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29. The Problem with the 'Let Them' Theory & Why Overly Simplistic Advice Fails Us

29. The Problem with the 'Let Them' Theory & Why Overly Simplistic Advice Fails Us

Update: 2025-03-051
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Tired of oversimplified self help advice? US TOO! Today we are diving into our controversial take on why we don't like the "Let Them" theory by Mel Robbins.

Listen to hear...

- The problematic oversimplification in viral mental health theories

- Why the original "Let Them" poem by Cassie Phillips carries more depth and nuance

- The problem with shame-based approaches to personal development

- The difference between temporary inspiration and lasting transformation

- The inherent privilege in telling someone to "just let them"

- What we actually recommend INSTEAD

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29. The Problem with the 'Let Them' Theory & Why Overly Simplistic Advice Fails Us

29. The Problem with the 'Let Them' Theory & Why Overly Simplistic Advice Fails Us

Amanda E. White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW