Happy Friday nieces and nephews! Your favorite aunties
Bridget Kelly and
Mandii B are joined by author of “
A Walk Into The Dark & Cold” Tu’shouney for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. The three cover topics like, the limitations of love language theory and the importance of factoring in trauma, the 5 types of relationships within a marriage, learning how to allow space while still being present, Being intentionally patient, and the importance of asking/answering the hard questions while dating AKA Dating Backwards!. Timestamps:(
5:00 ) Learning how to compromise within a relationship: 1 partner wanting to celebrate a holiday that the other does not believe in {
20:00 ) The misuse/overuse of the love language theory:
- Does not consider/factor in experiences with trauma
- Can be weaponized as a tallying metric
- Whole love vs. Love vs. attachments
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30:00 ) Being HEALED isn’t REAL, you’re simply aware. Healing is an ongoing journey.(
38:00 ) Theory: MOST Men don’t like women and women don’t like men(
40:00 ) Why do men repel from “wholeness” (
50:00 ) Being Honest about Dishonesty doesn’t make betrayal okay:
KEVIN GATES CLIP (
1:00:00 ) 5 types of relationships within a marriage for the full relationship to thrive:
- The one with yourself
- Friendship with each other
- Romantic relationship with each other
- Sexual relationships with each other
- Martial relationship
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1:10:00 ) Dating backwards: within 1 conversation you can learn what it usually take 6 months to learn:
- List a few things you know that you need to work on
- List a few things that people have told you you need to work on
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1:15:00 ) Anything that separates you from love, is self harm: extreme detachment, isolation, etc. (
1:16:00 ) Freshly Squeezed:
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