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Why Most People Aren’t Attracted to What’s Good for Them, ft. Leading matchmaker

Why Most People Aren’t Attracted to What’s Good for Them, ft. Leading matchmaker

Update: 2026-01-16
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In this episode, Dr. Rena Malik, MD welcomes Dr. Frankie Bashan, a clinical psychologist, board-certified sex therapist, and matchmaker, to unpack the complexities of modern dating, attachment styles, and lasting love. Together, they explore psychological patterns that sabotage relationships, the impact of dating apps and unrealistic expectations, and how to navigate kinks, fantasies, and communication in intimate partnerships. Listeners will discover science-based insights and actionable advice for finding meaningful connections, improving their love lives, and embracing sexual exploration.




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▶️Chapters:


00:00:00 Introduction


00:02:42 Psychology meets matchmaking


00:06:15 Modern dating challenges


00:12:08 Masculinity, femininity & relationships


00:23:35 Sexual fluidity explained


00:27:52 Dating apps vs. real connections


00:40:27 Sex surrogates overview


00:51:40 Exploring non-monogamy trends


00:55:54 Navigating sexual kinks


01:05:04 Anal sex tips

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DISCLAIMER: This podcast is purely educational and does not constitute medical advice. The content of this podcast is my personal opinion, and not that of my employer(s). Use of this information is at your own risk. Rena Malik, M.D. will not assume any liability for any direct or indirect losses or damages that may result from the use of information contained in this podcast including but not limited to economic loss, injury, illness or death.

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Why Most People Aren’t Attracted to What’s Good for Them, ft. Leading matchmaker

Why Most People Aren’t Attracted to What’s Good for Them, ft. Leading matchmaker

Rena Malik, MD