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119. “He’s not ready for marriage. So why did we buy a house together?”

119. “He’s not ready for marriage. So why did we buy a house together?”

Update: 2023-08-29

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Candace and Brad are 31 and 33. They’ve been together for five years—buying a home together after just one year of dating. Candace is ready for a wedding, kids, and family life; she’s getting impatient. Make sure you stick around for the absolutely shocking ending to their story.

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119. “He’s not ready for marriage. So why did we buy a house together?”

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