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1094 - Codi Rae is a Hotwife

1094 - Codi Rae is a Hotwife

Update: 2025-04-21
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This podcast features Cody Ray, a "hot wife," discussing her experiences in a non-monogamous relationship. She details her transition into the lifestyle, starting with her husband's past experience with swinging and their collaborative decision to explore a "hot wife" dynamic focused on her pleasure. The podcast covers her first threesome, the initial awkwardness, and her surprising first squirting experience. Cody explains their methods for finding partners (adult friend finder, Reddit, FetLife), their vetting process (STI tests and recent photos), and their preferences. She discusses her evolution into a size queen and her use of OnlyFans to share her experiences, highlighting the collaborative nature of their content creation. Further adventures include a glory hole experience (18 encounters) and a hotel takeover. Cody emphasizes the importance of finding friends within the lifestyle for support and shared experiences, and the positive impact on her relationship. The podcast also touches upon the transformative power of open marriage, improved communication, trust, and intimacy, and overcoming societal taboos surrounding open communication about sex and desires. Finally, Cody announces her new book, "Strictly Anonymous Confessions," and offers free Discord access to those who pre-order.

Outlines

00:01:58
Introduction to the Hot Wife Lifestyle and Cody Ray's Journey

Introduction to the podcast and Cody Ray, who shares her experiences as a hot wife, focusing on her journey into the lifestyle and her current relationship status.

00:07:54
Early Experiences and Partner Selection

Cody describes her first threesome, initial reactions, and the methods used to find and vet partners, including using platforms like Adult Friend Finder, Reddit, and FetLife.

00:34:44
Size Queen, OnlyFans, and Content Creation

Cody's transition to becoming a size queen, her use of OnlyFans, and the collaborative nature of her and her husband's content creation are discussed.

00:52:19
Extreme Experiences and the Importance of Community

Cody recounts her experiences at a glory hole and a hotel takeover, highlighting the excitement and challenges, and emphasizes the importance of finding friends within the lifestyle for support.

00:58:51
The Transformative Power of Open Marriage and Relationship Dynamics

Cody discusses the positive impact of open marriage on her relationship, focusing on improved communication, trust, and intimacy.

01:08:31
Coco Ray's Book and Community Engagement

Announcement of Coco Ray's new book, "Strictly Anonymous Confessions," and details on accessing the free Discord community for pre-order customers.

Keywords

Hot Wife


A woman in a relationship where her husband enjoys her having sexual encounters with other men, focusing on her pleasure.

Compersion


The feeling of joy or pleasure derived from a partner's sexual or romantic experiences with others.

Swinging


A form of non-monogamous relationship where partners engage in sexual activity with other couples.

Open Marriage


A marital arrangement where partners agree to engage in sexual or romantic relationships with others.

OnlyFans


A subscription-based platform for creators to share exclusive content, often adult in nature.

FetLife


A social networking site for people interested in BDSM, fetish, and kink communities.

Glory Hole


A small opening allowing anonymous sexual encounters.

Hotel Takeover


A large-scale event where couples and individuals gather at a hotel for group sexual activities.

Sexual Communication


Open and honest discussion about sexual desires, fantasies, and experiences.

Vulnerability in Relationships


Willingness to be open and honest about one's feelings, fears, and desires.

Q&A

  • What initially attracted Cody to the "hot wife" lifestyle?

    Her husband's open communication and focus on her pleasure.

  • How has the "hot wife" lifestyle impacted Cody and her husband's relationship?

    It has strengthened their bond through increased communication, trust, and shared experiences.

  • What safety measures does Cody take?

    Rigorous vetting process including STI tests and recent photos from potential partners.

  • What are some of Cody's favorite aspects and challenges of the lifestyle?

    She enjoys the excitement and compersion; challenges include finding reliable partners and post-neclarity feelings.

  • How has Cody's OnlyFans impacted her life and relationship?

    It's a significant income source and a collaborative effort strengthening their bond.

  • How has opening their marriage improved their relationship?

    It improved communication, trust, and vulnerability, leading to increased intimacy.

  • What are some common misconceptions about open marriages?

    Many believe they automatically lead to relationship destruction.

  • What kind of content is on Coco Ray's OnlyFans?

    Pictures and videos, including some mildly explicit content and full frontal nudity.

  • How can listeners access Coco Ray's book and Discord community?

    Pre-order the book and send a receipt to the specified email for free Discord access.

Show Notes

Cody Rae is a hotwife and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when her and her husband decided to get into hotwifing, how and why full swinging wasn’t an option for her even though she was a swinger previously, how they’re started having threesomes with men and what was in it for her in the beginning, how her husband feels about him not being able to hook up with women, where they started looking at first for guys, their first experience with another guy, why she chose him and exactly what went down with the three of them, how she squirted for the first time during that first threesome, how and why the reclaiming sex the first time up until now is still the best sex for her, how she felt after her first experience and how she worked through it all, the websites they use now to meet guys and how their process has evolved over time, how she became a size queen and asks for dick pic right away as well as STI test and face pics, the type of guys she likes and the ones she doesn’t like, her first dvp she had recently had and exactly what went down, how her husband loves sloppy seconds, how and why they’ve always taken pics and videos of all their hook ups, how she sometimes plays solo but will on give a blowjob and where that typically go down, how and why her neighbor knows about what her and her husband are up to, how they outed themselves to everyone else in their town, why she recently started an Onlyfans, the 18 guys gloryhole experience she had recently and what went down, the hotel take over they went to afterwards and what went down there, how opening up their marriage has changed their relationship and what it has added plus a whole lot more. 


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1094 - Codi Rae is a Hotwife

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