On this week's show, Arthur and Paul talk rural retreats and George W's Chinese skills. They also tackle listener questions on dating app profile protocol, foreign language etiquette and a less than enthusiastic wife situation.

To check out Paul's 吃饭man, as referenced in the intro, just search for the channel on Wechat.

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Thanks to our sponsor buildshanghai.com.

And as always, music from our own Paul Wade.