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Marine’s Negligent Trigger Pull Took His Best Friend Right in Front of Him

Marine’s Negligent Trigger Pull Took His Best Friend Right in Front of Him

Update: 2025-11-24
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They said he’d fail. His best friend was shot and killed. Now he’s a White House officer.

Lieutenant Commander Alvaro Ramos didn’t take the easy path. He grew up with a tin roof over his head, sleeping on floors in Guam. He joined the Navy to escape poverty — and then watched his best friend, a fellow corpsman, get killed by a negligent Marine on deployment.

That moment could have broken him. Instead, it built him.

Alvaro went on to serve 23 years in the United States Navy, earned his commission, became a Physician Assistant, and rose to serve inside the White House Medical Unit under Presidents Trump and Biden.

In this episode of Urban Valor, Alvaro opens up about:
- The fatal moment that changed his life forever
- Getting told “I hope you fail” by a senior chief
- Why he almost quit the Navy
- The identity crisis of becoming an officer
- And how Special Boat Team 22 finally made him feel like he mattered

If you’ve ever been underestimated, doubted, or knocked down — this is your reminder to get back up.

👉 Watch the full story of Alvaro Ramos now.

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Video chapters: 
0:00 – “I Hope You Fail” — The Moment That Changed Everything
1:10 – From the Philippines to Guam: Childhood in Poverty
3:50 – Why He Joined the Navy Instead of College
6:10 – Boot Camp Culture Shock
9:00 – 9/11: The Day Everything Changed
11:45 – Deployment Confusion and a Heartbreaking Mistake
15:00 – The Day Moreno Died
17:30 – The Words That Haunted Him in College
20:00 – From Corpsman to Officer: Fighting Imposter Syndrome
24:00 – Special Boat Team 22: Finally Feeling Valued
27:00 – The Jeep. The Seal. The CEO.
30:00 – That Random Course at Walter Reed
31:30 – The Call From the White House
33:00 – What It Really Means to Lead

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Marine’s Negligent Trigger Pull Took His Best Friend Right in Front of Him

Marine’s Negligent Trigger Pull Took His Best Friend Right in Front of Him

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