1148 - Scott is a Queer, Poly Dom who is into BDSM
1148 - Scott is a Queer, Poly Dom who is into BDSMDigest
This podcast features an interview with Scott, a 38-year-old queer, polyamorous man who practices BDSM. He discusses his journey to self-discovery, including his coming out and early sexual experiences. Scott details his understanding of polyamory versus ethical non-monogamy, explaining the nuances of his open relationship and how he and his partner navigate jealousy through open communication and understanding their emotional needs. He describes his BDSM practices, emphasizing the importance of consent and safe words, and differentiates between "dom/sub" as relationship types and "top/bottom" as situational roles. Scott offers valuable advice for those new to BDSM and polyamory, stressing the importance of workshops, communication, and consent. The podcast concludes with a promotion of Kathy's book, "Strictly Anonymous Confessions," and provides contact information for anonymous picture submissions via email.
Outlines
Introduction, Scott's Introduction & Polyamory/BDSM Journey
Introduction to the podcast, advertisements, and introduction of Scott, a 38-year-old queer, polyamorous BDSM enthusiast. Discussion covers his sexual orientation, early experiences, coming out, and understanding of polyamory and ethical non-monogamy.
BDSM Practices, Power Dynamics & Open Relationships
Details on Scott's BDSM practices, his dominant role, preferences, and experiences with pain and pleasure. He explains the difference between "dom/sub" and "top/bottom" roles. Discussion includes navigating jealousy and the structure of his open relationship.
Advice for Newcomers & Podcast Conclusion
Advice for those new to BDSM and polyamory, emphasizing workshops, communication, consent, and safe words. Podcast wrap-up, book promotion ("Strictly Anonymous Confessions"), and information on anonymous picture submissions via email (strictly anonymous podcast@gmail.com).
Keywords
Polyamory
A relationship style where individuals have consensual romantic relationships with multiple partners.
BDSM
Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism; encompasses a wide range of sexual practices involving power dynamics, consensual pain or pleasure.
Ethical Non-Monogamy
Consensual non-monogamous relationships prioritizing open communication, honesty, and respect.
Consent
Voluntary agreement to engage in sexual activity; crucial in BDSM and all relationships.
Queer
An umbrella term encompassing individuals who identify outside of traditional heterosexual and cisgender norms.
Open Relationships
Relationships where partners agree to have romantic or sexual relationships with others.
Jealousy
An emotion arising from concerns about a partner's relationships with others.
Dominant/Submissive
Roles within BDSM; "Dom" enjoys control, "sub" enjoys surrendering control.
Safe Words
Words or phrases used in BDSM to signal a need to stop or change an activity.
Anonymous Submission
Submitting content without revealing one's identity.
Q&A
What is the difference between polyamory and ethical non-monogamy, according to Scott?
Scott distinguishes polyamory as involving multiple full-fledged relationships with emotional intimacy, while ethical non-monogamy focuses on consensual relationships with multiple partners, prioritizing open communication and respect for boundaries.
How does Scott navigate jealousy in his open relationship?
Scott and his partner use open communication and a nuanced understanding of their feelings to address jealousy.
What advice does Scott offer to newcomers to BDSM?
Scott recommends workshops, practicing communication (especially saying "no"), and understanding consent and safety.
How can listeners submit pictures anonymously to the podcast?
Listeners can email their pictures to strictly anonymous podcast@gmail.com.
What is the purpose of providing an anonymous submission method?
To encourage listeners to share content they might otherwise hesitate to submit due to privacy concerns.
Show Notes
Scott is a queer poly dom into bdsm and he called to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he realized he was queer and what that means for him, the open community he grew up around and how that shaped him when he was younger, his first open relationship he had in high school and how that was set up, how old he was when he lost virginity to guy and how old he was when he lost it to a woman, how he has always knew he was a dom both in and out of the bedroom, what inflicting pain on others does for him, how he met his current girlfriend and the type of pain she enjoys, how and why he felt uncomfortable about inflicting it on her in the beginning and how he got past it, how and why they define their relationship as top and bottom vs. dom and sub, the relationships both of them have outside of each other, how jealousy is normal in poly relationships and how they deal with it when it comes up in their relationships, how and why he recommends going to bdsm and kink workshops and where you can find them plus a whole lot more.
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