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When His Mum Still Sees the Ex: Is It Jealousy or Just Reality?

When His Mum Still Sees the Ex: Is It Jealousy or Just Reality?

Update: 2025-10-01
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This week on Blended, Kate Ferdinand is joined by Nathalie and Cilla to unpack a dilemma that touches on family loyalty, jealousy, and boundaries.


A stepmum writes in upset that her partner’s mum still has a close relationship with his ex. They spend time together, but she and her mother-in-law have no relationship at all. She admits it makes her feel jealous, insecure, and even a little pushed out of the family.


Kate argues that this is a normal reaction most people would feel the same sting but stresses that it’s important to recognise the feeling without acting on it. Cilla takes a tougher stance, saying it’s none of the stepmum’s business as long as her partner’s mum has a good relationship with her son and grandchildren.


The panel explores the wider questions: What happens when loyalties blur across old and new relationships? Is it natural to feel jealous, or does jealousy create bigger problems? And how do you navigate in-laws who still keep one foot in the past?



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When His Mum Still Sees the Ex: Is It Jealousy or Just Reality?

When His Mum Still Sees the Ex: Is It Jealousy or Just Reality?