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81: The Art of Making Friends & How it Helps Us Declutter

81: The Art of Making Friends & How it Helps Us Declutter

Update: 2025-04-22
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Does it sometimes feel impossible to make real friends in adulthood? And what does that have to do with paring down our lives?


As a military wife, I have to build a new community for our family every three years. And I've found that not only do friendships help us enjoy life, but they're a big reason it's easier to live a life with less. When we know we can rely on neighbors and friends to lend us things, come to our rescue when needed, and generally be a support system, then we are less tempted to use physical possessions as a form of security.


In today's episode, I walk you through tactics I use to make new friends wherever we move, and dive into the power of different types of relationships using "bridging" and "bonding."


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81: The Art of Making Friends & How it Helps Us Declutter

81: The Art of Making Friends & How it Helps Us Declutter

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