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The SELFHEALERS SOUNDBOARD is a global, community-based healing experience created by Dr. Nicole LePera and Jenna Weakland. Each week, we host raw, unscripted, open conversations about the things we are REALLY dealing with on the journey of facing our pasts and becoming our best Selves. Together, as community, we create resonance with “strangers” around the world as we collectively witness our own triggers, habits, traumas, and inherent wisdom. This is, and always will be, an ad free experience. Subscribe to our SelfHealers Soundboard YouTube channel to view these weekly podcasts with video and connect with us. New episodes every Sunday at 12 PM PST.
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We all have a nervous system that is sending us endless signals and wisdom all day, every day. In this episode, you’ll learn how your conditioned nervous system impacts your view and experience of the external world around you.Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
Fear is a part of the human experience. We've been taught to fear making mistakes and that perfection is what's to be expected of us, so naturally, we will enter states of fear on a regular basis. In reality, fear is actually a sign we're growing. In this episode, we talk about how fear is an opportunity to become the best version of ourselves. We don't ever fail because in every experience we have we learn something new about ourselves or other people. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
We are creatures of habit. If we want to know who we truly are, we must first meet our habit Self. We all come from a unique set of circumstances, experiences, and environments as children that have created who we show up as in the world: a series of habitual thoughts, patterns, and autopilot reactions. In this episode, we talk about how to identify this habit Self and break out of that autopilot, becoming the conscious creator of your own life.  Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
Our intention is an energy focused on our purpose or goal, allowing us to bring forth that purpose or goal into reality. When we make intentions, we begin to become a conscious creator of our lived experiences, rather than a passive participant. In this episode, we talk about how to start setting an intention, how to follow through to witness your own power, and how to be kind to yourself through the entire process. This episode is a great way to start your new year (or new day!).Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
We all get emotional hangovers. Where we feel overwhelmed, exhausted, and like we want to run away and hide after we experience something highly vulnerable. In this episode, we talk about how to know when you're having one, and how to take care of yourself through it all. This is a must listen for the holidays!Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
 “FOMO” or fear of missing out is real. When we return to our bodies we can be more connected to doing things from a space of intentional choice rather than fear. In this episode, we break down how to make more intentional choices by listening to our bodies.Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
Spiritual bypassing is when we use spirituality to avoid our humanness. It’s a way to comfort ourselves, and it can also keep us from facing the reality of a situation. In this episode, we talk about how to stay grounded and connected to our humannessJoin the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
You might know rituals or traditions as something you did with family growing up. Or you may have rituals that you now do with your own family. It’s also important to have rituals with ourselves. Small acts that allow us to feel: grounded, safe, and connected to who we actually are. In this episode, we talk about how these rituals heal our inner child and how to create your own. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
Comparison is our natural human behavior. It’s how we make sense of our place in the world and determine if we can safely interact with people. It can become an issue when we chronically use comparison to get external validation. Or, to confirm core beliefs from childhood that we’re not good enough. In this episode, we talk about how to reframe comparisons and how to create a secure base within yourself so comparison isn’t your sole focus. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
In this episode, we talk about how to truly hold space (or be with another person's emotions) in a healthy way. We tend to try to “fix” or give unsolicited advice when we’re uncomfortable, which doesn’t help to create an emotional connection. You’ll learn how to make others feel heard and how to hold space for your own emotions.Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
This episode is a direct request from our podcast community. We talk about heartbreak, how it feels in the body, and how to heal from it. Heartbreak doesn’t just come from romantic relationships, it comes from many different situations in life that we break down in this episode.Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
We often use lying as a way to manage or control situations. We feel if we to tell the truth, we would be rejected or abandoned. It's important to reflect on why we are lying and learn how to speak our truth. This is how we have authentic, healthy relationships. In this episode, we dive deep into lying: understanding why people do it, and how we can stop this pattern.Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
Bullying doesn’t end in childhood. Many of us experience bullying as adults. In this episode, we discuss why people bully others, how to deal with it, & why bullying is a part of a bigger systemic issue.Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
Unaddressed anger can create resentment. When we feel resentment what we’re feeling is a need of ours that’s been ignored or a boundary that’s been violated. In this episode, we talk about the impact of holding on to resentment and how we can work through it.Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
This episode is by request by one of our listeners. Regret can take a heavy toll. We make choices and second guess ourselves, or wonder what could have been. Join us as we break down how to reframe regret in an empowering way.Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
Dr. Gabor Maté is a world-renowned expert on trauma, addiction, and childhood development. His new book “The Myth Of Normal” is a must read for anyone healing generational trauma. It’s a true honor to have Dr. Maté on the podcast. This enlightening conversation is a must listen.Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
It’s important to be compassionate, and it’s also important to keep boundaries with our compassion. If we don’t, we can fall into people pleasing and enabling. In this episode, we talk about how to be compassionate without enabling.  Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
In this episode, we break down how the nervous system works in relationships. This episode will bring you more awareness of how to create healthy relationships, how to stay in your body, & how to cope when you’re dysregulated.Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
All of us have dysfunctional patterns. Along our life journey, we pick up many coping mechanisms or behaviors that no longer serve us. Understanding our patterns is the first step in unlearning them. In this episode, we talk about how these patterns show up in relationships & what you can do to change them.Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
We live in a world of seeking external validation. This can keep us in patterns where we’re doing things just to please others— leaving us resentful or burnt out. Learning how to validate yourself helps us be more authentic and creates healthier relationships.Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ BUY HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Us! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/
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ID21559468

Favorite episode so far! I love how he presents himself as an imperfect human, saying he doesn’t want people looking up to him. And Nicole showing her vulnerable self too. Beautiful and impactful episode. Thank you.

Jan 17th
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Дена

Our main objective as a child is to receive love💟why is that? because if we receive love as a child,we can be sure that we can continue to be safe,fed and generally cared for.

Dec 30th
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ID21559468

This is the SECOND time I’ve listened to this one. I realized it halfway through but continued listening because it affected me different today. Thank you.

Aug 7th
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Nazanin Gh

dear Jenna and Nicole I cry.🙂It may take hours but I do that cause after crying,I feel released and calm. I want to ask you a question.I hear this a lot these days"everything is gonna be worse and worse.people have nothing to eat.crimes have highly increased,etc." what should we do to all this bad news?☹️is everything really going to be ruined? when I feel sad,I can cry.but when I feel hopeless,nothing can help me...nothing really.I just feel like dieing in those moments.is it possible to have good feelings in such situation?

Jul 29th
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ID21559468

This episode helped me so much today. My shame was bogging me down and I was telling myself such awful things. Thank you both for reminding me that I am who I AM, not things I’ve done. And I deserve to keep going. ❤️

Jul 18th
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Nazanin Gh

dear Jenna and Nicole I've been following you for about 5 months.I feel a deep calmness in my heart whenever I listen to your podcasts. These days,I am more aware of my feelings and my body but you know what? It sucks.I feel stressed out most of the time,my body is under so much pressure and I can clearly feel and understand that.I repeat the sentence 'I am safe' to calm myself down but sometimes it looks impossible to happen. I live in Ia country which I don't want to name.these days,people aren't feeling well in my country. many of them don't earn enough money to meet their basic needs. rubbery and such crimes are increasing...can you imagine how stressful that can be for a young girl to walk alone in streets? to be honest,I am afraid of future.will I be able to live a happy life?I like it all to end. recently I haven't been able to talk to the boy I love,in the way I like to.cause I feel disconnected to me,to him,to safety,to love,to happiness! I wasn't sure if you would check your Instagram messages,and I deeply wanted to be heard out by you.so I decided to leave a comment for you in here. hope to see you stronger and happier.

Jul 14th
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Evan Hammond

This Podcast is amazing, Thank you for sharing. https://www.dnahrblock.one/

Apr 15th
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Theertha

Hi Nicole and Jenna. Thank you for all the content you are sharing here and on social media. I have a small request. I have been following both polyvagal theory and Jungian psychoanalysis. Both have influenced me deeply. I was wondering if you could talk about shadow work too and how it connects with polyvagal theory. I haven't been able to make proper connections. If you could give an overview of both in terms of healing it would be great. Thank you ❤

Dec 27th
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Christine Cote-Murphy

I am so very sorry for your loss❤️

Dec 14th
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Nat

Unfortunately the sound quality is really awful and I had to unsubscribe 😔

Sep 23rd
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ID22505328

Revolutionary thinking. I have never heard someone dissect a taboo so simply. Wishing the three of you plenty of happiness 💕

Aug 24th
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Sara Lasenby

Is it possible to have more than one Dark night of the Soul experience's in your life time?

Jun 11th
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