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When You Grow and They Don’t: Use Mindfulness to Heal Your Relationships

When You Grow and They Don’t: Use Mindfulness to Heal Your Relationships

Update: 2025-12-16
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When you finally start becoming who you really are, not everyone will like the new you — this episode is about how to stay grounded, kind, and clear regardless.


Host Lisa Urbanski sits down with author Phyllis Coletta to explore what it really means to bring a “trained mind” into real life — family, work, friendships, and all the messy in-between moments.


You’ll learn how to:




  • Use mindfulness to calm your reactions and stop taking everything so personally




  • Navigate relationship changes when you start growing and others don’t




  • Set healthy boundaries without drowning in guilt or people-pleasing




  • Repair and deepen parent–child relationships after years of stress or control




  • Walk through identity shifts (at home and at work) with more courage and clarity




If you’re in a season of growth and it feels like your life is being rearranged, this conversation will help you feel less alone and more supported as you become who you really are.


🔗 Links & Resources


Website: https://www.howtobeagooddog.com/


Blog: https://www.howtobeagooddog.com/blog


Contact: phyllis@howtobeagooddog.com


📘 Get the Book — How to Be a Good Dog: Learning to Sit, Stay, and Heal


BookBaby: https://store.bookbaby.com/book/how-to-be-a-good-dog


Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/How-Good-Dog-Learning-Stay/dp/B0F86PDJ3R


Apple Books: https://books.apple.com/be/book/how-to-be-a-good-dog/id6745525078


Barnes & Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/how-to-be-a-good-dog-phyllis-coletta/1147392035

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When You Grow and They Don’t: Use Mindfulness to Heal Your Relationships

When You Grow and They Don’t: Use Mindfulness to Heal Your Relationships

Stacey Chillemi