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It’s Not You, It’s the Alcohol with Mary Alice Stephens

It’s Not You, It’s the Alcohol with Mary Alice Stephens

Update: 2025-12-01
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Giving up alcohol originally felt to Mary Alice Stephens like leaving so many things behind - ‘Fun Mary’, date nights with her husband, friendships that centered around wine, and a father who expressed his love through alcohol. Now fourteen years sober, Mary Alice can look back and confidently say that the leap was so worth facing her fears. 


Mary is the author of the new book Uncorked: A Memoir of Letting Go and Starting Over. In the book and in our conversation she shares the wisdom she has gleaned from almost a decade and a half of sobriety, the things she still reaches for in her sobriety toolkit to stay confidently sober in her current life, and wonderful advice on how to navigate your first sober holiday season.


The biggest lightbulb moment for Mary was the realization that her behavior wasn’t ‘her’. It was the alcohol. Placing the blame squarely where it deserved to be gave Mary the freedom to make a different choice, and she is not looking back! 


Connect with Mary Alice and get a copy of her new book Uncorked at www.maryalicestephens.com


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It’s Not You, It’s the Alcohol with Mary Alice Stephens

It’s Not You, It’s the Alcohol with Mary Alice Stephens