So is the reason our love lives are so f#*ked because of our...childhood? While we aren't blaming our parents, we are unpacking our childhood wounds with marriage and family therapist Vienna Pharaon. We discuss the five core wounds that many of us experienced, how these wounds may play into your experiences dating and with relationships, and ways you can heal your past so it doesn't define your future.

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