Next Generation Indie Book Awards finalist. It's a must read for anyone looking to build a deeper connection with their loved ones! Contact Tammy at: www.tcbrandconsulting.com Instagram: @textmessagestomysons Facebook.com/Textmessagestomysons Facebook.com@tammyjcohen www.linkedin.com/in/tammy-cohen-915815143 tammy@tcbrandconsulting.com

Learn to trust your parenting instincts and step into authentic leadership as a father. Mario Boucher is open to connecting with divorced dads who want to shoot the breeze about raising kids. He can be reached at mk3boucher@gmail.com Visit https://undeletabledad.com to book a free call with me where we can explore different levels of support for journey of post-divorce parenting, from self-paced video programs to the accelerated transformation of VIP 1:1 coaching tailored to your exact needs .

No dad ever thinks it could happen to him but thousands of such cases are brought before the courts every year. Knowledge is power - protect yourself with the information and preparation strategies to make sure you don't become embroiled in a scheme designed to take you out of the custody equation. Attorney Charles Jamieson has some free materials with valuable tips - find those at https://cjamiesonlaw.com Connect with me to learn what you need to stay clear of this kind of ploy and reverse engineer all the evidence you might need one day to clear your name quickly and definitively. Request a free consultation via my website, https://undeletabledad.com

Reach out for a conversation about personal support, whether to find the best video program for your needs or to inquire about VIP level mentorship around settlement strategies, parenting a hostile teen or shifting your energy from a limiting victim mindset to a true Dark Horse energy. You can find me at https://undeletabledad.com or https://tracypoizner.com.

Drew Soleyn is a coach, creator of training programs for dads and director of Dad Central Ontario (Canada). Go to dadcentral.ca for loads of free resources and first class support for men to bring the best of themselves to parenting. Click here to see the infographics about Positive Father Involvement: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1BHVlHmzqhph6EimJicTkaDIIRhfUF5yH?usp=sharing Connect with Tracy by email at tracy@undeletabledad.com to schedule a free 20-minute assessment and strategy session.

It might seem counter-intuitive to invite a women's divorce coach as a guest to this podcast, but Kate Anthony is a voice of reason and a beacon of sanity for divorced mothers everywhere. Hers is a book you can confidently recommend (or gift!) to the mother of your children to help her make the wisest, most compassionate choices for your kids. Kate is the host of the New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide and author of "The D-Word: Making The Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage". Visit kateanthony.com for more information or connect with her on Instagram @thedivorcesurvivalguide. Reach out to Tracy at undeletabledad.com, or by email at tracy@undeletabledad.com

Dr. Leslie Austin is a clinical psychotherapist and nationally recognized expert on personality disorders. She's been featured on numerous network and syndicated TV programs for over 20 years. Visit her website at leslieaustin.com. Book a complimentary session with Tracy to explore how to get back into contact with your alienated or resistant kids, how to deal effectively with a hostile coparent or how to restore your sense of sovereign fatherhood so your kids are drawn back into your orbit where they belong. Contact tracy@undeletabledad.com to schedule a call.

You have to separate your wounded human from your superhuman job as a father. Lawrence Joss has created the perfect resource for this purpose! Go to parentalalienationanonymous.com and sign up for a well-run, peer support 12-step group. Reach out to me to get started on your accelerated path to magnetic potency as a father. Book a call to explore what that might look like for you at tracy@undeletabledad.com or by filling out this brief questionnaire: https://forms.gle/1PjYUX9t3g6KNKy88

Go to findmyparent.org to download the app and learn how you can work with Enrique to create your own website and help your kids to find you! Reach out to me at tracy@undeletabledad.com and I'll work with you to create the material for your website - videos, messages, photos and more - that will prove beyond a doubt you were always the loving dad they know you are!

Please stop whatever you're doing and buy this book: "Leader of the Pack: How a Single Dad of Five Led His Kids, His Business, and Himself from Disaster to Success" You can find Matt Sweetwood everywhere on social media with the handle @msweetwood. My current project is guiding dads to expand their vision of family, fatherhood and legacy for multi-generational impact. I'd love to discuss how we might work together to achieve this for you. Find me @undeletabledad or by email at tracy@undeletabledad.com.

Reunification therapy can be life-changing and it can be a big waste of time and money. My guest Bob Finlay of Finlay Counselling and Mediation Services takes us behind the scenes to let you know how to choose the right therapist, how to prepare for success and how to know if your situation is not one that will likely be benefitted by this course of action. Bob can be reached at bob@finlaycounselling.ca and through his website, finlaycounselling.ca. You can find me at undeletabledad.com and tracy@undeletabledad.com. I'd be glad to set aside time to help you figure out your best next move!

My guest is Mike Haney, coach and mentor for high-performing men who want to enjoy a high-quality home life to match what they produce in their professional life. Learn more about Mike at mancourage.com. Reconnecting with your best self is the key to reconnecting faster and better with your children. Email me at tracy@undeletabledad.com to explore how I can support you in making your dream relationships a reality.

Whoever designs the game makes the rules. Learn to be the game designer of your family's destiny and your own life. PATRONUS COLLEGE begins September 21st. Visit undeletabledad.com or email tracy@undeletabledad.com to enrol in a program that will change your life and your children's future.

Jesus Quinones tells us how he got out of prison early and clawed his way back to his kids, dodging endless landmines and busting through brick walls along the way. Jesus will be available to you weekly as your very own personal trainer of mental fitness when you enrol in PATRONUS COLLEGE, School of Magic for Alienated Dads. Go to undeletabledad.com, click to learn more and take the decision to invest in the surest, fastest path to taking back control of your family dynamic and your future.

We left you last week with a cliffhanger - how did this mild-mannered father of four end up in prison, and what happened there to change his life forever? Join Jesus and I for a 4-month training program for divorced dads called PATRONUS COLLEGE. It's the world's only school of magic for alienated fathers! You'll learn everything you need to know to beat parental alienation and it's tricky ways. Here's what past students say: "As a guy, and as a Dad, navigating parenting and custody issues it's hard.   Adding Tracy to my team was the missing piece.   Productive knowledge, and unique insights, have been extremely valuable into me and my kids having a better outcome.   I can't say enough good things, and worth every penny.   Thank you Tracy!" - John Noble, Patronus student and dad of 5. "Tracy’s Patronus College course was life changing for me at a time in my life when I started to give up hope. I had been going through a horrible divorce for almost 6 years and through her Patronus College program I learned how to recognize hidden patterns of fear that were preventing me from reaching out to my children and ultimately from them being able to reconnect with me. I learned ways to communicate with my children that focused on showcase my strengths as a loving parent that contradicted everything my children were being told about me. Tracy has helped me tremendously and changed my entire approach. It was also really helpful being around other dads going through a similar situation as mine." - R.S., Patronus student, father of 4. Visit undeletabledad.com for more information or go straight to ⁠https://essential-training.thrivecart.com/patronus-school-of-magic/⁠

Join Jesus in his Facebook group for divorced dads called Father Figures. Visit undeletabledad.com to register for Patronus College or reach out to me at info@undeletabledad.com for a call to find out if you're a good fit for this program!

The energy of masculinity lies at the heart of fatherhood. In this episode I delve into how this frequency functions as the ordering principle of your personality and what it brings to your family dynamic. PATRONUS COLLEGE is where you'll be trained in this high-level perspective of potent fatherhood and how you can use your paternal power to lead your family through dark times, laying the groundwork for security and happiness for yourself and your kids. Visit undeletabledad.com for more information or schedule a phone call with Tracy by emailing tracy@undeletabledad.com

We've learned to raise kids by telling them what's right and wrong. How does this relate to allowing your kids to distance themselves from you? Join my online support community at facebook.com/groups/undeletabledad Visit undeletabledad.com for information about online courses and coaching. Reach me via tracy@undeletabledad.com to inquire about PATRONUS COLLEGE or 1:1 mentorship.

Rhythm is your ticket to being perceived as the most reliable source of security in your child's world. Don't miss out on using this simple technique to establish yourself as the sovereign in your family dynamic. Contact Tracy at tracy@undeletabledad.com for courses, programs and 1:1 private mentorship exclusively for the divorced father.