The Murder of Raymond McNeil

The Murder of Raymond McNeil

Update: 2022-12-134


This week we are discussing how Sally McNeil shot and killed her husband of eight years, Ray McNeil, on Valentine’s Day 1995. Sally claimed to have killed Ray in self-defense, citing years of abuse at the hands of Ray. But the prosecution painted a different picture, one where Sally killed Ray in a fit of jealous rage. 

Research by Haley Gray with Haley Gray Research. Research assistance by Anna Luria. 

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