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Wills & Won'ts Before Turning 50

Wills & Won'ts Before Turning 50

Update: 2025-04-011
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This podcast episode details Kim Holderness's "Year of Kim" project, a personal development journey leading up to her 50th birthday. She outlines five ambitious goals: improving cardiovascular health (including aiming to do a pull-up), performing 50 acts of kindness, reading 50 books, walking 1825 miles, and saying "yes" to more social events. The episode includes listener suggestions, such as exploring MDMA-assisted therapy, which Kim considers alongside more conventional approaches like yoga. Ben, Kim's husband, expresses concern about the significant time commitment required, highlighting the need to balance personal goals with family life. Kim acknowledges these challenges but remains committed to her ambitious plan, emphasizing self-compassion and progress over perfection. The podcast is interspersed with advertisements for Great Wolf Lodge.

Outlines

00:00:00
Introduction: Year of Kim Project Launch

The episode introduces Kim Holderness's "Year of Kim" project, a personal development initiative encompassing physical, mental, and social goals, interspersed with advertisements.

00:01:52
Goal Setting and Initial Challenges

Kim details her five main goals: cardiovascular health improvement, acts of kindness, reading, walking, and increased social engagement. She anticipates challenges and seeks listener input.

00:21:59
Listener Suggestions and Considerations

Kim discusses listener suggestions, including unconventional options like MDMA-assisted therapy, weighing the pros and cons of each suggestion.

00:30:52
Finalized Goals and Family Considerations

Kim finalizes her five goals, and Ben expresses concerns about the time commitment and its impact on family life.

00:42:55
Balancing Act and Conclusion

Kim and Ben discuss balancing personal goals with family life. Kim reiterates her commitment, acknowledging potential challenges, and the episode concludes with additional advertisements.

Keywords

Year of Kim Project


Kim Holderness's personal development project leading up to her 50th birthday, encompassing physical, mental, and social goals.

MDMA-Assisted Therapy


A therapeutic approach using MDMA (ecstasy) under medical supervision to treat PTSD and other conditions.

Cardiovascular Health


The health of one's cardiovascular system, a key goal in Kim's project.

Acts of Kindness


Intentional actions performed to benefit others.

Personal Growth


Self-improvement journey focusing on physical, mental, and social well-being.

Pull-up


A calisthenics exercise used as a fitness goal.

Self-Compassion


Kindness and understanding towards oneself.

Work-Life Balance


Balancing personal goals with family and other responsibilities.

Q&A

  • What are Kim's five main goals for her "Year of Kim" project?

    Kim aims to improve her cardiovascular health (including doing a pull-up), perform 50 acts of kindness, read 50 books, walk 1825 miles, and say "yes" to more social invitations.

  • What concerns does Ben express about Kim's project?

    Ben is concerned about the significant time commitment required to achieve all five goals, potentially impacting family time and other responsibilities.

  • What is MDMA-assisted therapy, and why is Kim considering it?

    MDMA-assisted therapy uses controlled doses of MDMA under medical supervision to help process trauma and improve mental well-being. Kim is considering it as a potential tool for personal growth.

  • How does Kim plan to stay accountable for her goals?

    Kim plans to use her blog, social media, and the podcast to document her progress and encourage listener participation, creating a sense of accountability.

  • What is Kim's overall approach to this project?

    Kim's approach is ambitious yet flexible. She aims to achieve her goals but understands that life may present unexpected challenges, and she's committed to self-compassion and progress, not perfection.

Show Notes

I’m at the point in my life when there is probably more behind me than in front of me. While my default setting seems to put me in a place of depression or anxiety - I’m bizarrely excited about whatever life I have ahead of me. So on this last year before I stand on the doorstep of my 50th birthday - I have a plan. I want to show up to 50 stronger, kinder, and with more joy. Listen on to hear about my 5 big goals.


Recommendations from the episode: Oura Ring

The 10 books I've already read this year:

  1. The God of the Woods - Liz Moore
  2. The Tell - Amy Griffin
  3. The Wedding People - Alison Espach
  4. The Family Dynamic - Susan Dominus
  5. The Women - Kristin Hannah
  6. Sandwich - Catherine Newman
  7. Margo’s Got Money Trouble - Rufi Thorpe
  8. The Artist’s Way (re-reading) - Julia Cameron
  9. The Three Lives of Cate Kay - Kate Fagan
  10. The Let Them Theory - Mel Robbins


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Kim and Penn are award-winning content creators known for their online videos, including original music, song parodies, and comedy sketches. Their videos have resulted in over 2 billion views and 9 million followers across their social media platforms since they (accidentally) went viral in 2013. They have a New York Times bestselling book on ADHD, best-selling book on marriage communication, a top-rated podcast, a fun-filled family card game, and most recently, they were the winners on Season 33 of The Amazing Race.


The Holderness Family Podcast is produced by Ann Marie Taepke and edited and engineered by Max Trujillo of Trujillo Media and Sam Allen.


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