Weyam Ghadbian joins Dean Spade to talk about Dean's tool 7 Steps for Deescalating a Crush, how Weyam encouraged Dean to discuss the transformative power of love, when attachment theory is useful, and when it's ok to give self help books as gifts.

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Check out Turning Towards Each Other: A Conflict Workbook by Weyam Ghadbian and Jovida Ross.