Hey friends! In this episode, we’re diving into a topic we get asked about all. the. time. — why does it seem like so many flight attendants are gay? We’re breaking down the stereotypes, the realities, and sharing our personal journeys as a queer married couple working in aviation. From uniform policies to cultural experiences, from the freedom of anonymity to the challenges of truly being seen — we get into it all.

We’re also talking about how this industry has given us the space to be our loudest, proudest selves and how it continues to evolve. Whether you’re queer and curious about flight attendant life or you just want to understand the community better, this convo is open, honest, and full of heart (and, of course, a few laughs). Buckle up, because we’re ready for takeoff.

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Episode Highlights:

[1:55 ] Just in case you missed it — yes, we're married, and yes, very gay.
[3:00 ] Why flight attendant life is so appealing to LGBTQ folks.
[5:23 ] Letting your guard down and finally breathing free.
[7:24 ] Discovering culture and queer acceptance in cities around the world.
[9:11 ] The hidden side of anonymity in aviation.
[11:22 ] The evolution of gender presentation and uniform policies.
[13:21 ] Why comfort in your identity equals better job performance.
[14:55 ] Flight Attendant Friday — celebrating authentic representation.
[16:32 ] Travel broadens your lens — especially for queer folks.
[18:56 ] Breaking the mold beyond the old-school gay flight attendant stereotype.
[20:42 ] Ask A Flight Attendant: “Do you just turn around and go right back?”.
[23:29 ] The real answer and why your mom thinks you're vacationing all day.

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