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I had a friend *G who'd daughter *H was put up for adoption by his then GFs family. Years later the then adult daughter, who was by this time married with 3 kids tracked my friend down. The records showed that he didn't want his daughter put up for adoption, but he was young and effectively pushed out of the picture by his GF and her family. So, they reconnected and G introduced H to me and our mutual friends. She was the spitting image of her father. We were all in the same line of business, which meant o etc night hotel stays frequently. They were staying in the same room when she came to help with his business. I thought, OK that's odd, but never in a million thought anything wrong was happening. I was wrong, they were by this time in a full blown sexual relationship. Fun and games when the hubby found out. They were together for a few years, my brain just could not cope with the mental gymnastics. She was in her 30's when this began, so not a child. So many people condemned them, understandably but, I liked her and I liked him. It was/is wrong on every single level, I was surprised by my own reaction when the kind of thing you tend only to read about was happening in real time with people I knew.