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In part seven of Relationship Reality Check, Dr. Phil drops some relationship wisdom: It's on you to own your actions and mindset. Don't give up on yourself or your partner. Grow and evolve instead of playing the blame game. Rekindle what made your partner fall for you in the first place and rediscover yourself. Take the reins of your relationship and your behavior. Be the kind of friend your partner deserves.  Learn how to Invest your time and energy wisely. Keep it real emotionally, be open, and choose happiness over being right. Oh, and don't forget those nine tips for a healthy relationship - put 'em to work! Time to assess your own relationships. For more information: https://drphilintheblanks.com Advertise with us!: https://www.advertisecast.com/PhilintheBlanks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In part six of Relationship “Reality Check: How Fun Are You To Live With”; Dr. Phil unveils the intricacies of misdirection in relationships, emphasizing its profound impact on communication and resolution. Learn how misdirection in relationships, akin to a magician's act, often keeps us from addressing the real issues that matter. By distinguishing between topics and deeper issues and finding the courage to confront the latter, we can foster more authentic communication and work towards healthier, more fulfilling relationships. For more information: https://drphilintheblanks.com - Thank you for sharing, rating and following my podcast! Advertise with us: https://www.advertisecast.com/PhilintheBlanks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr. Phil discusses the concept of the "bad spirit" that can ruin a relationship. He describes characteristics of the bad spirit, including being a scorekeeper, fault finder, believing it's your way or the highway, turning into an attack dog, being a passive warmonger, and giving up on the relationship. These behaviors do not contribute to a healthy relationship and can cause harm.  Learn how to examine your own behavior and make changes to rid yourself of the bad spirit, which can lead to a substantial improvement in the relationship. Dr. Phil stresses how it is important to focus on personal growth and self-improvement rather than trying to change one's partner. For more information: https://drphilintheblanks.com Advertise with us! https://www.advertisecast.com/PhilintheBlanks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr. Phil McGraw and Dr. Justin Lehmiller, discuss topics related to sexuality and relationships. They talk about the importance of inspiring and encouraging your partner rather than controlling them. Dr. Lehmiller shares his background in studying human sexuality and his interest in exploring sexual fantasies and desires. They address how the American culture appears sexually open but is actually repressed, and how people often feel uncomfortable discussing sex, even in therapy sessions. Learn about the importance of open communication, normalizing sexual desires, and building strong, trusting relationships. For more information: https://drphilintheblanks.com Advertise with me! https://advertisecast.com/PhilintheBlanks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In the latest episode, part three of Relationship Reality Check, Dr. Phil delves into the critical concept of establishing compromise and mutual accommodation within relationships. The episode underscores the significance of bridging differences and arriving at compromises that cater to both partners' desires and necessities. Dr. Phil dismantles the notion that an exemplary relationship is contingent upon complete agreement, an enchanting romance, and impeccable conflict resolution skills. Instead, he introduces a novel perspective on relationship excellence. He advocates for personal growth and development as the key driver of positive relationship dynamics. This perspective encourages individuals to focus on self-improvement rather than attempting to remediate perceived shortcomings in their partners. To delve into these insightful teachings and gain a more profound understanding of how to foster successful relationships, make sure to tune in to this enlightening episode of Relationship Reality Check. Your perspective on relationships is bound to undergo a transformative shift. Episodes drop on Tuesdays. Please help by sharing, rating, reviewing, and adding a comment on: Apple Podcasts or for more information: https://www.drphilintheblanks.com Advertise with us! https://www.advertisecast.com/PhilintheBlanks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Step into the latest episode of "Relationship Reality Check," where Dr. Phil delves into the heart of relationships, unveiling the profound significance of self-reflection and the weight of responsibilities within them. Brace yourself for an eye-opening journey as Dr. Phil propounds the essence of a 100/100 mindset—a symbiotic dance where both partners wholeheartedly embrace accountability for their actions. Drawing from the wellspring of Dr. Gottman's groundbreaking research, Dr. Phil unearths six telltale markers that cast an uncannily accurate 90% prediction on the fate of marriages. But fear not, for the path to enlightenment and transformation begins with you. The spotlight turns onto your own relationship canvas as Dr. Phil invites you to unravel personalized profiles, offering a poignant glimpse into the inner workings of your partnership. Episodes drop on Tuesdays. Listen and subscribe! https://www.drphilintheblanks.com/ Advertise with us! https://www.advertisecast.com/PhilintheBlanks  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We often get back what we give in our connections with others, whether it is a friend, co-worker, lover, or spouse. Dr. Phil talks about this idea and emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for the quality of our relationships by being a "life manager." He also highlights the significance of having a positive relationship with oneself before improving other relationships. Learn how we can take control of our own lives and program our relationships based on our lifestyle choices. Episodes drop Tuesdays. Listen and subscribe! https://www.drphilintheblanks.com/ Advertise with us! https://www.advertisecast.com/PhilintheBlanks  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this final episode on “Toxic Personalities In The Real World”, Dr. Phil discusses the importance of being unique, essential, and relevant. He urges you to be intentional in your actions and choices, instead of simply reacting to your environment. Do not rely on willpower alone, as it is unreliable and fleeting. Instead, he suggests developing the discipline to stop multitasking, which can increase cognitive and mental efficiency by as much as 40%.  Learn to unclutter your mind by identifying and addressing the thoughts, guilt, grudges, and negative self-talk that you may carry. Clean up one's social circle, only surrounding oneself with people who value and respect you. Pick your battles and do not react to every offense. It is important to be in control of oneself and not allow others to determine one's actions. Dr. Phil concludes by encouraging you to find your passion and purpose in life, as this is key to discovering fulfillment and living a meaningful life. Episodes drop Tuesdays. Listen and subscribe! https://www.drphilintheblanks.com/ Advertise with us! https://www.advertisecast.com/PhilintheBlanks  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this podcast episode, Dr. Phil McGraw discusses the importance of recognizing and removing toxic people from your life. Your uniqueness in relationships and situations is brilliant. Do not define yourself by toxic individuals. Dr. Phil shares a personal story about how he ended up on Oprah's television show and highlights the importance of making a difference in people's lives.  Learn about intentions and what sets you apart from others and makes you essential. Have a defined image, set boundaries, and plan to achieve success. Be willing to stretch yourself, and keep your options open. Dr. Phil encourages you to claim your right to rid yourself of toxic people and reassures you that you deserve to be surrounded by supportive individuals. New episodes drop Tuesdays. Listen and subscribe! https://www.drphilintheblanks.com/ Advertise with us! https://www.advertisecast.com/PhilintheBlanks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr. Phil explains how life is managed, not cured, and individuals have the power to manage their own lives as the "life manager." Dr. Phil encourages listeners to identify toxic people in their lives, whether it be someone they wish wasn't there or someone who may possess toxic characteristics themselves. He provides strategies for spotting red flags and setting boundaries. He introduces the concept of "B.A.I.T.E.R's," which are people with negative traits such as backstabbing, abusing, and exploiting others.  Learn how to give yourself permission to eliminate toxic people from your life, define your own image and star in your own life. He also addresses questions from the audience regarding relationships with bipolar and borderline personality disordered individuals, as well as controlling explosive anger. Dr. Phil encourages you to share the series with others and continue your journey toward personal growth. New episodes drop Tuesdays. Listen and subscribe! https://www.drphilintheblanks.com/ Advertise with us! https://www.advertisecast.com/PhilintheBlanks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr. Phil McGraw discusses antisocial personality disorder, also known as psychopathy or sociopathy. He explains that individuals with this disorder display a pattern of disregarding or violating the rights of others, either by ignoring them or actively harming them. They do not conform to social norms and often lie or act impulsively. While they know right from wrong, they lack empathy and remorse, making them selfish and uncaring. Antisocial personality disorder is more common in men and is often under-diagnosed because those with the disorder do not seek treatment.  Dr. Phil emphasizes the importance of early intervention, provides a checklist to identify characteristics of antisocial personality disorder, and discusses the distinction between assertiveness and aggression. He dispels myths about the disorder. New episodes drop Tuesdays. Listen and subscribe! https://www.drphilintheblanks.com/ Advertise with us! https://www.advertisecast.com/PhilintheBlanks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr. Phil continues his discussion on borderline personality disorder (BPD). He emphasizes that BPD exists on a behavioral continuum and can be present to varying degrees.  Dr. Phil cautions against assuming that all individuals with BPD have experienced childhood abuse, as there are various factors that contribute to the disorder. He dispels the myths and misconceptions of this disorder including that BPD only affects women, noting that it is equally prevalent among men. Educate yourself and seek support if you are dealing with BPD in your own life or the lives of others. Discover your inner detective when you download June’s Journey for free today on iOS and Android. Keep Your Personal Info Private: Check out DeleteMe for 20% off all consumer plans- http://joindeleteme.com/PHIL and use CODE: PHIL For more information: Listen and subscribe here: http://drphilintheblanks.com Advertise with us: https://www.advertisecast.com/network/Stage29Productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr. Phil discusses borderline personality disorder and the impact it can have on people's lives. Labels are important for communication and understanding when it comes to therapy and treatment. Borderline personality disorder is characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability in interpersonal relationships, self-image, and emotions, as well as marked impulsivity. This isn't just someone having a bad day but a consistent pattern in their behavior.  Dr. Phil breaks down the nine characteristics of borderline personality disorder, including fear of abandonment, unstable relationships, identity disturbance, impulsivity, emotional instability, chronic feelings of emptiness, explosive anger, and dissociative symptoms. He offers insights and strategies for dealing with someone who has borderline personality disorder, emphasizing the importance of talking about what they deserve rather than what they need. He also addresses how BPD is “the most stigmatized disorder of all” and encourages people to seek help. Discover your inner detective when you download June’s Journey for free today on iOS and Android. Keep Your Personal Info Private: Check out DeleteMe for 20% off all consumer plans- http://joindeleteme.com/PHIL and use CODE: PHIL For more information: Listen and subscribe here: http://drphilintheblanks.com Advertise with us: https://www.advertisecast.com/network/Stage29Productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr. Phil continues his discussion about malignant narcissism, which combines narcissistic, Machiavellian, and psychopathic traits. Dr. Phi explains that malignant narcissists are dangerous and will use and abuse others for their own gain, and why you should get out of relationships with a malignant narcissist as swiftly and safely as possible. Also, learn about the communal narcissist, those who seek attention and validation by doing charitable acts or being overly helpful. Learn why it’s important to set boundaries with a communal narcissist and why you need to focus on yourself – not them. Keep Your Personal Info Private: Check out DeleteMe for 20% off all consumer plans- http://joindeleteme.com/PHIL and use CODE: PHIL For more information: Listen and subscribe here: http://drphilintheblanks.com Advertise with us: https://www.advertisecast.com/network/Stage29Productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr. Phil discusses the philosophy and characteristics of malignant narcissists, individuals who believe that the world is out to get them and that they must get others first. Malignant narcissists prioritize their personal pleasure over the safety and well-being of others, have a lack of empathy and conscience, are highly manipulative, exploitative, and vengeful, and they constantly seek power and dominance over others. Dr. Phil also explains the traits and behaviors of psychopaths, who often display similar characteristics to malignant narcissists. Learn why it’s important to recognize and avoid these individuals.   Keep Your Personal Info Private: Check out DeleteMe for 20% off all consumer plans- http://joindeleteme.com/PHIL and use CODE: PHIL For more information: Listen and subscribe here: http://drphilintheblanks.com Advertise with us: https://www.advertisecast.com/network/Stage29Productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr. Phil continues discussing narcissism and focuses on covert narcissism, which is more subtle than classic narcissism. Narcissists have a false sense of superiority and lack empathy. Covert narcissists have the same traits as classic narcissists but express them in more subtle ways. They manipulate and gaslight their partners, and are judgmental, and envious. Dr. Phil emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and not trying to fix narcissists. Keep Your Personal Info Private: Check out DeleteMe for 20% off all consumer plans- http://joindeleteme.com/PHIL and use CODE: PHIL For more information: Listen and subscribe here: http://drphilintheblanks.com Advertise with us: https://www.advertisecast.com/network/Stage29Productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The term 'narcissist' is having a moment right now- but is the word being overused? It's important to know exactly who and what you are dealing with. An accurate, clear understanding of narcissistic behavior is essential to living with this condition. Dr. Phil discusses narcissistic personality disorder and how to deal with individuals who exhibit this behavior. Narcissists have a pattern of grandiosity, lack empathy, and see themselves as superior. They can be difficult to confront since they manipulate and gaslight others. Dealing with narcissists involves setting boundaries and recognizing their behavior. Dr. Phil emphasizes the importance of protecting oneself, having a support system, and being aware of narcissistic behavior to prevent exploitation. Thank You To Our Sponsor: CastleFlexx.com: Code: Phil10 for 10% off For more information: Listen and subscribe here: http://drphilintheblanks.com Advertise with us: https://www.advertisecast.com/network/Stage29Productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Now is the time to perform an autopsy of your life. In the final episode of the "Living By Design" series, Dr. Phil guides you through implementing the steps you need to fulfill your life's journey. It's never too late to start! Thank You To Our Sponsor: CastleFlexx.com: Code: Phil10 for 10% off For more information: Listen and subscribe here: http://drphilintheblanks.com Advertise with us: https://www.advertisecast.com/network/Stage29Productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Work on your playbook for life. In Living By Design, Part 9 of the Phil in the Blanks podcast, Dr. Phil explains why you should only deal with the truth. And, find out how to use the ego and greed of others to create your path to success. Thank You To Our Sponsor: CastleFlexx.com: Code: Phil10 for 10% off For more information: Listen and subscribe here: http://drphilintheblanks.com Advertise with us: https://www.advertisecast.com/network/Stage29Productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Do you believe in yourself enough to reach for what you want? In Living By Design, Part 8 of the Phil in the Blanks podcast, Dr. Phil explains how you can master the system and make it work for you! New episodes of Phil in the Blanks drop Tuesdays. Listen and subscribe today. Thank You To Our Sponsor: CastleFlexx.com: Code: Phil10 for 10% off For more information: Listen and subscribe here: http://drphilintheblanks.com Advertise with us: https://www.advertisecast.com/network/Stage29Productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices