Patricia Jane Wagner
Digest
The podcast delves into the disappearance of Patricia Wagner, a devoted mother of two young boys, who vanished in 1972 after going on a date with her boyfriend, Dennis. Her cousin, Eileen, who was born a month after Patti disappeared, has dedicated her life to finding out what happened to her missing cousin. The podcast explores Patti's life, revealing her as a single mother who adored her sons and was dating Dennis, a lifelong friend of the Wagner family. However, before Dennis, Patti had a boyfriend named Andy, who was abusive towards her and attempted to kill her several nights before she went missing. This incident, witnessed by Patti's son Kenny, raises suspicions about Andy's potential involvement in her disappearance. The podcast also highlights the lack of cooperation from Dennis' family, who have refused to provide any information or assistance in the search for him and Patti. This lack of cooperation, coupled with the police's initial dismissal of Patti's disappearance as a couple running away together, has been a major obstacle in finding answers. The podcast explores various theories about what happened to Patti and Dennis, including foul play, an accident, and the possibility that they ran away together. However, without more information, the circumstances surrounding their disappearance remain a mystery. The podcast concludes with a call for information, urging listeners to share Patti's story and contact the New Jersey State Police Missing Persons Unit with any information that could help solve the mystery of what happened to Patti and Dennis.
Outlines
The Disappearance of Patricia Wagner
The podcast introduces the case of Patricia Wagner, a missing person story with a twist. Patti, a devoted mother of two young boys, disappeared in 1972 after going on a date with her boyfriend, Dennis. Her family, particularly her cousin Eileen, has been searching for her ever since.
Eileen's Search for Patti
Eileen, Patti's cousin, was born a month after Patti vanished and never met her. However, she grew up hearing stories about Patti and felt a strong connection to her. Eileen's mission is to find out what happened to her missing cousin.
Patti's Life and Relationships
The podcast delves into Patti's life, revealing her as a single mother who adored her sons. She was close to her mother, Marie, who raised her three children alone. Patti was also dating a man named Dennis, but before that, she had a boyfriend named Andy, who was a father figure to her sons.
Andy's Abusive Behavior and Suspicions
The podcast reveals that Andy, Patti's former boyfriend, was abusive towards her. He attempted to kill her several nights before she went missing, and her son Kenny witnessed the incident. Andy's temper and the incident with Patti raise suspicions about his potential involvement in her disappearance.
Madison's Involvement and Andy's Past
Madison, an advocate for missing persons, joins Eileen in the search for Patti. She digs deeper into the case and discovers more information about Andy, including his past as a dump truck driver and his aggressive nature.
Dennis' Relationship with Patti and the Wagner Family
The podcast explores Patti's relationship with Dennis, a lifelong friend of the Wagner family. Dennis was previously with Patti's sister and had children with her. The family believes that Patti and Dennis were happy together, but Dennis' family has been uncooperative in the search for him and Patti.
The Night of the Disappearance
The podcast recounts the night Patti and Dennis went missing. They told their families they were going to a coffee shop, but no one knows for sure where they went. Patti's son Kenny remembers waking up in the middle of the night to a scream, which adds to the mystery surrounding their disappearance.
The Police Response and Lack of Investigation
The police initially dismissed Patti's disappearance as a couple running away together. They refused to take a missing person report for Dennis, and the family received little to no support from law enforcement. This lack of investigation has been a major obstacle in finding Patti and Dennis.
Keywords
Cold Case
A criminal investigation that has been inactive for a significant period due to a lack of leads or evidence. Cold cases often remain unsolved for years or even decades.
Missing Person
An individual whose whereabouts are unknown and whose disappearance is considered suspicious or unexplained. Missing person cases often involve investigations by law enforcement agencies to locate the missing individual.
Foul Play
A term used to describe a situation where a person's disappearance or death is believed to be the result of a criminal act, such as murder or kidnapping. Foul play often involves an element of violence or intent to harm.
Domestic Violence
A pattern of abusive behavior in an intimate relationship, including physical, emotional, sexual, or financial abuse. Domestic violence can have serious consequences for victims, including physical injury, psychological trauma, and even death.
Unsolved Mystery
An event or situation that has not been fully explained or understood. Unsolved mysteries often involve a lack of evidence or conflicting accounts, leaving the public to speculate about the truth.
Family Secrets
Information or events that are kept hidden within a family, often due to shame, guilt, or fear of consequences. Family secrets can have a significant impact on relationships and can be difficult to uncover.
Lack of Cooperation
A situation where individuals involved in a case or investigation refuse to provide information or assistance to law enforcement or investigators. Lack of cooperation can hinder the progress of an investigation and make it difficult to find answers.
Missing Person Advocacy
Individuals or organizations that work to support and advocate for missing persons and their families. Missing person advocates often provide resources, support, and guidance to families during the search for their loved ones.
Social Media Investigation
The use of social media platforms to gather information, share leads, and connect with individuals who may have information about a missing person case. Social media can be a valuable tool for investigators and families in their search for answers.
Q&A
What happened to Patricia Wagner and her boyfriend, Dennis, on the night of October 20th, 1972?
The podcast explores various theories, including foul play, an accident, and the possibility that they ran away together. However, without more information, the circumstances surrounding their disappearance remain a mystery.
Why has Dennis' family been so reluctant to cooperate in the search for him and Patti?
The podcast suggests that Dennis' family may have dismissed him early on due to his relationship with Patti's sister and his lifestyle. They have refused to provide DNA or any information, making it difficult to uncover the truth.
What role did Andy, Patti's former boyfriend, play in her disappearance?
Andy's abusive behavior towards Patti, including his attempt to kill her, raises suspicions about his potential involvement in her disappearance. However, without more evidence, he remains a theory.
How has the lack of cooperation from law enforcement impacted the search for Patti and Dennis?
The police initially dismissed Patti's disappearance as a couple running away together and have provided little to no support to the family. This lack of investigation has made it difficult to find answers and has been a major point of frustration for Eileen and Madison.
What can listeners do to help in the search for Patti and Dennis?
Listeners can help by sharing Patti's story on social media, contacting the New Jersey State Police Missing Persons Unit with any information, and following the efforts to find Patti on social media. Any piece of the puzzle could be helpful in solving this decades-old mystery.
Show Notes
On the night of October 20, 1972, 26-year-old Patricia Wagner left her Jersey City apartment for a coffee date with her new boyfriend, Dennis. Her mother, Marie, agreed to watch Patty's two young sons, Kenny and Michael, for a few hours. Before leaving, Patty's oldest son, Kenny, begged her not to go. He was overcome by a bad feeling about his mother going out that night, but he didn't know why. Patty reassured her young son that she would return later and headed out of her apartment for her date. That was the last known sighting of Patricia Wagner. Patty never came home, and her family never heard from her again. Although Patty's mother quickly jumped into action to report her daughter missing, Patty's case went ice cold. Decades later, a younger family member became determined to do what she could to find her long-lost cousin.
If you have any information about the disappearance of Patricia Jane Wagner, please contact the New Jersey State Police Missing Persons Unit at 609-882-2000.
You can follow the efforts to find Patty on social media at "Where Is Patricia Jane Wagner?" Be sure to follow Madison's page and Facebook group, "AVoice4TheLost."
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oh that's such bullshit, you can disappear without money. you don't need money to disappear. I can't tell you how many times my life was in danger and I had to disappear while I was homeless. Completely skipped out of the state. hitchhiking and hiking.
It is devastating to hear so many police officers, in so many of these cases, that have failed numerous families. I would be willing to bet that Andy killed both of them in a jealous rage, considering how violent he was. His attempted murder of her the week prior to her disappearance is telling. I don’t understand what’s wrong with Dennis‘s family unless they’re just defensive, thinking everybody thinks that Dennis killed her. it’s a shame that his family doesn’t care.
Charlieproject.org states the Dennis was violent! Isn’t this incorrect information??. It was Andy that had a tendency for violence not Dennis. The family might want to look at some of the sites and make sure the information is correct.