Glennon Doyle on How to Be Broken
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This podcast episode features an interview with Glennon Doyle, author of "The Other Side of Change," discussing her life experiences and journey towards self-acceptance. It begins with an introduction and book announcement. Doyle shares her childhood struggles with intense self-consciousness and the development of bulimia as a coping mechanism. She details the roots of her fear of self-exposure, stemming from a rigid upbringing. A pivotal moment in high school led her to seek help and be admitted to a mental institution, an experience she describes as surprisingly beneficial for genuine human connection and emotional processing. The podcast explores the unexpected comfort she found in vulnerability and authentic connection within the institution. Doyle reflects on finding solace and authenticity through writing, contrasting it with the challenges of public life and her struggles with addiction and recovery. The conversation delves into the theme of belonging and identity, particularly how her identity evolved through motherhood and the end of her marriage. She shares the story of meeting Abby, her current partner, and the profound shift in her identity this relationship brought. The episode concludes with a reflection on her continuous journey of self-discovery and acceptance, emphasizing that self-acceptance is an ongoing process, not a destination.
Outlines
Introduction, Book Announcement & Early Life Struggles
The episode introduces Glennon Doyle's new book, "The Other Side of Change," and details her early life struggles with self-consciousness and the development of bulimia as a coping mechanism.
Fear of Self-Exposure & Institutionalization
Glennon discusses the roots of her fear of self-exposure, linked to a controlling upbringing, and her transformative experience in a mental institution where she found unexpected comfort and connection.
Finding Solace in Vulnerability & Writing
Glennon describes finding comfort in vulnerability and authenticity through writing, contrasting it with the challenges of maintaining authenticity in public life, and discusses her struggles with addiction and recovery.
Identity, Change & Meeting Abby
The episode explores Glennon's evolving identity through life changes, including motherhood and the end of her marriage, and the profound impact of meeting Abby, her current partner.
Embracing the Ongoing Journey of Self-Discovery
The podcast concludes with a reflection on Glennon's continuous journey of self-discovery and acceptance, emphasizing that there is no final destination but rather a continuous process of growth and learning.
Keywords
Bulimia Nervosa
An eating disorder characterized by cycles of binge eating followed by compensatory behaviors.
Self-Exposure
Revealing one's true self, vulnerabilities, and emotions to others.
Identity Crisis
A period of uncertainty and confusion about one's sense of self.
Resilient Identity
A sense of self that withstands challenges and change.
Authenticity
The quality of being genuine and true to oneself.
Trauma Processing
Working through the emotional and psychological impact of trauma.
Vulnerability
A willingness to be open and honest about one's feelings and experiences.
Self-Acceptance
Accepting oneself completely, flaws and all.
Glennon Doyle
Author of "The Other Side of Change" and subject of this podcast interview.
Mental Health
Overall well-being related to psychological and emotional state.
Q&A
What was the most significant turning point in Glennon's journey towards self-acceptance?
The decision to seek help in high school and her subsequent experience in the mental institution were transformative, allowing her to connect authentically with others and begin processing her trauma.
How did Glennon find solace and authenticity in writing?
Writing provided a space for honest self-expression without immediate judgment, fostering self-acceptance.
How did Glennon's relationship with Abby impact her sense of self?
Meeting Abby led to a profound shift in Glennon's understanding of herself and her capacity for love, prioritizing authenticity and self-acceptance.
What advice does Glennon offer to listeners struggling with similar challenges?
Glennon encourages listeners to embrace the ongoing journey of self-discovery, focusing on intrinsic values and finding connection with others.
Show Notes
For as long as writer Glennon Doyle can remember, she’s felt that something inside her was broken. 'Who am I really? What am I meant to do? And why does it feel so bad to be in this body?' These are the messy questions that Glennon has been grappling with for years. On today’s episode, Glennon, who hosts the wildly popular podcast We Can Do Hard Things, details her perpetual search for belonging, and shares the wisdom she's gained along the way.
Glennon’s new book, also called We Can Do Hard Things, is out now.
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