Etiquette, by Emily Post, Part 7
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The "Boring Books for Bedtime" podcast begins with an introduction and thanks its Patreon supporters, highlighting the benefits of membership. The main focus is on excerpts from Emily Post's *Etiquette*, specifically chapters 11 and 12. Chapter 11 details the nuances of formal and informal invitations, including proper wording, response methods (RSVP), and etiquette for accepting or declining. Chapter 12 (excerpt) emphasizes the importance of a well-managed and aesthetically pleasing household, covering aspects of interior design, the role of servants, and the importance of treating domestic staff with respect and dignity. The episode highlights the differences between formal and informal communication styles and offers insights into maintaining a well-appointed home reflecting good taste and order.
Outlines
Introduction and Etiquette Chapters 11 & 12
This podcast episode introduces "Boring Books for Bedtime" and its Patreon supporters before delving into Emily Post's *Etiquette*. Chapters 11 and 12 are discussed, covering formal and informal invitations, proper responses (RSVP), household management, the importance of a well-appointed home, and the respectful treatment of domestic staff.
Keywords
Etiquette
The customary code of polite behavior in society, encompassing social graces, manners, and appropriate conduct.
Formal Invitations
Invitations characterized by engraved stationery, specific wording, and adherence to traditional protocols.
Domestic Service
Employment in a private household, encompassing roles like cooks, butlers, and maids.
Household Management
The art of running a household efficiently and effectively, including managing staff and maintaining decorum.
RSVP
A French abbreviation meaning "Respond, if you please," used to request a response to an invitation.
Emily Post
Author of the etiquette guidebook, *Etiquette*, offering guidance on social graces and proper conduct.
Informal Invitations
Less formal invitations, often handwritten or typed, with less rigid structure and language.
Home Furnishings
The selection and arrangement of furniture and decor in a home, reflecting personal style and taste.
Q&A
What are the key differences between formal and informal invitations according to Emily Post?
Formal invitations are engraved, use specific wording, and follow strict protocols, while informal invitations are often handwritten or typed and less rigid.
How does Emily Post advise responding to invitations?
Responses should be prompt and polite, whether written or by telephone. Formal responses are written, while informal ones may be by phone, following a polite format.
What is Emily Post's perspective on the role of servants in a well-run household?
Post emphasizes respectful treatment of servants and highlights the dignity of domestic work.
What are some key elements of good taste in home furnishings, according to Emily Post?
Post advocates for suitability, proportion, and enduring style, emphasizing beauty, usefulness, and appropriateness, avoiding clutter and sentimentality.
Show Notes
Let's continue with more of the finer arts of behavior as we conclude our instruction in the etiquette of invitations, consider the well-appointed house, and are reminded that looking down on the serving class is inexcusably ill-bred. Well said, Mrs. Post!
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