DiscoverDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS21E8: Dating Apps, D*ck Pics, and Sexts: Why We Need Digital Sexual Consent
S21E8: Dating Apps, D*ck Pics, and Sexts: Why We Need Digital Sexual Consent

S21E8: Dating Apps, D*ck Pics, and Sexts: Why We Need Digital Sexual Consent

Update: 2025-10-07
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Have you ever gotten that unwanted sexual message or pic on a dating app? You're certainly not alone, which is why we need to talk about digital sexual consent and what dating apps are doing about it. We're joined by Dr. Mindy DeSeta, a sexologist and advisor for the dating app Hily, to talk about the shocking types of messages that are sent without consent, what types of safeguards and precautions are being put in place to reduce unsolicited sexual behavior, and why consent actually can help heat up a connection on the apps when used intentionally.

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S21E8: Dating Apps, D*ck Pics, and Sexts: Why We Need Digital Sexual Consent

S21E8: Dating Apps, D*ck Pics, and Sexts: Why We Need Digital Sexual Consent

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick