Life Lessons from a Sports Industry Titan (ft. Scott O’Neil, Former CEO, Philadelphia 76ers & New Jersey Devils + Former President, Madison Square Garden)
Life Lessons from a Sports Industry Titan (ft. Scott O’Neil)
Learning priceless lessons from a master of leadership and team building
“Learn to be effective versus right. That’s the big takeaway in life, in relationships, in parenting, and management and leadership. I have a strong voice, and I come on sometimes like a freight train, and there were some things that I disagreed with, and it didn’t matter. All I had to do was be more effective.” —Scott O’Neil
With more than 20 years of experience in the NBA, NHL, and NFL, Scott O’Neil has earned a reputation as a leader of leaders. Formerly serving as CEO of the Philadelphia 76ers and New Jersey Devils, he’s also been president of Madison Square Garden and senior vice president at the NBA league office. He has made countless 40 under 40 lists, including Adweek and Sporting News, while also being tabbed as one of the most influential people, innovative executives, and admired CEOs in America, leading to appearances on CNN, CNBC, Fox Business, and even co-hosting multiple shows on Bloomberg Television. He has a passion for company culture like none other, and genuinely puts people first as he inspires teams to live, work, play, and win.
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CORE TOPICS + DETAILS:
[7:43 ] Off the Track and Into the Sand
How we react when we fall off the path is everything
There are two ways to react when we’re stuck in life. Shove, push, heave, and grunt, or simply ask the people around us to lift us up and put us back on the path. One might make us feel strong and independent, but the other will actually get us somewhere.
[10:09 ] Fix Your Scaffolding
Want to serve the world? Start with a strong foundation.
Serving the people around us is like standing on a scaffolding to complete a project. If our own scaffolding is shaky, we can’t be as effective. Sometimes we have to take the time to improve ourselves before we can truly serve others.
[16:49 ] Soul, Mind, and Body
Achieving balance in day-to-day life
Scott advocates for doing something for your mind, body, and soul every day. Practice gratitude. Put your phone down. Get out and exercise. The foundation of a full and fulfilling life lies in these simple building blocks.
[21:17 ] The Platinum Rule
Leveling up the Golden Rule
Instead of treating others how you want to be treated, treat them how they want to be treated. Everyone is different, and this individual care is how we get from just equality to true equity.
[25:43 ] Are You Listening or Solving?
Sometimes listening is enough
When someone comes to you with their problems, your first question for yourself should be, “Am I listening or solving?” Our instinct is often to immediately try to solve someone’s problems. But usually what they really need is simply someone to listen, to hear them out. That alone can go a long way.
[40:45 ] Be Effective Versus Right
The difference can change your life
Do you want to be the person patting yourself on the back and saying, “I was right about the Titanic,” as it sinks to the bottom of the ocean? Or do you want to put aside what you think and get to work fixing things?
- [0:35 ] The Power of Playing Offense
- [15:58 ] Be Where Your Feet Are, by Scott O’Neill
- [32:34 ] The Ride of a Lifetime, by Bob Iger
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