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Join the WAGHARFG Reading Group Discord: https://discord.gg/TTESqMNENt I'm sorry about the dog sounds in the background of my beginning spiel; I didn't think you'd be able to hear it through the mic. Jolene is joined this week by Lev, a different Lev than ever before, to talk through hir life, bouncing around the digital landscape of niche feminisms, failing to be girlbossed into an engineer, what if gender was only for special occasions, and more. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ⁠https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/⁠ Follow the pod on twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas⁠ Check out our website: ⁠https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/⁠ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: ⁠https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss⁠ Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: ⁠https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas⁠

Does what it says on the tin. Jolene is joined by Vanya this week to discuss woundfucking. It is exactly what it sounds like. Also some discussions of sex work, brain tumors, Ehlers-Dahnlos, the endorphin system, and more. Also: Jolene was on another podcast last week. I talk about it at the start, but here's a link to the episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5GK5rAsEXZQ0TBZW58MjLp?si=8806c8769aec45fc The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the pod on twitter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas⁠⁠

This week, Jolene is joined by Jay (@trans_catboy on twitter) to discuss the omegaverse. Tune in to find out what the hell is secondary sex, and how it was birthed from the inflamed libidos of sci-fi fans who got a hold of some bad wolf science, and how it fits into Jay's life and transition. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the pod on twitter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas⁠⁠⁠

FIRST EPISODE OF 2024!!! Jolene is joined by Lua to talk mostly about noise music, transition and blackness, and eventually, raceplay. Also featured: gossip, some censorship (sorry), and sissies. Check out Lua's music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vlxYb3JaACE https://open.spotify.com/artist/60KplDAZ1mE9UINmtP6r3d?si=g4ScSPkjSYep-r44qpERJQ The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the pod on twitter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas⁠⁠

EDIT: There are a couple places in here where my guest says something and then says he'd prefer it omitted from the recording. We talked more off-mic, and Jamie ultimately decided he was fine with putting out what all is in here. Jolene is joined by Jamie for a discussion that ranges across: cis4pay sex work, agender lesbianism to transfaggotry, radfem dalliances and detours, and the musical stylings of Jordaan Mason, and our fallen sister, Henry Darger. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the pod on twitter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss⁠⁠⁠⁠ Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas⁠⁠

Jolene is joined by Professor Megan Massa of Emory University to talk about neuroendocrinology! We talk about hormones, their affects on behavior, scientific narratives around this, how those narratives interact with popular narratives, and more! This is a really jam packed episode and one I'm really proud of. Enjoy! The paper Megan co-authored with Krisha Aghi and MJ Hill which elicited my invitation: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37862978/ Some papers mentioned throughout the episode: Guinea pigs (not mice or rats, whoops) and mounting behaviors: https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2Fh0053840 The article on mathematical models for doing research which treats sex as a multi-dimensional variable: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0018506X23001435 The article on understanding gender affirming HRT in research contexts: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S2451902222001732 The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the pod on twitter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss⁠⁠⁠⁠ Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas⁠⁠

Jolene is joined by Roxana to talk about her transition, spurred in part by the transition of her daughter! Other topics include: the importance of bisexual Wiccan girls to a healthy ecosystem, how gay fighting games are, gender-neutral parenting, and more! Here's the Iranian poet Roxana mentions towards the end: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forugh_Farrokhzad The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ⁠⁠⁠https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/⁠⁠⁠ Follow the pod on twitter: ⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website: ⁠⁠⁠https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/⁠⁠⁠ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: ⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss⁠⁠⁠ Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: ⁠⁠⁠https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas⁠

Subscribe to the Patreon to hear the full episode: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 Jolene is joined by Lyn of Make the Golf Course a Public Sex Forest (which you can order here: https://maitlandsystems.bigcartel.com/product/make-the-golf-course-a-public-sex-forest) to discuss some books by the great Joanna Russ and Samuel Delany! Check out the new Library of America collection of Joanna Russ' writing: https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/joanna-russ-novels--stories-loa-373-the-female-man--we-who-are-about-to-----on-strike-against-god--the-complet-e-alyx-stories--other-stor/38070473/?resultid=6a488857-ffe3-4e55-87d5-a829e2c8e8f0#edition=65984488&idiq=55281395 The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ⁠⁠⁠https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/⁠⁠⁠ Follow the pod on twitter: ⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website: ⁠⁠⁠https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/⁠⁠⁠ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: ⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss⁠⁠⁠ Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: ⁠⁠⁠https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas⁠

Jolene is joined by Natalie and Louane to talk about their relationship (trans motherhood), fatness, f*ggotry, weird medical stuff, abuse, trauma, extreme sex acts, and more. Jolene would also like to apologize for using the word "traumatophilia" incorrectly. This is what I get for trying to talk about a book I've never read. Just replace "traumatophilia" with "the licensing effect of trauma" every time you hear it or something. Also read Louane's writing at Arthur News: https://www.trentarthur.ca/news/irreversible-damage-the-transgender-craze-and-the-swedish-twinks-who-created-it UPDATE: The article mentioned by Louane "Fat Sluts Against Nature" is out now: https://www.trentarthur.ca/news/fat-sluts-against-nature The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ⁠⁠https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/⁠⁠ Follow the pod on twitter: ⁠⁠https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas⁠⁠ Check out our website: ⁠⁠https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/⁠⁠ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: ⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss⁠⁠ Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: ⁠⁠https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas⁠

Jolene is joined by Alice for the first discussion of many about Guy Hocquenghem, a gay French guy (Guy) who wrote some provocative theory. This series will be released primarily on Patreon, with some episodes getting public releases. This episode is on Homosexual Desire, which you can read here: https://files.libcom.org/files/Hocquenghem%20-%20Homosexual%20Desire.pdf Our next episode will be on The Screwball Asses, by Christian Maurel. You can read that here: https://selforganizedseminar.files.wordpress.com/2011/07/hocqueghem_screwball_asses.pdf The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ⁠https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/⁠ Follow the pod on twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas⁠ Check out our website: ⁠https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/⁠ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: ⁠https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss⁠ Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: ⁠https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas⁠

This week, Jolene is joined by Cody to discuss some art they made, centering around masculine performances of misogyny. Watch Rabbithole here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zYEJQ1kqv8&t=1s (Content notes: Contains a lot of misogyny, obviously, as well as footage of someone masturbating). Some stuff Cody referenced: Angry White Men: https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/michael-kimmel/angry-white-men/9781568589626/?lens=bold-type-books Contrapoints on Incels: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fD2briZ6fB0 On Microfascism: https://www.commonnotions.org/on-microfascism The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ⁠https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/⁠ Follow the pod on twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas⁠ Check out our website: ⁠https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/⁠ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: ⁠https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss⁠ Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: ⁠https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas⁠

Sorry that episodes are still slow coming. Here's some bonus content by way of apology. An episode where Jolene is joined by Talia to discuss some fun animal facts! Tune in to learn about mourning geckos, barnacles, mole salamanders, and more! Talking about biology gets fascistic fast. Content warning for some discussion of sexual violence. (There will be another normal episode soon! I promise). Here's Talia's twitter account: https://twitter.com/commewnism666 And Talia's lesbian public sex archive: http://scalar.cdla.oxycreates.org/lesbian-sexual-venues/index Here's some references: The Elizabeth Grosz piece mentioned: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/0969725X.2012.701049 The scholar whose name Jolene couldn't remember who works on animal agriculture and GSWS: https://scholars.duke.edu/person/gabriel.rosenberg The article Jolene read on why there's a large gamete and a small gamete: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25323972/ The most evil Star Trek episode ever: https://memory-alpha.fandom.com/wiki/Cogenitor_(episode) The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ⁠https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/⁠ Follow the pod on twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas⁠ Check out our website: ⁠https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/⁠ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: ⁠https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss⁠ Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: ⁠https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas

Listen to jolene and ichor talk about: creatures, goblins, ghouls, self-cest, addiction, cucking yourself with yourself, how 'it' is actually the first pronoun used for most people, the "dead wife experience," clowning, and more. Check out all of Ichor's links here: https://linktr.ee/duckykw Project LETS is the organization Ichor mentions towards the end of the episode. Learn more about them here: https://projectlets.org/ I realized after the fact that the "dead wife experience" is basically one of the plot points in Michelle Perez and Remy Boydell's "The Pervert," which is a really good comic you should read. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas

An episode where Jolene is joined by Talia to discuss some fun animal facts! Tune in to learn about mourning geckos, barnacles, mole salamanders, and more! Talking about biology gets fascistic fast. Content warning for some discussion of sexual violence. (There will be another normal episode soon! I promise). Here's Talia's twitter account: https://twitter.com/commewnism666 And Talia's lesbian public sex archive: http://scalar.cdla.oxycreates.org/lesbian-sexual-venues/index Here's some references: The Elizabeth Grosz piece mentioned: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/0969725X.2012.701049 The scholar whose name Jolene couldn't remember who works on animal agriculture and GSWS: https://scholars.duke.edu/person/gabriel.rosenberg The article Jolene read on why there's a large gamete and a small gamete: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25323972/ The most evil Star Trek episode ever: https://memory-alpha.fandom.com/wiki/Cogenitor_(episode) The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas

My guest described this episode thusly: "one boygirls quest to liberate sexy hunky trans men from the "my only sexual value js my fronthole" industrial complex & get them phalloplasty in an attempt to fulfill a long held deep seated fantasy of bottoming for an all post op no loads refused ftm gangbang. This is she/theys story....... DunDun" This is basically that. Have fun. Part 1 of 2. Check out t4t Caregiving: https://www.t4tcaregiving.org/donate.html And GALAP: https://www.thegalap.org/ And Peach on socials: https://twitter.com/gey_sax ; https://www.instagram.com/gey_sax/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA%3D%3D And then the usual stuff: The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas

My guest described this episode thusly: "one boygirls quest to liberate sexy hunky trans men from the "my only sexual value js my fronthole" industrial complex & get them phalloplasty in an attempt to fulfill a long held deep seated fantasy of bottoming for an all post op no loads refused ftm gangbang. This is she/theys story....... DunDun" This is basically that. Have fun. Part 1 of 2. Check out t4t Caregiving: https://www.t4tcaregiving.org/donate.html And GALAP: https://www.thegalap.org/ And Peach on socials: https://twitter.com/gey_sax ; https://www.instagram.com/gey_sax/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA%3D%3D And then the usual stuff: The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas

Jolene is joined by Amelie to talk about dissociative identity disorder, autophilias/paraphilias, erotic investments in transition, and more! The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas

Content Note: This episode includes a brief mention of a suicide attempt and subsequent hospitalization. Jolene is joined by Luca for a conversation about a lot of things, including: trans children and trans childhood, the continuity between trans childhood and the rest of the community, ballet and gender norms within it, movement, playful and silly genders, how trans people are really the same across ages and generations, playing gender tag, and more! The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas

Jolene's streak of "trans women whose lives were touched by evangelical Christianity" continues, as she's joined by Aurora for a conversation about: "Did you know they make bikinis for boys?" (they don't), joining a cult, leaving a cult, being a surfer boy as an attempt at femininity, and finally, a long meandering meta conversation about narrativizing trans lives, inspired by Aurora's wonderful book The Fifth Wound, which you can order below. Buy Aurora's book: https://nightboat.org/book/the-fifth-wound/ The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas

Jolene is joined by her friend Livvy to talk about her transition, Michael Savage, importing hormones from Malaysia, crashing on so many different couches, living with a terminal illness, and more. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas